there's this obviously anorexic chick that comes into work

[TurdBerglar]

and she always tries to chit chat all flirty like with me. this girl must weigh no more than 90lbs. and i kind of blow her off becuase she looks hideous. i wonder if she notices im blowing her off and it makes her more anorexic. like she thinks i think she's ugly so she thinks she need to loose more weight. she'd be quite attractve if she gained 40 or so lbs.

[zorra_chiflada]

if she's that thin, she's probably at the point that no matter what anyone says or does, she will still try to lose weight. do you know her well?

[TurdBerglar]

no

she's just a customer that comes in every few days

[voltanapricot]

I thought my friend was anorexic for a long time, but she scoffs all the time and is still an iddy biddy bag of bones. Some kind of freakish metabolism.

[zorra_chiflada]

I thought my friend was anorexic for a long time, but she scoffs all the time and is still an iddy biddy bag of bones. Some kind of freakish metabolism.

or untreated thyroid problem

[tracky]

Maybe you should just tell her what you think. Couldn't make things any worse could it?

[voltanapricot]

or untreated thyroid problem
But she's not shaky or anything. I know a lady who was like that and when she was at her niece's christening she was so shaky the baptism candle blew out.

She really is bony though, very jaunty, this mate.

[TurdBerglar]

Maybe you should just tell her what you think. Couldn't make things any worse could it?


yeah it would make me feel like a dick if it upsetted her of if she was so skinny becuase she had cancer or something

[kll]

i wonder what happens to anorexics/bulimics if you tell them you'd like them better if they gained some weight...

[TurdBerglar]

they'd become purge eaters. i don't know

[voltanapricot]

Doesn't it depend on what they think? If it's a psychological disease, they'll want to feel like they need to put on weight, isn't that the problem?

[CrankItUp!]

and she always tries to chit chat all flirty like with me. this girl must weigh no more than 90lbs. and i kind of blow her off becuase she looks hideous. i wonder if she notices im blowing her off and it makes her more anorexic. like she thinks i think she's ugly so she thinks she need to loose more weight. she'd be quite attractve if she gained 40 or so lbs.
Anorexia is an actual mental sickness that I would advise being friendly to her - but don't make ANY weight remarks because it could make her delve deeper into lower self esteem. Regardless of her appearance - blowing her off is not cool and could result in a possible suicide. So just consider that when you see her again. (lb)

[zorra_chiflada]

i wonder what happens to anorexics/bulimics if you tell them you'd like them better if they gained some weight...
they'd lose more.
seriously, there's not much you can say or do. when your body fat goes down that low, your brain can't function properly anymore. that is how anorexia becomes a mental disease.

[TurdBerglar]

Anorexia is an actual mental sickness that I would advise being friendly to her - but don't make ANY weight remarks because it could make her delve deeper into lower self esteem. Regardless of her appearance - blowing her off is not cool and could result in a possible suicide. So just consider that when you see her again. (lb)


well im nice to her. i just kind of avoid her if i catch her out of the corner of my eye. or i act like im in a hurry to get some task done. but i do talk to her when she talks to me. i just don't flirt back.

[CrankItUp!]

I had a very personal experience with this same situation in college and a girl killed herself because of my remarks. It was 13 yrs ago and I'm still dealing with it today. There's not a day that goes by that I think "what if " over and over continuously.

[Echewta]

She sounds like she could make my fantasy of making love to a person made of fish sticks come true. I'd just have to use a bit of the old imagination.

[Chicka B]

Maybe she ain't trying to be anorexic, maybe she could be going through something bad because when my dad divorced my mom she couldn't eat and became enemic and had to get blood put into her, or she would've died. Or she could be doing some type of drug that makes her lose weight who knows? My mom's mom had anorexia but she stopped when she got older, she's still real skinny though. My mom's bullemic too.

[TurdBerglar]

She sounds like she could make my fantasy of making love to a person made of fish sticks come true. I'd just have to use a bit of the old imagination.



do you just take a random word and throw them into your thoughts?

[Echewta]

Nope. My thoughts flow like a stream in the spring.

[tracky]

yeah it would make me feel like a dick if it upsetted her of if she was so skinny becuase she had cancer or something

I did have that thought about 3 seconds after posting. Maybe you can bring it up in a non-directed at her way?

Personally I think I'd probably deal with it in exactly the same way you are now.

[TurdBerglar]

Nope. My thoughts flow like a stream in the spring.


salmon fuck like mad in streams

[kll]

I had a very personal experience with this same situation in college and a girl killed herself because of my remarks. It was 13 yrs ago and I'm still dealing with it today. There's not a day that goes by that I think "what if " over and over continuously.
Give yourself a break. I'm sure there were other issues that she was dealing with other than your remark. That's a long time to have guilty thoughts.

[Echewta]

salmon fuck like mad in streams
See, it comes back to fish.

[tracky]

There was a girl at school who had a crush on a mate. Well, he was kind of a mate, but he was a cunt, and later not a mate. She revealed her crush one day and he said "i'd never go out with a fat cow like you". She became anorexic :( It is sad. Same guy later crashed his mate's dad mercedes, killing everyone in it but himself. He was on a serious cocktail of drugs and is probably in jail for manslaughter now. I fucking hope so.

[voltanapricot]

ANOREXIC CHICKS
THE MODEL SIX
THEY DON'T HOLD NO WEIGHT FOR ME
WE'LL ADD ON 9
AND THAT'S JUST FINE
COS I LIKE TO HOLD SUMMIT I CAN SEE