Hmmm treading in dangerous waters?

[ToucanSpam]

Okay so here's the situation. I've fallen for one of my good friend's ex, who also happens to be a good friend. We've been hanging out a lot and it's quite awsome, I noticed both of us smiling a lot more and it seems like something is different (more playful/flirty).


My question to you people is this: it's been three months since they broke up, is it too soon, should I take things slow, am I up shit creek without a paddle?

If DandyFop can ask for advice I can too.

[paul jones]

take her for a slap up feast at Burger King (y)

[kleptomaniac]

who broke up with whom?
guess she broke up with him right?

[TurdBerglar]

fuck her and punch your friend in the face

[paul jones]

make sure you buy her extra onion rings, always impresses the ladies ;) (y)

[hpdrifter]

I don't know, I can't speak from experience because none of my friends have ever dated someone I had broken up with. I'd like to think I'd be able to accept it but you never know. I guess it depends on the circumstances of their break up.

[paul jones]

fuck her and punch your friend in the face

yeah,then Burger King

[TurdBerglar]

then back to fucking

[ToucanSpam]

he broke up with her. It was a two year thing.



Also, a bunch of us went to BK and bought the new Star Wars toys....before you say anything it wasn't my idea...

[roosta]

Never, ever shit on another mans doorstep.

You don't go after a friends ex. End of. Unless he thinks she's a complete cunt and couldnt care less.

[paul jones]

fuck her with some Star Wars toys

[kleptomaniac]

he broke up with her. It was a two year thing.

if he broke up with her...what's the problem? he's not over her or something? :confused:




meh i'm not good with relationship advice :rolleyes:

[ToucanSpam]

You don't go after a friends ex. End of.


Unless he thinks she's a complete cunt and couldnt care less.


Done.

[Bob]

Never, ever shit on another mans doorstep.

You don't go after a friends ex. End of. Unless he thinks she's a complete cunt and couldnt care less.

correct! haven't you ever seen seinfeld? what's wrong with you, don't do it. even i know better than that.

[ToucanSpam]

fuck her with some Star Wars toys
You sonofabitch, you got some good ideas.

[TurdBerglar]

roosta. tell him to go jump of a bridge or something. maybe he'll listen to you again.

[roosta]

Toucan, jump in the bath with a toaster plugged in (y)

[paul jones]

You sonofabitch, you got some good ideas.

thanks! yeah Darth Vader's head looks like a penis

[paul jones]

Toucan, jump in the bath with a toaster plugged in (y)


I got a new toaster today. It's a futuristic one where you can put loads of bread in at one time. The sort of toaster Darth Vader would have

[TurdBerglar]

Toucan, jump in the bath with a toaster plugged in (y)


and just don't leave the toaster in the kitchen you retard. you got to bring that shit with you into the tub.

and oh yeah. put some water in the tub too

[TurdBerglar]

I got a new toaster today. It's a futuristic one where you can put loads of bread in at one time. The sort of toaster Darth Vader would have


i had a toaster once that you could put four peices of bread in it. it loved it

[paul jones]

i had a toaster once that you could put four peices of bread in it. it loved it

that's what mine can do ,4 pieces

also it does other stuff that I haven't worked out yet (y)

[TurdBerglar]

technological toasters (y)

[roosta]

my current toaster can just about handle two slices, it was bought for style purposes.

wankstains. a toaster is there to make LOTS OF FUCKING TOAST, not look good.

[paul jones]

I just read I can do Bagels in it!!!!!!!!!! (y)

[Kid Presentable]

Sounds like you need an umbrella and some vinegar in a bottle.

Get an old bike and ride around the local shopping centre shouting: "I know, fuck ya! It's ok! I'm alright!". You want to be getting as red in the face as you can.

Then lay down in a park and see how many kids think you're dead.

[TurdBerglar]

what

[Tzar]

Sounds like you need an umbrella and some vinegar in a bottle.

Get an old bike and ride around the local shopping centre shouting: "I know, fuck ya! It's ok! I'm alright!". You want to be getting as red in the face as you can.

Then lay down in a park and see how many kids think you're dead.
pahahah WHAT THE HELL!?

[QueenAdrock]

My friend and I have the theory that one should never go after a friend's ex, even if they broke it off in good terms, just because they're tainted goods. I mean, if I made out with a guy that went out with my friend for 2 years all I could think of would be "Ew, my mouth is on a guy's mouth that was on my best friend's vagina."

[Freebasser]

Go on...

*raises eyebrow*

[ToucanSpam]

You know, pretty much everybody's somebodies ex.


Plus, your responce pissed me off Queen. Not that it was wrong, but because I don't want that to be what I think....I guess that alone shows how I feel.

[Documad]

It's fun watching guys give other guys advice.


