Okay, now this makes me kind of uncomfortable...

[ScarySquirrel]

So I wake up decently early this morning as I usually do on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays for my 8 a.m. class. However, this morning is a little different... my one roommate who is always complaining about 60 hour workweeks and waking up at 6:30 a.m. every morning is also just waking up (I'm assuming) with his little fuck buddy girl who nobody else in the apartment likes.

I need to shower and get ready for class, but most importantly, I need to use the facilities as well. And they're BOTH in there. She was in the shower and he was at the sink shaving (I know because he came out while she was still showering). They took forever, but that's not really the point...

Once she's out of the shower and they're both done using the damn place, I finally get my turn. I take care of business and then I hop in the shower. As I'm turning on the water I notice that my shampoo has left its designated spot on our shelving system (i.e. it wasn't in my shelf) and it was sitting by the water knob things... whatever they're called. Hmmm...

Well, that was odd enough. Then the time comes to actually soap up and do the rest. But now my body wash is M.I.A., now that's totally weird, 'cause it should also be in my shelf right behind my shampoo and my loofah. But, as it would turn out it's in someone else's shelf completely! I'm assuming it was probably some shelf that she thinks is hers. But this bothers me to no end... first of all my body wash isn't exactly the cheap stuff you buy at the general store. Secondly, I would think that if you're at least going to use my shower and hold me up while I'm trying to get ready for class, the least you could do was either use your own stuff or use the person's items who you are here to see to cleanse yourself. Not mine. Is there no decency in these people?

Anyway, it makes me very uncomfortable and, quite frankly, a little pissed off. I thought about confronting them right then and there, but decided it wasn't the best time since the only way I could think of bringing it up wasn't very polite and would probably lead just to more confrontation/friction in the house. I guess the question I'm getting at though is... am I out of line for being upset about something that really appears to be kind of minor? What the heck would y'all do?

I've had other toiletries of mine used liberally to the point that I just decided to not store them in the bathroom anymore because I can't afford to be paying for everyone's bathroom needs. I thought there was some imaginary line that would be drawn to everyone at a man's body wash and shampoo, but apparently not. Maybe I should just take those out of the shower and have to lug them back and forth from now on as well... that would suck.

[Junker]

Hide your stuffs (y)

PS: At least shes hot???

[Yeti]

loofah:D

My wife uses my razor to shave her legs. What a bitch!

[ScarySquirrel]

PS: At least shes hot???
Her nickname around the house is "Roadkill." Not that she or my fuck buddy roomate of hers knows about it.

And Yeti, I'm guessing that since she's your wife you probably don't mind sharing a few things with her and, as matter of fact, you probably have some fondness for the lady. A little sharing between two people living together in a relationship is bound to happen. This, however, is line crossing.

[GuerillaMike69]

man you are completely in the right shes using your time your stuff and what on earth are you getting in return i think you should talk to ur roommate and fuck buddy and talk about it together organize for her to buy her own stuff and not use you up ecspecially if your stuff isnt cheap and i find it quite rude she wouldnt have even asked you coz im tellin u now girls kno wats expensive and whats not!!!:)

[discopants]

I cam't belive Junkers gone to live with Pikey's. If he asks you to buy Lucky Heather, you'd better buy it.

[Yeti]

And Yeti, I'm guessing that since she's your wife you probably don't mind sharing a few things with her and, as matter of fact, you probably have some fondness for the lady. A little sharing between two people living together in a relationship is bound to happen. This, however, is line crossing.


She does cross the line. She runs my life. I get her back by leaving the toilet seat up at night and giving her a dutch oven on a regular basis.

[GuerillaMike69]

i dont understand in life how woman are still running around about there womans rights when this kind of stuff is happening in everyday life

[Qdrop]

hehe...you use a loofah...

and "bodywash"...

[rirv]

Maybe if she gave you a blowjob it would settle the matter?

[GuerillaMike69]

Maybe if she gave you a blowjob it would settle the matter?
blowjobs settle everything i guess would u be willing to negotiate with her??:confused:

[Lex Diamonds]

First the thread about you breaking up your room-mates' party and now this?

