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g-mile7
06-19-2006, 10:59 AM
My armor has taken a serious ding in the past week. Two girls I cared for (one more then the other), recently got back with their "supposdly" cruel ex's. One even married the guy that she told me "hurt her so bad" (when she called crying 3 weeks or so ago) on June 15th. The other who I last saw in Sept for her b-day and was so happy to see me, the one I bought her fav. animal in stuffed form and said she loved it and was so happy to see me, now doenst even want to talk to me anymore even though I never did nothing wrong to her. Y'all know not too much really hits me to a point where I just want to give in, but this hit pretty hard. Just decided to post this (and I dont get too personel on here) just for those cool with me to see. Just needed to get it off my chest.
DandyFop
06-19-2006, 11:02 AM
I bet you the second girl doesn't want to see you because it would be a reminder of the stupid decision she made to be with an asshole. She probably doesn't know this is the reason, but for some way or another she knows she can't see you, because maybe she just doesn't want to face the facts. That sucks man. It's so hard seeing people you love get hurt, but it's even harder seeing them make the choice to be hurt again.
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 11:08 AM
you and i were never like that, just friends. i dont like it when my guy friends try to get at me like that, it makes me uncomfortable. my best guy friend alexis did that shit and we stopped talking for a while. but now we are cool. my boyfriend is airis. he moved back and we are working things out. yeah its going to be a lot of money for living on campus there but ill try it out for one semester and if i dont think its worth it than ill totally do something else, maybe just commute from home or something. anyways talk to you later.
ness
when she sent this to me I started to suspect that it was Airis (the abusive one) since she only starts to talk like this when she lets him be around her, in fact me and her were extremly close. She only starts to talk like this when that muthafuckin 'igga comes back into her life
I wrote:
Vanessa, I don't know why all of a sudden your acting suprised that I have some feelings for you that extneds pass friendship. You have known this since day one, but to be fair I knew that you weren't entirely feeling me like that so I never made too much of an effort to try and convince you otherwise. Everytime we have met in person or talked on the phone I have been respectful. Never have I said anything to the point of wanting to "get at you" as you put it. I care for you more then you'll ever know, but the sad thing is I have started to realize that you might never know. Truth be told, I am not happy about you getting back together with Airis after all you have told me about what has happened. Love's has it's ups and downs, yes, but there are certain things that someone who proclaims to love should not do as he has done with you. If everything you told me about what down in the past 2+ years if accurate, then he is undeserving of your time, affection and love. The thing that makes me even more upset is the fact that you give him more the benifit of the doubt then the one who has never done wrong to you, if anything, has shown love to you since 01'. If this is not enough to solidfy a postion as someone who is close to you, in any way, then that is on you. IF there is knowledge, advice, wisedom I can give you it is this: the choices we make define our reality, our meaning of life is based on choices, nothing else. The one you choose will determine your life. The decision to let someone who you said made you "so depressed that you dropped to 95lbs and was sucidal" back into your life as more then a friend is something I do not understand, I will never understand it no matter how many girls I know have this happen, for you are not the first.
If you feel more uneasy about me wanting to be closer to you in a manner of being you boyfriend, which I wouldn't mind but know will never happen as long as you look through the world through fogged windows, the someone who hurt you deeply then that speaks louder then any non phone call or whatever. I am here for you, but I can always say and do so much.
My hope is you do not take this in anger or whatever, if you dont know me and my ways by now then you never will, my hope is to be real with you. If he had just got in a petty argument over some insignificant junk then I wouldnt be dropping these lines like this, but after all it was you who told me all that went down. I guess even though I might match alot of what you list as your criteria, he has something I don't that overshadows any shortcomings.
and her response(sent today)?:
please do not contact me anymore. Thank You.
all that talk bout wanting to become closer, wanting me to send her a song......guess it all changes in 10 months' and the other girl shoot......thats an even longer story. Once again thanks Dandy, we have had our disagreements, but that did mean something to me.
kaiser soze
06-19-2006, 11:21 AM
women are fucked up.
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 11:29 AM
women are fucked up.
