Deal Breakers lol

[The Notorious LOL]

name some. relationships/friendships, either or.


Id say:

racist/subtle racist tendencies, closed Mindedness, extreme passive-agressiveness, horrible BO, unsightly ugliness.

[DandyFop]

someone who can't effectivley communicate
dishonesty
no patience

someone who pulls halfway through crosswalks while waiting for a red light. That drives me insane.

ignorance

[guerillaGardner]

someone who can't effectivley communicate


Homer Simpson's angle on relationships:

"The problem in the world today is communication. Too much communication".

As regards my relationship the only deal breaker I can think of is infidelity. Otherwise I'm in it through thick and thin. She did push it recently when she talked of joining the British National Party, but she was winding me up.

[roosta]

being able to take a joke. they have to be able to take a slagging.

[Lex Diamonds]

People who smoke/drink. :mad: (n)

[Extra Cheese]

catholics

[roosta]

catholics

they have to be or they cant be!?

[HEIRESS]

I wouldnt abide by

racism
excessive drug use
hard core religious values
someone who didnt think I was muthafukkin hilarious

[Echewta]

Any girl who says "Lets do this. I'm a cashew."

[Loppfessor]

I don't like hangin with dudes who don't know how to dress or talk to women....I guess it's not a deal breaker though cus I always wind up being friends with them anyway

[fucktopgirl]

close minded people
taking themselve too seriously
constipation
too much concern about their self images(clothes,,,,)
dishonnesty
chichen shit(afraid of their own shadow)

[instigator7022]

Any girl who says "Lets do this. I'm a cashew."

^Dane cook haha

Anyone who half way through a conversation pulls out a bandana and wraps it around their head

[synch]

I don't like hangin with dudes who don't know how to dress or talk to women....
I'm not good at dressing women, I prefer women who dress themselves.

[Bob]

suicide bombers

total turn-off

[Freebasser]

I dunno, Bob.

The element of danger/getting caught is kinda hot...

[synch]

I think the ticking noise would be too distracting, wouldn't be able to, ehm, concentrate.

[Freebasser]

Nah, it'd create a nice sense of rhythm. Something to work with - kinda like a metronome.

[synch]

Gee whiz, they don't use cooking timers then?

[SobaViolence]

not liking Bob Marley

i met the first person who knew of him and still didn't like his music. i had no clue people like that existed.

i mean, what the fuck?! everyone who hears Bob Marley loves Bob Marley, it's a Universal constant. :confused:

[The Notorious LOL]

I dont find anything particularly amazing about bob marley.


oh yeah, AIDS would be a problem. I dont think that one would fly with me.

[Monsieur Decuts]

nipple hair and berrets

[QueenAdrock]

There was this cute guy sitting next to me in history, but then that whole idea of him being attractive went away when I saw his nails. They were gross. He chewed them so badly they were UNDER the white part, and he still jammed his stubby little nails into his mouth and tried chewing more off, like he wouldn't be satisfied until he's completely gnawed them off.

That was probably the biggest turn-off EVER. I'd never date someone who had a nail-biting problem that bad. (n)

[Loppfessor]

I'm not good at dressing women, I prefer women who dress themselves.


excellent point my friend

[DipDipDive]

Loudness, substance abuse issues, obnoxiously in your face attempted charm, racism, egotism, dishonesty, and lack of personal identity. Oh and complacence. People with no opinions suck.

OH AND

Dane Cook fans.

[monkey]

stupids, people who dont brush their teeth, people without a hobby, people whose hobby includes drinking massive amounts of 40's, conceited bitches and know-it-alls, people that talk like they're 3, people that dont read. oh, and most people under the age of 17 that act like they're 28.

[TurdBerglar]

why the fuck do you hang out wiht people under 17?

[monkey]

im a pedophile. and theyre everywhere, it seems.

[TurdBerglar]

there you go

[DandyFop]

There was this cute guy sitting next to me in history, but then that whole idea of him being attractive went away when I saw his nails. They were gross. He chewed them so badly they were UNDER the white part, and he still jammed his stubby little nails into his mouth and tried chewing more off, like he wouldn't be satisfied until he's completely gnawed them off.

That was probably the biggest turn-off EVER. I'd never date someone who had a nail-biting problem that bad. (n)

That's me. My nails are so gross, I'm ashamed of them.

[QueenAdrock]

I realized a new one today.

Arrogance. God how I hate arrogance. Especially when it's unjustified.

