Personals

[TonsOfFun]

Anyone ever replied to one or done one? What came of it? Did you feel like a big loser who couldn't get a date after you did it. Or did you do it because of that? What came of it?

I only ask because as I've been doing what I need to do on yahoo this morning, every other ad is for their personals so I had a look at my area and there is some pretty good looking and interesting girls on there. And further more; there is a lot of girls on there and not all of them are fat. Which kinda ended my stereotypes. Not that being fat is wrong because I am, but it's all about stereotypes cus I kinda like the bigger cuddly type of girls. As long as they don't bitch about their weight or any other problems or be the girl at the end of the party crying...

*takes breath*

So yeah, anyone?

[ms.peachy]

I have done in the past. It's no big deal, really. My only suggestion would be that if you are going to meet someone from ad in person, don't arrange some big, huge date on the first go. IMO, that's the best way to be disappointed, because it builds up too much anticipation, and then if things aren't going well you're sort of 'stuck'.

Make a lunch date, or meet for coffee, or something. Make definite plans for something to do afterwards (not with the other person), so that a) if it's not going well, you have a legitimate reason to politely excuse yourself, and b) if it is going well, you leave genuinely sad to have to do so, and will look forward to the opportunity to see them again (when you can then maybe go on a 'real' date).

[tracky]

I don't know why, but I just can't do the whole dating thing. I've tried the lunch date, and maybe i just pick the wrong girls, but i always feel awkward trying to make conversation with someone who I am attracted to. Well, it's not so much the being attracted that makes it hard, it's just the whole pressure I feel when the whole thing becomes a "date". Which usually leads to me turning the girl who was once interested (i mean, she accepted the date didn't she) into someone who at the end wants to stay just friends. The girls I've dated I've all met through friends of friends, so I got to know them in a social environment first, and they seem to like me right up until the date. :( *wallows*

All that aside, I have replied to one personal once. It felt wrong. A few years before that, now that I think about it, I used to talk to random internet girls on icq. They were all nice until I got a picture. Then I was really cold. I'm a real cunt. I have some issues with that too.

[TonsOfFun]

WANTED: Girl who won't cheat on and thinks it ok. Who can put up with punk music and pot.

Also; must be 5'6, 80lbs and perfect ten figure and will answers to cat-women and sometimes wonder-women.
signed
TonsOfFun :D

[ms.peachy]

I'm a real cunt. I have some issues with that too.
LOL well, I can't help you there, pal. (Although if I was to take a Psych 101 stab at it, I'd say your self-loathing and fear of rejection leads you push them away before they have the chance to do so to you, thus retaining an illusory sense of control and power in the relationship. But what do I know.:) )

[tracky]

Trust me, any girl I've actually liked, I've never pushed away. If anything, I was probably a little too grabby. Maybe lately your psych stab actually hits the target tho. I'm the complete opposite of how I was 10 years ago, where I would write poems and give flowers and all that shit that turned out to be a complete waste of time. Plus, I never want to hear the phrase "just friends" ever again in my life.

[Trimm Trabb]

Does a PM count as one?

[emceefukit]

My Friend gets all of his girlfriends from the personals. He's always able to get these really intelligent ones who have very little life experience. They end up thinking he's so great and worldly. When the truth comes out, it all falls apart.






The moral of the story is,


You can find decent people that way, just be honest

[like2_drink]

for my twelthfff? birthday i called up tons of them sex personals, most of the hookers called my mom the next day to tell her what i was up to haha

[cj hood]

Anyone ever replied to one or done one? What came of it? Did you feel like a big loser who couldn't get a date after you did it. Or did you do it because of that? What came of it?

I only ask because as I've been doing what I need to do on yahoo this morning, every other ad is for their personals so I had a look at my area and there is some pretty good looking and interesting girls on there. And further more; there is a lot of girls on there and not all of them are fat. Which kinda ended my stereotypes. Not that being fat is wrong because I am, but it's all about stereotypes cus I kinda like the bigger cuddly type of girls. As long as they don't bitch about their weight or any other problems or be the girl at the end of the party crying...

*takes breath*

So yeah, anyone?

you came to the right place........bf has better results then eHarmony.com!

[TonsOfFun]

you came to the right place........bf has better results then eHarmony.com!

"bf"???

[Rancid_Beasties]

Beastie Free

[TonsOfFun]

Beastie Free

ah, I see. Well already done that and it didn't work so, yup.

I don't think I was seriously gonna reply because I think there is a charge and it might make me feel bad paying to meet women and I'm happy being single. And I need to end a 6 year obsession with another girl first :o

[Rancid_Beasties]

Fuck paying for it, just do it through myspace or some shit :confused: