View Full Version : do most guys cheat?
monkey
08-21-2005, 09:38 PM
and im not talking about the difference between nice guys vs bad guys...
im talking about regular guys... you and your friends... how many of you have cheated or feel that you could or you might?
TurdBerglar
08-21-2005, 09:40 PM
i have a friend of mine that was with this chick for like three years and was devastated when she broke up with him. she just wanted to see other people. he was her only bf she ever had. but throughout the whole relationship he cheated on her quite a bit. he just wanted to fuck other chicks.
and she had no idea about the cheating. that;s not why she brokeup
I heard some statistic recently that said 70% of guys cheat.
Out of all of my friends its about 90% that don't so I don't know where they came up with that number.
I would say that 90% of us have thought about it. That doesn't mean much though, because that thought could have been in our heads for a split second and then reality taps us on the shoulder and says something like, "its not worth it" or "why fuck up a good thing" or "she will be off of her period soon enough, keep your dick in your pants."
TurdBerglar
08-21-2005, 09:56 PM
i think the only reason most guys don't cheat is so they won't piss off their girlfriends. if the gf was all for the dude fucking some other chick i bet he would without much hesitation even if he wasn't a cheater
they may say that they are all for it, but chances are they aren't. And if they really are, then its a free ride for them to bone some dude named Dexter in the Islands.
TurdBerglar
08-21-2005, 10:03 PM
they may say that they are all for it, but chances are they aren't. And if they really are, then its a free ride for them to bone some dude named Dexter in the Islands.
but in the situation i just explained the chick is all for it. PAY ATTENTION
like if a dude who has never cheated and would never do something like that to his gf becuase he cares for her that much, was told to fuck some other chick by his gf. he probably would thinking that she wouldn't care and it would not devastate her. guys don't think sex is that much of a big deal as females do. sex is is like farting to guys to how much importance females seem to give it.
The Notorious LOL
08-21-2005, 10:07 PM
most guys I know who have cheated fly off the deep end if their girl even gives a guy a second look but dont take into consideration they have no problem fucking other girls. I dont know. Like Rock said Ive considered it in certain situations but it always worked out to be that it wasnt really worth fucking anything up over.
QweenOfBoggle
08-21-2005, 10:09 PM
most guys I know who have cheated fly off the deep end if their girl even gives a guy a second look but dont take into consideration they have no problem fucking other girls.
yepp. this shit drives me insane. i don't understand it.
Extra Cheese
08-21-2005, 10:11 PM
statistics show that women cheat more than men do
tracky
08-21-2005, 10:17 PM
I don't think I'd cheat, in fact I won't even let a girl cheat on her boyfriend to be with me. I'd like her to just end that relationship first, and then I'm all hers. I like to think I'd do the same. If it's not working out, I don't think I would let it drag on, but then I'm not put in the position very often, so I don't really know how I would respond.
ms.peachy
08-22-2005, 02:58 AM
I think it's an individual thing, for both men and women. What you value, what you saw as you grew up, etc. I imagine mr.peachy would be far more disappointed in himselfand unforgiving of his own behaviour if he cheated than I would be in him. Heaven knows with all the traveling he does he has the opportunity, but I honestly don't worry about it for a second.
I'm fairly certian I could, but I don't want to. why would I?
ms.peachy
08-22-2005, 03:04 AM
to get more sex you fucking wanka
yeah, cuz that's all that really matters in life :rolleyes:
to get more sex you fucking wanka
I really don't need anymore. I've got all I want.
roosta
08-22-2005, 03:05 AM
i dont cheat. not fair on the other person, even if they never know. its just shit.
oh, wait, i do jump over the wall at the start of Wario Stadium :o
ms.peachy
08-22-2005, 03:07 AM
I can see you're going to be very popular and well-respected here, noob.
Humiliation
08-22-2005, 03:08 AM
i think the only reason most guys don't cheat is so they won't piss off their girlfriends. if the gf was all for the dude fucking some other chick i bet he would without much hesitation even if he wasn't a cheater
yep
dude your sister doesnt count....
thats pretty obvious, I thought.
Humiliation
08-22-2005, 03:13 AM
I don't think I'd cheat, in fact I won't even let a girl cheat on her boyfriend to be with me. I'd like her to just end that relationship first, and then I'm all hers. I like to think I'd do the same. If it's not working out, I don't think I would let it drag on, but then I'm not put in the position very often, so I don't really know how I would respond.