You need to lighten up, man. Chill out, smoke two joints.

[Yeti]

Yeah and maybe she will let me put on a gorilla suit and eat a banana out of her coochamaladi.

[GuerillaMike69]

Yeah and maybe she will let me put on a gorilla suit and eat a banana out of her coochamaladi.
if that floats ya boat go ahead

[ScarySquirrel]

See, I don't think I do need to lighten up. I'm one of the easiest going dudes in this house. To me these (the party thing and using my stuff without asking and then not even properly returning it to its place) are both issues of respect on which I am getting a raw deal. That's it, that's all.

[rirv]

I think maybe it comes across as being a bit uptight on here, but I can understand that it could well be a culmination of lots and lots of little small things which piss you off.

If one of my housemates used my stuff I'd them to fuck off and then I'd use their stuff back. But that's how I roll.

[GuerillaMike69]

I think maybe it comes across as being a bit uptight on here, but I can understand that it could well be a culmination of lots and lots of little small things which piss you off.

If one of my housemates used my stuff I'd them to fuck off and then I'd use their stuff back. But that's how I roll.
You sound reasonable... Time to up the medication

[Qdrop]

See, I don't think I do need to lighten up. I'm one of the easiest going dudes in this house. To me these (the party thing and using my stuff without asking and then not even properly returning it to its place) are both issues of respect on which I am getting a raw deal. That's it, that's all.

can you afford to live on your own...or with fewer people?

that should probably be your goal at this point.

as well not using a loofah anymore.

[Junker]

Her nickname around the house is "Roadkill." Not that she or my fuck buddy roomate of hers knows about it.


LOL :D

[GuerillaMike69]

LOL :D
shut up

[Junker]

I cam't belive Junkers gone to live with Pikey's. If he asks you to buy Lucky Heather, you'd better buy it.

(y)

Unless i want to be knocked out

[Yeti]

This loofah thing will have me smiling all day.

I may even go to Bed Bath and Beyond to purchase a loofah. My wife better keep her mits off the damn thing.

[GuerillaMike69]

If I throw a stick, will you leave?

[miss soul fire]

I'd feel the same way. Actually I would feel rather disgusted. I mean, who in the hell has the guts to use somebody else's soap?? That's juat waaayy to nasty!!!:mad:

[Junker]

shut up

Why???

LOL
LOL
LOL
LOL
LOL
LOL

[GuerillaMike69]

I'd feel the same way. Actually I would feel rather disgusted. I mean, who in the hell has the guts to use somebody else's soap?? That's juat waaayy to nasty!!!:mad:
And your crybaby whiny-assed opinion would be...?

[Junker]

I'd feel the same way. Actually I would feel rather disgusted. I mean, who in the hell has the guts to use somebody else's soap?? That's juat waaayy to nasty!!!:mad:


hey Roby.......

O Knuckles fez um avatar pra vc então??

[miss soul fire]

And your crybaby whiny-assed opinion would be...?
Sbrubbles, alias!

[GuerillaMike69]

i say so much dumb shit when im drunk apart from the part where i told Junker to shutup that was pretty cool

[Junker]

And your crybaby whiny-assed opinion would be...?


dude...............fuck off

PS: If you're drunk then I'll forgive you :D

[GuerillaMike69]

Sbrubbles, alias!
no im not Sbrubbles sorry and im not an alias

[miss soul fire]

hey Roby.......

O Knuckles fez um avatar pra vc então??
Fez hehehe!:D Até que enfim!

Ah, e esse cara aí é um alias. E mesmo se não fosse é um idiota, vamos ignorá-lo por completo pra ele ficar sem graça. Ele tá querendo arranjar briga. Deixa esse babaca falar sozinho!:D

Além de td ainda é burro! Sbrubbles NÃO é um nick, seu BURRO!

[Junker]

Fez hehehe!:D Até que enfim!

Ah, e esse cara aí é um alias. E mesmo se não fosse é um idiota, vamos ignorá-lo por completo pra ele ficar sem graça. Ele tá querendo arranjar briga. Deixa esse babaca falar sozinho!:D

segundo ele, ele está bêbado...

