Chicks dig dudes with babies, man!

[mickill]

Forget puppies. Babies are where it's at. I wish I'd have figured this out when I was still single. They don't even have to see the actual baby. You could just be pushing an empty stroller around with the cover on and girls'll still smile and make "aww" faces at you all day. It kinda sucks, but then it doesn't totally suck.

[DandyFop]

Forget it, puppies is the way to go. I'll show my kitty to a guy with a puppy any day.

[mickill]

I'm not talking about picking up dudes. That's obviously not a difficult thing for most females. We're weak. You just show us boobies or offer us sandwiches and we'll follow you home. We're simple. Ladies are a little more complex.

Babies, or even just the illusion of having a baby with you is like some kind of a magnet that the weemens cannot fight. It's crazy.

[Anne Lauren]

I don't know. Seeing a guy with a baby is more of an endearing kinda feeling. It doesn't make me more sexually attracted to them, subconsciously. I think, "Oh, how sweet" kinda thing.

[hellojello]

(Warning: this post contains massive generalisation and stereotypes)

I think what it is, for a lot of women, is the fact that if they see a guy with a baby (they assume) it shows he has at least some level of maturity and commitment. Regardless of whether he is still with the woman that mother's his child the fact that he's willing to step up and play the 'father role' shows a level of depth and dedication that many men (especially young one's) don't have.

[mickill]

I appreciate your views, Anne, and I see what you mean, but my ego kinda likes hellojello's reply better.

[Anne Lauren]

I appreciate your views, Anne, and I see what you mean, but my ego kinda likes hellojello's reply better.

Well, that's all that matters...so, go with it.

[Mcmac]

mickill i come back here and u make 3 fuckin threads stop with that shit or i will have to stab you

[TonsOfFun]

And while us 25 years olds 'still living at home with no steady job, smoking pot all day' type of guys lose out :(

What ain't attractive about that!?!?!

[Anne Lauren]

And while us 25 years olds 'still living at home with no steady job, smoking pot all day' type of guys lose out :(

What ain't attractive about that!?!?!

Well, you have the young rebellious girl teenagers out there...your cool as hell.

[miss_bhaven]

I don't know. Seeing a guy with a baby is more of an endearing kinda feeling. It doesn't make me more sexually attracted to them, subconsciously. I think, "Oh, how sweet" kinda thing.

Same hey, it doesn't make me want to go and bang the shit out of them or anything... I just think it's cute... and then I think ha where's the mother at?!

[Anne Lauren]

Same kinda idea like with men and wedding rings...it only makes me more stand-offish and more aware of my behaviors around them. Like, I don't wanna give them "the wrong idea" or something.

[TonsOfFun]

Well, you have the young rebellious girl teenagers out there...your cool as hell.

Teenage girls annoy the hell out of me! It was a joke kinda, although I am 25 and still living at home and I have been very close to moving out so many times thinking it would solve my problems but I change my life direction sharply, which stops me. I have a plan now that part of it is not to get in too much debt. It's not that I'm not aware how my social status can be unattractive. But who wants someone who wants you for what you own, be it a house or a baby.

On the other hand, I could advertise myself as owning my own business with a solid plan for what I want to do for the rest of my life with the flexibility to evolve and keep up with the times while still keeping within the Buddhist principles I want to grow with. And I have a big heart of gold!

The only thing wrong that is not attractive to any member of society is I have a temper - not violent or anything but just a problem with anger management over simple little things... And sometimes become too interested in porn...

I should copy paste this into a personal ad :D

[Anne Lauren]

Teenage girls annoy the hell out of me! It was a joke kinda, although I am 25 and still living at home and I have been very close to moving out so many times thinking it would solve my problems but I change my life direction sharply, which stops me. I have a plan now that part of it is not to get in too much debt. It's not that I'm not aware how my social status can be unattractive. But who wants someone who wants you for what you own, be it a house or a baby.

On the other hand, I could advertise myself as owning my own business with a solid plan for what I want to do for the rest of my life with the flexibility to evolve and keep up with the times while still keeping within the Buddhist principles I want to grow with. And I have a big heart of gold!

The only thing wrong that is not attractive to any member of society is I have a temper - not violent or anything but just a problem with anger management over simple little things... And sometimes become too interested in porn...

I should copy paste this into a personal ad :D

Just messin' with ya! (y)

After I filed for a divorce, I moved back home and I really didn't have a more desireable alternative. My parents helped me out, so I could finish my masters. I quit my job and the only source of income I had for a while was part time work assisting the University dance team...in other words, I was poor and had to ask my mom for "spending" money. But, who cares? Sometimes you got to take a step backward to end up moving forward. Lots of people live with their parents and smoke pot.

[ms.peachy]

But who wants someone who wants you for what you own, be it a house or a baby.

Well... not that there aren't women out there who are only into the 'stuff' because we all know there are. But I think that for most, it's not about 'owning' a house or baby et al, but what those things represent - maturity, forethought, stability, responsibility.

When I met mr.p, I was really impressed that he had bought his own place already, and had a plan for how he wanted to develop the property. It showed that he was a long-term thinker, and that he didn't need to be 'taken care of'.

I know this is a real generalisation, and that there are some very nice guys out there who still live with their family for good reason, but for me if I was in my 20's again and dating and met a guy who lives with his mom, it would be a big red flag to me. It might not stop me from dating him entirely, but it certainly would give me pause. If I found out his mother was still doing things around the house for him - doing his laundry, changing his sheets, cooking his meals - it would be off. Absoluetly no way would I want any part of that, because you just know if she's doing all that shit for him, his next move is into your place and he's going to expect you to do it. And, nuh uh, who needs a helpless man?

