Hey, would you date this girl?

[miss soul fire]

This (http://images2.orkut.com/images1/medium/923/4603923.jpg) one.

This girl is interested in my brother and he recognizes they have a lot in common, but he won't date her because....she's fat. Actually she's chubby to me. I think she's so beautiful. I took this picture of a friends' site, so it's there for anyone to see.

Anyway, isn't that immature?! I feel sorry for him.

He keeps going after the wrong girls just because of their good looks, like this (on the left) (http://images2.orkut.com/images1/album/8/57/1174057.jpg) one. Only because she's gorgeous, but he realizes they got nothing in common and she doesn't give a rat's ass about him, but he's waiting for her to get older and starts liking him. What's that???? She keeps turning him down and he insists. That's humilating(sp).

I wish I could do something for him. I can never help him. Whenever I want to talk about it he says that I'm jealous of their beauty. I wish I could help him, because I'm embarrassed to have a brother like this. Not even I had such self-esteem problems. He clearly doesn't want a girl for him to love or be loved, but to show to everyone how good he is. And also, someone with such low self-esteem would never appreciate someone who likes them because they don't think they deserve that. I'm tired of this beauty contest.

Recently he's been after another one who doesn't seem to like him. She doesn't even have the same religion,which is something he thinks it's mandatory.

Do you have suggestions?? How can I help this bastard?

If I were a man, I would date this girl in a heart beat!:p

[Echewta]

I wouldn't date any Brazlian women. They are all crazy.

[miss soul fire]

I wouldn't date any Brazlian women. They are all crazy.
My bro is no Echewta!

He doesn't wear boxers. Ew.:p

[monkey]

the girl on the left kinda looks like a man...

but the pretty girl. yes, she's pretty.

[Rock]

how can you expect him to date someone that he isn't attracted to? that makes no sense. Sure maybe she will become more attractive to him once he gets to know her and what not, but from the get go, I don't blame him.

[adam_f]

At least she's not Courtney Love.

[Yorkshire~Rose]

the girl on the left kinda looks like a man...

but the pretty girl. yes, she's pretty.

I was going to say the same thing about the girl on the left. But i thought it was mean.

But now someone else has said it i don't care. :D

And as for girl one...ch...chubby?! Er...no.

[Freebasser]

Your brother is either in a state of permanent drunkeness, or he needs to see an optician.

[Echewta]

My bro is no Echewta!

He doesn't wear boxers. Ew.:p



Stop it. You love my Xuxa boxers. (http://pub.tv2.no/multimedia/na/archive/00136/Karnevalen_i_Rio_pa_136567a.jpg)

[bigblu89]

I agree with Pauli, the girl on the left kinda looks like a man.

You can't really tell if the other girl is "fat" or "chubby" based off that pic., but she looks pretty cute to me.

I'm a little biased though, as my "type" is girls with dark features and a little bit of meat on them.

[wanton wench]

i realize he is your brother, but i say dont help him!
when he gets his heart broken enough he will see you are right!
sad but true!
some people have to learn the hard way!

[adam_f]

I think the one on the left has 5 o'clock shadow.

[Echewta]

Yea, just because shes throwing down the wonderwoman bracelet, I ain't buying it.

[monkey]

THATS WHAT I SAIIIID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[miss soul fire]

AHA! Attraction and good looks are not necessarily the same thing. C'mon. He didn't give her a chance. Seriously. He HAS to have a conventionally good looking girl by his side. I know him pretty well.

The girl on the left has many dates here. I mean, if you don't find her pretty, what am I? that's kinda crazy. Haha.:p

He used to like one who REALLY looked like a man. Thereshe (http://images2.orkut.com/images1/album/9/232/1095232.jpg) is. Not to mention she's incredibly stuck up biatch.

Ok, criticize me! Whatever.:p

Echewta, Xuxa is going down! don't wear her boxers!

[miss soul fire]

i realize he is your brother, but i say dont help him!
when he gets his heart broken enough he will see you are right!
sad but true!
some people have to learn the hard way!
BUt...but I'm embarrssed of him!!!:o:p

[CrankItUp!]

I'd rather fuck a pretty fat (within reason) girl than an ugly skinny girl any time. (y)

[CrankItUp!]

The one on the left looks just like a fucking man ! Goddamn. (n)

[miss soul fire]

Hahaha! I wish I looked like a man then.:D

[monkey]

ever consider the possibility that your brother is gay? and this is his way of keeping it in the closet...

cause she might have a hot body, but the face is BUSTED.

