A Question For Board Couples

[Audielicious]

Which day do you consider your actual anniversary with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Is it the day you started talking on here or on messenger or is it the day that you actually met in person?

Just wondering...

[QueenAdrock]

Welllll I'm not a board couple, but I met Wayne online and though we liked each other we refused to "date" until we met in person and made it official. Because in person is different than online and the phone, and neither of us wanted to be attached until we realized if we ACTUALLY wanted to date.

So we started talking in January of 2001, and met and started dating in April of 2001.

I have a few friends who actually start dating online, which I personally think is lame. It was especially lame when I was planning a beach trip and my one friend was like "Awesome! I'm inviting Mike." I told her "Um, actually we wanted to invite only people we know." She got mad and started yelling "I know him! I'm in love with him! We've been dating for over a year!!" Reaaaallly? Do you enjoy kissing him? How about the feeling of his breath against your hair during a cold night as he holds you? Oh, wait. :rolleyes:

[Audielicious]

Thanks for replying. :)

Yeah, I know what you mean. Last year when I would say that Eric was my boyfriend, even my brother would say "How the fuck can someone you've never met before be your boyfriend?"

I think I consider the first day we met our real anniversary.

[Dr Deaf]

we have 2: july 17th (initial) and september 18th (inception).

[Beckalina]

day it was official = day we met in person

[befsquire]

we have 2: july 17th (initial) and september 18th (inception).
not that i don't consider either of those two to be important dates, but now that we're married, october 1st is our anniversary date. when people ask when your anniversary is, you give them one date that's the most significant.

i know you meant the anniversary date of when you met, so i'd say pick the date of what's most significant to you for answering people's questions, and have as many dates as you want to celebrate for yourselves as a couple.

[mickill]

kll and I just celebrate our <3 everyday.

[cosmo105]

my birthday's the day we first started talking and that's a special day for us because of that (besides the whole birthday thing), but we count the day we first met in person as our real anniversary. july 27th.

[zorra_chiflada]

we were friends in person for about a month before we started going out.
when we became officially boyfriend and girlfriend is our anniversary. which is apparently next week.

[jabumbo]

do you people actually celebrate said date anymre than normal?

[zorra_chiflada]

do you people actually celebrate said date anymre than normal?

since we can't even really remember the exact date, no.

[jabumbo]

maybe its just me, but it doesnt really seem like its a necessary celebration. i can see if you are married, because thats a good bit more than just dating.

but like, if we're just dating, who really cares how long its been?

[zorra_chiflada]

maybe its just me, but it doesnt really seem like its a necessary celebration. i can see if you are married, because thats a good bit more than just dating.

but like, if we're just dating, who really cares how long its been?

i do

[jabumbo]

i do


then tell me why it matters to you?

[zorra_chiflada]

then tell me why it matters to you?

ok this is gonna sound soppy and sickening.


my life has changed since i've been with joe, and he's kinda the only person i have. it's just nice to remember, and to appreciate how lucky i am to have him.

[TurdBerglar]

awwwwwww

[zorra_chiflada]

awwwwwww

suck my dick

[TurdBerglar]

zippo?

[zorra_chiflada]

zippo?

does she say that as well?

[TurdBerglar]

it seems that i give females dicks :confused:

[zorra_chiflada]

i keep it in my purse, along with joe's

[TurdBerglar]

hahahah joe you shit head

[hitmonlee]

maybe its just me, but it doesnt really seem like its a necessary celebration. i can see if you are married, because thats a good bit more than just dating.

but like, if we're just dating, who really cares how long its been?

yeah that's pretty much my feeling. hence the no celebration really. i only use it as a measure of time.

if a guy and i become a couple i tend to count it from the time we either go out on a date, or hook up. although my last ex states we were only together for 3 months while i consider it 4, because for the first month it was all casual and we weren't "exclusive". but to me, because we became exclusive i counted it from the time we first went out.

[Phantom Menace]

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[kll]

kll and I just celebrate our <3 everyday.


it's so true, but the day i saw your weiner for the first time is the most meaningful...

[ToucanSpam]

it's so true, but the day i saw your weiner for the first time is the most meaningful...
small?

[kll]

i don't think you could ever call our <3 small

[ToucanSpam]

that's cute

[beastieangel01]

I'm not in a BBMB coupe.

