serious question for people in relationships

[CJS1981]

im wondering why all my friends with serious girlfriends are not alllowed to go to the bar or to go skate on the weekend>? Im someone who really enjoys freedom, and i can't understand why someone would want a boy/girl tell them when they can and cannot go out and do things. like my one friend never goes out anymore, and i'll call him up and be like "hey want to go out tonight for a beer" he says "nah, im with my girl, how bout on tuesday afternoon?" motherfucker, nobody wants to go out to the bar on tuesday afternoon, and i know you already spent the 50 weekends in a row with the girl. Maybe everyone just doesnt like me.

[BangkokB]

*combs hair
So where you goin Tuesday?~Around 4ish?

[CJS1981]

hahaahaa

[DandyFop]

Well wouldn't you rather spend time with someone you know you're gonna end up fucking?

-Turd

[kll]

It depends on how old you and your friends are... I don't give a shit if my boyfriend goes out and he doesn't care if I go out, but neither of us does much without the other, so it's never really an issue. We do prefer to hang out amongst ourselves for the most part though. If you are best friends with the person you're involved with, then you just do your own thing. Friends come in second, which is unfortunate for the single friend.

People who are younger or are insecure tend to be more controlling with their sig. other because of their insecurities. If trust is an issue, you'll never see your friend again unless he breaks up with her.

I love going for a beer at a random time of day on a random day.

[CJS1981]

well in the specific case im speaking of, he always bitches that she will never give it up. plus that shit gets boring after 2 years

[kll]

so, he's not pussywhipped, just hoping to get it eventually?

[DandyFop]

hey kll let's go for a beer

[kll]

hey kll let's go for a beer
I'm just about off, let's do it!

[DandyFop]

awesome.

man I really do want one now.

[kll]

awesome.

man I really do want one now.


haha. i was just thinking about where i'm going to stop on my way home!

[paul jones]

vaginas and tits are much more tasty than skate parks and bars (y)

[CJS1981]

yeah, im in for a beer. actually, im already about 4 deep

[DandyFop]

see? PJ's got his priorities straight.

[CJS1981]

no way PJ, im 25 and ive had my fair share of all 4, and i can tell you that the girl i speak of, well lets put it this way, you would rather fuck a goat

[paul jones]

no way PJ, im 25 and ive had my fair share of all 4, and i can tell you that the girl i speak of, well lets put it this way, you would rather fuck a goat

cor,she must be a bit rough then,better get skating and drinkin (y)

[CJS1981]

shit dude, i wish i had a pic. you would barf

[paul jones]

shit dude, i wish i had a pic. you would barf

don't post the pic, you'll get lots of pm's from echewta

[CJS1981]

why is he/she some hippy who thinks everyone is beautiful>?

[paul jones]

why is he/she some hippy who thinks everyone is beautiful>?

yes

[monkey]

my bf uses me as an excuse. he tells his friends he cant go out cause he's "with the girlie" (i laugh hysterically), and meanwhile, he may or may not be with me, but he just doesnt feel like doing the same old tired shit with certain of his friends. maybe your friend doesnt like you anymore. you should go get laid.

[QueenAdrock]

Is it because he's "not allowed to" or does he just not want to because he's with his woman?

If it's because he's not allowed to, that's really, really lame. I'd never put restrictions on my boyfriend like that. Hell, he visited New Orleans two years ago and I didn't even care that he went to a strip club alone. I realize that I love and trust him, and the more rules you put on someone the more trapped they'll feel. (n)

[The Notorious LOL]

I would consider this a detterant from a relationship altogether. I love my free time and need space, and although if i was serious about someone chances are Id wanna spend a lot of time with them...odds are thered be a portion of time I wanted alone or with friends as well.

[TurdBerglar]

why does it seem that there is an overwhelming amount of females compared to males that want to spend every moment of their lives with their mates. and if you as a guy doesn't even attempt to spend every moment of your life with the chick she seems to get very destraught. it seems a lot of guys just spend so much time with their gf's just to shut them up and to make them happy. how often do guys beg and plead with a chick to go with them to their mom's house?

[miss soul fire]

vaginas and tits are much more tasty than skate parks and bars (y)
You would win as the most perv person on this board! PJ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

[P.T.B.A.I.]

I beg to differ!

[alexandra]

im wondering why all my friends with serious girlfriends are not alllowed to go to the bar or to go skate on the weekend>? Im someone who really enjoys freedom, and i can't understand why someone would want a boy/girl tell them when they can and cannot go out and do things.
i hear ya.

people like that just seem insecure to me, 'cause if you truly love someone, you give the person some goddamn freedom.

[ms.peachy]

Pah. What it is is that these guys actually do not particularly want to go to the smelly bar with their smelly mates; they want to sit around with their girlfriend and order in a pizza and watch telly and get laid. But they can't say their mates "Yeah actually I just don't feel like hangin out with you losers" because he thinks it will make him look bad to admit he would just rather stay home. So he pussies out, rolls his eyes and says "oh yeah sorry dudes I'd love to hang out but if I go out I'll get bitched at bigtime by you-know-who" and lets the girl take the fall.

[yeahwho]

Pah. What it is is that these guys actually do not particularly want to go to the smelly bar with their smelly mates; they want to sit around with their girlfriend and order in a pizza and watch telly and get laid. But they can't say their mates "Yeah actually I just don't feel like hangin out with you losers" because he thinks it will make him look bad to admit he would just rather stay home. So he pussies out, rolls his eyes and says "oh yeah sorry dudes I'd love to hang out but if I go out I'll get bitched at bigtime by you-know-who" and lets the girl take the fall.

Bastards of the Young. ;)

The ones who love us least are the ones we’ll die to please
If it’s any consolation, I don’t begin to understand them

[Kid Presentable]

Pah. What it is is that these guys actually do not particularly want to go to the smelly bar with their smelly mates; they want to sit around with their girlfriend and order in a pizza and watch telly and get laid. But they can't say their mates "Yeah actually I just don't feel like hangin out with you losers" because he thinks it will make him look bad to admit he would just rather stay home. So he pussies out, rolls his eyes and says "oh yeah sorry dudes I'd love to hang out but if I go out I'll get bitched at bigtime by you-know-who" and lets the girl take the fall.

Yeah. I'm gonna hang out with a bunch of twenty somethings with school-disco syndrome. While my favourite person sits at home, yearning for my lovin, and snack fetching abilities. :rolleyes:

[Freedom Toast]

Ahhhh....back when I was settled in a long-term relationship...I quit hanging out with my single friends because you lose so many common interests. When you're happy in a relationship...the last thing that sounds like fun is a going to a crap-ass club or something like that.

At one point my entire circle of friends was nothing but couples. DONT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU. Once a couple in the "tight cirlce of friends" breaks up....all the dominos will quickly fall and friendship factions are instantly formed.

Now that I'm single again I'm like "dude...let's go to the bar"