Really does seem like that sometimes.
enree erzweglle
06-19-2006, 11:31 AM
Awww, that's sad but try not to let it bug you. I know that's (lb) but it's the best thing because who knows what those other people are thinking, what's going on with them. You could make yourself crazy trying to figure it all out and by the time you do, they probalby will have moved onto something else.
You seem like such a great guy and solid friend, g-mile. That's so sweet. (y)
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 11:34 AM
Awww, that's sad but try not to let it bug you. I know that's (lb) but it's the best thing because who knows what those other people are thinking, what's going on with them. You could make yourself crazy trying to figure it all out and by the time you do, they probalby will have moved onto something else.
You seem like such a great guy and solid friend, g-mile. That's so sweet. (y)
I tried, but unless your a God you can't change people that easily....and I'm not a GOD....yet;) (glad to see I still got jokes)
Lyman Zerga
06-19-2006, 11:45 AM
crap that im never able to help anyone because of a huge lack of life experience but im still able to give out hugs
*super hugs*
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 11:49 AM
crap that im never able to help anyone because of a huge lack of life experience but im still able to give out hugs
*super hugs*
thanks
*hugs back*
Lyman Zerga
06-19-2006, 11:55 AM
:)
SobaViolence
06-19-2006, 01:12 PM
you can only control what you do.
everything else is beyond you, so try not to sweat it.
if this is the way its played out, then it is not meant to be, at least not right now.
my personal motto is 'Never Let The Bastards Get You Down'
take it easy.
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 01:13 PM
you can only control what you do.
everything else is beyond you, so try not to sweat it.
if this is the way its played out, then it is not meant to be, at least not right now.
my personal motto is 'Never Let The Bastards Get You Down'
take it easy.
and I won't let her stupidity control me.....trust I know what you mean.
Lex Diamonds
06-19-2006, 01:28 PM
Sorry to hear this shit g-mile, hope you find yourself a girl that actually knows what she wants soon. God knows I'm still looking. (n)
yeahwho
06-19-2006, 01:28 PM
I do too, for killing that puppy.
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 01:29 PM
Sorry to hear this shit g-mile, hope you find yourself a girl that actually knows what she wants soon. God knows I'm still looking. (n)
thanks homie, and killing puppies makes GOD=:( :D
beastiegirrl101
06-19-2006, 01:32 PM
be happy this happened now and she didnt string you along for a few months / years.
girls are touble...but be patient, she's out there. ;)
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 01:34 PM
be happy this happened now and she didnt string you along for a few months / years.
girls are touble...but be patient, she's out there. ;)
I'm just too nice.....long as I stay real to myself I might never find she'.
yeahwho
06-19-2006, 01:35 PM
I've learned my lesson, Drugs, Guns, Booze and Puppies = Deadly Mix!
SobaViolence
06-19-2006, 01:36 PM
no Sex?
yeahwho
06-19-2006, 01:38 PM
no Sex?
You Dog
Nuzzolese
06-19-2006, 01:47 PM
So you're just going to let her walk out of your life like that? You barely tried to win her back. BARELY. That was pathetic. I say go fight for her. Is she worth it or not? Either she is, and it isn't over; Or she isn't and it isn't worth being upset over either. If she isn't worth trying harder to save her from herself, then you're really only sad over your own bad judgement (you thought you cared about someone and could be her boo and really it was only conditional on her not being a two-faced idiot masochist)
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 01:59 PM
So you're just going to let her walk out of your life like that? You barely tried to win her back. BARELY. That was pathetic. I say go fight for her. Is she worth it or not? Either she is, and it isn't over; Or she isn't and it isn't worth being upset over either. If she isn't worth trying harder to save her from herself, then you're really only sad over your own bad judgement (you thought you cared about someone and could be her boo and really it was only conditional on her not being a two-faced idiot masochist)
When someone saids "please do not contact me again" that pretty much screams you come after me Ima get a lawsuit on yo ass. I ran after her once when she was low and we had a mini-falling out
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v445/greenemile69/Sept2005003.jpg
some might recall this pic, that pic is from that first trip to save her. I cant save someone if they cant save themselves. Only thing I want for her is to be happy, even if her illusion of what happiness is happens to be fogged.