[JBernas]

He used to like one who REALLY looked like a man. Thereshe (http://images2.orkut.com/images1/album/9/232/1095232.jpg) is. Not to mention she's incredibly stuck up biatch.

I think the girl that you called "chubby" blew the other two out of the water. The other girls might be thinner but they both have "butter" faces (everything else looks great...butter face :D ) Anyway, we realize this now, but he either has really bad taste or he just needs time to grow up. If it's the latter, he will realize that people's personalities can make or break their attractiveness......Like Rock said though, you can't force him to be attracted to someone. There have been plenty of nice, good looking guys that asked me out while I was still single, but I just wasn't attracted to them. That's not something you can help. Be patient, he'll get it.

[CrankItUp!]

Hahaha! I wish I looked like a man then.:D
Why the fuck do you say that ? Do you look fuckable to most guys or are you just delusional ?

[miss soul fire]

ever consider the possibility that your brother is gay? and this is his way of keeping it in the closet...

cause she might have a hot body, but the face is BUSTED.
I thought about that before, but it doesn't match with his personality, really. But I might be wrong. He's just obssessed with beauty. Most guys are like that though. It's easy to say in this thread because the girl who likes him is actually pretty, but what about if she wasn't like that?! What about if she was just an ordinary girl? I don't think any guys would be that much of interested in her if they have lots of things in common with them.

I agree that the first one beat the others though.

[NurfBallJeaneus]

Is it just me or are all 3 girls ugly.....and the one on the left.....That's a man, man!!!!

[miss soul fire]

Why the fuck do you say that ? Do you look fuckable to most guys or are you just delusional ?
I didn't want to turn this thread about me, but apparently I did.

Sorry.:p

I was just trying to say that if the girls you guys find ugly get lots of guys here and I get nothing, I don't even wanna think about itt. I live in the most superficial city in the whole world and I'm serious.

[miss soul fire]

Is it just me or are all 3 girls ugly.....and the one on the left.....That's a man, man!!!!
See? That's all men care about!

There's no hope!!!! :( :( :(

[NurfBallJeaneus]

See? That's all men care about!

There's no hope!!!! :( :( :(


I wouldn't say that is all we care about....but it sure is important.

At least looking like a chick and not having a penis is a good start.

[CrankItUp!]

I didn't want to turn this thread about me, but apparently I did.

Sorry.:p

I was just trying to say that if the girls you guys find ugly get lots of guys here and I get nothing, I don't even wanna think about itt. I live in the most superficial city in the whole world and I'm serious.
Are you hairy like an ape - cause I'm a monkey with a big banana. :cool:

[miss soul fire]

I wouldn't say that is all we care about....but it sure is important.

At least looking like a chick and not having a penis is a good start.
Women seem to be attracted to ordinary looking guys and it's all good as long as they got the right personality. I'm not saying extremely nasty and ugly here. That would be hard for both sides.

Why men aren't like that too? They are so easily distracted by someone's breasts or ass. I mean, if you have an amazing girl you still would love to change her for a better looking one. That's for sure. Especially if she has a crush on you. Can't you guys handle your rational side with your genitalia side at the same time?? that's just pretty weak, man.:p

[miss soul fire]

Are you hairy like an ape - cause I'm a monkey with a big banana. :cool:
WOW!:p

I'm pretty boring actually.

I always look mean to any guys who come closer to me though. I do it on purpose so they'll think I could kick their asses.

[CrankItUp!]

No matter how attractive the female - if she doesn't have a good personality, then she starts to look like shit real quick ! That is the truth and it goes both ways between the guys and the gals.

[sam i am]

OK.

NONE of the girls in your attached pictures are good-looking, BUT...

I might be one of the few who DOEs look for personality in synch with the looks.

Of course, there's got to be a bit of bell going off when you look at a chick or a dude (if you're a girl or gay or....well, you know what i mean) or you WON'T go for that person.

Some people do have low enough self-esteem that they are only attracted to self-interested people.

As for me, I prefer a bit of meat on my bones as far as women go and my fiance (wife in a few days) is the hottest woman in the world to me. Why? Not only does she make me think about sex when I look at her, but she's smart, funny, and great in bed. She cares about me and is also a great mother (2nd time around for both of us).

The real truth is that MOST peoples' "types" change as they go on in life. If you're 80 and still going after hardbody 20 year olds, you're in for a lonely life. If you have low self-esteem and you always go for the self-interested, you're going to be loney and get your heart broke a bunch of times.