[TonsOfFun]

^the reason I'm living at home is cus when we was about to lose the family house, I was the main wage earner in a family of six between 19 & 23 and I kept this house together monatary wise. But yeah, they are people out there who generalise. Like when I bought my own new car at 17, people thought my mom and dad bought it for me just because people think people who live with their parents are useless. What the fuck do they know. Which is why I wouldn't like to date someone who generalised like that cus 1st impressions are a lot and a reason why they wouldn't date me cus they'd assume I'm pathetic...

So now, I'm using the fact I live at home to my advantage to get my business off the ground :) , instead of working for that god forsaken bank while feeling shit about myself. It's all good though, any decision I make for good or worse I wouldn't change.

edit: I know you wasn't saying I was like that - generalised. But I have mates older than me who have their own story why they are living at home is all I'm saying, and that is kinda mine diluted down. Not all people living at home are like that. In fact I would say - most are not like that.

[miss soul fire]

I'd rather puppies or simply big dogs!:D

If he has a baby, unless he's a widower, he's definitely got a bitch attached to the baby! :p

[miss soul fire]

^the reason I'm living at home is cus when we was about to lose the family house, I was the main wage earner in a family of six between 19 & 23 and I kept this house together monatary wise. But yeah, they are people out there who generalise. Like when I bought my own new car at 17, people thought my mom and dad bought it for me just because people think people who live with their parents are useless. What the fuck do they know. Which is why I wouldn't like to date someone who generalised like that cus 1st impressions are a lot and a reason why they wouldn't date me cus they'd assume I'm pathetic...

So now, I'm using the fact I live at home to my advantage to get my business off the ground :) , instead of working for that god forsaken bank while feeling shit about myself. It's all good though, any decision I make for good or worse I wouldn't change.

edit: I know you wasn't saying I was like that - generalised. But I have mates older than me who have their own story why they are living at home is all I'm saying, and that is kinda mine diluted down. Not all people living at home are like that. In fact I would say - most are not like that.



That's something very common around here too.

I remember when I was 18 and I wanted to have my own place, but my mom wouldn't send me money to support me in another home and no job at this age would pay any rent, I'll tell ya. Not even the job I had a few weeks ago (and I resigned) would pay the rent and food and all this stuff.

[Nuzzolese]

Daddies are so attractive, indeed. It's not just daddies, it doesn't have to be the biological father. Men who can take care of a baby are attractive, even a guy just holding one and babysitting - it makes them seem so sensitive and nurturing and at the same time strong and responsible and capable. This is all confusing though, because not one of those actors in Three Men and A Baby were attractive. This is one of those things that makes an already good looking man even more attractive, it won't save anyone. If you're a Danson, a Gutes, or a Selleck, you might need two babies.

[Qdrop]

Daddies are so attractive, indeed. It's not just daddies, it doesn't have to be the biological father. Men who can take care of a baby are attractive, even a guy just holding one and babysitting - it makes them seem so sensitive and nurturing and at the same time strong and responsible and capable. This is all confusing though, because not one of those actors in Three Men and A Baby were attractive. This is one of those things that makes an already good looking man even more attractive, it won't save anyone. If you're a Danson, a Gutes, or a Selleck, you might need two babies.

you know...i started reading that, and i thought "i bet she works some kinda movie or TV reference in here".

and lo and behold...


i think what you are really trying to say...is that you want to bang Mickill.

[Nuzzolese]

you know...i started reading that, and i thought "i bet she works some kinda movie or TV reference in here".

and lo and behold...


i think what you are really trying to say...is that you want to bang Mickill.

Why wouldn't I work a reference in there?
And
Why does it have to be about banging?

[Qdrop]

Why wouldn't I work a reference in there? oh, don't get me wrong...we all love them.
it's your thing, girl.


Why does it have to be about banging?
you're right, i'm sorry.

i meant "slow, passionate, love making"...

[mickill]

You seem to really want the Nuzz and the mickill to get it on, Q. We're like e-twins, man. That's all it is. We're not e-humping, e-dating, e-groping eachother or any other e-nonsense you've conjured up in that wild e-magination of yours. We're just e-siblings. It's perfectly normal. Damn, yo.

[Qdrop]

We're like e-twins, man.
[..] We're just e-siblings.


It's perfectly normal. Damn, yo.

umm....
uhhh....

[ms.peachy]

You know what he's saying, little brother.

[Documad]

Puppies are more of a chick magnet, but Ava is exceptionally cute so she might actually beat most puppies.

P.S. This was an episode of Friends.

[DandyFop]

I'm not talking about picking up dudes. That's obviously not a difficult thing for most females. We're weak. You just show us boobies or offer us sandwiches and we'll follow you home. We're simple. Ladies are a little more complex. .

I'm talking about how I always totally fawn over puppies, not babies, hence, puppies are better, you crunkass bitch.

[Kid Presentable]

You could take a ladies baby out of the pram, and walk away slowly, and she would follow you.

Is that what mickill means?

[mickill]

Puppies are more of a chick magnet, but Ava is exceptionally cute so she might actually beat most puppies.

P.S. This was an episode of Friends.

It's not the same as that episode of Friends, though. I would strongly advise any men wanting to try this for themselves to not attempt this with another male tagging along. People'll just think he's your life partner or something, which is not the reaction we're going for here.

[Nuzzolese]

I thought it was pretty gross when Lea Thompson said her uterus skipped a beat. I winced. Caroline in the City was awful, I don't know what so many writers at Entertainment Weekly had such a hard-on for her.

[beastiegirrl101]

Forget it, puppies is the way to go. I'll show my kitty to a guy with a puppy any day.

I second that sista...guys with babies =baggage.