insight needed

[SobaViolence]

i was called by accident by my exgirlfriend and we ended up talking for 15-20 minutes, laughing and flirting. we ended on good terms, our situations lead to the brake up. i still love her, and by the sound of it, she still has feelings for me.

should i casually persue her or just let it rest?

[Jodry]

are you both single?

[SobaViolence]

yeah.

[HEIRESS]

wtf is your penis waiting for then?

[cosmo105]

^hahaha (y)

if you love her, what's stopping you?

[SobaViolence]

very good points.

(lb)

i doubt myself too much...

[Rock]

if at first you don't succeed......

edit: are the "situations" that led to the break up still present?

[SobaViolence]

ok.

i'm calling her this week. the most she can say is 'no', right?

edit: no, we worked it out, unfortunately, after we both got frustrated...

[Nuzzolese]

How can we give you any insight? All we know is that you say you love her and she seems to still love you. That would sound to me like, yes go back out with her, what the hell? But we don't know anything. You can't ask us like that and expect good advice.

What situations lead to your break up? Are you sure she's single? How long have you been apart and when was the last time you talked/saw each other prior to this "accidental" phone call? How do you know she didn't just get lonely for a few minutes? 15-20 minutes that's nothing. When I talk to a guy I'm interested in dating, or a guy I'm sort of flirting with, it always ends up being over an hour at least and I don't even notice the time going by. What do you mean you still love her? Are you sure? If you're sure then why would you even question whether or not to pursue her? How can you casually pursue someone you love? Either you love her and want to be with her - in which case you go be with her - or you don't love her and then you question what to do and why you want to try anything at all.

[Qdrop]

^ yeah.

[SobaViolence]

i won't get into it, but thanks Nuzzolese.

and, i guess qdrop.....

[Nuzzolese]

Q we got pwned

[Documad]

Again, I love Nuzz! -- saying what we're all thinking.


How do you know she called you by accident, anyway?

[SobaViolence]

she claims she was trying to call someone, and as it turns out that number only differs in the very last number.


so...what are the odds?

[HEIRESS]

hesitation occurs because rejection is a sunuvamufukkintittybitch

[TAL]

My Magic 8 Ball said "outlook not so good"

[SobaViolence]

shiet.

the magical oversized novelty 8 ball strikes again...

[HEIRESS]

I need to buy a simpsons version 8 ball

really I do.

[ms.peachy]

Me personally, I would call back and say "You know, I really enjoyed talking to you the other day. Do you wanna go out and grab a cup of coffee tomorrow after work?" You don't have to have some big long conversation right away about 'do you think we could make it work this time' blah blah blah. Just see if the girl would like a cup of coffee. And see where it goes.

[Tone Capone]

She didn't call you on accident... :)

[Nuzzolese]

If it was an unhappy accident she'd have been cold and brief on the phone, I think. Either she does want to go back out with you again or she thinks she might, or she just missed you for a few minutes. In any case you still have a chance with her. That's my assumption.

[Loppfessor]

Just leave a dead rat in a shoe box on her doorstep with a note attached reaing "unlike this rat, my love for you lives on..."

[Nuzzolese]

Just leave a dead rat in a shoe box on her doorstep with a note attached reaing "unlike this rat, my love for you lives on..."

That sounds familiar. I think someone left that on my windshield once.