However, the boy and I count the first day we met as the day. Which is tricky, because it's the day after Christmas. Makes things interesting.

I swear to god this year if he doesn't do something good on our anni I'm going to pop. He will be back home until mid-day on the anni. The last anni we had, he took me to some area where a friend of his lived and said "pick a place to eat" and both were run down, shady looking places that bums would even walk past. Then we went to his friends house and they sat and talked drinking beer, while I sat next to him and was really, really irritated.

Lalala I'm not bitter.

[ToucanSpam]

Lalala I'm not bitter.
Totally.


Like, omg for sure.

[jabumbo]

I'm not in a BBMB coupe.

However, the boy and I count the first day we met as the day. Which is tricky, because it's the day after Christmas. Makes things interesting.

I swear to god this year if he doesn't do something good on our anni I'm going to pop. He will be back home until mid-day on the anni. The last anni we had, he took me to some area where a friend of his lived and said "pick a place to eat" and both were run down, shady looking places that bums would even walk past. Then we went to his friends house and they sat and talked drinking beer, while I sat next to him and was really, really irritated.

Lalala I'm not bitter.


but what if he does something nice another day?

does it have to be that specific day? i mean, its not like oyu gave your lives up on that day to be with each other forever, so whats the big deal?

[Echewta]

I leave it up to skye to descide the date.

[Kid Presentable]

but what if he does something nice another day?

does it have to be that specific day? i mean, its not like oyu gave your lives up on that day to be with each other forever, so whats the big deal?

Word. I've got a whole year to love her, why bother putting it all into one day? Isn't that like cheapening the whole deal? I show her everyday.

[cosmo105]

^what cheap guys say

[beastieangel01]

but what if he does something nice another day?

does it have to be that specific day? i mean, its not like oyu gave your lives up on that day to be with each other forever, so whats the big deal?

Well he's nice in general all the time.

And whoa, mega de ju vu. Just, in regards to me sitting here replying to this. Weird.

Anyway, I mean, even a little something would have been nice. Believe me, I don't expect some lavish dinner with ballroom dancing or some shit like that.

Just a nice, quiet evening in the house together (alone!) would have been nice. Instead of me being dragged along to see his friends so they can drink beer while I sit there.

[Kid Presentable]

^what cheap guys say

It's costing me money to type this. :mad:

[Echewta]

I'm assuming he brought you there because someone had to get the beers for them. :(

[beastieangel01]

well he did have to buy beer for one friend since she was 20.

Actually, we went out to this place his friends love and he did too, but since I was underage at the time, he took me to go there early to see if we can have dinner then just stay late night (it worked sometimes). It was some hole in the wall bar/grill. At 7pm though they were already carding so then came him telling me to pick one of the other crap places.

Then we went to his friends house (the 20 year old). I sat there, he sat next to me. She sat across from us. They drank and talked. I think there was music that she had playing from her computer, but that was about it. I talked sometimes too, but I was being quiet because I was bummed out. I think we spent like 3 or 4 hours there.

And he wondered why I was quiet and not happy.

[monkey]

im not in a board couple, but i remember dates really well. i tend to say.. hey! it's been (insert time) since we first (insert verb).

so, i enjoy all sorts of anniversaries.

[jabumbo]

^what cheap guys say


well would you rather have 1 or 2 nice outings a year or many more somewhat nice outings?


and why does the day matter so much? i personally am happier when someone just sort of springs something on me instead of expecting it to happen for said special day

[QueenAdrock]

Well, Wayne and I don't really do much anyways. We basically hang out together, and talk and play video games and shoot pool an shit. Our anniversary is the same but we have more sex to commemorate our love. And then he takes me to someplace upscale like El Mexicano.

Actually, I don't think we celebrate anniversaries. We were going to the first year, but I wasn't up to it. Maybe we'll do something nice for our 5 year anniversary or something.

I dunno, Jabumbo, why do you celebrate your birthday? Shouldn't your family be happy you're in their lives EVERY day? Why's your day of birth so damn important?

[Audielicious]

I dunno, Jabumbo, why do you celebrate your birthday? Shouldn't your family be happy you're in their lives EVERY day? Why's your day of birth so damn important?
Oooooh Pete! She schooled your ass.

[TAL]

I don't celebrate my birthday, but other people seem to think it's important. And I'm not one to turn down gifts.

[Mr. Boomin'Granny]

shit i dont know. i like the 18th.