[Freebasser]

Brett insisted that his record collection was better than yours, huh? :(

[skra75]

peeing in the shower
fast, high pitched talking
homophobic remarks that are not jokes but are serious
girls that like George Bush
white socks/disregard to socks
hate video games
hate star wars
hate gi-joe
hate transformers
can't dance
incessant political talking

[QueenAdrock]

Brett insisted that his record collection was better than yours, huh? :(

Well, that goes without saying. :p

Nah, talking about a guy who used to like me and thought we were dating even though we only went on a few dates and he was absolutely shocked to find out I didn't want to seriously date him. He then found out I started dating another guy abd still hits on me and thinks it'll go somewhere and he asked me why NOT him. He was and is completely stunned that I wasn't attracted to him and didn't want to date him. It's several things, but in large part, his arrogance. (n)

[Genocide Tulips]

For relationships with guys, the stereotypical male. So many guys buy into it. Oh and excessive nerdiness. As well as dishonesty, inconsideration and infidelity.

For friendships with girls, the stereotypical girl. And any girl that thinks Dane Cook is funny and/or cute.

[The Notorious LOL]

And any girl that thinks Dane Cook is funny and/or cute.



+100 illmatic points.

[icy manipulator]

girls who are excessively insecure
really bad tastes in music
people who try to push their beliefs onto me
people who talk excessively about relationship problems
christians and jews

[Genocide Tulips]

lvl up

[Genocide Tulips]

really bad tastes in music
people who try to push their beliefs onto me


These two are big ones as well for me.

[Loppfessor]

These two are big ones as well for me.

what about guys who dry hump you in your sleep?

[kll]

name some. relationships/friendships, either or.

horrible BO, unsightly ugliness.

i don't believe that the two above would've ever lead to a relationship to begin with, so there wouldn't be a deal to break...

once in relationship, what would actually have me kick him to the curb without looking back (nor taking him back) would be:

cheating, physical or emotional abuse, drug use aside from the marijuana, priority change where he no longer wanted or cared to work on our relationship


deal breakers for a friendship:
betrayal, boring times with nothing in common, unsupportive/self-absorbed

[Genocide Tulips]

what about guys who dry hump you in your sleep?

I shove needles into the slit of the penis when they sleep.

[trailerprincess]

Fussy eaters
People who don't respect privacy/personal choices
People who litter and/or don't recycle what they can
Someone who can't just be silly when they feel like it.
People who hate travelling and would never leave their own country.

[QueenAdrock]

^A big fat yes to all of the above.

[Genocide Tulips]

Fussy eaters


Why fussy eaters? I know it limits the places to go out and eat, but it really shouldn't be held against them. At least most of them.

Does it annoy anyone hearing couples looking at each others cell phone and reading miss calls, text messages, dialed numbers and such? I dislike that a lot.

[QueenAdrock]

I'd say fussy eaters because I love just saying "Let's go get this" and them saying okay. I hate having to deal with fussy eaters and have to take that into consideration when I go to the store or go out to eat.

Plus, I likes me a man who can eat. It's only held against them in the dating world, where I can be as specific and picky as I want to be. :p

[trailerprincess]

The fussy eaters I know tend to be really fussy about lots of other things and can be quite annoying.

[skra75]

I realized a new one today.

Arrogance. God how I hate arrogance. Especially when it's unjustified.

I can't help it that I'm so handsome and charming.

[QueenAdrock]

True. Just don't mention it every 2 minutes and stare at yourself in a mirror and you'll be fine.

[skra75]

fuck. I do both of those things. I guess we can't be together. :(

[QueenAdrock]

*breaks up with skra*

[abcdefz]

*checks hair in mirror*

[beastieangel01]

apparently, I have a lot.


- arrogance
- those who are overly apathetic
- excessive drug use, definitely a deal breaker
- racism
- closed mindness/unwilling to try, listen to, etc new things
- someone who doesn't like the Beatles (how much you like them doesn't matter, but NOT liking them at all? wtf? are you insane? they are amazing. whatever), and someone who doesn't like the Beastie Boys ahaha
- generally mean, jealous, and/or negative spirited
- those who take themselves and life FAR too seriously (learn to laugh sometimes, yo), which goes in hand with a lack of humor
- republican :)
- extreme religious beliefs
- unwilling to be adventurous in bed (just sayin)
- drives an extremely large SUV or truck just for looks (in San Diego, haaa that's a lot of men)
- doesn't want to play video games with me
- doesn't want to watch zombie movies with me
- doesn't want to go to shows with me
- sets no goals for their life what-so-ever

[Genocide Tulips]

apparently, I have a lot.


