How many people have you slept with?

[DandyFop]

Yes, yes I know it "doesn't matter", but I'm just curious - how many people have you had intercourse with? Same rules as bigblu's thread - actual penis in vagina action. There's only like one gay person that's revealed themselves here so far, (Tzar's friend...I can't remember her name) so I'm going totally straight on this one.

The results are anonymous, btw

[alexandra]

three is the magic number.

all buddies.

all un-circumsized. :=/

[mp-seventythree]

6

[abcdefz]

Too many.

[DandyFop]

I get surprised at my number, because it's all been over the last 3 years, and I think, man, for 6 people I sure haven't had a lot of sex.

[Videodrome]

13-15
me love you long time.

[kaiser soze]

13

I can name them all too

Jen, Kat, Jen, Patsy, Amy, Nicki, Jessica, Francine, Caroline, Laura, Kristy, Adrienne, Nicky

not counting just oral

[b-grrrlie]

Too many.Yeah, I could've been better off with just 1% of them... :(

[DandyFop]

Well obviously there is the correlation in age here...I'm guessing my number will be upped quite a bit in 10 years

[ampm]

54. Did I win?

[Cooky Puss]

1. :(

[DandyFop]

Two of mine were only once. LAME.

Uh, not one-nighters.

Well, not both.

Nevermind.

[ampm]

I forgot about the chicken party!

[g-mile7]

damn at the people voting 15+

[CJM]

uno

[ericlee]

19

[Randetica]

zerro deniro

[Chicka B]

Hmmm, about 0.

[kleptomaniac]

goose egg

[na§tee]

one.
my boyfriend of nearly 5 years.
i'm not ashamed, although some people think it's sort of weird and make fun of me for it.
they take the piss more out of the fact that i've only kissed one guy, too.
fuck them, i say!

[alexandra]

\m/

i like you, na§tee.

[Randetica]

people are not used to non slutty girls anymore

[g-mile7]

thats the holy grail right there

[enree erzweglle]

I've been monogamous in each relationship that I've had. Two of those relationships were long term (years and years for each). I'm not and have never been into casual sex--for me, sex is not a thing to do with someone that I don't know, that I haven't connected with, or that I just met. It's a major turnoff to me when people treat sex casually--that's probably why I avoided the drunk-girl thing in college and bar-hopping after that.

To me, sex is something to do with or explore with someone when it feels like there's a connection. Anything less than would feel sort of grossly empty to me.

Anyway, I've been happy with the decisions that I've made in this department--everything that I've done in that regard was/is a conscious choice and along the way I think I've made only one questionable character judgement. Live/learn.

(I've also learned not to talk numbers when it comes to things like this unless I know you moderately well and I don't. :p)

[na§tee]

\m/

i like you, na§tee.
hey - thanks! :o
that really made me feel good about something i've constantly been slagged off for so thankyou, seriously. i likes ya too. blush.

[DandyFop]

one.
my boyfriend of nearly 5 years.
i'm not ashamed, although some people think it's sort of weird and make fun of me for it.
they take the piss more out of the fact that i've only kissed one guy, too.
fuck them, i say!

Who the hell would make fun of you for that? Weird.

It's funny to me that someone could think a certain number makes someone a slut though. I'm certainly not one, and yet I get the impression that people here might think I was. Interesting.

[cosmo105]

yeah, well, i've made out with tons!

[QueenAdrock]

I've been monogamous in each relationship that I've had. Two of those relationships were long term (years and years for each). I'm not and have never been into casual sex--for me, sex is not a thing to do with someone that I don't know, that I haven't connected with, or that I just met. It's a major turnoff to me when people treat sex casually--that's probably why I avoided the drunk-girl thing in college and bar-hopping after that.

To me, sex is something to do with or explore with someone when it feels like there's a connection. Anything less than would feel sort of grossly empty to me.

BINGO! (y)

I've only been with one other guy. Hopefully that number will double in the near future. :o

[Randetica]

it's just too easy to say "im not a slut"

i need facts! cold hard facts!