Not to try and sound like a playa or anything but most of the girls i've hooked up with have had boyfriends. And only one cared afterwards. Does that make me bad?
i think the only reason most guys don't cheat is so they won't piss off their girlfriends. if the gf was all for the dude fucking some other chick i bet he would without much hesitation even if he wasn't a cheater
eh, I don't think so, but thats from my point of view. I'm pretty well-satisfied where I'm at right now, even if I was in the posostion where she said it was cool to have sex with another girl. I'd just not want to do it.
Loppfessor
08-22-2005, 03:16 AM
I think that every guy will cheat at some point in his life but that doesn't mean he will cheat on every girl he is with. When I was younger I cheated on a few girls and didn't really take relationships too seriously. Now if I was in a committed relationship I wouldn't cheat on her. So I think that whole once a cheater always a cheater mentality is kind of stupid. Who hasn't done dumb shit in their past?
Not to try and sound like a playa or anything but most of the girls i've hooked up with have had boyfriends. And only one cared afterwards. Does that make me bad?
not you, but it dosent reflect well on the girl. usually, if they'll cheat to get to you, they'll cheat on you to get to someone else. but thats a harsh generalization.
Medellia
08-22-2005, 03:27 AM
I think that every guy will cheat at some point in his life but that doesn't mean he will cheat on every girl he is with. When I was younger I cheated on a few girls and didn't really take relationships too seriously. Now if I was in a committed relationship I wouldn't cheat on her. So I think that whole once a cheater always a cheater mentality is kind of stupid. Who hasn't done dumb shit in their past?
That's true. It is an unfair statement, because some men do mature and grow past that point, whereas for others it might just be a one time thing. It's not always true, in fact I'd say it's probably not true more often than not. But I have known quite a few of the once a cheater, always a cheater types. (n)
Mcmac
08-22-2005, 03:30 AM
yeah lassy gets very angry when i cheat on her with my mum :confused: :( :D :p :rolleyes:
ms.peachy
08-22-2005, 03:37 AM
But I have known quite a few of the once a cheater, always a cheater types. (n)
I think for men (and women) who are like that, it has to do with how they validate their existence. You know, like women who always need to be seen as good-looking in order to feel worthwhile? It's like flip sides of the same coin. This constant need for reassurance that they can 'pull', that somehow makes them feel important. Essentially, it's masturbating with someone else's body. People like that tend to think that they look really cool or powerful or something to others, and completely cannot see that it just makes them appear foolish, or like poorly trained pets.
ToucanSpam
08-22-2005, 04:40 AM
I personally would not and could not.
Mcmac
08-22-2005, 04:48 AM
could not because you couldnt get a girlfriend in the first place or because you couldnt ring youself to cheating or because your dicks too small or because your too ugly...which one toucan?
TonsOfFun
08-22-2005, 05:00 AM
Yeah, I got to say I think more women cheat that men.
If I made of list of people I know that have cheated on a bf or gf. More women would be on that list.
I also think, that more women think it is ok to cheat on someone. And I also think the guy would come out the bad guy of a girl cheating on him becuase more women are evil than men.
Not all both ways, but definatly women are the bigger cheaters of the world. If you want out, just say your off to fuck some other guy, don't do it behind his back. And visa versa.
Loppfessor
08-22-2005, 06:04 AM
Yeah, I got to say I think more women cheat that men.
I think guys just get caught more often
enree erzweglle
08-22-2005, 06:32 AM
The men that I've known who have cheated did that to have full-on sex.
Except for one woman, the women that I've known who cheated
did flirty-cheating--they initiated and then did everything but
have sex with one man while they were in an exclusive relationship
with another man. It was more of a PG-rated emotional affair.
I don't think you can generalize this into a gender thing, but I do
think there are people who are in the habit of cheating. After awhile,
it gets easier to figure them out and avoid the traps if you want to.
Jayrock5054
08-22-2005, 06:38 AM
I've never cheated only one of my civilian friends cheats. In the military lets just say seeing how allot of military relationships are I'm think I'm better off staying single. Allot of the guys and the females are just as bad.
Echewta
08-22-2005, 10:37 AM
I'd only cheat if I liked the girl.
miss soul fire
08-22-2005, 11:27 AM
I feel really bad for men just because they are so damn weak. They are the fragile sex. That's for sure!
I hate weakeness.
I don't care what people say, especially about the biological reasons. That's all crap!
A real man doesn't cheat. Period!
beastieangel01
08-22-2005, 11:31 AM
Of the guy friends I have, I know that many of them have at least thought about cheating. If they did, they haven't told me. I know several of them would if their flavor of the week would say yes to having sex with them though.