Nuzzolese
06-19-2006, 02:00 PM
Is that her favorite animal in stuffed form?
Maybe she thought you were trying to control her and tell her what to do.
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 02:05 PM
Is that her favorite animal in stuffed form?
Maybe she thought you were trying to control her and tell her what to do.
yes mam(her fav. animal is an elephant so I got her the cutest one I thought and she liked it at the time, but I wouldnt be supirsed if its been thrown inthe trash by the time you read this), and me control that girl....hahaha....thats might be th reason WHY we are in this state of affairs now (since I DIDNT try to control her but this other dude does)
Nuzzolese
06-19-2006, 02:06 PM
There you go then, that's where you failed! Try controlling her and she's yours! Of course, you controlling her will be better than him because you actually know what's best for her - we are to assume.
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 02:08 PM
There you go then, that's where you failed! Try controlling her and she's yours! Of course, you controlling her will be better than him because you actually know what's best for her - we are to assume.
Thats not in my nature at all. Has to do with how my family is run. Besides, how am I supposd to control someone who is allowing another control her?
Nuzzolese
06-19-2006, 02:10 PM
Thats not in my nature at all. Has to do with how my family is run. Besides, how am I supposd to control someone who is allowing another control her?
That's what you have to figure out.
Planetary
06-19-2006, 02:10 PM
sorry to hear that, G.
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 02:14 PM
That's what you have to figure out.
Deep senshi, I guess I'll just call her in a minute then since you put it like that. Guess you lit the fire under my backside, I just hope I don't get burned worst then I am already.
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 02:15 PM
sorry to hear that, G.
4sho shit is hard right now it seems.
Planetary
06-19-2006, 02:30 PM
yeah it sounds it. i've been in a similar but less extreme situation. and that was bad so i can only feel for ya.
hope things improve soon (y)
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 02:32 PM
yeah it sounds it. i've been in a similar but less extreme situation. and that was bad so i can only feel for ya.
hope things improve soon (y)
well will see, Ima goin call her right now, my heart is pounding.
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 02:56 PM
no answer, just a message machine...I left one though.....just said I know you said to not talk to you anymore but I could never be able to have any sort of completion untill we talked, I dont know what is going on in your life but I want you to know I never wanted you to feel any negative towards me, I care for you and I dont know if your just acting like this since you got back with your man but I dont want it to end on sucha a sour note. Vanessa I had to let you know this and wheater you return my email call or whatever, it doesnt matter as long as I did try. I just hope I hear your voice or see you words soon if not then it's been real, ciao....
whole time my voice was shakin shit. A girl I had so much love for guess she didnt have as much for me from what it appears
beastieangel01
06-19-2006, 03:13 PM
you can only control what you do.
everything else is beyond you, so try not to sweat it.
if this is the way its played out, then it is not meant to be, at least not right now.
my personal motto is 'Never Let The Bastards Get You Down'
take it easy.
indeed
DroppinScience
06-19-2006, 03:35 PM
Man, what a bizarre situation! I'm sorry to hear about this, G-mile!
Are you sure this girl is acting herself. I don't understand the "don't contact me anymore, thanks" reply. Are you sure someone didn't write that pretending to be her?
beastiegirrl101
06-19-2006, 03:36 PM
WHY DID YOU CALL???
major no no.
Nuzzolese
06-19-2006, 03:38 PM
Fight for her! Do whatever it takes!
beastiegirrl101
06-19-2006, 03:39 PM
Fight for her! Do whatever it takes!
the girl has obviously made up her mind about him, he should just leave her alone.
If I guy was on my ass like that, after I told him to NOT contact me....I'd be annoyed and there's no way in hell I am contacting him now.
Nuzzolese
06-19-2006, 03:41 PM
Don't listen to her, gmile.
beastiegirrl101
06-19-2006, 03:43 PM
Don't listen to her, gmile.
you secretly want him to fail don't you.
