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monkey
08-15-2005, 03:07 PM
your opinions, please:

if you were told at a young age that you were infertile, or the possibilities of having a child were very slim, what would you do? what if you never really considered having children, but liked having the option, would you care? Is being able to conceive very important to you?

TurdBerglar
08-15-2005, 03:07 PM
that would be one of the coolest things to ever happen to me

ToucanSpam
08-15-2005, 03:08 PM
More than anything in my life I want a son. And I will do ANYTHING to concieve one.

Trimm Trabb
08-15-2005, 03:14 PM
More than anything in my life I want a son. And I will do ANYTHING to concieve one.

What if you only conceive daughters? will you go on trying untill it's a boy?
Even if it means you'll have 26 kids in the end?


Right now I think that me having kids is not such a good idea, as I can hardly take care of myself, let alone a screaming little baby + Kids annoy the tits off me. But if someone told me I couldn't have any it still would be a shock. I know my opinions of things change as I get older, so maybe one day I would want to have kids, and it's nice to know that I'm able to when that silly biological clock thing starts screaming at me.

Bob
08-15-2005, 03:16 PM
presently, i'm really not thinking about kids (don't like them, and i'm still working on the wife part), but if that happened, i'd just adopt. there's too many unwanted kids out there anyway.

monkey
08-15-2005, 03:31 PM
yea... but do you have any of those "i really want to carry on the blood line of my family" shit? would you be ok with knowing that your child might never look like you?

beastieangel01
08-15-2005, 03:43 PM
I have always been afraid of infertility. I don't know what I'd do. I know that right now, I don't want a child but I know myself well enough that in the future, I do want a child.

I'd be so crushed if I could not have a child. Although it's not so much that I want to carry my own bloodline in itself, just something about me creating a child. It's just a part of me, and the one I love. I would be saddened if I couldn't have that.

I think that once I get over the initial shock and pain of all that, I would definitely take adoption in to consideration. The child may not be technically a part of me and my husband, but the child would be part of the family regardless. It will also be good because I know that I took the child out of a potentially bad situation and can support and love them like my own.

I also want to adopt children anyway after having my own.

I've thought a lot about this. lalala.

voltanapricot
08-15-2005, 03:57 PM
I might not be able to. Sometimes I'm not bothered, sometimes I am.

voltanapricot
08-15-2005, 04:05 PM
More than anything in my life I want a son. And I will do ANYTHING to concieve one.
That's gay, you should just appreciate what you're getting.

When you say you would try ANYTHING, does that mean, say, putting a partner through the physical and emotional strain of going through IVF, it's result being female and being dissatisfied at this little life that is half of you?

mp-seventythree
08-15-2005, 04:14 PM
would you be ok with knowing that your child might never look like you?

For me that would probably be a good thing, but also the kid not inheriting my health problems would be cool.

CrankItUp!
08-15-2005, 04:38 PM
I'm as fertile as a turtle....whatever the fuck that means besides just rhyming ? (y)

ToucanSpam
08-15-2005, 04:40 PM
You twats have me all wrong.


YES I want a son, more than anything. Will I cry a river if I don't get one, and have daughters insted? NO. I have this urge to continue my 'bloodline', yes, but I won't fall apart at the seams if I don't have a son.

Voltane, as usual you have me wrong. No surprises there. I assumed that you, along with all of the readers, would understand I would do anything within reason to have a son. Frankly I am not surprised that you took it to an extreme, but better I clear this up than to have a poor misguided youth such as yourself continue on thinking I'm some kind of turd.

Anyways, if I have a daughter, of course I will be happy with her. But I want a son very much so.

synch
08-15-2005, 04:58 PM
I'm as fertile as a turtle....whatever the fuck that means besides just rhyming ? (y)
Not if you pronounce it properly ;)

Jayrock5054
08-15-2005, 07:34 PM
Being infertile would suck. I want kids eventually....or at least the option of having them.

cosmo105
08-15-2005, 08:24 PM
Voltane, as usual you have me wrong. No surprises there. I assumed that you, along with all of the readers, would understand I would do anything within reason to have a son. Frankly I am not surprised that you took it to an extreme, but better I clear this up than to have a poor misguided youth such as yourself continue on thinking I'm some kind of turd.
maybe people wouldn't pick on you so much if you weren't such a whiny fucking baby


anyway

if i was told i was infertile? i'd probably be deeply saddened at first, because i do want to have children. but really, i wouldn't dwell on it, and i definitely wouldn't spend the ridiculous amounts many couples out there do on trying to have their own children. i'd just adopt. i've always wanted to adopt anyway. i plan on having adopted children as well as biological children. but, of course, that's how i feel today, and i'm not in that situation and won't be for a long time, so it'd difficult to predict exactly how i'd act.

ToucanSpam
08-15-2005, 08:42 PM
maybe people wouldn't pick on you so much if you weren't such a whiny fucking baby


anyway
Fuck you, please leave me alone. This is now the fourth time I've asked you. You seem to have this strange obsession with me, otherwise you would have stopped this foolishness. You are at least as immature as I for your trolling.

cosmo105
08-15-2005, 08:47 PM
oh right, i'm reeeaal obsessed. wasn't it you that said something about me and fucking cosplay in some thread? someone mentioned it and you said "no way, that shit's for cosmo and other (something or other derogatory)s." really though, i'm sorry you're so pathetic :(

ToucanSpam
08-15-2005, 08:48 PM
oh right, i'm reeeaal obsessed. wasn't it you that said something about me and fucking cosplay in some thread? someone mentioned it and you said "no way, that shit's for cosmo and other (something or other derogatory)s." really though, i'm sorry you're so pathetic :(
I'm sorry you think so much of yourself. Someday your little sad world will come crashing down. This is the last time I will direct any post towards you.