Which is pretty pathetic and depressing. And I yell at them for it. Sometimes they aren't my friend after that though. But we are all better off at that point :p
cosmo105
08-22-2005, 11:37 AM
i would say most people cheat or at least have cheated at one point of their lives. like lopfessor was saying, when i was younger, yes, i did stupid things in my "relationships," but those were such silly young things that they really didn't matter, and it was only the one time...but i still regret it and feel awful about it :( but now? the thought would never even cross my mind. and i don't worry about him for a second. it all hinges upon trust. if that trust is broken, however, it'll never be the same...i've been in a relationship where that happened, and no matter how we tried to work it out, in the end we just couldn't trust each other (even years after the fact). it kind of fucks up your ability to trust for life when you've been cheated on. i'm rambling, aren't i? man, our new fridge is huge.
This question is for the boys who say they don't cheat:
If you happen to be hanging out with a good guy friend who DOES cheat, does it change the way you look at girls while you are out with that particular friend? Are you more tempted to cheat when you know your secret would be safe with him, as he is doing the same himself? Just curious.
Freebasser
08-22-2005, 01:56 PM
"Eating isn't cheating" A .Scwharzenegger
CrankItUp!
08-22-2005, 02:00 PM
Every time a man looks at another woman's ass or tits ! And that sums up to a zillion times per guy. :cool:
If its a good friend, I become a cock blocker to a certain extent.
If its a guy I know, I just give him the "thats fucked up" look.
As far as it being easier to cheat, I don't see how it would make a difference. He may be the only other one besides me that would know about it, but the guilt would be eating away at me to the point that I would confess.
g-mile7
08-22-2005, 02:06 PM
and im not talking about the difference between nice guys vs bad guys...
im talking about regular guys... you and your friends... how many of you have cheated or feel that you could or you might?
I couldnt do it...I am a regualr guy but to nice for that shit.No girl deserves that, espcially one whose into you and claims to love you, fuck them dudes who mess round on the regular making this generation of guys look bad and girls look dumb for staying with them
ToucanSpam
08-22-2005, 02:08 PM
could not because you couldnt get a girlfriend in the first place or because you couldnt ring youself to cheating or because your dicks too small or because your too ugly...which one toucan?
1)I have a girlfriend.
2) I would not cheat on her because I was raised to respect women and to treat them like queens.
So I guess you're just a gigantic faggot.
ToucanSpam
08-22-2005, 02:10 PM
This question is for the boys who say they don't cheat:
If you happen to be hanging out with a good guy friend who DOES cheat, does it change the way you look at girls while you are out with that particular friend? Are you more tempted to cheat when you know your secret would be safe with him, as he is doing the same himself? Just curious.
I think that cheating is wrong. Period. I don't care who it is, it's wrong.
Freebasser
08-22-2005, 02:12 PM
I would not cheat on him because I was raised to respect men and to treat them like queens. :/
ToucanSpam
08-22-2005, 02:15 PM
:/
The sex we had was fantastic. Next time I'll catch.
miss soul fire
08-22-2005, 02:52 PM
Every time a man looks at another woman's ass or tits ! And that sums up to a zillion times per guy. :cool:
That's not cheating. You can still look and desire other people in life, not more than you desire your significant other though. It's pure physical, but it's not like he constantly fantasized about the person or have done anything about it.
TonsOfFun
08-22-2005, 02:57 PM
This question is for the boys who say they don't cheat:
If you happen to be hanging out with a good guy friend who DOES cheat, does it change the way you look at girls while you are out with that particular friend? Are you more tempted to cheat when you know your secret would be safe with him, as he is doing the same himself? Just curious.
I wouldn't. Makes me feel no different, cus I do have a mate like that who I party with more than others. But to be fair, if his other half asked me if anything had happened, I would show ignorance to her as if I haven't seen anything but would let my mate know I wouldn't have anything to do with any extra-relationship activity between people. So I'd turn a blind eye to something, wouldn't confirm or deny. But I think most are like that with mates.
Groups of girls are worse, when you're out and about and meet a group of girls and most have boyfriends, they are more up for doing something daft to hurt their relationship before groups of men are.
DroppinScience
08-22-2005, 03:17 PM
*raises right hand and puts left hand on the Bible* I don't and I won't cheat.
SobaViolence
08-22-2005, 04:32 PM
i've cheated on girls, i will cheat on girls in the future and have been with girls who were cheating.
i'm only 21, got a long life ahead of me. and i plan on living.
CrankItUp!
08-22-2005, 04:33 PM
That's not cheating. You can still look and desire other people in life, not more than you desire your significant other though. It's pure physical, but it's not like he constantly fantasized about the person or have done anything about it.