SOMETIMES, settling for the best you can get is so bad....

[miss soul fire]

Well, it's imposed to men since they are born that if you are macho you get a pretty girl if you aren't then you better be alone.

I think the subconsious if a very powerful thing. Unfortunatelly. The patterns of beauty that's what sucks. They may not be pretty for you guys (who seem to only like celebrities), but they are pretty to my little world. I mean, if they get most men, where am I supposed to be? I mean, I've got an alright personality, normal look, I could get a guy, but it doesn't happen though. :confused: I don't look down or anything like that.

It's all about the conventionally beauty thing.

[sam i am]

Well, it's imposed to men since they are born that if you are macho you get a pretty girl if you aren't then you better be alone.

I think the subconsious if a very powerful thing. Unfortunatelly. The patterns of beauty that's what sucks. They may not be pretty for you guys (who seem to only like celebrities), but they are pretty to my little world. I mean, if they get most men, where am I supposed to be? I mean, I've got an alright personality, normal look, I could get a guy, but it doesn't happen though. :confused: I don't look down or anything like that.

It's all about the conventionally beauty thing.

If you put out, you'll get more men. Don't know what you look like, but that's the truth.

Also, I'm REALLY glad I don't live where you live if those are examples of the best looking women. What a shame....

[bigblu89]

If you put out, you'll get more men. Don't know what you look like, but that's the truth.

And us men wonder where the "All men are pigs" stigma came from?

[monkey]

roby, you really dont realize how gorgeous you are. you are soooooo much prettier than those girls. seriously. even the shallowest man could say that. you are HOTNESS.

[sam i am]

And us men wonder where the "All men are pigs" stigma came from?

Oh, brother. Can't ya take a joke?

Putting out only gets you laid, it doesn't USUALLY get you relationships. Depends on what you're looking for.....

[miss soul fire]

If you put out, you'll get more men. Don't know what you look like, but that's the truth.

Also, I'm REALLY glad I don't live where you live if those are examples of the best looking women. What a shame....
Well, they aren't the most beautiful girls in here, that's for sure. I'm just saying that they are considered pretty since they get lots of guys. They happen to be in my bro's friends' list and he likes the way they look. That's all.

I'm just saying that if they are fucking ugly and I'm considered boring looking if compared to them (especially by my brother and his mates and my mates and all mates, hihi). I don't want you to think I have a low self esteem, but sometimes I like to think I would get a boyfriend or something, like I'm 27 and crap!:pIt's not like I cry every night, but sometimes it makes me think what the hell is wrong with me? Is this just about looks? And I don't even like guys who are waaay outta my league. The last one I had a crush on was this one (http://images2.orkut.com/images1/medium/873/2867873.jpg) and that's a good picture of him. He had a girlfriend though. Not that I knew about it. It was just a 2 week crush though.:p

Last guy I kissed, one of my bro's mate, was an obese guy. Not that I liked him in any way, his personality was terrible too. But being my brother, instead of trying to be all like "take care of her, she's my younger sister" he was like "hey, he doesn't like ordinary looking girls like you, but pretty ones!"

I know I shouldn't care about my brother's opinion. He's alienated. But I like to know how people look at me, you know?! In order to understand it. That's all. I'm not gonna be miserable for the rest of my life because I don't fit the beauty patterns.:p

[miss soul fire]

roby, you really dont realize how gorgeous you are. you are soooooo much prettier than those girls. seriously. even the shallowest man could say that. you are HOTNESS.
Thanks. That's nice of you to say, Pauli.:o

But it's that...hmmm. See, I'm sorry. I turned this all about me, again?

I'm just trying to understand here why i don't get males' attention. It's a scientific thing.:D

[NurfBallJeaneus]

roby, you really dont realize how gorgeous you are. you are soooooo much prettier than those girls. seriously. even the shallowest man could say that. you are HOTNESS.

(y) Agreed....

From the pictures I've seen, you are waaay better.

[GetYourWarOn]

This (http://images2.orkut.com/images1/medium/923/4603923.jpg) one.

This girl is interested in my brother and he recognizes they have a lot in common, but he won't date her because....she's fat. Actually she's chubby to me. I think she's so beautiful. I took this picture of a friends' site, so it's there for anyone to see.

Anyway, isn't that immature?! I feel sorry for him.

He keeps going after the wrong girls just because of their good looks, like this (on the left) (http://images2.orkut.com/images1/album/8/57/1174057.jpg) one. Only because she's gorgeous, but he realizes they got nothing in common and she doesn't give a rat's ass about him, but he's waiting for her to get older and starts liking him. What's that???? She keeps turning him down and he insists. That's humilating(sp).

