What happened to QueenAdrock?

[paulb]

Anyone else not heard from her in a while?

[kleptomaniac]

she was studying the Balkans? :confused:

[DroppinScience]

I talked to her a few weeks ago and she contacted me out of the blue on AIM.

Her boyfriend Wayne (who've been going out for the last 4 years or so) broke up with her and she is just devastated. She's been so heartbroken, she couldn't eat and she was sent to the ER and put on IV fluids at one point.

Because of this, she can't face this forum and I don't think we'll be seeing her for a long while.

:( :( :(

[paulb]

damn, thanks for the update. Thats really too bad. She talked about her boyfriend all the time...and how he was jewish. Thats a shame, I hope the best for her.

[DroppinScience]

damn, thanks for the update. Thats really too bad. She talked about her boyfriend all the time...and how he was jewish. Thats a shame, I hope the best for her.

It was all because her boyfriend's parents didn't approve of her being non-Jewish. I feel bad for Queenie. :(

[Freebasser]

That smells.

I don't really know her, but I regularly chuckle at her posts. Tell her to try and keep smiling from me (y)

[kleptomaniac]

i miss queen :(



It was all because her boyfriend's parents didn't approve of her being non-Jewish.

that's not fair to her. (n)




she's rocks \m/

[jabumbo]

yeah, i used to chat with her a lot on AIM, but she hadnt been on much due to school for a while, but i hadn't seen her logged on in a while

[paulb]

thats why i made the topic. I rarely ever saw her on AIM for the past month and i havent seen her posts in a bit. So i was starting to wonder what happened.

[QueenAdrock]

Yeah...I'm just on now because I was told by Ace42 that I had a thread about me so I thought I'd come on and explain.

I may be back later...but for right now, I feel absolutely awful. Wayne and I had been dating since April 28, 2001. On January 2nd, he tells me he loves me, snuggles with me and holds me close, pets my hair, is offering me his arm while we walk through DC and tells me how excited he is that he's moving home so he can see me all the time.

January 3rd...his grandfather goes in the hospital. Wayne comes over to my house, and says "I can't do this anymore...I can't do us. I thought I could do it in Towson, I thought I could do it in Chicago, but I can't do it here," and he handed me a letter. It went something like this "This letter goes against everything I believe. My hand is shaking so badly right now I can't even hand write it. You have been the best and worst thing to ever happen to me, the latter only because I have to do this. With my grandfather in the hospital today, I wanted you there more than anyone else in the world and the fact that you couldn't be made me realize this relationship can't go any further. It pains me to no end to know that I can't be there for you now, but for the next few weeks I think I better give you your space. I can't ask you to forgive me, but hopefully in time you'll understand. I'm sorry. -Wayne"

So basically...he comes home for good after almost 5 years of dating me, realizes that we can never get married because his dad will NEVER accept me or allow me to go to any family gatherings or be welcomed in his home, and breaks up with me.

And yes, I am absolutely devestated. He's my whole world. I've only been able to keep going due to the fact that my mom has been there everyday, and I'm heavily medicated. I'm down 17 pounds, and it's a struggle still to eat. I thought we'd get married one day...maybe something would have changed with his father, or he could stand up to him, something... but he's just lost all hope. I don't know what to do, everyday I wake up crying...I know he still loves me, and I still love him, but he refuses to call me or answer my calls because it hurts him and he can't face me. I don't see things changing either, because his dad is a stubborn, narrow-minded bigot.

Anyways...I can't deal with a lot of things right now. I'm taking small steps to get my life back on track, and I can't deal with the board right now, because every other thread is about love, sex, relationships, whatever, and just seeing that stuff makes me break down. I'll be back once I get healthy again. Feel free to IM me if you like: BeastieGirl928.

[kate]

i'm going to kill every jew in towson, except wayne, until i'm sure his dad is good and dead! problem solved.
not really :(
<3

[kleptomaniac]

*sniff*

you get a big purple rose, queenie.
it probably doesn't help much....sorry :(

i thought it might be a cheer-up though :o



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[Documad]

I think you're just marvelous, and I'm so sorry that you're going through this.

I remember that you were moving or your parents were moving or something. Do you have people around you who care about you and who are keeping an eye on you? You absolutely have to reach out to friends and family now and don't curl up in a ball by yourself (as natural as that feels).

[kaiser soze]

I talked to her a few weeks ago and she contacted me out of the blue on AIM.

Her boyfriend Wayne (who've been going out for the last 4 years or so) broke up with her and she is just devastated. She's been so heartbroken, she couldn't eat and she was sent to the ER and put on IV fluids at one point.

Because of this, she can't face this forum and I don't think we'll be seeing her for a long while.

:( :( :(

aww man, poor thing.

i hope her heart heals and she can begin loving herself again

[cosmo105]

oh diana. i'm so, so sorry sweetie.

[Bob]

i'm rarely open and serious on here, but that is fucked up. of all the reasons for...fuck

hang in there :( that's all i've got :(

[Justin]

Yea i hope everything works out well

I hope some girl here is reading this remembers this when they have guy trouble. Its stupid to stop eating or do anything bad to yourself just because of a guy. Thats stupid!

That shit just isn't worth dying for

[ASsman]

:(

[Medellia]

I concur with everything that has already been said. Hope you feel better soon, Diana.

[SobaViolence]

Love that is not madness is not love.
Pedro Calderon de la Barca

be well, my dear.

[little j]

oh my god.

:(

[fucktopgirl]

that sucks (n)

Be strong girl!

[yeahwho]

The QueenAdrock is an all around Great person who is sorely missed here. Here's to her and her ability to enlighten with grace each post she makes.

Glad to see this thread, I've been thinking about making this very same thread the past week....last I remember hearing from her was around December, and just before that was the great puppy attack against gmsisko.....which finally drove him to the brink! :D (y) and off the deepend.

puppies rule! get back!

[monkey]

:( that's so stupid. i cant believe people like wayne's dad still exist. and wayne should grow some fucking balls and tell his father that you are the woman he loves and he needs to deal with it.

please, please take care of yourself QA!

[marsdaddy]

More the reason why religion is fucking shit and needs to be rid of.You're right. Where are the thought police when you need them?