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Dorothy Wood
12-05-2015, 09:55 PM
Not really about me, just thinking of a coworker friend who just got broken up with out of the blue and very cruelly after a 7 year relationship...odd thing is, her exdude is all of a sudden very interested in becoming friends with my dude. And he even brought the chick he left my friend for by my boyfriend's work, before he broke it off. Almost like he was trying to get caught?
I mean my boyfriend told me "hey, [butthead] stopped by with some lady that wasn't your coworker the other day". And I guess the guy asked my boyfriend to hang out sometime, and now he's commenting on his fb posts.
I don't know what my point is, the kid is an asshole, he is not allowed to be friends with my boyfriend! Ugh!
Alright thanks for listening.
Dorothy Wood
12-06-2015, 08:05 AM
This isn't very dramatic, sorry for the clickbait title. The lack of drama in my life means that a guy wanting to start a friendship is drama, ha. It'll work itself out.
Also I wonder how old I'll be before I stop using words like "dude" and "kid" to describe adult men?
I think I'm too self conscious to make threads anymore.
Maybe someone else has drama to share? Or made up drama? No? Ok well what's your favorite pizza topping?
TurdBerglar
12-06-2015, 08:06 AM
maybe this chick was telling him who he can and can't be friends with and your boyfriend one was one of the people she told him he can't be friends with.
TurdBerglar
12-06-2015, 08:11 AM
either that or he's trying to use your boyfriend to show off his new lady to your coworker.
Dorothy Wood
12-06-2015, 05:49 PM
Nah, she gave him a lot of space, and I guess he took advantage. His reasoning was very superficial, not looks wise, but basically he wanted her to be a maid, be into exactly the same music as him, and also more prominent in the art scene (so he could look cooler by association). Anyway he's a dick. He also borrowed a ton of money from her even though he makes more money...just makes bad choices like buying a brand new car, then having to skip rent to make the car payment. He had plenty of chances to end the relationship with respect, but he chose to cheat and lie, and pretend he was in it for the long haul, but was hanging out with another woman for quite awhile.
My friend is a great lady, I am pretty mad at the guy. I just don't want him around. My boyfriend can be friends with him, I just told him not to loan him any money.
Myu-to
12-14-2015, 04:15 PM
Some people just have no clue. No clue. Like when my sister divorced her husband for good reasons, he requested to be my friend on facebook and such. We are talking after she clearly indicated that there is no way in hell they would ever get back together.
If the break up was like you said though, makes me wonder if the dude isn't trying to be friends with your dude because he can gain some status or something.
Pepperoni, black olive, mushroom, onion, sweet peppers, and pineapple.
Dorothy Wood
12-16-2015, 09:39 PM
Tried mushrooms and green olives the other day, pretty good I thought. My go to pizza place took my fave pizza off the menu, mozzarella + goat cheese+chopped green and red peppers+almond slivers+marinara sauce. RIP :'(
Probably too expensive to keep almonds and goat cheese around.
I think the jerk guy is definitely trying to network with my dude. But at this point, my boyfriend is not into being friends because he doesn't like jerks and/or cheaters. And it's like, how does the guy not think I'm gonna blab all about the situation to my boyfriend? Duh!
Anyway, my friend is feeling a bit better, I think she's looking forward to moving on, she had no idea her guy was such a dick. She can do better. Just has to grieve for awhile.
I feel like it's the season for break ups, just found out about a few other people having trouble. The holidays man....
TurdBerglar
12-16-2015, 11:27 PM
orange yak cheese, salamander tails, fermented pumpkin seeds and the virgin ginger dingle berries.
what the fuck eat some normal fucking pizzas you shmucks.
Myu-to
12-17-2015, 02:54 PM
I feel like it's the season for break ups, just found out about a few other people having trouble. The holidays man....
Maybe it is all because of the Hallmark Christmas movies, and the ladies are learning that they are with a toe-rag(tried that on pizza once instead of cheese, not as good) Anyways, maybe they are realizing that it is time to stop dealing with the bad boys that only break your heart, and get with the less handsome, kind of short, but adorable in a quirky way guy next door who has always loved you, just they way you are.
Dorothy Wood
12-18-2015, 01:18 AM
It's almost 2016, I'm gonna eat whatever the hell kinda pizza I want, man!
Hmm, I dunno about that hallmark scenario, I feel like maybe it's more like people stress too much about what relationships mean around this time. Because you have to like define your situation to your family.
orange yak cheese, salamander tails, fermented pumpkin seeds and the virgin ginger dingle berries.
what the fuck eat some normal fucking pizzas you shmucks.
i agree frankly
Documad
12-18-2015, 10:58 PM
Pepperoni, green olives, onion
TurdBerglar
12-19-2015, 03:05 PM
now there's a proper pizza.
unless she just means just those three things with no cheese or sauce like some of you creeps would probably do.
i dont' know if i've ever had green olives on a pizza
black olives sure, but not green
TurdBerglar
12-19-2015, 06:12 PM
green olives and pimentos fucking rule
Documad
12-19-2015, 07:04 PM
now there's a proper pizza.
unless she just means just those three things with no cheese or sauce like some of you creeps would probably do.
