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bopst
08-24-2005, 09:25 AM
ROCHESTER, N.H. - As doctors warn more patients that they should lose weight, the advice has backfired on one doctor with a woman filing a complaint with the state saying he was hurtful, not helpful.

Dr. Terry Bennett says he tells obese patients their weight is bad for their health and their love lives, but the lecture drove one patient to complain to the state.

"I told a fat woman she was obese," Bennett says. "I tried to get her attention. I told her, 'You need to get on a program, join a group of like-minded people and peel off the weight that is going to kill you.' "

He says he wrote a letter of apology to the woman when he found out she was offended.

Her complaint, filed about a year ago, was initially investigated by a panel of the New Hampshire Board of Medicine, which recommended that Bennett be sent a confidential letter of concern. The board rejected the suggestion in December and asked the attorney general's office to investigate.

Bennett rejected that office's proposal that he attend a medical education course and acknowledge that he made a mistake.

Bruce Friedman, chairman of the board of medicine, said he could not discuss specific complaints. Assistant Attorney General Catherine Bernhard, who conducted the investigation, also would not comment, citing state law that complaints are confidential until the board takes disciplinary action.

The board's Web site says disciplinary sanctions may range from a reprimand to the revocation of all rights to practice in the state.

"Physicians have to be professional with patients and remember everyone is an individual. You should not be inflammatory or degrading to anyone," said board member Kevin Costin.

Other overweight patients have come to Bennett's defense.

"What really makes me angry is he told the truth," Mindy Haney told WMUR-TV on Tuesday. "How can you punish somebody for that?"

Haney said Bennett has helped her lose more than 150 pounds, but acknowledged that the initially didn't want to listen.

"I have been in this lady's shoes. I've been angry and left his practice. I mean, in-my-car-taking-off angry," Haney said. "But once you think about it, you're angry at yourself, not Doctor Bennett. He's the messenger. He's telling you what you already know."

TonsOfFun
08-24-2005, 09:32 AM
fat fucts!

Echewta
08-24-2005, 09:34 AM
Please, I don't need a doctor telling me about my health.

ms.peachy
08-24-2005, 09:37 AM
As a smoker, I find it deeply offensive when my doctor lectures me about how I could get cancer and stuff if I don't knock it off. I mean, who is she to make me feel bad about my lifestyle, anyway? Nosy bitch. I should complain too.

Qdrop
08-24-2005, 09:48 AM
this is why we should hate fat people.

Qdrop
08-24-2005, 09:51 AM
As a smoker, I find it deeply offensive when my doctor lectures me about how I could get cancer and stuff if I don't knock it off. I mean, who is she to make me feel bad about my lifestyle, anyway? Nosy bitch. I should complain too.

yeah.

this one time i was in my doctors office....and i was slicing my wrists with his scalpel while i waited for him.
well, he came in the office and started yelling "WHAT ARE YOU DOING....YOU'RE GOING TO KILL YOURSELF!"

what an asshole.
i was so offended, i left.

who is HE to tell me what to do with my body or to make me feel bad about fatally endangering my health?

i mean...what is he?...a doctor- er....wait....

TonsOfFun
08-24-2005, 10:19 AM
this is why we should hate fat people.

Well, I'm fat but I think hate fat people who don't understand why they are fat and if they doing nothing but keep fat or get fatter then they'll hurt themselves.

Fat people like me who know why they are fat cus they put more in there mouths than what comes out I'm ok with cus all it proves when people call me fat is that they are not blind!

cosmo105
08-24-2005, 10:39 AM
it's a self-esteem problem more than anything. my dad was morbidly obese (it was what killed him) and he got so hurt when his doctor would tell him to change his diet, lose weight etc. and when one of us would try to encourage him to eat healthier he would get so hurt and lash out. it's a terrible cycle - someone brings up the weight, tries to help and open up the person's eyes to the problem, person feels guilt and shame, eats, gains more weight...

enree erzweglle
08-24-2005, 02:36 PM
I'd want my doctor to tell me about something that I'm doing that
could harm me. I wouldn't want her to lecture or nag me, but I'd
want to hear her say it a time or two. And she has--when she's
thought that I needed to put on some weight, she said so and she
did it in a very kind way. We've known each other for at least 15 years
so we're good together.

I've got a friend in the healthcare field who lectures everyone on
everything that they do that she thinks is wrong. She lectures hard and
she thinks she's being subtle when she's being anything but.
When her outright suggestions fail, she aims for flattery, hoping to
appeal to your vanity.

She's at least 50# overweight.

She's all over me right now for having long, undyed, unprocessed hair
and for not planning to have cosmetic surgery to have creases ironed
out or whatever it is that they do them.

I see her as a way to practice being patient. :)

ms.peachy
08-24-2005, 02:46 PM
She's all over me right now for having long, undyed, unprocessed hair
and for not planning to have cosmetic surgery to have creases ironed
out or whatever it is that they do them.

Oh my GOD you FREAK what the hell is WRONG with you????? How can you LIVE like that????

enree erzweglle
08-24-2005, 04:06 PM
Oh my GOD you FREAK what the hell is WRONG with you????? How can you LIVE like that????
They say you get shoved into situations in life with people who challenge
you to be better. I thought it would be a deeper sort of challenge. :)