Mawwaige

[cosmo105]

really though, marriage. what's the deal? why is it such a big thing? it's just a social construct. i guess i like the idea of both people entering in a contract, a committment, a promise...but i don't understand why it's made out to be the end-all, be-all of existence for adults. like, the ultimate goal. and why bringing it up is such a huge deal for some people. and why some are so afraid of it...yet some jump at the chance to go into it.

for example - a few of my mormon friends from high school got married REALLY young. one of them was a little over a year ago - i think she's only 20 or so now, and the other just got married a few months back, and she's the same age as me. and i know they only did it so they could get in the sack. they made their marriages out to be these huge grand affairs with all kinds of money and photos and talking about the ceremony for months on end...but in the end i think it was cheapened because you kind of knew their ulterior motives and they're just way too young and inexperienced to fully understand it.

but then again - what is there to understand about it? isn't it what you decide you want it to be? what is the general consensus about what marriage means? what's a "good age" for it? and with rising divorce rates, is it really that permanent after all? do we go into it now knowing that we have a way out?

i'm really just trying to not work on my history exam paper.

[cosmo105]

that's kinda cool.

the actual ceremony is a different thing entirely...don't even get me started on those.

[mickill]

Oops, I accidentally posted in the hippie thread. I thought this was the metrosexual one. Sorry.

[cosmo105]

oh hush.

i know you had a traditional wedding, mike, and you're all about that. what's your take on what a marriage - not the ceremony - is all about?

[fucktopgirl]

a lot of people get married for the gifts,the show,and half of the material thing when they gona divorced>On the others hand, alot of people belive in this union for real!

Marriage is a invention of the religion.YOu cannot have sex before mariage,so back then,maybe that was the meaning of it!(catholic)hehehe
and its was making the church prosper i guess.That the way the system was working!

i understand people who want to have a union in front of people,having a good party in a way thta is not conventional.But the white dress at the church,i mean command!I respect anybody who like that sort of union and believe in their religion but for me,a marriage in this fashion is a little bit outdated.

i believe more in verbal union then the one where you have to signed something!
is that make sense!

[mickill]

oh hush.

i know you had a traditional wedding, mike, and you're all about that. what's your take on what a marriage - not the ceremony - is all about?

Well, after you drop the friggin 2/5 of your annual income on the ring, you rent a tux and you go to the wedding and you just try not to mess up your lines and whatnot....Oh, wait, NOT the wedding. Um, yeah...I was pressured into it.

[cosmo105]

seriously?


that's the worst thing. some people prod us a little because we live together. that's the last thing i need. if anything, that would turn me off marriage. why would i do it for anyone other than myself and my partner?

[Rock]

As bad as it sounds....one of the reasons I'm getting married is because of my parents and because of her parents. She is from an old school Italian and Catholic family and I'm from a Muslim family. If we just lived together it would break my mom's foreign heart and probably boil her dad's Italian blood. Its just easier this way for us.

Of course I plan on spending the rest of my life with her, but a piece of paper isn't going to make that plan any stronger...or weaker.

As far as divorce rates being so high...fuck it. My parents have been together for over 30 years as well as hers. We've been together for close to 5 years so I believe we know eachother enough to know what to expect when we finally do get married. If my mom could put up with my dad for that long when they only knew eachother for a year or so....I'm sure my woman can put up with me.

[cosmo105]

that's sweet. i think marriage is more for other people to know - HEY! LOOK AT US! CHECK OUT THESE SWEET RINGS! WE ONLY DO IT WITH EACH OTHER!

i don't think my mom cares too much about it. i mean, down the line, when i'm older, maybe. but her experiences with marriage have been less than positive. i think more than anything she wants me to take it slow and have fun being young and all that.

i plan on spending the rest of my life with my boyfriend, and i know he feels the same way. we don't need no piece of paper from the city hall keeping us tied and true. :)

[mickill]

seriously?


that's the worst thing. some people prod us a little because we live together. that's the last thing i need. if anything, that would turn me off marriage. why would i do it for anyone other than myself and my partner?
No, I was kidding about being pressured. I wanted to. I'm a one woman kinda guy, anyway. I like being in a commited monogamous relationship. So I figured, why not lock myself into a legally binding contract and seal the deal?