[cookiepuss]

the poll only goes to 15+? hummmmm... I'm like 15 +++

honestly I don't know how many. I stopped counting after 25. I'm pretty sure it less than 50. I was a promiscuous girl between the ages of 20-26. and I'm not ashamed. I had fun.

[beastieangel01]

not that many. I feel weird giving an actual number in public though.

[DandyFop]

That's why I made the poll anonymous....you don't have to tell

[beastieangel01]

yeah I checked the correct one. :)

[DandyFop]

slut!


<3

[beastieangel01]

ok ok,

490845095803985403023093098234023423

that's how many :cool:

[cookiepuss]

kinda funny...when my boyfriend first asked me the number a few weeks after we started dating (and had already done it) I was like: "ooooooh. is that info real important to you?" (I was a bit worried ) he said: no really just curious. So i told him: we'll...it's less than 50.... but more than 20. he laughed and said that's exactly the same answer he was going to give me when it was my turn to ask.

we're both sluts. :D


who here has seen Grandma's Boy? I loved when the "Silver Fox" tells him he's her 3 thousand and sumthin. hee hee

[supermars]

who here has seen Grandma's Boy? I loved when the "Silver Fox" tells him she's her 3 thousand and sumthin. hee hee

that movie was sooo underrated! so many funny parts :D

[cookiepuss]

that movie was sooo underrated! so many funny parts :D

oh I completely agree. I loved it and thought it was rediculous all at the same time. I think I might watch it again tonight.:cool:

[Planetary]

all un-circumsized. :=/
w00t

[Tzar]

i voted.
i'm still a virgin. so what?
:cool:

one thing i hate when i'm forced to tell girls this, they all say "AWW that's so cute!" get fucked! i know you're laughing at me in your head!

and when chicks say "nah don't be ashamed of it, i wish i was a virgin still" get fucked x 2!!

i've been told by two girls that i was lying (about being a virgin). i don't think they still believe.

[The Notorious LOL]

I dont know anyone who thinks its anything to be ashamed of thats older than 16 anyway.

[Tzar]

that's the thing. i don't really care about it but chicks just immediately assume i'm ashamed of it?

and they say "aww! you're waiting for the right one :D"
no i'm not?

[Mr Films]

3 for myself.

two were long-term relationships/disasters waiting to happen. i always forget about the 3rd because it was this girl i just sort of dated a few months back.

that and I'm an awful human being.

[ampm]

We used to "pigging" at the university. We'd find these fat chicks, get them tipsy and f&ck them hard!

[Mr Films]

We used to "pigging" at the university. We'd find these fat chicks, get them tipsy and f&ck them hard!

oh snap! fo realz?

[zorra_chiflada]

We used to "pigging" at the university. We'd find these fat chicks, get them tipsy and f&ck them hard!


*high five*

*butt slap*

[ampm]

Pounds equal points baby!

[Knuckles]

i voted.
i'm still a virgin. so what?
:cool:

one thing i hate when i'm forced to tell girls this, they all say "AWW that's so cute!" get fucked! i know you're laughing at me in your head!

and when chicks say "nah don't be ashamed of it, i wish i was a virgin still" get fucked x 2!!

i've been told by two girls that i was lying (about being a virgin). i don't think they still believe.
Certainly nothing wrong with it but I must say I'm surprised. You seem like a cool, good looking dude. What is your reason for keepin' it in the pants?

[Justin]

I was a virgin until i was 19. Then my dick started going crazy on me. I couldn't keep it in my pants.

The answer is....I dunno..approximately..ummm at least 8

[Tzar]

Certainly nothing wrong with it but I must say I'm surprised. You seem like a cool, good looking dude. What is your reason for keepin' it in the pants?
thanks darl ;)
nah, i really haven't had the 'opportunity' with a chick. i've only ever been alone with my girlfriend, at the time, maybe... 2 times ever? and this was within the first couple of days of going out. i was younger and, well, probably a bit too novice to pick up on any signs the chick mighta been giving me.

i'm the type of guy who waits for the chick to make the move first instead of making the move. not because i'm nervous, but i don't wanna try something and have the chick be all "oh nah, not now, please" cause i'd hit myself big time over it.

