Dating When There Is A Big Age Difference.

[b i o n i c]

Generalizations…

Teenage girls like college boys

College boys want women their own age or they go young when the going gets rough.

As women move towards their late 20s it seems more of them want older men again. Is this desperation? The biological clock thing?

As a result, the older a dude gets, the more likely he is to shun women his own age and go for younger women.

God I'd hate to be a woman have to marry an older geezer and end up changing their diapers in my 50s when male counterparts are frolicking hot 20-30somethings.

By the time a guy gets to his 40s, and if he's not already married, he will go for the younger woman.

It’s a good thing dudes get better looking with age. I guess we get the last laugh.

[sab0tage]

I'm 33, my wife is 26. I'm saying nothing else!

[DandyFop]

As women move towards their late 20s it seems more of them want older men again. Is this desperation? The biological clock thing?.

I don't know how this would be a biological clock thing... Because the guy is older he'll be more inclined to make babies with her? I don't really get the correlation there. If anything, it would seem older men dating younger girls do not want to have kids because often they've already been through that whole thing.

I think it is important though, to think about the things you are saying - if you go for a pretty big age difference, 20 years or so, it might not matter now, but 10 years down the road could be a big deal because you'll be experiencing an even more drastic difference of what you're going through at that point in life.

[b i o n i c]

I don't know how this would be a biological clock thing... Because the guy is older he'll be more inclined to make babies with her? I don't really get the correlation there.


because those women might percieve that guys their age won't be as serious or not able to provide when making babies.

[DandyFop]

I guess, but that's a pretty unrealistic assumption for a woman to make. Besides, the biological clock thing isn't suppose to really kick in untill mid-30s or so.

[monkey]

my boyfriend is younger:eek:

[Knuckles]

I guess, but that's a pretty unrealistic assumption for a woman to make. Besides, the biological clock thing isn't suppose to really kick in untill mid-30s or so.
It can kick in much sooner than that. Trust me.

[b i o n i c]

vieja verde, pauli! :eek:


i know a bunch of chicks in their late twenties whose biological alarms are ringing.

does it have something to do with how a woman feels about her attractiveness? like a not so attractive single 29 year old might start getting more anxious than a very attractive single 35 year old.

[HEIRESS]

my friend is 24 and she is dating a 56 year old

on the sly no less

for over a year

[b i o n i c]

why on the sly?

[instigator7022]

my cousin (now 22) was going out with a thirty year old. They recently broke up but when they started going out she was in 11th grade.

[b i o n i c]

my cousin (now 22) was going out with a thirty year old. They recently broke up but when they started going out she was in 11th grade.

what a guy. why don't 11th graders realize that any dude that much older who would consider going out with them is doing so only because he cant get women his own age?

[instigator7022]

what a guy. why don't 11th graders realize that any dude that much older who would consider going out with them is doing so only because he cant get women his own age?


naw man he was actually really cute and fairly nice too.

[Sarky Devotchka]

echewta is too old. yuck.

[Hiplanedriftr]

I just broke up with my ex this week. She's 23 I'm 31. 3 year relationship. Probably my PEAK 3 years too from 28-31, wasted.

I can't wait to get involved with a woman my age, who has a job, a mind, and doesn't have to borrow large quantities of money from me.

[Sarky Devotchka]

ha ha, you wasted your time.

[cookiepuss]

well I would not be here if My papa (in his 50's) didn't fall in love with my mama (in her late 20') and marry her. I'm the product of a 22 year age diference.

so I got nuthin bad to say about May/december relationships..except that it sucks that my dad died and my mom is alone now.

but conversly if you're a young woman married to an old guy, he'll probably die while you're still young enough to find a new man.(y)

[b i o n i c]

I just broke up with my ex this week. ... 3 year relationship. Probably my PEAK 3 years too from 28-31, wasted.


this is how i felt when i ended my three year at 26/27. so, i;m in my peak now? or was my peak between 23-26?

[drizl]

nah nah its just numbers. i think people get together to make their own selves feel better, more fulfilled etc... you get involved with someone who compliments you, who adds to your life.
heiress: sounds like your friend has a sugar daddy;)

[HEIRESS]

why on the sly?

co-workers, its complicated

[Nuzzolese]

b i o n i c I thought you were about 16!

