what?

[beastieangel01]

I get so confused when a guy compliments a girl on things that could be considered over the top when they have a girlfriend.

I.E. Getting compliments on how the girl looks (not just "hey you look nice today/in this picture/etc" but "wow you are breathtaking" and shit like that), and saying stuff like "your bf is so lucky," "I felt inclined to reach out to you," etc.

I seriously doubt their girlfriends would enjoy finding out that their boyfriends are saying those things to other girls. Not that I think girls should tell the girlfriends, but still.

[TurdBerglar]

guys want as much attention from females that is possible

[beastieangel01]

'as possible' or that it is simply possible that they want as much attention?

Attention or not, damn dude. People today and the way they act when their significant others are not around. It's depressing.

[cosmo105]

kind of along the same lines - about a week ago steger met me at work as i was about to close. this customer came in, and he always calls me "beautiful" or "sweetie" and it gets a little annoying, but i just ignore it. steg was standing off to the side waiting for me, and as i rang the customer up, said customer called me the usual, beautiful or something, then stopped, noticed my haircut, and said something along the lines of "you cut your hair, it looks really good on you, cutie." i just said "thanks" and continued, no big deal. he noticed matt standing there and looked really embarassed, and asked me if that was my boyfriend. i laughed and said yeah, and matt hadn't even really noticed anything up until then. the guy apologized to him, and matt just laughed. he doesn't get jealous. he takes it as a compliment.

yeah, how are you supposed to respond to something like that? all it could do is make you uncomfortable. why do some guys think they have the right to act like that?

[DipDipDive]

I went to a wedding this weekend and the groom's brother was clearly flirting with me in front of his girlfriend. He even dragged me out on the dancefloor and kinda felt me up right in front of her. I don't think she liked me very much by the end up the night, but I didn't really initiate anything. It was all him.

I think it all boils down to this indisputable fact - men are shameless beings and women are jealous beings. That's just how it is.

[paul jones]

You'd think that the Fonz would have aroused suspicion in Happy Days because when he's finished his shift as a grease monkey,he's turn up at Al's later on in his leather jacket,White T shirt and Levis

every fucking day!

You can't wear the same clothes every day now because people will just think you might stink

unless Arthur Fonzerrelli had about 20 white T shirts or got one of his chicks to wash them every night

[Qdrop]

the guy apologized to him, and matt just laughed. he doesn't get jealous. he takes it as a compliment.



bull.
i bet steger was nervously rubbing his switchblade in his pocket....just waiting for the right moment...

"make a move you piece of shit....one move....i'll cut yer ear off.."

[adam_f]

Originally posted by paul jones
unless Arthur Fonzerrelli had about 20 white T shirts or got one of his chicks to wash them every night

Maybe that's why he changed from wearing a white t-shirt to a black one. The black ones don't show stains.

And back on subject, some guys are just perverted assholes. Simple as that.

[beastieangel01]

yeah, how are you supposed to respond to something like that? all it could do is make you uncomfortable. why do some guys think they have the right to act like that?

Exactly. I actually responded to a guy that said stuff like that to me with "well I appreciate a compliment but how would your girlfriend feel if she heard you say those things to me?" and "Again, I do appreciate a nice compliment but I have a boyfriend and I don't want to have a 'conversation' with someone that is saying stuff like that to me because it makes me uncomfortable."

It's like...ARE you ever thinking about what you are saying/doing or what, dude?

[cosmo105]

heh. really though, he doesn't get jealous about stuff like that. this dude was at least 30. it's not like he has a chance with me.

wow, that sounded really stuck up. :(

really, though, he eats it up when a guy hits on me like that, because he knows i'm all his, and he takes it as a compliment to his taste in women.

[paul jones]

Maybe that's why he changed from wearing a white t-shirt to a black one. The black ones don't show stains.

I just thought of the Fonz jerking off and Mrs C walking in on him for some reason and thus blowing his rep as a ladykiller.

[cosmo105]

leave it to pj to have the most interesting unrelated conversations :D

[adam_f]

Originally posted by paul jones
I just thought of the Fonz jerking off and Mrs C walking in on him for some reason and thus blowing his rep as a ladykiller.

Mrs C had a major thing for the Fonz. I remember when they learned to tango for a TV show, and lady was all over him. You know that when the show was over, her hand was where the Fonz wanted it.

[paul jones]

Mrs C had a major thing for the Fonz. I remember when they learned to tango for a TV show, and lady was all over him. You know that when the show was over, her hand was where the Fonz wanted it.


I bet Mr C was leisurely masturbating in a dark corner of the room


('leisureley masturbating' is copyright of the PARKEY media group)

[adam_f]

Originally posted by paul jones
I bet Mr C was leisurely masturbating in a dark corner of the room


('leisureley masturbating' is copyright of the PARKEY media group)

I bet Ralph was right by him jerking off Potsie. Those two were never apart.

[paul jones]

I bet Ralph was right by him jerking off Potsie. Those two were never apart.

yeah,poor bastards. Maybe they got so frustrated that the Fonz was bonin every girl in town they naturally became bi-curious

[adam_f]

Originally posted by paul jones
yeah,poor bastards. Maybe they got so frustrated that the Fonz was bonin every girl in town they naturally became bi-curious

It is odd though that Ralph and Richie left the show at the same time. Potsie was jealous?