[cosmo105]

i like monogamous people. that says a lot to me about a person.

[mickill]

What kinda stuff does it say?

[cosmo105]

that that person only does it with one other person.

i don't know, i guess i see it as an admirable quality. i've never respected people that cheat because i'm always thinking about the people they're hurting. and i've always been a monogamous person myself...i guess i don't understand how people can not be committed to one person, especially when we expect that other person to be committed to us and us alone.

[mickill]

Yeah, that's sweet and all, but back to me. How does this make me so wonderful? I'd just like a detailed explanation as to why you think I'm this "super awesome" guy. Not trying to put you on the spot, but I'm just curious.

[ms.peachy]

It's only ever people who aren't married who say "It's just a piece of paper."

(BTW I am aware no one has said that in this particular thread, just making a general observation. No married person ever says, "Well I don't see why we went to all that fuss for a little piece of paper.")

ps I do not have a sweet ring.

[hpdrifter]

I want to get married. Wedding aside, I like the idea of forming a new family with someone. I am not sure how I feel about the legalities of it but that's not really the point. I think its the leaving my family and creating one of my own. Not necessarily with kids (I mean hopefully with kids at some point) but that's not something I could totally feel with someone I wasn't married to.

I used to think it was just a piece of paper. I was engaged and had been living with my fiance for 4 years. I thought, what could possibly change just because we told the law we were together? But thos that I have talked to that were in my same situation said that it does change things. It deepens things somehow.

My gut feeling is that I won't get married until I'm like 35 or something. Its just a hunch. When I was with a guy who was ready to settle down I wasn't and now its like all the guys I meet want to play the field.

*shrug*

[TurdBerglar]

all marriage does is make it harder to break up

[miss soul fire]

People get married for various reasons. For example, my dad got married to my mom because he wanted to "improve" his race (my mom's white), according to him. I'm not kidding. My dad is "almost" black and is one of the most racist people I know, not to mention his second wife is black. :confused: So, my mom got married because she wanted to have kids, desperately. But that was a long time ago...:D

Anyway, many people get married to get respect, like ...ahh whatever. I'm lazy and tired. I'm done.:p

[Bob]

all marriage does is make it harder to break up

and more embarrassing

[ToucanSpam]

I refuse to read the rest of the thread, but I have a question/statement.

Cosmo, most people around here (Cape Breton) see wedding as a tradition among families, less so about 'making it official' or 'making a contract'. I can only speak for my part of Canada and not everwhere else, but here it's more about gathering families and tradition in the church and culture than anything else. It's a big thing here because of the tradition is what I'm trying to say.

In general I think if you look at what ethnic groups came to North America, you can see that marriage was very important in the culture. Even here, in Canada, during the 1600's women were shipped out of France to New France just to be married (Filles du Roi) and procreate. Marriage before kids was very important, and that historical echo still exists today.

What marriage means depends on the two individuals involved, their families and their cultural background. It's kind of turning into a joke though, with divorce rates getting higher and higher. Plus, who wants to hear their mom and dad screaming at them to get married to their partner, or payng a fortune for something that simply makes the union formal?


I personally am not sure how I feel about marriage. I want kids and I don't want them to be bastard sons/daughters...but paying a heaping pile of money for something that might happen two or three times in my life is not sounding so fun.

[TurdBerglar]

and more embarrassing


and more costly

[paul jones]

I went to a wedding yesterday, it was the most powerful and emotional wedding I have ever witnessed and there were no priests or religion involved.