How can you be so sure about that ? You can't crawl inside another individuals mind - even though he is your boyfriend.
cosmo105
08-22-2005, 04:34 PM
damn you nihilists. with your tight black leather suits and your marmots, i mean ferrets.
you're 21? i thought you were much younger for some reason.
monkey
08-22-2005, 05:25 PM
interesting responses.
the question came about a passing comment i heard from an older lady saying something to that effect. from what i know, a lot of guy will cheat in their youth, but so will a lot of women.
to me, it's all fucked up, regardless of who does it.
Documad
08-22-2005, 05:30 PM
That's true. It is an unfair statement, because some men do mature and grow past that point, whereas for others it might just be a one time thing. It's not always true, in fact I'd say it's probably not true more often than not. But I have known quite a few of the once a cheater, always a cheater types. (n)
Many randy young guys turn into dedicated lifetime partners. But the guys who were womanizers are always womanizers. Even the ones I knew who appeared to honestly settle down, ended up in numerous affairs later on in their marriages (after having at least two kids, of course). It's really difficult to explain the difference, but you sure can feel it when you're talking to them.
CrankItUp!
08-22-2005, 05:33 PM
Yeah , the wife is busy fucking the pool boy while the husband is fucking the new secretary. Shits been going on for years - and the kids still go to them for their sexual advice.
QueenAdrock
08-22-2005, 05:34 PM
Yeah, I find cheating fucked up. As much as I try to keep an open mind about someone, when I find out that they cheat on someone, I just think they're really lame/fucked up. Either you're happy with the person you're with and don't want to cheat, or you're unhappy and should break up and find some other poonani. I don't see why it's not that simple. :confused:
I also don't get why my friend was *so* surprised that her boyfriend cheated on her, when she originally got with him when he had a girlfriend. :rolleyes:
Echewta
08-22-2005, 05:41 PM
Does it count with produce?
roosta
08-22-2005, 05:42 PM
I also don't get why my friend was *so* surprised that her boyfriend cheated on her, when she originally got with him when he had a girlfriend. :rolleyes:
Yeah, i wonder if you ever got with someone who was involved with another when you met them, would it play on your mind the entire time that they would do it to you....
Documad
08-22-2005, 05:45 PM
I also don't get why my friend was *so* surprised that her boyfriend cheated on her, when she originally got with him when he had a girlfriend. :rolleyes:
Did you actually say "duh!" Because honestly, why do the "other women" always think they'll be different?
I am judgmental, but I've have close friends who did it when they were old enough to know better. One really good male friend cheated on the long-time girlfriend he was living with. He was going through a lot at the time but I can't believe he did it. (He doesn't know that I know but I happened to be friends with a friend of the other woman.) It's been over 10 years and it still pops into my head when I'm in a group with him and the general topic comes up.
It's a good thing having a reputation for being judgmental, btw, because friends don't tell you about their drama.
miss soul fire
08-22-2005, 05:50 PM
How can you be so sure about that ? You can't crawl inside another individuals mind - even though he is your boyfriend.
I didn't say I was sure. I said that as long as they didn't fantasize about the girl more than once. I specified. I can't tell if he did or not. So, you can't also say that just by looking at tits and ass someone is already cheating.
QueenAdrock
08-22-2005, 07:14 PM
Did you actually say "duh!" Because honestly, why do the "other women" always think they'll be different?
Actually, it was more of a "DEERP!" instead of "duh."
But yeah. I don't get it. For some reason, most women think they have this mystical power to convert men and keep them that way. Which is why several of my female friends still develop crushes on gay men. :rolleyes:
DandyFop
05-23-2006, 11:08 AM
who knows
ericlee
05-23-2006, 11:15 AM
Does it count with produce?
not really, rednecks pump-kin. As long as they keep it in the family, it's all good.
I don't think cheating implies there. Everyone will have theirs.
abcdefz
05-23-2006, 11:18 AM
I've pretty much always been monogomous. I had about a two-week span where I was dating three girls at once, but it was all above-board. But I wasn't comfortable with it, and my favorite of the three girls broke it off when she decided she wasn't comfortable with it, either. that kinda sucked, because even breaking it off with the other two didn't get my girl back. That sucked -- she was great -- really cute and funny and smart as hell and probably the best kisser I've ever been with.
One other time, I broke up with a girlfriend just to get with another lady for a couple-day fling, then got back together with my regular girlfriend. That was lame.
I had a girlfriend cheat on me once (that I know of). She had a weekend with another woman and came back and told me about it, proposed a threesome, then called it off after it was arranged. That sucked, and I felt pretty manipulated.
Do most men cheat? I don't know. I wouldn't do it, though. It just feels wrong.
Qdrop
05-23-2006, 11:22 AM
who knows
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