Why is it men keep going younger and younger?

[B4BY 4NN]

I have this friend (dotdotdot)

We work together, we sometimes hang out. Nothing more. But I've come to notice in the recent months he flirts, A LOT, with the younger hostesses. They're 15, 16...

I really don't mind. I'm not jealous or anything. It just irritates me when these girls ask "Oh, well, is he a perv? Do you think it would be all right if we hung out?" because they know we're friends.


Explain to me what the trend is.

[B4BY 4NN]

BTW; he's 30-ish :"\

[SobaViolence]

if these girls know dude's in his 30s and still 'wanna hang out'

shit, lead the lambs to the slaughter.
that's the only way they'll learn.

[Kid Presentable]

if these girls know dude's in his 30s and still 'wanna hang out'

shit, lead the lambs to the slaughter.
that's the only way they'll learn.
Truth. The reason men chase younger women sorta coincides with the reasons women try to maintain their youth as they get older.

[Tone Capone]

Maybe because women keep getting older and older? :confused:

joking... kinda

[TonsOfFun]

I heard/read somehere that some boffins once did a study and found that a perfect age for a girlfriend (taking into account social standing, maturity etc) is half their age plus 7.

So like me, I'm 26 in a few weeks: I should be aiming for a 20 year old :)

I also think that this is true, in my experience girls prefer to date older men and men perfer to date younger women. Accept if you are 12 years old then the result would be 13 year old girlfriend.

If I could be bothered to find the article I would but its probably gonna linked somewhere here (http://www.google.com)

[Waus]

As far as I'm concerned it all has to do with compatibility/maturity.

I don't intentionally try to date older or younger. If I meet a girl that I really like and enjoy spending time with, I don't care how old she is (within reason). How a girl approaches a relationship is what makes all the difference to me. My last girl had huge emotional issues where she would question our relationship every week or have bouts of "needing space" and then suddenly "wanting to see me."

Younger girls usually have less baggage, and so they're more likely give you what you want from them (not necessarily sexually speaking).

[TAL]

I heard/read somehere that some boffins once did a study and found that a perfect age for a girlfriend (taking into account social standing, maturity etc) is half their age plus 7.

So like me, I'm 26 in a few weeks: I should be aiming for a 20 year old :)

I also think that this is true, in my experience girls prefer to date older men and men perfer to date younger women. Accept if you are 12 years old then the result would be 13 year old girlfriend.

If I could be bothered to find the article I would but its probably gonna linked somewhere here (http://www.google.com)
A nice site that calculates for you.

http://www.lura.net/03/romance/

[Kid Presentable]

That's what I like about these high school girls, I get older, and they stay the same age.
hahaaaaa wouldabeen...

[Planetary]

That's what I like about these high school girls, I get older, and they stay the same age.

haha thats off family guy, too.

[enree erzweglle]

I heard/read somehere that some boffins once did a study and found that a perfect age for a girlfriend (taking into account social standing, maturity etc) is half their age plus 7.

So like me, I'm 26 in a few weeks: I should be aiming for a 20 year old

I also think that this is true, in my experience girls prefer to date older men and men perfer to date younger women. Accept if you are 12 years old then the result would be 13 year old girlfriend.

A nice site that calculates for you.

http://www.lura.net/03/romance/

Because that math is beyond us all. :)

[Tzar]

i wanna be in my 20's - chicks don't dig ya when you're all "yeah, i'm 18/19". (n)

[Nuzzolese]

Younger girls have lower expectations and are willing to put with more stupid shit because they don't know any better. That takes the pressure off the guy to have to be the best man he can be, he's given some slack to just be lazy and thoughtless. If you walk among children you feel tall, strong and capable in comparison. Women their age may not flatter their egos enough.

[Kid Presentable]

Younger girls have lower expectations and are willing to put with more stupid shit because they don't know any better. That takes the pressure off the guy to have to be the best man he can be, he's given some slack to just be lazy and thoughtless. If you walk among children you feel tall, strong and capable in comparison. Women their age may not flatter their egos enough.
Women of all ages tolerate crazy shit.