It was a huge gathering of friends and family in a really nice garden on a private estate and we spent the night dancing and celebrating their relationship, they made their own vows and free styled them in front of everyone with nothing but tealight's lite around them.

fuck it ruled, after 6 years of being together they didnt want a piece of paper or any legal bindings...
but, they wanted a day to celebrate their commitment to one another.

Now that is love, and it will last.
I dont believe in marriage, nor do 80% of my friends....


that's how I want to get married (y)

[monkey]

i like the idea of one day celebrating love in front of our families. not for the religious aspects, cause i dont care. but for the beauty of it, the idea of what marriage means... it's like a tradition im not willing to give up. i think it would be a lovely little thing to have a party celebrating me and my partner.

if my grandfather was alive, i would have a more traditional ceremony. now, i just want a little party, cake, and a pretty non-wedding dress. and candy. loads of candy.

ahhh marriage. i dont mind so much knowing that relationships have expiration dates. i would love to be able to spend 15-20 years with a man and then amicably part ways because we grew to be different people. it happens.

[hpdrifter]

seriously?


that's the worst thing. some people prod us a little because we live together. that's the last thing i need. if anything, that would turn me off marriage. why would i do it for anyone other than myself and my partner?


Yeah people used to do that to me and my fiance too. Especially my mom. It sucks and its hard to ignore it.

[yeahwho]

Yeah people used to do that to me and my fiance too. Especially my mom. It sucks and its hard to ignore it.

They prodded you?

[Kid Presentable]

A lot of people get married because it's the only way they can fuck their significant other without Iron Man smashing a fist the size of a Humvee throught their roof.

[yeahwho]

all marriage does is make it harder to break up

and more embarrassing

and more costly

I sense a new board couple on the horizon.

[TurdBerglar]

i've already shown bob the horizon

[Auton]

i've always thought the whole stick-it-to-the-man-we'll-show-you-by-not-getting-married thing was really, really silly.

I mean, if you don't want to get married, hey that's fine. but saying "i don't need to sign some papers to show our commitment" is some really stupid reasoning. why do you even care what the government itself thinks? obviously you do because you'd rather make a point than showing your love and devotion to the one you love. i mean i dont care about the state recognizing my marriage, the reason i want to get married is to put into action what my future wife already knows- that i want to spend the rest of my life with her. i guess it's just my way of wanting to put my money where my mouth is. to me marriage is more of a symbol of love than anything else, and i think that's great.

that being said, i am not planning on getting married until i am in my late twenties. i want to be a grown-up going into it and i don't want to marry a kid... those kids of mormon kids cosmo was talking about, by the way... they are the butt of the jokes other mormons say. one of my best friends is getting married and she's only 19. i think she's absolutely crazy. the end.

[TurdBerglar]

getting married just seems like a waste of time which goes against my beliefs in the religion on lazyness

[fucktopgirl]

the religion of lazyness!
haha
yes eating hot pocket and playing xbox would be the fondation of this religion :D

[TurdBerglar]

smokeing weed and fucking around on the net is also a fundemental corner stone

[fucktopgirl]

i dont smoke weed all the time!

and i am far from lazy!

[QueenAdrock]

I know where Cosmo's coming from...though I do want to get married someday, and I do want to have a big celebration. It's not to rub it in other people's faces, but because there's certain days that are YOUR days, to feel special and relish the attention lavished upon you from friends and family. One is your birthday. Another is your wedding day. It's true you don't need a wedding to announce your love, but it's also like saying your children don't need a party to celebrate their birthday. No one needs it, it's just a fun time and I'm definitely looking forward to it.

It sounds like Cosmo's getting the whole "When are you getting married" shit which gets REALLY annoying REALLY fast. Whenever people hear that Wayne and I have been together for 4 and a half years, it's "When are you getting married?" First off, I DON'T KNOW. I'm the chick, and I'm not about to ask him to marry me, because I'm old-fashioned like that. Second of all, WHAT THE FUCK DOES IT MATTER. I don't see why this society has so much pressure to marry. It's like, if you've been with someone for a long time, or it's seen as getting serious, people can't handle seeing that. They can't see people being serious about each other without having a rock on their finger. I'm not ready to get married now, I'm only 22, I want to wait until I have money so I can afford my wedding and honeymoon.