Then QA came along to ruin it. :rolleyes: :)

[Bob]

You know, pretty much everybody's somebodies ex.


yeah, but they're not all your friend's ex. and if you're just referring to the "ew" factor that queen mentioned i think that's a retarded reason not to date somebody (sorry queen but seriously, what the hell). it's like "ewwww, someone else's mouth has been on this vagina (that urine comes out of), gross!"

[TurdBerglar]

urine doesn't come out the vagina

[fucktopgirl]

no, urine come from the urethra!

[TurdBerglar]

somebody pays attention

[QueenAdrock]

You know, pretty much everybody's somebodies ex.


Plus, your responce pissed me off Queen. Not that it was wrong, but because I don't want that to be what I think....I guess that alone shows how I feel.

Sorry. Didn't mean to piss you off, just sayin' that's what I'd be thinking. It'd be different (for me at least) if it was a friend than a random stranger, because I see the friend all the time, and it'd be a constant reminder that they fooled around together. Plus, I like to talk about guys I date with my girlfriends. Nothing would be creepier than to say "He does this awesome thing where he..." and my friend piping up "Yeah I know!"

As for the whole everyone being someone else's ex thing, yeah, that's true in the dating world, unless you've been dating since you both were virgins.

[Monsieur Decuts]

You know, pretty much everybody's somebodies ex.


especially in cape breton. if your buddy was any kind a friend he'd understand. its hard to mate in the maritimes. and if that doesn't work convince her to go three way and knock him out with a phone before it gets started.

[Bob]

urine doesn't come out the vagina

whatever, my point is there are things about the vagina that are more disgusting than the fact that somebody's mouth might have been there, but that doesn't seem to stop anyone, so this "tainted goods" business is pretty retarded...unless that someone had mouth herpes or something, then it's pretty gross.

[roosta]

so, general concensus is, don't do it.

you don't go for a friends ex. thats it. move on.

[ToucanSpam]

Sorry. Didn't mean to piss you off, just sayin' that's what I'd be thinking. It'd be different (for me at least) if it was a friend than a random stranger, because I see the friend all the time, and it'd be a constant reminder that they fooled around together. Plus, I like to talk about guys I date with my girlfriends. Nothing would be creepier than to say "He does this awesome thing where he..." and my friend piping up "Yeah I know!"

As for the whole everyone being someone else's ex thing, yeah, that's true in the dating world, unless you've been dating since you both were virgins.
Ahhhhhhhhhh. Alright.


Hahaha I'm not pissed at you , I was pissed at your answer because it wasn't what I wanted to hear...

[Junker]

Ahhhhhhhhhh. Alright.


Hahaha I'm not pissed at you , I was pissed at your answer because it wasn't what I wanted to hear...

Ok! I think you wanna hear: "Go on dude! they broke up.....it wasnt your fault..............thats not a wrong thing dating her. "

At least that what I would do

[Qdrop]

Never, ever shit on another mans doorstep.

You don't go after a friends ex. End of. Unless he thinks she's a complete cunt and couldnt care less.

steer clear, toucs...

don't do it.

besides, don't you "fall" for someone differant every month?
just wait a month and you'll be on to the next...

[Praying Mantis]

if you do decide to do something just as a courtesy let your friend, her ex, know what your up to. Don't let him find out about it on the sly. He will feel Punked.

[monkey]

someone used "punked" as a real-life verb! it is a sad day.


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ok.. patt...no. there are rules. maybe 4 years from now, you might be able to date her, but now? noooooooooooooo. it's a bad bad bad idea.

[DandyFop]

The answer is, ask your friend. Even though he's a man and will probably act like it's okay either way, you should be able to tell.

That's tricky stuff there. We all dated in circles in high school but it was never a big deal. A two year relationship though, I know if one of my friends dated my ex (we went out for 2 years) it would mostly just be really fucking weird.

[Lex Diamonds]

This girl I like used to be fuckin one of my most hated individuals, but the thought of his dick bein in there didnt stop me goin up in it. (y)

[DIGI]

steer clear, toucs...

don't do it.

besides, don't you "fall" for someone differant every month?
just wait a month and you'll be on to the next...

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[CiaoBellaXO]

Never, ever shit on another mans doorstep.

You don't go after a friends ex. End of. Unless he thinks she's a complete cunt and couldnt care less.

agreed. TS-you dont want sloppy seconds.

[DIGI]

Wait a minute. What was I thinking? It's Toucan.

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[ToucanSpam]

Wait a minute. What was I thinking? It's Toucan.

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HOURLY.


You know what I'm going to do. Wait to see if this is even worthwhile, then ask my friend how he'd feel about it. I mean, if he's not cool with it, I won't. No harm done?


Also, I should point out that he's already ploughing someone else thoroughly.