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 03:45 PM
Man, what a bizarre situation! I'm sorry to hear about this, G-mile!
Are you sure this girl is acting herself. I don't understand the "don't contact me anymore, thanks" reply. Are you sure someone didn't write that pretending to be her?
thus the phone call and the "I dont know if that is trully what you wanted but I rather call and make sure"
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 03:51 PM
you secretly want him to fail don't you.
haha, well the fact is like Droppin said its is extremly out of her nature, but it seems like whenever she gets with this nigga (he is black by the way) she gets all weird like this.....after all this is the same dude as she told me in Sept that "ripped up every card I sent her for her b-day" dating to bout 2002.....as well as a picture of me and her with the words "who is this nigga, if I see him in sac Im goin flex on him" so it is possible that she is being affetced by him....I mean when you drop to 95lbs (and you only 4-11 or so) and are sucidal and on nati-depressant and shit then its obivous that the guy got some hold on you.
Natalie you are right, I shouldnt have called her and I mentioned it (
When someone saids "please do not contact me again" that pretty much screams you come after me Ima get a lawsuit on yo ass.) to Nuzz but in the end one call isn't going hurt, just to clairfy the sistuion, she doesnt call me back no harm, if she does least I will know for certain what the deal is. Trust me Nuzz, you might not give me too much credit, but I do know somethings bout girls like this since they seem to flock round me......only I thought this one was diffrent, my baby girl...and I was her J....psssh guess shit changes......will see if she replys I doubt it though if she is back being brainwashed by the God of War, Airis...guess my aphrodite just cant stay away...just like the myths (I actauly put that in the song she wanted me to write for her which she didnt have a chance to hear since I just finished it)
g-mile7
06-19-2006, 04:49 PM
Nice guys always finish last, Yo.
Seriously. Everybody knows girls like bad boys, especially young girls. Maybe you should start being less of the "Nice Guy" and more of a "Playboi".
Play on Playa
well the fact is son I am nice to the extent of being the one who listens, romantic writing type of deal, but when it comes to spitting the truth and the real (as evident in the email I sent her bout getting back with her ex and not with me) I hold nothing back. That can sometimes overwhelm a girl who can see that. I'm too nice but only in certain instances, to her I might not present a challenge in terms of changing espcially since I told her I would attempt to become vegan (which was true thus the reason for my knowledge on it like I have said before, yea this the girl folks) and she was really happy bout that and was breaking it down for me (something her ex did not consider).
adam_f
06-20-2006, 12:07 PM
Originally posted by g-mile7
well the fact is son I am nice to the extent of being the one who listens, romantic writing type of deal, but when it comes to spitting the truth and the real (as evident in the email I sent her bout getting back with her ex and not with me) I hold nothing back. That can sometimes overwhelm a girl who can see that. I'm too nice but only in certain instances, to her I might not present a challenge in terms of changing espcially since I told her I would attempt to become vegan (which was true thus the reason for my knowledge on it like I have said before, yea this the girl folks) and she was really happy bout that and was breaking it down for me (something her ex did not consider).
:eek:
I'm really sorry to hear about the situation, buddy. You deserve better.
abcdefz
06-20-2006, 12:14 PM
That sucks, g-mile.
On the bright side: maybe you don't want someone that messed up in your life, anyway, you know? It kind of sounds like she's attracted to drama and head games.
g-mile7
06-20-2006, 12:20 PM
That sucks, g-mile.
On the bright side: maybe you don't want someone that messed up in your life, anyway, you know? It kind of sounds like she's attracted to drama and head games.
you'd think that, we will see how it plays out I just don't know what to do...I mean how can you go from just 2months ago telling me this and that, sending me links to yo latest pics to this? I dont know I will tell you this I hope I do run into her punk ass bf, I mean beat the black off him or somethin she might be mad but hey least I'd give her a valid reason (which I never seem to do) to hate on me.
adam_f
06-20-2006, 12:23 PM
Originally posted by g-mile7
you'd think that, we will see how it plays out I just don't know what to do...I mean how can you go from just 2months ago telling me this and that, sending me links to yo latest pics to this? I dont know I will tell you this I hope I do run into her punk ass bf, I mean beat the black off him or somethin she might be mad but hey least I'd give her a valid reason (which I never seem to do) to hate on me.
