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HotAndWet
04-24-2006, 07:59 AM
omggggg

monkey
04-24-2006, 08:00 AM
im 23 and ive never had sex in a park.

Lyman Zerga
04-24-2006, 08:19 AM
im almost 23
never had a bf
never had sex
never got a kiss
never held hands
never hugged a guy

and i went through this "life" without ever being drunk


eat that bitch

checkyourprez
04-24-2006, 08:29 AM
and i went through this "life" without ever being drunk




you take care of this one, and the rest should follow later that night.

Lyman Zerga
04-24-2006, 08:33 AM
no thanks
im a good girl!

HotAndWet
04-24-2006, 08:39 AM
well this thread was certainly not a waste of time.

Pauli, I've never had sex in a park either, (n)

monkey
04-24-2006, 08:40 AM
there's lots of things i havent done at 23. really, ive just started catching up. living life is fun but it's kinda expensive.

Nuzzolese
04-24-2006, 08:54 AM
Well, do you want one?

Nuzzolese
04-24-2006, 09:02 AM
If it's that or nothing, yeah, probably.

Not you, the thread-starter!

fucktopgirl
04-24-2006, 09:07 AM
anywa 21 is fairly young too.Now if you would say,i am 41 and never had a bf;that would be a bit more ,euh,alarming!


it will come in time!BUt dont be scared to look cute guys in their eyes.dont look down,be self assured and confident,there will be a man who gonna notice you!

HotAndWet
04-24-2006, 09:21 AM
I don't know, sometimes I do, but sometimes not. Most guys I know don't want a relationship, etc.

Nuzzolese
04-24-2006, 09:30 AM
I remember the first time I consciously decided that I wanted a boyfriend. I was up late watching a TV movie one summer - as I often did as a young lass. I was watching Endless Love with Brooke Shields. Of course, the loverboy burns down the girl's house and it doesn't go too well for the couple. You're probably better off.

Rancid_Beasties
04-24-2006, 09:34 AM
In my opinion, that whole thing about "its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" is bullshit. I reckon once you know what your missing, it makes it ten times worse when you're single for a long period of time.

Jmoney77
04-24-2006, 09:36 AM
dont feel bad im sure whatever comes ur your way will be well worth the wait besides your 21 and to many that is still a baby, give it time

ericlee
04-24-2006, 10:03 AM
so you expect us to feel bad? Look at cmute, he's old fart and a half years old and he's thinking about dating himself.

alexandra
04-24-2006, 10:16 AM
im almost 23
never had a bf
never had sex
never got a kiss
never held hands
never hugged a guy

and i went through this "life" without ever being drunk
in other words; you kick ass.

and you'll be more ready than ever when it all happens.

Echewta
04-24-2006, 10:21 AM
Hotandwet and randy are both cool chicks and it will happen soon, don't you both worry.

I'm 34 and have never seen a donkey show in Mexico :(

Bob
04-24-2006, 10:25 AM
Hotandwet and randy are both cool chicks and it will happen soon, don't you both worry.

I'm 34 and have never seen a donkey show in Mexico :(

i hear it's not as cool as it sounds

Echewta
04-24-2006, 10:27 AM
I'll be the judge, jury, and executioner of that!

Lyman Zerga
04-24-2006, 11:02 AM
:)

Freebasser
04-24-2006, 11:04 AM
I'm actually 15, and I have had a boyfriend :(

Lyman Zerga
04-24-2006, 11:44 AM
SLUT

instigator7022
04-24-2006, 12:00 PM
My first bit of advice would be to GET OFF THIS MESSAGE BOARD! Unless of course you are looking up some conversation starters which could be found...ANYWHERE because this board is a gold mine of weird information and pictures

Sarky Devotchka
04-24-2006, 12:12 PM
cort never had a boyfriend until just recently and she's 26. it wasn't for any specific reason really...it was almost a mystery. I think some of it was partly our close friendship, we were always together everywhere. but then this new guy moved to town to live with a few of our other friends. we were supposed to go to a show where he would be, but I bailed and told her she should go on her own and talk to him. and then it all just worked out perfectly.

she met his family last night. omg. they are so cute I want to puke.

jabumbo
04-24-2006, 01:10 PM
I think some of it was partly our close friendship, we were always together everywhere.


thats why i broke up with the last girlfriend i had, and that was 4 years ago

HotAndWet
04-24-2006, 08:36 PM
I typed the age backwards, I'm actually 12.

Chicka B
04-24-2006, 08:38 PM
I had a lot of fake boyfriends, or does that count as real? I just said yeah because I didn't want to hurt their feelings. I'm not doing that no more. :(

M.C. Guevera
04-24-2006, 10:09 PM
Hey, don't feel so bad. I'm 18, and I've never had a girlfriend. I mean, when I was in 5th Grade, I had someone who I called a girlfriend, but it was never anything serious.