Sei não........está parecendo mais um daqueles dumbasses ....rsrsrsrs

[GuerillaMike69]

damm threads change quickly

[Junker]

damm threads change quickly

(y)

And guess whos the one who had changed it???

[GuerillaMike69]

the french

[Junker]

:confused: :confused: :confused:

[Knuckles]

When you get close to running out of your bodywash...
























PEE IN IT!!!

[GuerillaMike69]

Just buy another bottle of bodywash and hide it, it's really no big deal. Of course you should urinate in the old bodywash bottle, and leave it on the shelf for them to use, because afterall, it is no big deal.;)
loving ur style lol

[abcdefz]

I guess the question I'm getting at though is... am I out of line for being upset about something that really appears to be kind of minor? What the heck would y'all do?

I've had other toiletries of mine used liberally to the point that I just decided to not store them in the bathroom anymore because I can't afford to be paying for everyone's bathroom needs. I thought there was some imaginary line that would be drawn to everyone at a man's body wash and shampoo, but apparently not. Maybe I should just take those out of the shower and have to lug them back and forth from now on as well... that would suck.



...in a community situation, if you don't want something used by the community, you either label it "Squirrel only" or get a little bath bucket or something and keep it in your room.

If the girl doesn't have her own stuff there, she should've asked her boy buddy which stuff was his, and used that. But, you know, if it's just laying out, how's she supposed to know if she didn't ask?

Now, if she just raided the fridge without asking, that'd be different. Why? I dunno. I guess that bathroom stuff seems more like a supply, you know? You've got toilet paper that's community property... presumably, hand towels are for guests also... the line gets blurry.

[kaiser soze]

this is why I never want to have roommates again

[Kid Presentable]

Personally, I think it's nothing. But to be safe, bust a nut into her shampoo.

[kll]

leave a note. a general note. 'fuck off to whomever is using my shit in the shower'

[enree erzweglle]

Someone using my loofah is like someone using my toothbrush. That's just a wrong thing to do.

It's understandable if she thinks that the soap and shampoo are pieces of the community, but towels, toothbrushes, razors--things like that are personal just by nature.

I'd keep my stuff in my room and take it with me into the bathroom when I needed it.

(When I was little, I stayed overnight with people who didn't have dedicated towels for everyone. There were towels hanging and the family used them interchangeably. When I stay overnight with friends or family, I bring my own towels and supplies.)

[abcdefz]

Someone using my loofah is like someone using my toothbrush. That's just a wrong thing to do.



That's true.


(When I was little, I stayed overnight with people who didn't have dedicated towels for everyone. There were towels hanging and the family used them interchangeably. When I stay overnight with friends or family, I bring my own towels and supplies.)


...if you're having a guest overnight, you just lay out a clean towel and washcloth for them and let them know where the hamper is. (y)

[mickill]

You should sneak up behind your roommate next time they're both in there, grab him and bend him over the bathroom counter and be like, "if you people keep using my shit, I'm a have to put my penis in you". But don't really do it. Just make him think you're gonna put your penis in him. That should straighten everybody out. You need to establish some clear paramters, man.

[marsdaddy]

Cut up his loofah in little pieces are write die on them.
Pour out his body wash, pour in lemon juice.

[enree erzweglle]

...if you're having a guest overnight, you just lay out a clean towel and washcloth for them and let them know where the hamper is. (y)My third floor has a dedicated shower/bathroom and whenever I have overnight company, they stay there. For each person who is staying, I leave two bath towels and a hand towel folded at the base of the bed where they'll be sleeping. In the bathroom, I'll put a basket of things out for them--obviously unopened things like powders, razors, shampoos, soaps, combs, toothbrushes/toothpastes.

I leave mints on the pillows. (Although one time, I left chocolates on the pillows and then forgot to turn on the air conditioning and that was a mistake.)

One time, one of my friends left a tip on the nightstand.

[abcdefz]

One time, one of my friends left a tip on the nightstand.