[Bob]

Women of all ages tolerate crazy shit.

yeah. haven't you ever seen COPS?

[Loppfessor]

Man when I was younger like 18-22 or so I used to LOVE older women like 35-45 but now that I"m aging a bit I'm all about the younger ones like 18 or 19. I think it's a control thing or whatever I dunno.

[enree erzweglle]

Seems to me that often it's that young/er women are less of a burden in ways that appeal to a lot of guys. I think a lot of women's attitudes flux and shift between when they're, say, 25 and 45 and sometimes a guy, in his 40s, will sort of wake up and realize how much has changed and shifted in his relationship and with women his age, with his particular woman. Because I'm not sure that guys' attitudes and behaviors change as drastically as a lot of women's attitudes and behaviors do.

If there's anything to that, maybe what we see is a reaction (from guys) to that--a lot of women get more conservative, judging, closed-minded, kind of prudish. Lots of them llose the ability or even desire to have fun, relax and be open to things the way they did/were in their teenage years, in their 20s. They let themselves go way to hell. Suffocating. And the guy, meanwhile, is still kind of adventuresome because he hasn't undergone those fluxes. So maybe he's drawn to younger women because their interests are more aligned--those women are more carefree and maybe a little ditzy and experimental still and that might appeal to guys more so than the prospect of dealing with women who become the total opposite to that as they've gotten older.

That might sound like I'm generalizing, but I've just seen it happen so, so many times that there has to be something to it. Or maybe it's something ineffable or some innate tendency in males to find young mates to ensure the survival of the species. Who knows. It's weird.

[Justin]

In all honestly...

Men like younger women because they like experimenting. We (men) like it when we know we know more about sex than they do and that excites us. It's like a small challenge we know we can conquer.



And they say "no" to you less.

[TAL]

Because that math is beyond us all. :)
It can be tricky at times.

[Nuzzolese]

The open, relaxed, experimental behavior women have at a young age often leads to being taken advantage of, being made into a joke, being used, and not being respected. Although it may have been fun and liberating in spirit, becomes something associated with misery and regret.

That openness is sometimes just ordinary naivete. Older women maybe change as a reaction to the way they were treated by men...maybe by men who were older then they were. It's wiser, more defensive and protective behavior to be more "closed-minded, judgemental and prudish" such as judging a sleazy looking guy coming onto you in the same way a million other guys have, being prudish and closed-minded enough not to be impressed by his false promises, not to sleep with him right away.

I'm not saying this out of bitterness, just that it is another way of looking at it. Older women are more high maintenance than younger women and often do require more in order to be impressed or to give someone trust.

That is, unless it's her decision to go out and pursue some love affair in which case she decides her own level of behavior and involvement - which maybe kills it for a guy who desires more control over her.

[Ace42X]

If you walk among children you feel tall, strong and capable in comparison. Women their age may not flatter their egos enough.

You are forgetting:

1. Will have knee-shooters.
2. Will have been banged more times than Clint Eastwood's stunt pistol.

Younger chicks have less baggage and neuroses.

I think Enree is, again, bang on the money.

[TonsOfFun]

reading a few threads on this forum today you'd think men and women hate each other yet most will still happily swap bodily fluids.

[fucktopgirl]

man are perverted!

[Ace42X]

reading a few threads on this forum today you'd think men and women hate each other yet most will still happily swap bodily fluids.

The mating drive is strong in foxes too, which "yiff" and fight all through coitus.

[Nuzzolese]

I think younger women have just as many issues as older - it's just that men don't feel the need to be committed to them because younger women don't want that kind of committment. And maybe younger women don't feel the need to share some kind of partnership in life, where you share your problems. They just want dates and sex - which is what the older guys want too. So they want the same things.

I don't even know becuase depending on who I'm with, I could be considered younger or older or the same age and I'm still the same person.