I hate the pressure. Can't we just be boyfriend and girlfriend and be left in peace?

[Kid Presentable]

I'm getting married. Felt no pressure. She makes me breakfast.

A woman goodly enough to put up with me is a keeper. :cool:

[QueenAdrock]

No pressure? You're obviously not friends with Mormons.

Last wedding of a friend I went to, it was just "GETMARRIEDGETMARRIEDGETMARRIEDGETMARRIED" every which way I turned. I almost wanted to scream at them "I DON'T NEED TO GET MARRIED TO ENJOY SEX, THANKS!" But that'd be inappropriate. :(

[fucktopgirl]

i will never get married but i will fight to be with my man no matter what!

i dont think you really need a wedding day in life to be happy!But my bf and i know that we kinda start going out around halloween in98,so that help us to keep the count!my parent are together for 30 years,6 kids.they never get married and he did not change a damn thing!

its really a personal matter,desire!AT the end its does not matter if you where married or not,its the love that was and is there that is important!

[Auton]

No pressure? You're obviously not friends with Mormons.

Last wedding of a friend I went to, it was just "GETMARRIEDGETMARRIEDGETMARRIEDGETMARRIED" every which way I turned. I almost wanted to scream at them "I DON'T NEED TO GET MARRIED TO ENJOY SEX, THANKS!" But that'd be inappropriate. :(

yeah, im mormon and let me tell you i absolutely hate your guts now that i know you're not getting married :rolleyes:

please. half of my friends are in long term sex-filled relationships and they aren't married. do i care? no.

[QueenAdrock]

Yeah, because I said they hated me, and didn't use the term "My mormon FRIENDS." It has nothing to do with hatred, it has to do with them sticking their noses where it doesn't belong because they feel like it's their place to force their marriage beliefs on everyone else.

Good for you that you're not like that, but go to my local ward and try to convince them that it's okay for people to have relationships without marriage. 80% of them will tell you that it's not.

[cosmo105]

i like Auton's ideas. Ed, you're such a Vulcan. so logical. and yeah, the older brother of the one that got married a while back does not approve one bit. he got married recently too, but he's much older and quite a bit wiser and more experienced.

i do want a big party with my family and friends to celebrate the union of me and matt in front of them and the joining of our families...and i guess i can understand wanting to show the committment to others. i don't know, it's a big confusing thing and man am i glad we're waiting a few years. but i don't think i want a big boring pompous ceremony where everybody's yawning by the end. i want something like my brother's wedding, where it was traditional to some extent but more about the love between the two of them and the party afterward was bumpin'. i'd like something outdoors, in the cheap showiness of nature.

and i definitely don't want to have kids until i'm much older. even 29 even sounds too young.

mike - to me it says you're a stallion, a man of valor and truth that i could always count on to help me out in a sticky situation.

[DandyFop]

I don't know, Ed, soooooooooooo soooooo many of the mormons I know have done the exact formula - Guy goes on his mission for 2 years, gets back, meets chick, is married within 5 or 6 months. It's sad around here, some girls, if they aren't married by 21 they wig the fuck out! I've see it many times. Then, they go on a mission and get married when they get back. Whatever floats your boat man, but "true love" and "man I wanna fuck but need to do it legally in God's eyes" seem dangerously close in these parts.

Anyway, I have no clue what I want. I'm not going to worry about it at this moment. If I meet someone that i Know is right, I will marry them and have kids and all that jazz. But I don't have any deadline or anything.

I wish there wasn't so much religious hullaballo around all of it but I guess that can't be helped.

p.s. cosmo love the joni quote

[ms.peachy]

I'm getting married. Felt no pressure. She makes me breakfast.