[Justin]

Its hard to find chicks like that, so....

Be agressive. Let your dick talk to you instead of your brain.

[Tzar]

Its hard to find chicks like that, so....

Be agressive. Let your dick talk to you instead of your brain.
that ain't how i roll though, dawg.
i have been more 'meh' about relationships for the past year and a bit though. hooked up with plenty of chicks i never planned to (y)
funny how alcohol works...

[Justin]

Alcohol makes me small. Being sober is the best

[befsquire]

na§tee, you should be proud. anyone who gives you a hard time is likely wishing they weren't so slutty. i know i certainly wish i could take a couple of them back, but alas, i cannot. you are in the enviable position of having no regrets.

i'll not name my number, but i will say i was a huge make-out slut. i think we had a thread about this before, and my number was 43. if that thread was before bobby, then he's 44. not something to be proud of, just the way it was.

tzar, i liked your post a lot. it's nice that you are trying to allow the women to make the move so that you don't put them in a spot you think they may not want to be in. however, women like for men to make the moves (generally speaking), so perhaps you could tell a girl that at any time if she is uncomfortable, she should just say so without needing to worry about having said stop.

[Tzar]

tzar, i liked your post a lot. it's nice that you are trying to allow the women to make the move so that you don't put them in a spot you think they may not want to be in. however, women like for men to make the moves (generally speaking), so perhaps you could tell a girl that at any time if she is uncomfortable, she should just say so without needing to worry about having said stop.
thanks duder.
yeah i always have that in my mind; i have got a bit more confidence than before and i am a lot looser around chicks i've never met. i don't want this thread to be about me though!! next person-to-go-under-the-spotlight!

[QueenAdrock]

one thing i hate when i'm forced to tell girls this, they all say "AWW that's so cute!" get fucked! i know you're laughing at me in your head!

I doubt it. That's really respectable. Much more so than the guys who are just always out patrolling for booty, because that seems pretty skeezy to me.

[Kid Presentable]

thanks darl ;)
nah, i really haven't had the 'opportunity' with a chick. i've only ever been alone with my girlfriend, at the time, maybe... 2 times ever? and this was within the first couple of days of going out. i was younger and, well, probably a bit too novice to pick up on any signs the chick mighta been giving me.

i'm the type of guy who waits for the chick to make the move first instead of making the move. not because i'm nervous, but i don't wanna try something and have the chick be all "oh nah, not now, please" cause i'd hit myself big time over it.
Fuck, dude I was EXACTLY like that as a youngster. I wouldn't make the move cause I figured she was stooping low enough to be in my company, and if I tried something she'd be like: "What directly the fuck do you think you're doing?".

It winds up crippling you, man.

[Tzar]

i didn't think the chick was 'stooping down to my level'.
i just.. if i'm alone with a chick, it's not the priority or the goal. i just let one thing lead to another.

i'd rather:
do nothing with a chick i like 1 night and be cool with her so something can happen in the future.
instead of:
fuck the bitch for one night and never talk to her again.

i sure as fuck don't wanna 'crippled' by it though. (n)

[Kid Presentable]

i didn't think the chick was 'stooping down to my level'.
i just.. if i'm alone with a chick, it's not the priority or the goal. i just let one thing lead to another.

i'd rather:
do nothing with a chick i like 1 night and be cool with her so something can happen in the future.
instead of:
fuck the bitch for one night and never talk to her again.

i sure as fuck don't wanna 'crippled' by it though. (n)
Yeah, sorry dude, I didn't want to lump my feelings in with yours.(y)

But still, girls like sex, too.

[CrankItUp!]

I wish I could've realized that so long ago myself - really too.

[DandyFop]

Still nobody in the 10 - 12 range. Maybe I'll go screw 5 guys tomorrow.