I'm super picky about girls though, (like I'm super picky with everything else), so that maybe part of the reason why I haven't had any success in the love department.

kaiser soze
04-24-2006, 10:47 PM
I fuck on the first date

DapperDiverge
04-25-2006, 11:57 AM
i set high expectations...
i'm selfish...
find it difficult to compromise...
and i'm anti-social...

getting a boyfriend would mean the impossible...

searching for one is like me being Indiana Jones in Raiders of the Lost Ark...
i'm just not as cunning:p

beastieluver85
04-25-2006, 03:34 PM
O.K. not a lie and, I hate telling half stories and, this is not a lie I'm 16 and, my last boyfriend, I promise no matter where you live you have seen him on the news...:(

I WANT A NEW BOYFRIEND THOUGH!!!!

cookiepuss
04-25-2006, 04:38 PM
I don't know, sometimes I do, but sometimes not. Most guys I know don't want a relationship, etc.

yeah when I was between 20 and 23 all the guys I knew wanted to fuck and nothing more. fucking sluts.

Cooky Puss
04-25-2006, 05:00 PM
yeah when I was between 20 and 23 all the guys I knew wanted to fuck and nothing more. fucking sluts.

What the fuck is it with all these guys? :mad:
All the 'it's not you, it's me' and 'I'm just not ready for a serious relationship.' :mad:xagabillion
Goddamnit, does love mean nothing?!?!?!! :mad:

PS: yes i have quite a bit of anger in me

burbboi
04-25-2006, 05:10 PM
I can assure you, we aren't all like that. Keep looking (y)

cookiepuss
04-25-2006, 05:14 PM
What the fuck is it with all these guys? :mad:
All the 'it's not you, it's me' and 'I'm just not ready for a serious relationship.' :mad:xagabillion
Goddamnit, does love mean nothing?!?!?!! :mad:

PS: yes i have quite a bit of anger in me

:( I know how ya feel. been there. yeah so since the guys around my age weren't serious, I started going out with dudes in thier 30's and shit..but then I found out that those guys were all fucked up from failed marriages and such and they didn't want to get serious either.

then I just started using men for sex. and that worked out just fine.
and just to give you a glimmer of hope..I found a man on the same time frame as me and things have been wroking out much better. love isn't easy, but we work it out. but I feel yeah it's just not always easy to find someone who wants the exact same thing from a relationship that you do.

Cooky Puss
04-25-2006, 05:15 PM
I can assure you, we aren't all like that. Keep looking (y)

Pff, I'm tired of looking. I'd been looking for 20 years only to find out love isnt as pretty as people make you believe it is.

Cooky Puss
04-25-2006, 05:17 PM
then I just started using men for sex. and that worked out just fine.
and just to give you a glimmer of hope..I found a man on the same time frame as me and things have been wroking out much better. love isn't easy, but we work it out.

Oh I wish I could do that, just use men for sex, but sadly I don't have the body, or the courage to do that. I couldnt even kiss someone if I wasnt totally in love with him.

cookiepuss
04-25-2006, 05:24 PM
being tired of looking is a good step. let them find you. the less intersted in them that you are the more they jump up and down and say look at me! (at least my man did)

don't say you don't have the body. if you're willing, trust me they are able. when it come down to it dudes really don't care that much if they can get thier dick wet. I've know alot of curvy women who got all the dick they wanted..(I used to be quite bit heavier myself and I did just fine.)

but it's also ok that you need to be in love to want to get intimate with someone. that's awesome. just don't forget that you can go out with people and have fun without getting physical. if feelingss develope then that's a plus. try not to go into every date or relationship wondering..."is this the one". you'll only be disapointed.

Cooky Puss
04-25-2006, 05:33 PM
I suppose you're right, but certain things happened that made it difficult for me to believe that 'there is hope' for me. I would explain further, but you guys know him and he still sometimes reads this stuff...

cookiepuss
04-25-2006, 05:35 PM
you can PM me any time my dear. Fuck I've been through alot of shit with love, guys and torrid doomed relationship. if any anyone can learn from my experiences besides me, I'm glad to share. ;)

and I can't tell you how many times I thought I though there was no hope for me either.

pshabi
04-25-2006, 05:36 PM
I fucked at age 14.

burbboi
04-25-2006, 05:43 PM
Pff, I'm tired of looking. I'd been looking for 20 years only to find out love isnt as pretty as people make you believe it is.

If being in love with someone doesn't involve conflicts and differences in opinion, something is truly fucked up.

Good relationships/love/whatever need collaboration between each other. A little compromise might be necessary at times but too much of that and serious resentment may start to settle in. That ain't good.

I'm certain that an unhealthy dose of resentment leads to broken relationships and REALLY crusty old people.

beastieluver85
04-25-2006, 05:59 PM
Unless it was Michael Jackson, I doubt to have seen him on our news...
LOL... nothing like that he was only like 2 months older than me.;)

burbboi
04-25-2006, 06:01 PM
Whoa...this whole cooky/cookie puss thing is fucking me up!!

marsdaddy
04-25-2006, 06:52 PM
She's never had a boyfriend and you people are talking about love! Way to scare those potentials off, people.

alexandra
04-26-2006, 09:33 AM
I fucked at age 14.
how sad.

DapperDiverge
04-26-2006, 10:16 AM
when it come down to it dudes really don't care that much if they can get thier dick wet... you'll only be disapointed.


:D LOL!! I should definately use this as my signature(y) (y)

trailerprincess
04-26-2006, 11:15 AM
I use sex as an icebreaker.

And am still single. I can't win. hahahaha!