At least he wasn't white! :o
I'm sorry man. I feel really bad for you. Isn't she the one you showed me pics of?
abcdefz
06-20-2006, 12:23 PM
She probably feels guilty for getting back with him, for having told you so much personal stuff, for having gotten too intimate with you, and now you bear witness to some really bad decision making, you know? Those are probably some of the reasons why she "hates" you -- she's got to put that energy somewhere.
g-mile7
06-20-2006, 12:25 PM
:eek:
I'm really sorry to hear about the situation, buddy. You deserve better.
Well man if anybody knows it's you I have told you bout this crazy situion since least 2005.....veganism,the sucidal tendicies she went thorugh guess he was just able to catch her, love is used so much and the fact I bet that her lil girls are feeding her all this "love has its ups and downs" shit, but when someone makes it a habit to maliciously hurt you, with intent, that ain't love. Well Nuzz, if my girl beastie is right I'm sure you smiling, since you know looks like I failed and all that shit (she never called me back or wrote back)
g-mile7
06-20-2006, 12:25 PM
At least he wasn't white! :o
I'm sorry man. I feel really bad for you. Isn't she the one you showed me pics of?
hahaha fo reel though
and yes
Nuzzolese
06-20-2006, 12:27 PM
Damnit, I'm not giving up on her. Don't you give up. There is no g-mile in defeat. Consequently, there is no defeat in g-mile. NO DEFEAT! Mercy is for the weak and the weak deserve no mercy...until the next girl comes along. I mean you did love two girls before, maybe three's the magic number.
g-mile7
06-20-2006, 12:28 PM
She probably feels guilty for getting back with him, for having told you so much personal stuff, for having gotten too intimate with you, and now you bear witness to some really bad decision making, you know? Those are probably some of the reasons why she "hates" you -- she's got to put that energy somewhere.
I just thought she was diffrent, it makes know sense like I said to her that she would feel "more comfertable with someone who made her drop to 95lbs(when she only 4-11 or so) and sucidal then someone who has done nothing but show her love"
The whole reason I was planning to go to bay again was to see her again, since you know she wanted to see me...guess thats a dead plan least the visting her part (oh yea A-Z she goin to San Jo State this coming Fall least thats what she told me two weeks ago keep yo eyes pealed haha)
adam_f
06-20-2006, 12:29 PM
Originally posted by g-mile7
Well man if anybody knows it's you I have told you bout this crazy situion since least 2005.....veganism,the sucidal tendicies she went thorugh guess he was just able to catch her, love is used so much and the fact I bet that her lil girls are feeding her all this "love has its ups and downs" shit, but when someone makes it a habit to maliciously hurt you, with intent, that ain't love. Well Nuzz, if my girl beastie is right I'm sure you smiling, since you know looks like I failed and all that shit (she never called me back or wrote back)
She is not worth it. Plain and simple. You were willing to convert to veganism (sigh); not good enough. When she had those tendencies, I'm sure you were there. And now she leaves you for some no good (K-Fed-ish) pile of shit? Really? Is that worth stressing over? She doesn't deserve the time of day from the guy that pumps her gas let alone a guy like you who would seemingly do anything just to hold on to this endless love. In the end, my friend, you're better off without her.
g-mile7
06-20-2006, 12:30 PM
Damnit, I'm not giving up on her. Don't you give up. There is no g-mile in defeat. Consequently, there is no defeat in g-mile. NO DEFEAT! Mercy is for the weak and the weak deserve no mercy...until the next girl comes along. I mean you did love two girls before, maybe three's the magic number.
