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fucktopgirl
12-16-2005, 02:20 PM
that human are made to have only one partner in life and stick with it till the theeth fall down?Like for real i believe in the union with my bf,,but sometime i imagine that he is the only guy i will make love for the rest of my life and it scare me because i wonder if it the way to go?Not that i dont love him. It'[s like tasting the same flavor till the end!!
what are your super thoughts on this matter??
cookiepuss
12-16-2005, 02:50 PM
my super thought is that from an evolutionary and biological standpoint, it makes more sense for men to screw as many women as possible and spread thier seed around.
But because we humans are logical and emotional...we don't always do that. and then someone decided that a really good way to merge assets and farms and wealth would be to make two people from two different families promise to only make baies with eachother for the rest of thier life. and they decided to call that marraige.
ms.peachy
12-16-2005, 03:07 PM
I reckon we're a pretty varied species of creature. Some are cut out for monogamy and some aren't. The problem tends to be that whoever's in one group thinks that their way is THE way, and that the other is somehow inferior or unnatural. I think they're just different ways of taking the journey through life.
fucktopgirl
12-16-2005, 03:30 PM
you see i am a monogamoous person,when i am with a guy,,i dont go fuck around!My though(super deep as they are :D !)is it the way to go to just have sex with one person till you die?!Let be honnest when we are with somebody,we still feel attraction and connection with others!So what the deal?
marsdaddy
12-16-2005, 04:24 PM
I don't think it has much to do with how we're made, but evolution. As was said before, spreading the seed was essential to building civilization. However, as that became counter-productive, other priorities emerged, such as wealth building, inbreeding, and disease spreading.
monkey
12-16-2005, 04:55 PM
^^^ hahaha. brilliance.
im pretty much with that idea of evolution, not just for men to spread their seed, but women to have as much seed spread in them as possible. but that isnt .. healthy. so we came up with the magic of monogamy.
im monogamous and able to be tempted to be otherwise. i would like to think that i can be with one person forever though. there's gotta be someone that's endlessly entertaining as such.
ms.peachy
12-16-2005, 05:06 PM
See, the problem with the 'evolution' argument is that you can make a pretty compelling argument for it on both sides, and there are many examples of quite good research to back up either case. (I'm not going looking for any right now, because it's 11:00 on a Friday and I'm done working for the week, OK? You're just going to have to take my word for it. Or not. I don't care that much.)
I do think that our extended lifespan certainly makes 'serial monogamy' a much more likey proposition. I mean, when everybody died at like 45, it certainly made sense to couple up and start popping out offspring as early as possible, get as many out as you could, and then die. But now, not so much.
marsdaddy
12-16-2005, 05:13 PM
See, the problem with the 'evolution' argument is that you can make a pretty compelling argument for it on both sides, and there are many examples of quite good research to back up either case. (I'm not going looking for any right now, because it's 11:00 on a Friday and I'm done working for the week, OK? You're just going to have to take my word for it. Or not. I don't care that much.)
I do think that our extended lifespan certainly makes 'serial monogamy' a much more likey proposition. I mean, when everybody died at like 45, it certainly made sense to couple up and start popping out offspring as early as possible, get as many out as you could, and then die. But now, not so much.Unless you're Donald Trump. He's always discarding his beauty queens after they bequeath him an heir.
fucktopgirl
12-16-2005, 05:49 PM
yea Evolution,,so,,,now that nobody want to make kids no more,what the purp[ose of sticking with one person then!?
DandyFop
12-16-2005, 06:00 PM
I often wonder if I was cut out to be monogamous. It hasn't felt like it so far, but I think this is more of a need to meet the right person than anything else. Once I meet someone who's good for me, I'll let you know then (y)
BangkokB
12-16-2005, 06:12 PM
I think that monogamy is a plot from the government
Sure it looks good on paper but there's no way that's happen in teh day 2 day.....It's like the violin~sounds great for the first couple of tracks then it's just brass knuckle draggin
paul jones
12-16-2005, 07:01 PM
I think that monogamy is a plot from the government
Sure it looks good on paper but there's no way that's happen in teh day 2 day.....It's like the violin~sounds great for the first couple of tracks then it's just brass knuckle draggin
yeah,the government are also behind the 'vanishing socks' mystery
fucktopgirl
12-16-2005, 08:03 PM
yea the fucking governement is behind everything!! we've been dupe!,its a scam for shure!@
Anyway ,it's all about choice and value,,,, when you are with somebody for a long time,there is always time when you doubt and wander about your relationship!