A woman goodly enough to put up with me is a keeper. :cool:

LOL you sound like mr.p.

He says he knew that I was the girl he was going to marry the morning after the first night I slept with him, when I got up and made him pancakes. He figured, "sex and pancakes - it's just not going to get any better than this, now is it?"

[Kid Presentable]

LOL you sound like mr.p.

He says he knew that I was the girl he was going to marry the morning after the first night I slept with him, when I got up and made him pancakes. He figured, "sex and pancakes - it's just not going to get any better than this, now is it?"

Yeah, word to that.

I'm all about sex, Pancakes and a hot cup of coffee. (y)

[Knuckles]

Yeah, word to that.

I'm all about sex, Pancakes and a hot cup of coffee. (y)
Amen

[hpdrifter]

They prodded you?

Oh yeah. It was really frustrating. My mom is an italian catholic and I think it disturbed her that we lived in sin. But we got it from everyone, his friends, my friends, both of our families. Ane we weren't even friends with a lot of mormons. People started calling me the wife and Mrs. right away. I know they think they're being funny but its really inappropriate.

[Echewta]

Divorce online! SAVE MONEY AND TIME!

[venusvenus123]

[cosmo105]

? is that your form of protesting this thread, venus? huh? huh? *shove*

i want a skydiving KISS ceremony, and instead of doves, we'll release penguins with little parachutes. The Rock will officiate.

[BangkokB]

Marriage is a big business sham

When Mint and I got married we went to the place of her choosing and had some derelict Aussie neither of us knew as a witness and by the powers vested in me I declared us Man and Wife. I wrote it in the Bible and that was that.

5 years later, still rocking and rolling

[hpdrifter]

? is that your form of protesting this thread, venus? huh? huh? *shove*

i want a skydiving KISS ceremony, and instead of doves, we'll release penguins with little parachutes. The Rock will officiate.

When I was engaged I wanted to get married in Vegas wearing a Led Zeppelin t-shirt and leather pants. My fiance didn't go for it.

[venusvenus123]

? is that your form of protesting this thread, venus? huh? huh? *shove*

i want a skydiving KISS ceremony, and instead of doves, we'll release penguins with little parachutes. The Rock will officiate.
oh, haha no! not at all!

i'll talk to you about it later. xx :cool:

edit: maybe i'll repost what i said later. but i just changed my mind... like a typical woman :rolleyes:

[DandyFop]

LOL you sound like mr.p.

He says he knew that I was the girl he was going to marry the morning after the first night I slept with him, when I got up and made him pancakes. He figured, "sex and pancakes - it's just not going to get any better than this, now is it?"

Does this mean I should learn how to make pancakes...

[ms.peachy]

Does this mean I should learn how to make pancakes...

Couldn't hurt. Men are essentially simple creatures, at the end of the day. (http://www.worldnewsstand.net/4fun/EngineersView.htm)

[Bob]

i'd object to that, but...i'm currently too busy thinking about pancakes

[fucktopgirl]

i think that is pretty acurate!

hard,soft,hard ,soft :D

[yeahwho]

Oh yeah. It was really frustrating. My mom is an italian catholic and I think it disturbed her that we lived in sin. But we got it from everyone, his friends, my friends, both of our families. Ane we weren't even friends with a lot of mormons. People started calling me the wife and Mrs. right away. I know they think they're being funny but its really inappropriate.

I used to always get the "go around" in Ballard 24/7, I'd be the first to get married and the last one to stop getting high.......HA! :D , I was the only sober one at their weddings :D ...and a few divorces :( .

Your a trooper hpdrifter, from here on out you set the tone and deliver the pressure! I'm always highly suspect of other peoples "morality" being imposed on my life, especially when it's my relationship, not theirs. Let them know you are you, not somebody else's!