I wish I could do something for him. I can never help him. Whenever I want to talk about it he says that I'm jealous of their beauty. I wish I could help him, because I'm embarrassed to have a brother like this. Not even I had such self-esteem problems. He clearly doesn't want a girl for him to love or be loved, but to show to everyone how good he is. And also, someone with such low self-esteem would never appreciate someone who likes them because they don't think they deserve that. I'm tired of this beauty contest.

Recently he's been after another one who doesn't seem to like him. She doesn't even have the same religion,which is something he thinks it's mandatory.

Do you have suggestions?? How can I help this bastard?

If I were a man, I would date this girl in a heart beat!:p

your brother seems either shy or gay. i'd hit that in a second.

[sam i am]

Well, they aren't the most beautiful girls in here, that's for sure. I'm just saying that they are considered pretty since they get lots of guys. They happen to be in my bro's friends' list and he likes the way they look. That's all.

I'm just saying that if they are fucking ugly and I'm considered boring looking if compared to them (especially by my brother and his mates and my mates and all mates, hihi). I don't want you to think I have a low self esteem, but sometimes I like to think I would get a boyfriend or something, like I'm 27 and crap!:pIt's not like I cry every night, but sometimes it makes me think what the hell is wrong with me? Is this just about looks? And I don't even like guys who are waaay outta my league. The last one I had a crush on was this one (http://images2.orkut.com/images1/medium/873/2867873.jpg) and that's a good picture of him. He had a girlfriend though. Not that I knew about it. It was just a 2 week crush though.:p

Last guy I kissed, one of my bro's mate, was an obese guy. Not that I liked him in any way, his personality was terrible too. But being my brother, instead of trying to be all like "take care of her, she's my younger sister" he was like "hey, he doesn't like ordinary looking girls like you, but pretty ones!"

I know I shouldn't care about my brother's opinion. He's alienated. But I like to know how people look at me, you know?! In order to understand it. That's all. I'm not gonna be miserable for the rest of my life because I don't fit the beauty patterns.:p

That guy is moderately good looking (hard to tell from that picture) - and that's from a heterosexual man.

I wasn't saying that you have low self-esteem, I was saying your brother does. If all he goes for is those who are completely self-interested, he has low self-esteem, trust me.

As for you, have you ever tried internet dating? Some sites are not bad, like match and eharmony, depending on what you are looking for.

You'd be surprised what you can find out there, if you are honest. Try it and see if you don't expand your horizons. I'm speaking from experience and success - I'm about to marry the woman I found on the internet a year and a half ago....

[miss soul fire]

That guy is moderately good looking (hard to tell from that picture) - and that's from a heterosexual man.

I wasn't saying that you have low self-esteem, I was saying your brother does. If all he goes for is those who are completely self-interested, he has low self-esteem, trust me.

As for you, have you ever tried internet dating? Some sites are not bad, like match and eharmony, depending on what you are looking for.

You'd be surprised what you can find out there, if you are honest. Try it and see if you don't expand your horizons. I'm speaking from experience and success - I'm about to marry the woman I found on the internet a year and a half ago....
Yea, I know he's got low self esteem. I've said it on my first post. He doesn't confess it though.:p

I've always criticized so much these sites. I know not everyone is desperate, but...I don't know...I'm not desperate either. I just would like to know. Maybe I would want for things to happen normally. I don't wanna look for it, you know what I'm trying to say? Even when I don't really care it happens. It's quite weird.:p

[monkey]

your brother's opinions of girls is bullshit.

and my opinions of girls is what counts. and if i was a dude, i'd be all over you like butta.

[CrankItUp!]

Maybe he has a love doll named "Lucille" like I do. :cool: That would explain everything.

[Echewta]

Man girl must have some wicked tongue action to get so much attention.

[sam i am]

Yea, I know he's got low self esteem. I've said it on my first post. He doesn't confess it though.:p

I've always criticized so much these sites. I know not everyone is desperate, but...I don't know...I'm not desperate either. I just would like to know. Maybe I would want for things to happen normally. I don't wanna look for it, you know what I'm trying to say? Even when I don't really care it happens. It's quite weird.:p

I know what you're saying - when you're not looking or not interested, that's when you find someone....

The only problem with that is if you are lonely in the meantime.

I finally decided it was time to go out and FIND what I wanted rather than relying on chance to have it come to me.

It paid off....it might for you too.....