So anyway,,agadou pousse l'ananas pis mou le cafe!
DapperDiverge
12-16-2005, 08:18 PM
I never understood why men can have multiple wives and women can't have multiple husbands... I mean during sex women can go on, and on, and on andmen have to recharge after popping the cork for a couple of hours...
NEXT!!!
if sex worked like an assembly line, women would have men beat!!!
So I say if you got it ladies... keep on truckin'
And marriage was intended for financial means, not love...
ex: "I'll trade you my daughter for 6 chickens and a cow...deal?"
"Only if I can trade my daughter for 2 mules and a pig"
"Deal"
handshakes
that's why we got monogamy
and the only reason they had kids back then was
1, no birth control
and 2, the parents needed slaves to work the farm so they could eat
alexandra
12-17-2005, 06:36 AM
^ hahah word up.
fucktopgirl
12-17-2005, 09:17 PM
I never understood why men can have multiple wives and women can't have multiple husbands... I mean during sex women can go on, and on, and on andmen have to recharge after popping the cork for a couple of hours...
NEXT!!!
couple of hours for the joy7stick to pop again,man,you did not get no stallion,that for shure! I said they pop fast but can come quite fast too! :D
But yea,,we should have more then on man,,One for massage,one that fuck like a god ,one that can sustain some intellectuel conversation,and a manmaid!
kleptomaniac
12-17-2005, 09:21 PM
well, when people are married they say "till death do we part" but they don't say "and i won't have sex with anybody else but you till death do we part"
i don't know if there's a point to what i'm trying to say...i'll get back to ya when i'm married. or when i get a boyfriend.
or whichever comes first.
adrock14
12-17-2005, 10:35 PM
I believe in one guy and one girl together with no one else in between the lines. I also believe in virginity til marrage.
Monsieur Decuts
12-17-2005, 10:44 PM
key parties!
Otis Driftwood
12-18-2005, 11:09 AM
I believe I have to give my shit to any attractive female that has not climbed a tree by the count of three...
boys_beastie
12-18-2005, 01:23 PM
or when i get a boyfriend.
qdrop's single
ms.peachy
12-18-2005, 01:25 PM
key parties!
*shudder*
I can't imagine anything creepier.
fucktopgirl
12-18-2005, 04:08 PM
key parties!
wtf is a key parties??
ms.peachy
12-18-2005, 05:12 PM
wtf is a key parties??
a really lame thing bored suburbanites used to do in the 70's, apparently (http://www.nostalgiacentral.com/pop/keyparties.htm)
paulb
12-18-2005, 05:44 PM
that human are made to have only one partner in life and stick with it till the theeth fall down?Like for real i believe in the union with my bf,,but sometime i imagine that he is the only guy i will make love for the rest of my life and it scare me because i wonder if it the way to go?Not that i dont love him. It'[s like tasting the same flavor till the end!!
what are your super thoughts on this matter??
i think there can be several people for you, but if you get married to one, you should stick with them to the end.
kleptomaniac
12-18-2005, 08:27 PM
qdrop's single
that'd be illegal. maybe if he wuz a thousand years younger.
DandyFop
12-18-2005, 10:22 PM
I believe in one guy and one girl together with no one else in between the lines. I also believe in virginity til marrage.
You're 13. That's probably how I felt when I was 13.
Freedom Toast
12-18-2005, 10:38 PM
men have to recharge after popping the cork for a couple of hours...
Hours?? Uh...not all men. ;)
miss_bhaven
12-18-2005, 10:42 PM
I think that if you truly love someone, u shouldn't feel the need to be with anyone else...therefore the reason of marriage is appropriate for such feelings ;)
Monsieur Decuts
12-19-2005, 12:33 AM
*shudder*
I can't imagine anything creepier.
i know right? How would you look your buddy in the face on the golf course.
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