- arrogance
- those who are overly apathetic
- excessive drug use, definitely a deal breaker
- racism
- closed mindness/unwilling to try, listen to, etc new things
- someone who doesn't like the Beatles (how much you like them doesn't matter, but NOT liking them at all? wtf? are you insane? they are amazing. whatever), and someone who doesn't like the Beastie Boys ahaha
- generally mean, jealous, and/or negative spirited
- those who take themselves and life FAR too seriously (learn to laugh sometimes, yo), which goes in hand with a lack of humor
- republican :)
- extreme religious beliefs
- unwilling to be adventurous in bed (just sayin)
- drives an extremely large SUV or truck just for looks (in San Diego, haaa that's a lot of men)
- doesn't want to play video games with me
- doesn't want to watch zombie movies with me
- doesn't want to go to shows with me
- sets no goals for their life what-so-ever

How's your luck with men?

And I'm asking seriously without being mean or poking fun since this is a good list.

[beastieangel01]

so far, I guess there are men that have liked me but this list has become longer the more I have experience. Be it past relationships or just speaking with new men.

let me get back to you in about 6 months then I can answer honestly about my luck with men.
:/ haha

[b i o n i c]

that beatles one is key!

[ET]

Besides a bunch of previously mentioned ones, girls that have a bigger gut that I do.

There aren't many. :( :)

[Dorothy Wood]

people that rely on me for validation and happiness
people that don't think I'm funny
bad taste in music
bad pants

[b i o n i c]

definately no...

- someone who
- someone who doesnt NEEED to eat healthy and be fit
- one who doesnt like/get rock/rap
- one with no sense of asthetics
- laziness
- one who doesnt take care
- bad taste in clothes
- temper problems, even someone who yells regularly even just a little isnt for me
- one who treats other people as disposable
- one who doesnt get along with their family
- one who doesnt have life long friends (unless there's a good reason like moving a lot in childhood)
- one who has issues with sex


thats all i can think of right now

[Genocide Tulips]

Guys who don't shave that bit of beardhair on their adam's apple. I remember when i was in college one of the cooks had this spot on the adams apple area that he didnt shave and it was disturbing as fucking hell.

[QueenAdrock]

The dentist I work for has a two random hairs on his beard that are abnormally long (mind you, he's clean shaven otherwise). Like, probably 2 inches. They're super-distracting. (n)

[Justin]

Narrow minded people

[beastiegirrl101]

are people with kids deal breakers to ya'll? I'm kinda on the fence with this one.

[kll]

are people with kids deal breakers to ya'll? I'm kinda on the fence with this one.
my b/f has a 7-year-old daughter. when i first found out, i was a bit taken aback. i probably will never have my own kids, so i'm ok with it.

[QueenAdrock]

are people with kids deal breakers to ya'll? I'm kinda on the fence with this one.

At this point in my life, yes. Because I want to travel with my boyfriend for a while before I get married and that just won't work out with a guy with kids. Maybe if it was later on in my life.

[SobaViolence]

does anyone just keep new acquaintances a bit distant to properly judge how you feel about them?

i do, and apparently its a bit intimidating, but it has worked astonishingly well for my whole life.

especially for girls...

i just wait for a couple encounters and see if i appreciate the person or not.
but i play off people and can usually out-do whatever they are doing

if they are arrogant, i one-up them, if they are racist, i slag their race, if they have annoying habits, i tell them that's annoying... i dunno, honesty is the best policy.

the keepers are those that get it and have a sense of humour.
works very well.

[Bob]

are people with kids deal breakers to ya'll? I'm kinda on the fence with this one.

for me, yeah. you can't have a relationship with a parent without also having one with the kid (at least you certainly shouldn't, it wouldn't be fair to the kid), and i'm definitely not mature enough for that.

true story, i nearly fooled around with a girl who ended up being a single mother (i didn't know that at the time). i have such luck. oh well, at least striking out worked in my favor for once

[kll]

for me, yeah. you can't have a relationship with a parent without also having one with the kid

i have never met the b/f's daughter. she lives 2000 miles away and he sees her when he goes home, but she's never been available for me to meet when i've visited. weird since we've known each other for over 4 years now...

[Bob]

well i mean, i guess it's different if they're not living together. i was thinking more like, a single parent, raising a kid on their own kind of thing

[Kerrbear]

Ok, I'm a total nerd, but I've been thinking about this one. I've thought a lot in the last few years of singleness about the minimum criteria for a guy I'd be interested in. I've worked hard to understand that I can't ever fix the big intolerable stuff (like cheating and lying.) But there are two things that used to be dealbreaker but now I could overlook if we could work on them together. Seriously.
A wimpy, floppy handshake, and wearing flip flops of any kind.

[Bob]

why the handshake?

[Kerrbear]

I don't know why, it just gives me the creeps. If you can't grab my hand like a man, how are you going to handle the rest of me?

[icy manipulator]

i must say that boobie size is not an issue fpr me. if you have them then i'm happy (y)