My mom is so different than your mom it's amazing, my mom rolls with the punches and never prods or prys, which makes talking to her so much easier.

Hopefully your mom will backup when you break the next guys heart. ;)

[g-mile7]

i've always thought the whole stick-it-to-the-man-we'll-show-you-by-not-getting-married thing was really, really silly.

I mean, if you don't want to get married, hey that's fine. but saying "i don't need to sign some papers to show our commitment" is some really stupid reasoning. why do you even care what the government itself thinks? obviously you do because you'd rather make a point than showing your love and devotion to the one you love. i mean i dont care about the state recognizing my marriage, the reason i want to get married is to put into action what my future wife already knows- that i want to spend the rest of my life with her. i guess it's just my way of wanting to put my money where my mouth is. to me marriage is more of a symbol of love than anything else, and i think that's great.

that being said, i am not planning on getting married until i am in my late twenties. i want to be a grown-up going into it and i don't want to marry a kid... those kids of mormon kids cosmo was talking about, by the way... they are the butt of the jokes other mormons say. one of my best friends is getting married and she's only 19. i think she's absolutely crazy. the end.



preach'

[Qdrop]

really though, marriage. what's the deal? why is it such a big thing? it's just a social construct. that serves a very important psychological and cultural need.

i guess i like the idea of both people entering in a contract, a committment, a promise...but i don't understand why it's made out to be the end-all, be-all of existence for adults. it stems from our evolutionary roots....the mating/monogomy game that is responsible for our survival.

and why some are so afraid of it...yet some jump at the chance to go into it. the reasons are as numerous as the starts. genes and environment to be general.


what is the general consensus about what marriage means?
it's an intentionally big, visual spectacle that illicits very powerful and deeply emotional parts of the brain, in both those getting married and those witnessing it.
just like a funeral. or barmitzva...or any tradtional group ritual.

the act and the spectacle work to generate deeper emotions than just looking at each other and saying "hey, let's never break up..ok?".
it's a culturally and socially important ritual.

it's much more than just a piece of paper.
ask ANYONE who has ever gotten married in a ceremonious way.

[hpdrifter]

I used to always get the "go around" in Ballard 24/7, I'd be the first to get married and the last one to stop getting high.......HA! :D , I was the only sober one at their weddings :D ...and a few divorces :( .

Your a trooper hpdrifter, from here on out you set the tone and deliver the pressure! I'm always highly suspect of other peoples "morality" being imposed on my life, especially when it's my relationship, not theirs. Let them know you are you, not somebody else's!

My mom is so different than your mom it's amazing, my mom rolls with the punches and never prods or prys, which makes talking to her so much easier.

Hopefully your mom will backup when you break the next guys heart. ;)

My mom has refused to meet any more of my boyfriends. She claims that she gets too attached to them. What a queen.

Yeah, my best friend from childhood is a mormon and I know she doesn't mean to but when she talks to me about my "lifestyle" (28, not married, dating, drinking, not owning a home and so on) I know she doesn't get it.

Ironically the thing I get the most crap about these days from my friends and family is my pet situation. I hear about it from my sister because no one would dare say anything about it to my face.

Its so wierd to have someone write "Ballard" in a post. Ha, Ballardnugen! High fivin' white guys!

Seattleites unite!

[hpdrifter]

^

I agree with Qdrop.

(I am as surprised as you folks)

[Auton]

I don't know, Ed, soooooooooooo soooooo many of the mormons I know have done the exact formula

are we talking about utah mormons?

[roosta]

I personally am not sure how I feel about marriage. I want kids and I don't want them to be bastard sons/daughters...but paying a heaping pile of money for something that might happen two or three times in my life is not sounding so fun.

what a horribly antiquated fucked up notion.

my nephew and niece are not bastards.

its the 21st century

[Kid Presentable]

what a horribly antiquated fucked up notion.

my nephew and niece are not bastards.

its the 21st century

Yeah we got twin bastard niece and nephew. That concept is fucking ridiculous. Bastardry is nothing compared to coming from imbecile parents in the first place.