[mickill]

That's a compliment!

[Nuzzolese]

But it means we won't be dating.

[b i o n i c]

b i o n i c I thought you were about 16!


it must've been that time i posted about the heels i hate to hear on my way to work. the thread that you posted about 32million times in...


why does mickill dislike me so?

[DapperDiverge]

my mom and dad had a 12yr difference... not bad really...

i always thought it would be wierd to go with someone that's 10+ yrs older than you... i mean while i'm popping outta my mama's vagina, this guy is just hitting puberty or losing his virginity...hmmmmm, creepy, his life is just starting and mine hasn't even begun:p

i guess people don't go out with others in their same generation bracket is because it's boring... i just get fascinated with someone else's generation... only cuz their genereation is soooooooo much better than mine... music, movies, tv, games, fashion.... i get bored with people my own age, i like to bump it up a notch!!:D (y)

[Nuzzolese]

^^ that was kind of disgusting in about 3 different ways.


it must've been that time i posted about the heels i hate to hear on my way to work. the thread that you posted about 32million times in...


why does mickill dislike me so?

I forgot about that. I can't remember everything you say on here. Most of the time I don't even read it in the first place. :D

He probably has no respect for your opinions.

[b i o n i c]

ooooh. well nuzzo, i read every single word you write. always.
you couldnt handle the raging-hormone, horny 16 year old me.

(it was a rhetorical question about mickill - i didn't realize my opinions were abrasive)

[mickill]

why does mickill dislike me so?
Who said that I hate your guts? I never said that.

[b i o n i c]

Who said that I hate your guts? I never said that.


i dont think you hate my guts, but you seem to like to chime in on the little put-downs here and there. they're usually funny, so (y)

[mickill]

Hey, you can shove that thumb up your ass, you wangslapper!

[voltanapricot]

It’s a good thing dudes get better looking with age. I guess we get the last laugh.
Nah, just Jon Bon Jovi I reckon. No man is guaranteed a life of being a fit stud and pulling in the younger womenssz. Don't count your chickens yet, spring chick.

[voltanapricot]

Don't you just shart yourself when the new page looks like a completely random new thread? JAYZUZ.

[b i o n i c]

i left it there for you. or suck on this (n) one while you sit on that (y) one.

you say wangslapper as though there was something wrong with slapping my wang. it doesnt slap back

[b i o n i c]

Nah, just Jon Bon Jovi I reckon. No man is guaranteed a life of being a fit stud and pulling in the younger womenssz. Don't count your chickens yet, spring chick.

i can. all the men in my family age well. my dad gets hit on my chicks my age all the time, and every girlfriend i've had said he's hot.

[mickill]

It's all good, man. Simple misunderstanding.

[b i o n i c]

(y)

[paul jones]

Liv Tyler was 2000+ years old in Lord Of The Rings right? and her bloke with the beard was 86 or something....I noticed this on my nephew's Top Trump cards

[Knuckles]

Liv Tyler was 2000+ years old in Lord Of The Rings right? and her bloke with the beard was 86 or something....I noticed this on my nephew's Top Trump cards
talk about robbing the coffin(!)

[b i o n i c]

^ haha knucks

she obviously has daddy issues pj, i mean come on now.

[paul jones]

talk about robbing the coffin(!)

yeah those sly elvish types!

[kaiser soze]

It might seem taboo, but historically and biologically it's quite common

I've dated girls older than me and some younger ( between 2 to 6 yrs difference) and noticed a difference in attitudes towards dating.

I see it this way, why are people stuck on how it was then, and not how it is now. If people are adults, have things in common, new curiosities, and a willingness it shouldn't be a problem.

Funny thing, I've been appraised at 21 by fellow students and when I tell and prove to them I'm 31 it surprises them. I'm young at heart, active, quite possibly immature and still hormonal, I don't do anything in particular to make them think otherwise, it's just how they percieve me.

So I guess age depends in the eye of the beholder

[Kid Presentable]

The first woman I had sex with was 7 years older than me.