[miss soul fire]

Thanks guys. :)

Funny thing is that I'm not in the mood to get a boyfriend, but I would sure like if someone great came over me, you know?! At this very moment I've got more career things to do. I was just wondering, you know. Wondering really bad. It's not just my brother's opinion. He got nothing. It's the general opinion that kinda freaks me out. It's not just 1 or 2 guys, but every single guy I've had a crush on since I've started growing balls, I mean boobs, you know. Hihihi.:D

[sam i am]

Thanks guys. :)

Funny thing is that I'm not in the mood to get a boyfriend, but I would sure like if someone great came over me, you know?! At this very moment I've got more career things to do. I was just wondering, you know. Wondering really bad. It's not just my brother's opinion. He got nothing. It's the general opinion that kinda freaks me out. It's not just 1 or 2 guys, but every single guy I've had a crush on since I've started growing balls, I mean boobs, you know. Hihihi.:D

BTW...just out of curioisty...do you want to post what you look like?

NOT a come on....now you've got my interest in the whole subject piqued...

[CiaoBellaXO]

The girl in the second pic...the one your bro is interested in...well, she needs to get her brows waxed.


There. I said it.

[bigblu89]

BTW...just out of curioisty...do you want to post what you look like?

NOT a come on....now you've got my interest in the whole subject piqued...

She's posted multiple pics in the past.

(y) (y) In my opinion

[synch]

roby, you really dont realize how gorgeous you are. you are soooooo much prettier than those girls. seriously. even the shallowest man could say that. you are HOTNESS.
Yes, but I don't think it would be appropriate for her brother to ask her out.

[Echewta]

Yes MSF, maybe you are the perfect girl for your brother.

[cookiepuss]

I would date the pretty, "chubby girl". I would tie up those other two hoes and leave them in a cheap motel room. But that's just me, speaking as a straight woman with occasional lesbian fantasies.

[synch]

Would you steal their kidneys?

[cookiepuss]

Would you steal their kidneys?

maybe. noooo. tooo messy. I'd probably sell them out to the real kidney stealers.

[synch]

Removing kidneys is easier than it looks.

Ehm... I read that somewhere.

Yeah.

[CrankItUp!]

(lb) Maybe your brother apparently has a thing for ugly women.

[miss soul fire]

Yes MSF, maybe you are the perfect girl for your brother.
*does the cross sign quickly several times* God forbid!!!:D

[miss soul fire]

(lb) Maybe your brother apparently has a thing for ugly women.
Most men agree with him. He isn't alone, baby!:p

[synch]

Maybe (as some people have already implied...) she has either particular "skills" or the reputation for having them.

[CrankItUp!]

No way I would pursue a manish woman - so I don't belong to that crowd. "There aint no messing around with an oscar myer weiner. You must be sure that the girl is pure for the funky cold medina." :cool:

[miss soul fire]

Well, maybe men aren't that bad. If this was really true. I still believe in some men, I guess. There's hope then.

But I sure have some thing inside of me that repulses men. It's internal I believe. I've been trying to find out about it since a long time ago, but I still couldn't figure it out. it's like I'm invisible, you know?! Hmmm. I wanna find it out!!!! :D

[CrankItUp!]

penis envy :cool:

[miss soul fire]

I never got this penis envy thing. Does it mean I wanna be a man?? Seriously. What's that, really? :p

[CrankItUp!]

Not necessarily , it just means that even though you may despise men - you may still wonder wonder what its like to have a penis and some balls to go along with the package every once in a while. What men envy most about women is their capability to have multiple orgasms.

[miss soul fire]

Not necessarily , it just means that even though you may despise men - you may still wonder wonder what its like to have a penis and some balls to go along with the package every once in a while. What men envy most about women is their capability to have multiple orgasms.
I thought they envy the most was having boobs.:D

[TAL]

Not necessarily , it just means that even though you may despise men - you may still wonder wonder what its like to have a penis and some balls to go along with the package every once in a while.
That's not envy, that's curiousity.

[miss soul fire]

I wish I could delete these links because who knows if they see that!!!:o

Damnit! I used to love the board when they had the edit thing. It only stays there for like 5 minutes! :mad:

[hardnox71]

I don't know if I would date her because I don't know her. I've come across many pretty ladies in my time that had real shitty attitudes and I've come across women that weren't so necessarily attractive that were absolutely beautiful inside.

I would have to see where she was coming from first before I answered the above question.

Like they say, all that glitters isn't gold.

And all that's gold doesn't glitter.