Another spanking thread...

[Loppfessor]

Okay many of the ladies have said they like to be spanked either before or during sex. Pretty much every female I know does but my question is does it help to get you off physically, mentally, or both??

[Anne Lauren]

Okay many of the ladies have said they like to be spanked either before or during sex. Pretty much every female I know does but my question is does it help to get you off physically, mentally, or both??

Neither.

I don't particularly enjoy being hit while I'm attempting to obtain an orgasm.

[BionicEye]

Okay many of the ladies have said they like to be spanked either before or during sex. Pretty much every female I know does but my question is does it help to get you off physically, mentally, or both??


I think this type of freaky-deakiness comes out more in women as they age

[Loppfessor]

I think this type of freaky-deakiness comes out more in women as they age


Well yeah the question is not if they enjoy it or not it's why....like I said is it a physical thing or mental? What sort of stimulation is having their asses smacked providing?

[Anne Lauren]

I think this type of freaky-deakiness comes out more in women as they age

And you know this from experience? What's the oldest woman you've been with? Just curious.

[BionicEye]

She's on social security... I'll leave it at that.

[Loppfessor]

She's on social security... I'll leave it at that.


Hey the older the berry the sweeter the juice...

[Anne Lauren]

She's on social security... I'll leave it at that.

I was being serious when I asked you that. Just interested.

[BionicEye]

umm... twelve years older than me.

[Anne Lauren]

umm... twelve years older than me.

And how old are you?

[BionicEye]

I turned zero yesterday.

[Loppfessor]

Damnit people focus!!....either way I don't think age has anything to do with it. I've known girls my age (25 on Sunday) or younger that were freak-nasties and some older women who were quite prude. Oh and vice versa, but let's stick to the topic fools!

[Anne Lauren]

I turned zero yesterday.

Huh, OK?! Whatever...

[TonsOfFun]

yeah, I don't get the being hit by someone thing either.

In fact I can when I think about it. I get off crazy when being bitten which obviously leaves a mark - below the neck though, so I suppose it can be the same when slapping an ass... maybe

to each their own but I can see it from that point of view

[ms.peachy]

purely physical. A nice solid smack on the rump is A-OK with me (y)

[Loppfessor]

purely physical. A nice solid smack on the rump is A-OK with me (y)


elaborate please...I mean does it just feel good or do the vibrations or whatever affect other areas near there?? I find the majority of ass smacking goes on when the dude is already insid the girl so does that play in to the equation?

[Anne Lauren]

Damnit people focus!!....either way I don't think age has anything to do with it. I've known girls my age (25 on Sunday) or younger that were freak-nasties and some older women who were quite prude. Oh and vice versa, but let's stick to the topic fools!

They might not have really liked it because it turned them on sexually to physically feel their asses being slapped. Maybe, they did it for you? They thought, "Hey, if I give the personna that I'm a kinky crazy girl in the sack...he's gonna enjoy this and think I'm a freak in the bed (in a good way)" Seeing a guy get turned on physically is a major turn on and thus increases the pleasure behind the whole act of having sex. Therefore, I would have to answer...it's mental. Or, at least, this would be my reasoning.

[TonsOfFun]

Girls, from my experience love to be touched. Guys love to touch. so maybe that has something to do with it - just more of a quick touch that leaves a red hand print

[ms.peachy]

elaborate please...I mean does it just feel good or do the vibrations or whatever affect other areas near there?? I find the majority of ass smacking goes on when the dude is already insid the girl so does that play in to the equation?
Well as I do not intend to elaborate in detail my husband's and my sex life for you all (sorry, deal with it), I'm just going to go with "it just feels good."

[Anne Lauren]

Girls, from my experience love to be touched. Guys love to touch. so maybe that has something to do with it - just more of a quick touch that leaves a red hand print

Hell, yeah! In all the right places!

[Loppfessor]

Well as I do not intend to elaborate in detail my husband's and my sex life for you all (sorry, deal with it), I'm just going to go with "it just feels good."


lol sorry didn't mean to pry I'm just very curious about this

[Loppfessor]

Why is it that guys want to spank thier girlies???


actually in my experiences it's usually be the girl who requested it

[ms.peachy]

lol sorry didn't mean to pry I'm just very curious about this
I know, I'm just saying that there's very little I can say that wouldn't be inappropriate to bring to a public forum. If it was just my business it would be one thing, if you see what I mean.

Put it this way: with reference to your original question, I know that for me at least it isn't a mental or psychological thing. I don't have any lingering 'issues' about spanking, because I wasn't spanked as a child and don't have all kinds of "daddy" problems or any of that stuff. Some people do and hey if it works for them to incorporate that into their sex lives then it's not for me to judge, but for me it's just physical. A good whack on an upturned buttcheek is nice. That's all.

[Loppfessor]

don't matter who requested what...


what do guys get from it?? even if they've been asked to?? Not judging, just curious :)

Well you asked why guys wanna do it, I'm sayin they might not necessarily want to but the ladies like it. Personally I dig it cus I'm an ass man big time. I love rubbin up on a woman's butt especially if it's big, round, and firm. The next logical step I suppose is to give it a good slap especially if she seems to really enjoy it. Umm plus I saw it in porn

[Loppfessor]

if I can see him getting off on it then he can do just about anything he wants...




Will you marry me??

[Beckalina]

I think its mental, makes ya feel naughty :D

[adam_f]

I remember getting my ass beat by my dad's belt when I was a kid and trying my hardest not to cry.

I hate you if you took that sexual.

[kll]

I like an ass slap here or there, but mostly before any sort of intercourse starts... grabbing my ass though during it is awesome...

[ms.peachy]

I remember getting my ass beat by my dad's belt when I was a kid and trying my hardest not to cry.

I hate you if you took that sexual.
I don't doubt that for you that is clearly non-sexual.

Psychologically speaking though, it is fairly common for people (both male and female) who grew up in very strict households where severe physical punishment was used to sexualise the experience in some capacity in adulthood. It might not make immediate sense that something that was painful to a person as a child might be pleasureable as an adult, but it's actually somewhat logical.

As a child, you are powerless over the event(s), but of course what you desire is the love and approval of the parent. As an adult, indulging in physical 'punishment' as a part of sex often is a way of asserting subconscious control over past events, and working within the framework that has been established in your psyche where emotions like shame and embarassment are mixed with those of love and desire.

People who are in long term S&M lifestyles will tell you, it is always the 'submissive' partner that actually holds all the cards in the relationship.

[miss soul fire]

Spanking (not hard) is one of those things that makes me laugh and not enjoy actually. In my opinion is just ridiculous. It's like I'm a little girl again. Next thing I know I'll be wearing a pacifier again!:D

[kll]

Spanking (not hard) is one of those things that makes me laugh and not enjoy actually. In my opinion is just ridiculous. It's like I'm a little girl again. Next thing I know I'll be wearing a pacifier again!:D
hey, if it gets you off... more power to you... :)

[miss soul fire]

hey, if it gets you off... more power to you... :)
Ahhh, for some reason I though I had disagreed on the spanking thing. My English must be getting worse. Hmmm...

[Chicka B]

I got spanked when I was little with a wooden paddle and holes in it. :mad: ........ but when I think about it, the dude I really have a crush on, I wouldn't mind it. :eek: :o

[Monsieur Decuts]

I had two wooden spoons broken over my bum and it hasn't increased the amount of cutlary sex I have...its stayed pretty much the same.