Your family's response to the age differences of your romances

[Nuzzolese]

What is - or would be - your family's response to the news that you are - or hypothetically were - seriously dating someone several years older or younger than you? Say, 10 years or more.

[Lemmy's Liver]

I'm so fucking old and wealthy that me dating 10 years younger girls only makes me look cooler

[Nuzzolese]

But you're European, it's done there. I've seen young Northern European men, and I've seen the women. Like doi.

[enree erzweglle]

When I was 18, I dated a guy who was 28; they liked him so it wasn't a problem.

When I was 27, I dated a guy who was 38; they didn't like him so there was tension.

Bottom line: age didn't matter, just the person.

[Lemmy's Liver]

But you're European, it's done there. I've seen young Northern European men, and I've seen the women. Like doi.
hehehe

...people always think I'm 27, 28, anyway. depending on the amount of beer I've had in the past week.

so, to be honest, once you hit 30 fuc... dating 23-24-olds is not that bad

right? RIGHT!?? :p

[Nuzzolese]

When I was 18 I dated a guy who was 29. They never met him but it's just as well because he was pretty pathetic. Still, I don't think they would have liked the idea of it. Maybe that has more to do with their opinion of me than their stance on the "issue"

[Nuzzolese]

hehehe

...people always think I'm 27, 28, anyway. depending on the amount of beer I've had in the past week.

so, to be honest, once you hit 30 fuc... dating 23-24-olds is not that bad

right? RIGHT!?? :p

Right. Indeed. Maybe I should say 20 years or more difference. What would the families think, do you think?

[abcdefz]

When I was 17 I started dating a 30 year old, and my folks were PISSED. They insisted I stop seeing her, pronto.

Really, I wasn't that crazy about the woman or I would've put up a fight. It was a good excuse to break things off.

[Lemmy's Liver]

well, my point is REALLY that if you are below 20, dating a geeza at 30 is just downright wrong.

I would meet a guy at 29 dating a girl of 18, I would just laugh and walk away.

once you spend a few years practicing life with them young ones, it's time to go for that experience, charm, wit & charisma :cool:

[CiaoBellaXO]

I took my 30 year old cousin to a party over the weekend and she hooked up with a 22 year old...I think they pretty much used eachother. She thought look, I still got it and he was like...hells yea I hooked up with an older woman.

[Lemmy's Liver]

When I was 17 I started dating a 30 year old, and my folks were PISSED. They insisted I stop seeing her, pronto.

Really, I wasn't that crazy about the woman or I would've put up a fight. It was a good excuse to break things off.
1) you're a young girl fucking an older man = you'se a slut and he's a pedophile

2) you're a young guy fucking an older woman = you're the talk of the town and you get a good ride (y)

[Nuzzolese]

2) you're a young guy fucking an older woman = you're the talk of the town and you get a good ride (y)

What's she?

[Lemmy's Liver]

What's she?
she's the man-eater no one knows (or likes) who lives down the block, a BAD woman, a witch, preferably

[Nuzzolese]

Burn her.

[Echewta]

I think when you are over 22ish or so, age shouldn't really matter. You are pretty much who you are going to be.

I understand people tripping out on the teenager dating the 25 and above crowd.

Then again, when i was 16, I was dating an 18 year old and they were calling her a craddle robber. :confused:

[TAL]

I have no idea what my family's response would be.

[kll]

My ex-husband was six years older than me. My boyfriend now is four years younger. I don't think age mattered at all with the husband, but it may be a tiny issue with the boyfriend since he's younger than my little brother and they think of my brother's maturity (or rather immaturity) level and compare it to that... My parents will be meeting my boyfriend in just under a month though, so I guess we'll see...

[beastieangel01]

what nuzz said.

I never told them.

[ToucanSpam]

half your age plus seven years. You cant go wrong.

[wanton wench]

the one family member that i have just wants me to be happy!
she has actually encouraged me to date an older man because we get along so well and have so much in common! but he is 13 years older than me. i have a problem with this because i'm not really attracted to him. i'm just attracted to his mind. i know looks are not everything but they do matter a little bit! :o

[abcdefz]

I think when you are over 22ish or so, age shouldn't really matter. You are pretty much who you are going to be.




Ah!

Tony Randall logic. (y)

[abcdefz]

What's she?



...in my case, her name was/is "Pat."

She ran a deli in North Webster. I'd call and when she got on the phone I'd say (or sing) "Hellooooo Deli!" which never failed to crack us up.

Well, me, anyway.

[TurdBerglar]

there's a ten year difference between my parents. i don't think they would give a shit unless the chick was 12 or something

[Lemmy's Liver]

my question would be why people care so much about what their parents think?

it's your life, feel free to ruin it without them interrupting you

[HEIRESS]

Ive never dated anyone younger than me, or even the same age as me for that matter

not by choice, I just take what I can get.

[ToucanSpam]

I just take what I can get.

That made me :( just a little bit.

[enree erzweglle]

...in my case, her name was/is "Pat."