I was gonna say. :D

[Junker]

You should sneak up behind your roommate next time they're both in there, grab him and bend him over the bathroom counter and be like, "if you people keep using my shit, I'm a have to put my penis in you". But don't really do it. Just make him think you're gonna put your penis in him. That should straighten everybody out. You need to establish some clear paramters, man.

I think we have a winner.

The #1 suggestion goes to my man mickill (y)

[Freebasser]

n/m

[ScarySquirrel]

If the girl doesn't have her own stuff there, she should've asked her boy buddy which stuff was his, and used that. But, you know, if it's just laying out, how's she supposed to know if she didn't ask?

Now, if she just raided the fridge without asking, that'd be different. Why? I dunno. I guess that bathroom stuff seems more like a supply, you know? You've got toilet paper that's community property... presumably, hand towels are for guests also... the line gets blurry.
See, but our shower has this removable shelf thing that's in the corner. Each person who lives here has their own designated shelf to store their items on. It seems pretty self-explanatory to me when you look at it. There's (more than) five shelves with five shampoos, soaps/bodywash, and whatever else other people use in the shower like facewash, shaving cream, and all that jazz. The disctinction for "hey, you're using someone's personal stuff" is pretty clear.

I wish you all could thoroughly understand the idiocy I'm working with here.

[abcdefz]

The disctinction for "hey, you're using someone's personal stuff" is pretty clear.

I wish you all could thoroughly understand the idiocy I'm working with here.


Never underestimate the stupidity/obliviousness of people. especially making-like-bunnies people waking up in the morning. They showed already by their hoggishness that they're clearly thinking of no one else.

Label yer bucket, bro.

[enree erzweglle]

I wish you all could thoroughly understand the idiocy I'm working with here.All the more reason, I think, for maybe not keeping your stuff in a communal area.

Someone who doesn't get it just from sight alone probably isn't going to benefit by an explanation of it or by labelling it.

Last summer, I bought some Ralph Lauren Cool (perfume) and the saleswoman gave me a bunch of free stuff, including a fabric-covered box (??) and a little bucket. The pail has a pattern of holes along the sides so I think it's made for the shower. You need that bucket or one like it. Want mine? You could keep your things in it and it would say this is my shit, my loofah, my shower gel. It's about the same color as the blue on this page so it's manly and all but it does have a little handle so maybe it's not that manly but if we're talking loofahs and shower gel already, then maybe that point is moot. :p

[Sarky Devotchka]

I used to use my old roommate's face wash sometimes, but only a tiny bit every now and again and I'd put it back in the same place. I'm sneaky.

however, I found out awhile back that cort had been using my conditioner and I got kind of pissed. I was like, "dude, I was wondering why my conditioner was running out faster than my shampoo, get your own!" she did. I have 2 sets of shampoo/conditioners though. one set especially for brunettes and one for long hair. I usually have some straightening shampoo/conditioner, but it ran out and that shit's expensive son.

[enree erzweglle]

I lived with this guy and he asked me to pick up some shampoo for him once the stuff he was using ran out. So I did, but I didn't put the new bottle into the shower--I refilled the old bottle a little tiny bit each day so that to him, he was always on the verge of running out.

I thought he'd catch on after a couple of weeks, but he didn't. And I started to think that maybe he was thinking that he'd found the fountain of youth of shampoos so I didn't stop--every day or two, I'd put just another bit of shampoo in there.

I kept it up for maybe 3 months before it dawned on him. I was getting tired of it but I was more curious to see how long it would go.

I used to think that he thought the same thing ("She'll tire of this sooner or later") but he didn't. You have to know him--he doesn't really think about stuff like that.

That pretty much summed up that entire relationship.

[Monsieur Decuts]

i've been this roomate...pretty much just too lazy to go get my own stuff and figure everyone is cool with just sharing...well lazy turns into two weeks of borrowing and it took a little "fuck off eh and get your own junk" to realize that I was overextending the interbuddy coolness we had.

piss in the bottle and proxy golden shower that pugfaced broad.

[miss soul fire]

Hihihi, Junker.:D

"loofah" is one funny word! Never heard it before!:p