My pops was about 23 years older than my mother. Good on them both, I say. She had her illusion of an older, powerful, wealthy provider fulfilled; he got to hook into a younger chick. Both of their screwed-up natures were perfectly complemented.(y)

[b i o n i c]

at your service :cool:

[jennyb]

Generalizations…

As women move towards their late 20s it seems more of them want older men again. Is this desperation? The biological clock thing?

I've never had a thing for older men. Old guys... um, me no likey. I've never ever understood that one. :confused: The young ones are just toooo much fun!!!!

[alexandra]

my best (and basically only) girlfriend has been together with a ten year older guy for one year now (she's 17, he's 27). they seem to have a pretty serious relationship. he's obviously more experienced than her, and from my perspective, he's pushing her into adulthood in an unnatural tempo. he's always going on about how much he'd want a family, etc, and i can understand that, because he's reached that point in his life, most of his buddies are married, etc... but it's sad, considering this pressure he's putting on my friend. we're just in high school ffs. no time to make babies. i once heard him say "guess we'll have to wait 'til you're 19 or so", and i thought "wtf dude, get someone in your own age". it all makes me worried.

[Randetica]

:D

[Randetica]

:D

[iceygirl]

Generalizations…


As women move towards their late 20s it seems more of them want older men again. Is this desperation? The biological clock thing?




its because that they realize that after men hit 18 they stay pretty much at the same maturity level till they hit about 36 (on average)

[fucktopgirl]

its because that they realize that after men hit 18 they stay pretty much at the same maturity level till they hit about 36 (on average)

I think man stay at the same level of maturity all their life,,that is like 15 years old:D

[fucktopgirl]

man are dick and women vagina!

MAn got one brain,that is there dick!

Women are more sensible ,think more and are more emotionnel.

A man ejaculate and is day is pretty much done!

Women need a litle bit more then having an orgasm to be fulfilled!


Now, i just generalise and make a bit of a sarcastic remark,nonetheless,,it is true somehow!

As for dating when there is a big difference of age;it is relatif to where this big age difference is located.Let say a man of 30 want to fuck and have a relation with a 15 years girl.Well that is a little bit wacko.Now a man who is 45 going out with a girl of 24,this can be more acceptable due to the fact that the girl is develop(No,not her fucking boobs),her mental and ideology are more defined then a 15.So she is less at risk to be influenced and more aware of her judgement!And i know you where all aware of that,just wanted to type some words here!

So yea,age difference can matter in some situation.Like in mtl,there is this story of man of 35 (or something)that had sex with a 15 old girl,get her pregnant.Now the baby is born and the dad want to see his child >but the case is in court because there is an abuse of age and the guy did do like 5 years of prison.So,definitely ,that guy is fuck ,mentaly fuck,and he will not have the guard of is child so far.What did he do for showing his despair:he just wanted to jump of the bridge"pont JAcques CArtier"and block the circulation.Yea freaking psycho,they should fucking ended is life right on the spot or else put him to sleep like they do with animal.

Anyway,there is healthy age difference in relationship and some totally inacceptable!

[vickista]

my parents have an age differance of 17 yrs.
is that a bit too big? my dad was the older of the too. but i think it was my mums fault she has a thing for older men. she was 19 when they first met and 24 when they got married so its not like they rushed into it or anything, but i rekon all couples with age differences that are big eventually regret it. coz the older ones have gone out and seen the world and now they just want to settle down, wheras the younger ones havent and they want to but thats not what their partner wants so they end up settling even though they dont want to.

[fucktopgirl]

coz the older ones have gone out and seen the world and now they just want to settle down, wheras the younger ones havent and they want to but thats not what their partner wants so they end up settling even though they dont want to.


well this problem can happen even when people are the same age!
Some people want to settle down ;some just have the "bougeotte"!

bougeotte=wanting to move

[vickista]

well this problem can happen even when people are the same age!
Some people want to settle down ;some just have the "bougeotte"!

bougeotte=wanting to move


true, but i rekon when u have an age difference like a big one that issue becomes more pronounced.