Lie back and think of <insert nation here>

[Ace42X]

Come on gals, tell us straight -

How regularly, when in a relationship, do you feel not in the mood, but just lie back and let the guy get on with it?

Is it just for peace and quiet? obligation? because you are just that generous, and there is no reason why he should miss out just because you aren't in the mood?

Would you rather do something else to get him off instead? is this never a problem for you?

What's the score?

[Medellia]

I'd do something else for him. I'd probably be more into it if I was blowing him than if I just let him fuck me. Besides, I doubt he'd enjoy it if I'm just laying there thinking "just get it over with already".

[ms.peachy]

It's not really an issue, as it's usually me who is the demanding one. But obviously in about 2.5 months, I'm sure I'll be, erm, unavailable for 6-8 weeks, and who knows how I'll feel after that with all the breastfeeeding and the fluctuating hormones and the diapering and the diapering and the diapering.

We've talked about it; I told mr.p I was worried about, what if I become one of those women you hear about who have a kid and then go off sex completely? He just laughed and said he didn't think anyone needed to worry about that. I said yeah, but what if? And he said don't worry, he'll just start banging the nanny then, it's not a problem.

[Lex Diamonds]

When I get down there's no chance of the girl not being fully involved. Most of the time I can't even fit the whole thing in there before she's had a screaming orgasm. Sometimes it's almost like a disadvantage. :rolleyes:

[DandyFop]

I can't really answer this question. Not enough experience in that kind of situation.

[Ace42X]

I can't really answer this question. Not enough experience in that kind of situation.

Having sex, being in a relationship, or not being in the mood?

[DandyFop]

Well. Hmm. Eh, it's too hard to explain. Let's just say, most of my sexual cavortings, which really aren't many, didn't last long enough for me to get sick of it.

[na§tee]

ugh god yes a lot of the time.
i would never just lie back tho and take it.. i think you have to be at least a little bit into it [even for just, i know this is gross, the ease of doing the act] for the lovin' to begin.
i give a lot of "back treatment" when i feel that way. just face the wall and when he's all stroking my back and all that shit be like THAT DOESN'T TURN ME ON YO! I WANT TO PLAY MY D.S AND GET YOUR NASTY MAN SWEAT OFFA ME! EW!

well not exactly but you get my drift.
there are times where i think i could go without sex for a very, very long time.
this, i know, is because i have only experienced it with one man [albeit for four years] and there must be "better stuff" out there but lil ole me has to settle for this amazing guy who is just happens to not turn me into a total horndawg 100% of the time [does that really exist anyway?].

ho hum.

[Ace42X]

You know, jokes aside, I am touched by the sincerity of some of these replies, and I feel a little sorry for you gals that don't get the sort of loving you (probably) richly deserve.

[na§tee]

You know, jokes aside, I am touched by the sincerity of some of these replies, and I feel a little sorry for you gals that don't get the sort of loving you (probably) richly deserve.
that is quite sweet.
i feel like in this thread we've all just sat together having a nice virtual bottle of red wine and being a little sorry for ourselves, but.. in a good way.

[Medellia]

You know, jokes aside, I am touched by the sincerity of some of these replies, and I feel a little sorry for you gals that don't get the sort of loving you (probably) richly deserve.
Awwwww, that's really sweet.