[na§tee]

na§tee, you should be proud. anyone who gives you a hard time is likely wishing they weren't so slutty. i know i certainly wish i could take a couple of them back, but alas, i cannot. you are in the enviable position of having no regrets.
awwh. bef! and everyone else who said kind things; thanks so much.
it only very rarely gets me down - in fact, i wouldn't say that it gets me down so much as it annoys me that people can be so judgemental. probably for the reasons that you mention. so yeah, fuck 'em. i do get a lot of people who say, like yrself, that they wish they could take a coupla off their track record or whatever and think that's it's sorta a cool thing.
so imma think it's a cool thing: :cool:, see? ;)

[b-grrrlie]

My number is pretty high, but I am of age and never had a long term relationship. I had some periods in my life when I thought sex was fun so I did it a lot and then some of the occations weren't that fun and turned me off completely making me celibate for several years. Then I'd try again and get dissappointed, again and again. Now it's been over four years without and ain't missing it.

[Rock]

[Grandma's Boy] was sooo underrated! so many funny parts :D
Dante: "I'll smoke it with ya bro, we'll go to the loony bin together. I don't give a fuck."

Alex: "Oh, my God! I'm sorry! I can't stop coming! I'm sorry! Ohh! It feels so good!"


I think it was the funniest movie I've seen all year.

Back to the thread's topic.

I've only had dick in vagina with one person. By choice.

Everything else, I never kept track.

[Randetica]

my mum had no sex in 18 years
my dad has 18 times sex a day

[fucktopgirl]

I can say 2 and maybe a guy ,long time ago,who we kinda make out but not totally,so yea 2!

the guy who steal my virginity and my current bf!

[Vic Colfari]

Women report an average of six sex partners in their lifetimes; men, 20. But a better gauge of sexual activity for most people is the median, the midpoint between the high and low: Women report a median of three sex partners; men, a median of eight.

The averages are higher because a small number of individuals — especially men — report a very large number of partners. Five percent of the men in this sample reported having had 99 or more sex partners, including four who reported 200, three who reported 300 and one who reported 400. Among women, one percent reported 99 or more partners; the high was 100 (reported by two women).

Total Number of Sex Partners

Average Median

All 13 5

Men 20 8

Women 6 3

[cosmo105]

i actually kind of wish i had gotten through mine earlier so it wouldn't have been such a big deal to me, because i really wish the person i gave it to was someone, anyone else - i think it would have given me a different perspective.

[abcdefz]

Hugh Jackman claimed he's slept with more than 300 women, and I was like, "Whoa -- I thought I was bad!" :eek:

[The Notorious LOL]

If women average six and men average 20, and there is more women on the planet than men...it either means the average male is full of shit or the average woman is full of shit.

[abcdefz]

...I think that women under-report and men over-report. Society kind of encourages it.

[Nuzzolese]

I'm fine with the number of men I've slept with, but horrified at the number of almosts...where I almost went through with it or seriously considered it. Shudder to think of the number if I'd gone all the way with all of them.

[The Notorious LOL]

...I think that women under-report and men over-report. Society kind of encourages it.



I dont report. Its my business.

[Nuzzolese]

...I think that women under-report and men over-report. Society kind of encourages it.

Because a women becomes low class in her overuse and a man remains useless in his inexperience. I think we'd all be better in bed if everyone was hard to get and stubborn. Nothing makes you really good at something like being forced to try your best. If it comes easy you never get a challenge. Seduction is basically the same thing as manipulation.

[DipDipDive]

Because a women becomes low class in her overuse and a man remains useless in his inexperience. I think we'd all be better in bed if everyone was hard to get and stubborn. Nothing makes you really good at something like being forced to try your best. If it comes easy you never get a challenge. Seduction is basically the same thing as manipulation.

Wouldn't reserving sexual intimacy for people we actually care about achieve the same effect? We'd all be better in bed if we were more passionate about our partners, and playing hard to get is one way to achieve a high level of passion, but so is love.

[abcdefz]

Nothing makes you really good at something like being forced to try your best. If it comes easy you never get a challenge.



Probably 80% of the time, the most "beautiful" women I slept with were the most dull in bed, and there wasn't a whole lot I could do to make things most interesting, which leads to a kind of depressing fuck.