[paul jones]

It is odd though that Ralph and Richie left the show at the same time. Potsie was jealous?

nah,Richie left way before Ralph to go join the army and make films like Cocoon

[adam_f]

Originally posted by paul jones
nah,Richie left way before Ralph to go join the army and make films like Cocoon

I don't like the idea of Richie Cunningham making movies about horny old whose only mission before death is ass.

[paul jones]

I don't like the idea of Richie Cunningham making movies about horny old whose only mission before death is ass.

yeah,him and his sinister brother the Gentle Ben kid actor freak and their shiny heads.

[adam_f]

Originally posted by paul jones
yeah,him and his sinister brother the Gentle Ben kid actor freak and their shiny heads.

They do have shiny heads. Like ugly versions of Mr. Clean.

[Rock]

I seriously doubt their girlfriends would enjoy finding out that their boyfriends are saying those things to other girls. Not that I think girls should tell the girlfriends, but still.
I think it depends on the relationship, and the intention of the person making the comment. And I don't mean that she would be like "FUCK YEAH BABY! That was great how you told that girl that you wanted to go spelunking in her anus".

I make comments to other girls when my girlfriend is around and it hasn't caused a problem in the 4 + years that we have been together. I think there are a couple of reasons why.

1. She knows I am not serious.
2. If anything is said, it is said to someone that knows me or knows what I am like so they don't take me seriously.
3. She makes the same kind of comments (if reason number 2 is applicable).
4. And the comments are never out of the blue. Usually something is said that leaves an opening for the comment.

Maybe it is just our circle of friends, but it ain't no thang.

Plus it would be kind of fucked up for her to get all pissed at me for looking at or making a comment to some other girl considering she is the one that suggests going to the titty bar and pays for me to get lap dances and what not.

[paul jones]

They do have shiny heads. Like ugly versions of Mr. Clean.

No wonder Mr C looked grumpy all the time

maybe he thought Mrs C fucked the postman

[QueenAdrock]

the guy apologized to him, and matt just laughed. he doesn't get jealous. he takes it as a compliment.

Awesome. Wayne's the same way. I would absolutely hate it if he got pissed or jealous over some other guy's compliments.

But he doesn't get mad/jealous at all. Maybe a little disturbing at times. I purposefully told him about this 26 year old that was hitting on me at the sports bar in CP, and Wayne just asked me if I told him I was taken. I said yes, to which he called me a dumbass, because I could have gotten free drinks if I told him I wasn't. :mad:

Anywho, you can't blame him, Crystal. You have an irresistable charm. I mean, I'm straight and in a relationship, but I'd still hit on you.

[beastieangel01]

Rock,

Although I understand most of that, I was trying to refer more to the types who ARE serious about what they are saying. Who are saying things that seem too intimate to be joking, if that makes sense.

p.s. Diana, you can hit on me anytime, baby :cool:

[Rock]

Well...that was basically my way of telling you that I wasn't serious about what I said in your ants thread....just in case.







......I would never picture you making sounds.

[Qdrop]

all of my girlfriends from past and present have always been the type to wanna throw down and drop some bows if they even *percieve* some other woman as hitting on me.

i can be either way. it depends on if the guy knows that she's with me or not.
if he does, and proceeds to step...
fuckin ring the bell.....

[beastieangel01]

Well...that was basically my way of telling you that I wasn't serious about what I said in your ants thread....just in case.







......I would never picture you making sounds.

hahaha. I knew that was a joke :p

[HEIRESS]

my best buddy has a serious girlfriend but he compliments me everytime I see him, even if she is there

just a "you are lookin cute tonight" or "that shirt looks good RZA"

he only does it becuase he knows that my own boyfriend compliments me about once a year, so its all good in my books

[Echewta]

he only does it becuase he knows that my own boyfriend compliments me about once a year, so its all good in my books

No compliments, sxz0rs, etc. Strange.

[monkey]

my own boyfriend compliments me about once a year



we need to have talks with that boy.

[beastieangel01]

No compliments, sxz0rs, etc. Strange.

indeed.

I remember have a boyfriend that rarely ever complimented me. I mean RARE (pretty much the once a year thing, IF that). Not that I want a bf to compliment me 10 times a day but damn. Even when it was a special day and I dressed up extra...not a damned thing was said to me about it.

Heiress' bf needs a lecture on this :p

and I hate to sound like a guy, but I can't imagine someone being with Heiress and NOT complimenting her. I mean, really. wtf.

[Loppfessor]

I pretty much flirt with every woman I come across in normal day to day life. One, that’s just my personality. Two, it can be beneficial at times even if my girl is with me. If it gets us a table quicker or free desert at a restaurant why not? Girls do it too, I dated this one girl who would score free drinks for me all night at the club. There are lines though and thankfully the women I’ve dated have always made it very clear to me when I was tip toeing on them. I guess it just depends on the couple and what their boundaries are.

[Echewta]

We all choose to accept those we are with. We really shouldn't complain.