No, my local pizza place has a really tasty thin crust with tomato sauce and mozzarella as the standard. And they cut it in little squares which I prefer to triangular slices.
I liked black olives when I was little and didn't like green olives. As I got older it reversed. I can eat black olives but i don't like the texture and they don't taste as good as green. I love green olives and I put them on my homemade pizzas too. I take the ones with the pimento from my deli and slice them -- so my homemade pizza has green olives AND pimento.
Dorothy Wood
12-20-2015, 08:47 AM
You guys are being reverse pizza snobs! I didn't invent that goat cheese pizza, an old school Italian place by my house did, I just ordered it once and was like "this is delicious!", then ordered again and again.
Green olives aren't a very common option, but they add a nice tangy flavor. Black olives are too salty, I used to love them though, went through the same reversal, documad!
I guess I usually just have pizza with cheese and tomatoes though. I like pepperoni too, but I don't really eat meat that much anymore.
I think the problem with the black olives being salty as they aren't fresh. Make sure they are not coming out of a tin - the Ģ/$1 extra for fresh is worth it.
Sour bread, pesto and goats cheese is a pretty good - there is a cheap frozen one from Iceland (a supermarket in the UK) that I enjoy.
Documad
12-21-2015, 07:25 PM
I'm not a reverse snob. I will eat all kinds of "new" foods. It's just that I'm not a fan of the taste or texture of goat cheese and it's somehow worse when it's warm. I've been known to eat "greek" pizza --feta is better than goat cheese -- but the overall pizza rarely works. Unusual pizzas often have toppings that contain too much liquid and that makes the crust soggy and it's all about the crust! I like veggies in pizza but too many veggies also can make it too soggy.
My favorite deep dish is pretty simple. A good sausage with lots of fennel, onions, and extra garlic. I love extra garlic. Needs a buttery crust.
Dorothy Wood
12-22-2015, 12:20 AM
Oh I meant "guys" as in Bob and Turd.
Too many toppings can definitely ruin a pizza. The goat cheese used in my favorite was very mild, but I imagine not everyone would be into it. The soft cheese plus the crunch of the almond slices and peppers was nice with firmness of the mozzarella and the tartness of the marinara sauce, on a chewy firm thin crust. It was a nice pizza, again, RIP.
i just have old man taste buds i dunno
like, all these new, experimental, fusion type things like "i made a steak, and then drizzled it with a cranberry-lime compote" and it's like "no, you were so close to making good food and then you ruined it"
i try new things i just don't like most of them
Dorothy Wood
12-23-2015, 10:53 AM
I like trying new things, not gross ones, but I'll try some weird stuff. Not a big fan of onions or meat on the bone, or organ meat. I tried bone marrow once at a fancy steak place, and it was fucking disgusting to me. But the dude who ordered it was acting like it was wonderful. Blech! I also hate salmon. And blue cheese. If you made me a salmon with blue cheese and onions, I would hate you.
Ooh ooh, I did have some relationship drama this morning! My boyfriend couldn't find his duffel bag, and he was like "where's my duffel bag?!" And I was like "I dunno man, you can use this bag, or my suitcase!" He didn't want to, he didn't want to "risk having to check it", and I got mad and said "it's a carry on!". But he found one buried in the back of his closet, it was all dusty and he shook it all over near my clean clothes. Grr! I said "don't shake that shit on my clean clothes!" And he was like "agh! I'm sorry!" oh boy, what a morning!
zippo
12-29-2015, 04:22 PM
everyone is completely fucked up, thatīs why :)
there are just some people that know how to handle and/or simulate it better
now about the relationship problems...haha
BGirl
01-03-2016, 10:02 PM
This thread made me smile. Does my heart good to see folks still hangin out.
(You probably don't remember me... that's okay... it's been a while. I remember all of you.)
The other day I got to thinking about the radio shows the guys used to do around the holidays. Got a little misty.
Anyways, Happy New Year everybody.
abbott
01-07-2016, 04:12 PM
I could tell you about how my wife packed my bags and told me to get out...
Or I could tell you how she got me a nice present and we just had a great 18 year anniversary
Regardless I got drama. surprise surprise
But I'm gona fight to keep my shit together
On another drama note. Tim is moving to denver
Dorothy Wood
01-18-2016, 09:46 PM
Wait who's Tim?
your signature reminds me that we never got closure to the story of nuzzolese and that weird doctor
that was unsatisfying
b-grrrlie
01-20-2016, 09:45 AM
Vegan ham, spinach, sundried tomatoes, cheezly (vegan mozzarella), leek, vegan garlic sauce.
abbott
02-01-2016, 03:33 PM
i just googled "tim moves to Denver"
and I came up with this...
http://www.9news.com/story/news/local/features/2015/11/18/worlds-friendliest-restaurant-coming-to-denver/76016630/
Seems I remember you asked if I was Tim once...
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