One time, I just stopped and got dressed. I wished I'd had the character to do that more often; I also wish I hadn't kind of enjoyed hurting that girl's feelings that way. But, I mean, cripes! Move a little, or something.

[abcdefz]

Wouldn't reserving sexual intimacy for people we actually care about achieve the same effect? We'd all be better in bed if we were more passionate about our partners, and playing hard to get is one way to achieve a high level of passion, but so is love.


This is true at the beginning, but sex can become rote with anyone unless you put some effort into it.

I also can't imagine going onstage and playing "Satisfaction" for nigh on forty years, so what do I know. :)

[Lex Diamonds]

In the days of old I was a nut
Now I need at least 3 ho's when I fuck
Cuz I do a check
Nut 1
Nut 2

Then I save a nut for when there's nothin else to do.

:) (y)

[Nuzzolese]

Wouldn't reserving sexual intimacy for people we actually care about achieve the same effect? We'd all be better in bed if we were more passionate about our partners, and playing hard to get is one way to achieve a high level of passion, but so is love.

But if you love someone it's hard to reject their sexual advances just because they're clumsy and off the mark. Sometimes it's good for people to get rejected, they have to learn to get it right! No guy is going to change his routine if he's getting it regular. He'll just go on poking and proding and he'll love his woman and think she's fine with it because she just tolerates his sub-par love-making because she's so in love with him.

[Nuzzolese]

And another thing, you know I wasn't saying anything about how we should be more reserved just because it would make better lovers...I said that might be one result. It's just a theory. I never said holding out for love would not be just as good as as playing hard to get.

[abcdefz]

But if you love someone it's hard to reject their sexual advances just because they're clumsy and off the mark. Sometimes it's good for people to get rejected, they have to learn to get it right! No guy is going to change his routine if he's getting it regular. He'll just go on poking and proding and he'll love his woman and think she's fine with it because she just tolerates his sub-par love-making because she's so in love with him.


The flip side of that is the uncommunicative mate. Most women I've asked have been really, really reluctant to teach me what pleases them. Instead, what you usually get is "that's fine" or whatever. That kind of drives me nuts.

[DipDipDive]

And another thing, you know I wasn't saying anything about how we should be more reserved just because it would make better lovers...I said that might be one result. It's just a theory. I never said holding out for love would not be just as good as as playing hard to get.

I know, babycakes.

I've been with six people, only one of whom I had a very strong sexual connection with. It just so happens he's the only one of the six I really loved. That could just be luck, I suppose, but I doubt it. Hence MY theory. ;)

[mickill]

One time, I just stopped and got dressed. I wished I'd had the character to do that more often; I also wish I hadn't kind of enjoyed hurting that girl's feelings that way. But, I mean, cripes! Move a little, or something.
So you don't just walk out in the middle of bad movies then I see.

[Nuzzolese]

Then again, holding out makes anything better when you finally get it. Like Eddie Murphy said in his stand-up routine (Raw)

But they'll tell you, "I don't wanna fuck, I wanna make love." And they make you wait. And you wait and wait and wait and wait.And you just keep on waiting, you just wait and finally she gives you some. And it's the best you ever had in your life. You come harder than you've ever came."This was it. This was the feeling I've been searching for. I finally made love."

You didn't make love.
It just felt real good. You know why? Because you waited
five months for it.

If you're starving and somebody
throw you a cracker,you gonna be like this:

"Goddamn, that's the best cracker I ever ate in my life! That ain't no regular cracker, was it? What was that, a Saltine? Goddamn, that was delicious.That wasn't no Saltine. That was...That was a Ritz. That wasn't a Ritz? God, that was the best cracker I ever ate in my life. Can I have another one, please? Please, one more." Then you get married, because you think you've found the bomb. Have the same crackersevery day for a year. And you roll over one day and be like: "Hey, I just got some regular old crackers."

[enree erzweglle]

Whenever I've been unenthusiastic in bed, it's usually because the guy is being selfish or repetitive, he's just pounding away, he's just shit in bed, or he's doing some stupid thing that either hurts or is funny. God unintentional funny in bed is shit.