I don't want kids until I'm about 32. I'm honest enough to admit I'd only resent a baby at this point, for changing the course of my life. I don't want to be a bitter parent; I guess I had one. Given that accidents may happen, we'll just see what goes on.

The marriage thing is completely appropriate for us. We're not too young, we love each other. And it's not based on any fairy tale 'Eyes of God' shit, it's actually one instance where it isn't a spiritual obligation.

Cosmo's ideas for her ceremony are patently ridiculous. She should fling plucked chickens for pillowcases instead of releasing doves. And if you want The Rock there, be prepared for HBK to interrupt. They're going to fight at Wrestlemania, and I doubt they'd have qualms with warming the crowd up on your special day.

Just Sayin.

[little j]

marriage is good.

i've been to ballard!!!

ummm....i hope im married one day...just to be married to have a husband and to make babies.

it'll be fun.

you're all invited, but you have to buy a gift.

ok

[iceygirl]

to be honest we got married because i needed to get on his hinsurhance

we had been together for 6 years at the time and were 'married' to each other long before we made it legal


insurance and tax reasonas are good

and a lot more complicated stuff than that too

[ToucanSpam]

Yeah we got twin bastard niece and nephew. That concept is fucking ridiculous. Bastardry is nothing compared to coming from imbecile parents in the first place.

Yeah, there's a huge pile of idiots in this world. There's about 10 in this thread alone!

[cosmo105]

Yeah, there's a huge pile of idiots in this world. There's about 10 in this thread alone!
really though, the whole "i don't want my kids to be bastards" thing is pretty backwards and needlessly derogatory.

[like2_drink]

cosmo, i have no clue what to tell you, but i do want to say this. while reading the thread-opener, i ate my cereal real fast, i think it means i found it interesting.

[roosta]

really though, the whole "i don't want my kids to be bastards" thing is pretty backwards and needlessly derogatory.

yup

anything to say Toucan?

[alexandra]

while reading the thread-opener, i ate my cereal real fast, i think it means i found it interesting.
hahahha.

[Kid Presentable]

I want to play a song for the other one. I don't know if you can do a dedication at your own wedding. The DJ would say: "Man, you got her! You don't need to do a dedication!"

I'd play 'Thank You' for her, and make sure she listened.

oh snap: what if he played 'Heartbreaker' instead? :eek:

[hpdrifter]

I want to play a song for the other one. I don't know if you can do a dedication at your own wedding. The DJ would say: "Man, you got her! You don't need to do a dedication!"

I'd play 'Thank You' for her, and make sure she listened.

oh snap: what if he played 'Heartbreaker' instead? :eek:

Led Zeppelin Thank You or Alanis Morisette Thank You or....?

[Qdrop]

^

I agree with Qdrop.

(I am as surprised as you folks)

i bet that happens more often than you admit.

[Kid Presentable]

Led Zeppelin Thank You or Alanis Morisette Thank You or....?

Alanis Morisette did one?

Was it before Coulier fucked her over?

[Sinistar]

I dated my wife for 7 years & we broke up 2.5 times. I dated a handful of crazy broads in our off-time and realized that I should probably lock up the best one for me before I get any uglier. Marriage in my eyes is an official promise to live the rest of your life as partners in crime. I think it's a good tradition.

[Kid Presentable]

I dated my wife for 7 years & we broke up 2.5 times. I dated a handful of crazy broads in our off-time and realized that I should probably lock up the best one for me before I get any uglier. Marriage in my eyes is an official promise to live the rest of your life as partners in crime. I think it's a good tradition.

I agree with the Quintesson.

[hpdrifter]

Alanis Morisette did one?

Was it before Coulier fucked her over?

Unfortunately.

Not sure where the Coulier falls in the timeline. *shudder*