She ran a deli in North Webster. I'd call and when she got on the phone I'd say (or sing) "Hellooooo Deli!" which never failed to crack us up.

Well, me, anyway.
Word got around at work about me seeing the Dalai Lama up close last month. How many times have I heard this: "Did you say, ``Hello Dalai!''?" Take my wife, please.

[avignon]

My Pop: You are too young to be dating this Walter person.

Me: Daddy, he's four years younger than me.

Pop: I mean, I don't think you should date until you are 40.

[ToucanSpam]

My Pop: You are too young to be dating this Walter person.

Me: Daddy, he's four years younger than me.

Pop: I mean, I don't think you should date until you are 40.
are you serious?


...how old are you? I'm guessing 25.

[avignon]

are you serious?


...how old are you? I'm guessing 25.
<3 :o nope.

[ToucanSpam]

<3 :o nope.
30 at the oldest...I'm sure of it.

[TurdBerglar]

he just said that to kiss your ass. he knows how old you are

[avignon]

he just said that to kiss your ass. he knows how old you are
Well, duh. It's in my profile. But it still makes an old broad get all giggly.



By the way, I predict that you are 40% bald at least by the time you are my age, Turd.

[beastieangel01]

my question would be why people care so much about what their parents think?

it's your life, feel free to ruin it without them interrupting you

it depends. At younger ages, a lot of use were still living with our parents, so it's an issue when in the same household.

However, when I was dating someone older than me I lived with my parents, and I just didn't tell them anyway. Heh.

[TurdBerglar]

Well, duh. It's in my profile. But it still makes an old broad get all giggly.



By the way, I predict that you are 40% bald at least by the time you are my age, Turd.


make that 100% by 30

[mp-seventythree]

half your age plus seven years. You cant go wrong.

I'm gonna go find me a 23 year old...

[ToucanSpam]

I'm gonna go find me a 23 year old...
Hey, it works. :D

[TurdBerglar]

half my age plus 7 years makes 18


that's too young

[avignon]

I'm gonna go find me a 23 year old...
me too.

[ToucanSpam]

Then there is the Rule of Three, which moreso applies to the chronologically challenged.

+ or - 3 years. And voila, that's your range.

[Nuzzolese]

my question would be why people care so much about what their parents think?

it's your life, feel free to ruin it without them interrupting you

oh god

[abcdefz]

make that 100% by 30


my man
(y)

[Nuzzolese]

My brother is 27 and dating a 19 year old. My mom doesn't like it. She thinks it's stupid.

I realize a big part of it would be other factors, like say if one person is just divorced and the other much younger with little in common, or one person is rich and the other is a gold digger, or one person is best friends with the child of the other...

[mp-seventythree]

I tend to go for people around my own age. My girlfriend is 34 and um, my friend who I'm very attracted to is 33.

[Nuzzolese]

For the first time I'm starting to check out guys who are younger than I am. It's not a big deal. I don't date them. I just put a soccer ball on my new mini van and watch their practices, so what?

[cookiepuss]

if they were 10 or more years older than me my family couldn't say shit. why? because my parent's age difference = over 20 years apart. (y)

[abcdefz]

My brother is 27 and dating a 19 year old. My mom doesn't like it. She thinks it's stupid.

I realize a big part of it would be other factors, like say if one person is just divorced and the other much younger with little in common, or one person is rich and the other is a gold digger, or one person is best friends with the child of the other...




...one is male and the other is, say, female....

[milleson]

At 18 I got married to a 28 year old. My parents had no problem with it, but I wouldn't have cared if they did.

[Nuzzolese]

...one is male and the other is, say, female....

let's not push it

[DandyFop]

Well.

When I went out to visit Roger, the 42 year old...

Let's just say my family kinda ruined any chance of there really being something.

[ToucanSpam]

Well.

When I went out to visit Roger, the 42 year old...

Let's just say my family kinda ruined any chance of there really being something.
42? He must have had a very large penis.

[kll]

42? He must have had a very large penis.
What's a large penis to you?

[ToucanSpam]

What's a large penis to you?
hahahaha this made me laugh.


I don't know, how can you ask me that question? How can I judge?

[DandyFop]

He was an awesome guy. He didn't even play the creepy old man role...untill much later...then he kinda started up with it. But a lot of that was my fault.

Anyway...yeah. But I do have to say, when I was there, everything was great. The age thing wasn't a big deal. I know how weird that sounds.

[ToucanSpam]

He was an awesome guy. He didn't even play the creepy old man role...untill much later...then he kinda started up with it. But a lot of that was my fault.

Anyway...yeah. But I do have to say, when I was there, everything was great. The age thing wasn't a big deal. I know how weird that sounds.
It sounds really wierd, but if it worked between you two, then that's all that matters. :D


I dunno, it shouldn't shock anyone that it happens....I guess it takes thought to process it.

[kll]

hahahaha this made me laugh.


I don't know, how can you ask me that question? How can I judge?

No judging involved. It's metric - how many inches is a large penis?