This one guy used to do a thing and I'd ask him not to do that thing but he'd do it or slide into doing it and I'd be like :rolleyes: and I'd ask him to stop and he'd say "Why?" and I'd tell him and he'd get all hurt and he'd stop sex altogether but then the next time, he'd do it again and I'd ask him to stop and he'd say "Why?" and I'd tell him and he'd get all puppy dog again and that was what sex became. So I tried redirection, I tried distraction, and I tried sort of just being there but not really there, you know and when I did that, I always thought of that joke about painting the ceiling beige I was so, so fucking bored. I could have just laid there, stationary and doing like sums in my head but I talked with him about it outside of the actual act itself because asking him during the act was ineffectual. I approached it really sweetly, nicely--communication, you know? He said he understood but then he'd do that thing again so I stopped having sex with him and I did that not to be punitive but because I stopped wanting sex with him for fear of having to have the discussion with the Why? and the puppy dog eyes and the beige ceiling. I guess that's the female equivalent of doing what a-z did (walking out cold).

[icy manipulator]

8, but i'm still only 21 years and haven't made my first billion yet

[icy manipulator]

three is the magic number.

all buddies.

all un-circumsized. :=/
wow you really do learn something new everyday :p

[TimDoolan]

i actually kind of wish i had gotten through mine earlier so it wouldn't have been such a big deal to me, because i really wish the person i gave it to was someone, anyone else - i think it would have given me a different perspective.


me too:(

[chromium05]

thanks darl ;)
i'm the type of guy who waits for the chick to make the move first instead of making the move. not because i'm nervous, but i don't wanna try something and have the chick be all "oh nah, not now, please" cause i'd hit myself big time over it.

Man I'm still like that at the age of 31. I always envied my best mate who could just walk up to a girl and just say something dumb like " Hey I like your shoes. Wanna fuck?". The amount of times that brashness got him results amazes me.

But I just can't do it. I'll spend ages trying to figure out what the fuck I'm supposed to say and then I walk up and just blurt some shit like "Hi. What do you think of the internal combustion engine?"

I realised that I was pressuring myself into situations I wasn't happy in so stopped putting myself in them. I also realised that everytime I drifted into relationships or casual sex etc, it was with girls that I had drifted into conversation with - friends of friends where the friend was an introducer / ice breaker.

Now I just let shit happen at it's own pace.

Oh, and those people on 20+, I wonder how many of those were one offs. A relationship might limit you to one person for x amount of time, but the frequency of sex gives those in relationships a much better time.
And much more experience

[Kid Presentable]

If women average six and men average 20, and there is more women on the planet than men...it either means the average male is full of shit or the average woman is full of shit.
I can't do the deed unless I've taken a shit that day.

[SobaViolence]

i hit 12 and 13 within the last 2 weeks.


unfortunately, i feel proud about neither...

[hitmonlee]

the poll only goes to 15+? hummmmm... I'm like 15 +++


lol yeah most sites where i see this poll the options are more like

virgin
1-5
5-10
10-20
20-30
30-40
40+

i'm on about 20-21 i think
only one of them was a one night stand i'd met that night and would never speak to again
the rest were either friends or boyfriends

[DandyFop]

Yes, in hindsight I should have made the poll numbers more broad.

I guess I could make another one if I really wanted to.

We'll do another in 6 months and see if anyone's numbers have upped ;)

[zorra_chiflada]

or make it a public poll

[DandyFop]

nah...you're welcome to, but I don't think as many people will answer...doubtful.

[hitmonlee]

Yes, in hindsight I should have made the poll numbers more broad.

I guess I could make another one if I really wanted to.

We'll do another in 6 months and see if anyone's numbers have upped ;)

nah i dont think the poll options need to be different, it just made me realise that beastie boy fans sleep with a lot less people than ravers lol.

[Rancid_Beasties]

nah...you're welcome to, but I don't think as many people will answer...doubtful.
Everyone is saying what they voted anyway pretty much.

[Calimero jr.]

Exactly 7, only 1 was a one night stand...

[BangkokB]

How many licks does it take to get to the end of a tootsie roll pop?

the world may never know