Tzar
08-15-2005, 08:50 PM
I might be infertile, I might not be

I guess it will bother me when it matters.

werd

TurdBerglar
08-15-2005, 08:50 PM
i remember when cosmo use to be sweet

cosmo105
08-15-2005, 08:51 PM
i'm still sweet, turdy. how are you doing?

TurdBerglar
08-15-2005, 08:53 PM
this is some kind of trap

cosmo105
08-15-2005, 08:54 PM
you're not a whiny baby, are you? no. it's sincere.

TurdBerglar
08-15-2005, 08:55 PM
fuck you, you evil bitch


im no fool. you hijack the minds of the innocent

cosmo105
08-15-2005, 08:57 PM
haha you added "evil bitch"

suit yourself.

DroppinScience
08-15-2005, 09:17 PM
Is it ToucanSpam's time of the month or something? :confused:

zorra_chiflada
08-15-2005, 09:20 PM
your opinions, please:

if you were told at a young age that you were infertile, or the possibilities of having a child were very slim, what would you do? what if you never really considered having children, but liked having the option, would you care? Is being able to conceive very important to you?

haha, this thread is for me!
i've known that i couldn't have kids since i was an early teenager.
i get a lot of the, "oh, that is so awful, oh, i would die if i was infertile" bullshit, and also a lot of the "oh, i wouldn't feel like a real woman if i was in your position" bring it on.
you come to realise that it's not the end of the fucking world, and that just because you're not a baby-making machine, doesn't make you completely useless.
it's not that important to me. i really hate kids. i love puppies much more.

like2_drink
08-15-2005, 10:49 PM
it'd bother me to know that i couldn't have kids the day that i start wanting to have kids.

how do you know if you're infertile or not?

Documad
08-15-2005, 11:30 PM
I was talking about this a lot last week with buddies. Lately, I've have a few acquaintances who had a daughter and then had a second daughter, and were just devastated. I want to fucking kill them.

Daughters are awesome. If you're good to them, they'll come see you in your old age. Meanwhile, your son will be hanging with his in-laws.

The Notorious LOL
08-16-2005, 01:44 AM
Id never buy another condom again in my life.

Sarky Devotchka
08-16-2005, 01:55 AM
you have AIDS.

they told my mom she could never have kids. but...wonder of wonders, miracle of miracles! out popped me! I'm a bastard accident.

if I'm infertile, I'll just adopt a small black boy.

buddylee
08-16-2005, 03:10 AM
You twats have me all wrong.


YES I want a son, more than anything. Will I cry a river if I don't get one, and have daughters insted? NO. I have this urge to continue my 'bloodline', yes, but I won't fall apart at the seams if I don't have a son.

Voltane, as usual you have me wrong. No surprises there. I assumed that you, along with all of the readers, would understand I would do anything within reason to have a son. Frankly I am not surprised that you took it to an extreme, but better I clear this up than to have a poor misguided youth such as yourself continue on thinking I'm some kind of turd.

Anyways, if I have a daughter, of course I will be happy with her. But I want a son very much so.


and you'd name her David , and let her know at age of 5 that you wanted a son...... a stripper in the making.

Rancid_Beasties
08-16-2005, 05:08 AM
I'm sorry you think so much of yourself. Someday your little sad world will come crashing down. This is the last time I will direct any post towards you.
Man what happened to all the sucking up that came from old school Toucan? I totally got into the routine of ignoring your posts like early this year or something but now I think I'll start reading again now that you're a shit stirer (y)

beastieangel01
08-16-2005, 10:07 AM
haha, this thread is for me!
i've known that i couldn't have kids since i was an early teenager.
i get a lot of the, "oh, that is so awful, oh, i would die if i was infertile" bullshit, and also a lot of the "oh, i wouldn't feel like a real woman if i was in your position" bring it on.
you come to realise that it's not the end of the fucking world, and that just because you're not a baby-making machine, doesn't make you completely useless.
it's not that important to me. i really hate kids. i love puppies much more.


haha@ the puppies :D

man, I would be pissed if someone said to me "I wouldn't feel like a real woman if I was in your position." Sure it may be a bit of a bummer to find out you cannot have kids through your own body, but it doesn't mean you shouldn't feel like a "real woman." Pfft. I want to ram my fist in to their jaw.

monkey
08-16-2005, 10:10 AM
what if you were put into early menapause?

adam_f
08-16-2005, 10:11 AM
^I'd kill myself.

Lindsey_1535
08-16-2005, 10:24 AM
I'd be upset that my option of having kids would be gone. I not really a fan of kids and I don't have any huge drive to ever have kids but maybe one day my mind will having and being able to is a good thing me guessses.

voltanapricot
08-16-2005, 04:51 PM
Voltane, as usual you have me wrong. No surprises there. I assumed that you, along with all of the readers, would understand I would do anything within reason to have a son. Frankly I am not surprised that you took it to an extreme, but better I clear this up than to have a poor misguided youth such as yourself continue on thinking I'm some kind of turd.
You could have just left it like that, setting me straight, but how on earth is age relevant, I mean really?