[kll]

He was an awesome guy. He didn't even play the creepy old man role...untill much later...then he kinda started up with it. But a lot of that was my fault.

Anyway...yeah. But I do have to say, when I was there, everything was great. The age thing wasn't a big deal. I know how weird that sounds.

I wanna know what he did as a creepy old man...

[DandyFop]

Creepy old man stuff


he offered me candy with razors :(

No, i'm not going to say what, just something that made me feel weird. But it was my fault, I kept being all oh man wish we would have done it, over and over again, because I liked him so much that I was desperate to have him want me on some sort of level. Yeah.

[ToucanSpam]

No judging involved. It's metric - how many inches is a large penis?
What do I get if I answer this question?

[DandyFop]

What do I get if I answer this question?

It depends on if you meet the requirements.

[kll]

It depends on if you meet the requirements.
haha.

TS -you will get something - a surprise, if you will...

[ToucanSpam]

I feel an immense amount of pressure to answer this question 'correctly'. :o


I guess a large penis would be 7 inches.

This is embarassing

[Lemmy's Liver]

oh god
you think people should let their parents decide who/what age to date?

besides, stop being a WITCH by spying on those young boys. evil woman. burn.

[kll]

thank you!

[cookiepuss]

my parents always use to say, maybe you've heard this one: "age is a matter of the mind and if you don't mind it doesn't matter. they delt with plenty of prejudice when they first got together, but by the time I was born most of the kinks had already been worked out. My eldest half sister had the most difficult time though and I can totally understand becasue my mother went to her highschool and was a senior when she was a freshman. NOw my dad didn't meet my mom until she was in her mid 20's, but still, understanably it was hard for my sister to accept.

the other reality to a may/december relationship is that if you end up spending your lives together..one of you is obviously going to outlive the other. My mom was widowed at 50 and has had a really hard time rebuilding her life. My dad was her everything. So based on my experiences of having lost my dad and seen the struggles my mom is going through, I probably would have to think very seriously about getting involved with someone who was alot older than me. but then again if you asked my mom...she would say better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. even though she lost my dad she wouldn't trade the love they had for anything.

plus I wouldn't be here if they hadn't got together.

[Knuckles]

My sister is 24. Her new boyfriend is 53. :( I just don't see what they have in common. He has a daughter older than her. (n)








I'd just like to add that by TS's standards I have a large penis, thank you.

[cookiepuss]

[QUOTE=Knuckles]My sister is 24. Her new boyfriend is 53. :( I just don't see what they have in common. He has a daughter older than her. (n)[QUOTE]


awe Knuckles, protective brother. see my above post. Even though you don't know what it is, they probably have a very real connection. so don't dismiss it right away. that's about the age difference my parents were and they were more in love than most of my friends parents were. maybe if your'e lucky they'll spit out a weird little kid like me. hee heee

[Bob]

I feel an immense amount of pressure to answer this question 'correctly'. :o


I guess a large penis would be 7 inches.

This is embarassing

lol

[ToucanSpam]

I'm gonna go drive myself off of a cliff now. :o :o :o :o :o

[adam_f]

If I was dating someone ten years younger she better pray to God that she's better than Dakota Fanning.

[DIGI]

I'm gonna go drive myself off of a cliff now. :o :o :o :o :o

it's okay, little buddy. keep drinking your milk and who knows what can happen.

[ToucanSpam]

it's okay, little buddy. keep drinking your milk and who knows what can happen.
Someday I hope to grow up to be a failure like you.

[DIGI]

Someday I hope to grow up to be a failure like you.


........with pockmarks.

[little j]

What is - or would be - your family's response to the news that you are - or hypothetically were - seriously dating someone several years older or younger than you? Say, 10 years or more.
my parents weren't too happy about it.

but then he was also married, and a pastor at our old church.
so yeah.

[TAL]

Good thing his son was available then.

[DandyFop]

I'd just like to add that by TS's standards I have a large penis, thank you.

;)

[ToucanSpam]

Was I right DandyFop?

[DandyFop]

I would say so. I was telling this one guy once that he had a ginormous penis and he was all Hmm I don't think so, so we looked it up and I think average was like 6 inches.

Anyway...

I always feel weird talking about this though. It's like discrimination or something.

[ToucanSpam]

I always feel weird talking about this though. It's like discrimination or something.
I always feel wierd when posting about sex stuff. I'm very much an introverted person, and welllll I'm kind of nervous and ok yeah shut up time.

Something tells me 7 is a large number.

[Nuzzolese]

you think people should let their parents decide who/what age to date?

besides, stop being a WITCH by spying on those young boys. evil woman. burn.

In a ring of fire?

I don't think people should let their parents decide things for them, I just understand that some people's parents are very influential, whether they want them to be or not.

[Kid Presentable]

"May all your ups and downs be in bed!"

Ching!

[miss soul fire]

I'm so fucking old and wealthy that me dating 10 years younger girls only makes me look cooler
But that's the whole idea of being a man, isn't it?!:p