When did I say I loved 2 girls b4? And mercy how is me letting her do what she need to do showing mercy? You should know me by now to know I show no mercy to those I feel have done me wrong....but how can I attack someone who isn't in her right mind and I care for? She isn't some chick off the net, she my baby girl. Or was.
g-mile7
06-20-2006, 12:33 PM
She is not worth it. Plain and simple. You were willing to convert to veganism (sigh); not good enough. When she had those tendencies, I'm sure you were there. And now she leaves you for some no good (K-Fed-ish) pile of shit? Really? Is that worth stressing over? She doesn't deserve the time of day from the guy that pumps her gas let alone a guy like you who would seemingly do anything just to hold on to this endless love. In the end, my friend, you're better off without her.
I neede that man, thank you that. I have been really sad bout this shit too, I didn't think it would get at me this much and add this to the fact that I had an argument with another good homie of mine over some issues he was facing (without knowing what I went through earlier that day, and I didnt tell him either) just made this week worst. And yes, Zorra and Cosmo should be happy to know I was considering it(I have read books, done research haha even found at that Masta Killa of the Wu is vegan in my lil mini studies) , other then Chicken my consumption of meat isn't that high to begin with. Well maybe not that high compared to the average southern black man ;)
adam_f
06-20-2006, 12:39 PM
Originally posted by g-mile7
I neede that man, thank you that. I have been really sad bout this shit too, I didn't think it would get at me this much and add this to the fact that I had an argument with another good homie of mine over some issues he was facing (without knowing what I went through earlier that day, and I didnt tell him either) just made this week worst. And yes, Zorra and Cosmo should be happy to know I was considering it(I have read books, done research haha even found at that Masta Killa of the Wu is vegan in my lil mini studies) , other then Chicken my consumption of meat isn't that high to begin with. Well maybe not that high compared to the average southern black man ;)
Out of all of that, ZORRA IS A VEGAN!??! WHAT!!!?!
She obviously isn't the Princess Bride. She isn't the one for you, because it's obvious whomever that may be is still out there, maybe buying tickets for a future g-mile/Big Daddy Kane showcase at the Apollo. Everybody has a bad week like this, some worse than others, but you'll get through it. Besides, this is gonna make for one helluva song.
g-mile7
06-20-2006, 12:42 PM
Out of all of that, ZORRA IS A VEGAN!??! WHAT!!!?!
She obviously isn't the Princess Bride. She isn't the one for you, because it's obvious whomever that may be is still out there, maybe buying tickets for a future g-mile/Big Daddy Kane showcase at the Apollo. Everybody has a bad week like this, some worse than others, but you'll get through it. Besides, this is gonna make for one helluva song.
Good point, it already has. I know my week isn't shit compared to those with worst going on. Thats why I'm doing me, thank whoever (God, parents, Budda, Ghostface Killah) for my strong will. This the type of stuff that makes emo boys cry tears of alcohol to let drip into their slit wrist:(
adam_f
06-20-2006, 12:45 PM
Originally posted by g-mile7
Good point, it already has. I know my week isn't shit compared to those with worst going on. Thats why I'm doing me, thank whoever (God, parents, Budda, Ghostface Killah) for my strong will. This the type of stuff that makes emo boys cry tears of alcohol to let drip into their slit wrist:(
Just for the record, I recently found out what emo was and HOLY SHIT! (!)
Nuzzolese
06-20-2006, 12:47 PM
When did I say I loved 2 girls b4? And mercy how is me letting her do what she need to do showing mercy? You should know me by now to know I show no mercy to those I feel have done me wrong....but how can I attack someone who isn't in her right mind and I care for? She isn't some chick off the net, she my baby girl. Or was.
I should know you by now? I don't know you at all. And I'm not saying you should attack her. I'm saying a line from a movie so you don't give up, so keep fighting FOR her. I'm not saying fight her. (rolly eyes smilie) Well you said you cared for girls before so, you know. And are you really letting her do what she NEEDS to do, or enabling her self abuse? Remember that commercial for the anti-drug cause, that showed one girl drowning while her friend watched her from the dock?
g-mile7
06-20-2006, 12:47 PM
(y) Just for the record, I recently found out what emo was and HOLY SHIT! (!)
LMAO(y) (y)
g-mile7
06-20-2006, 12:54 PM
I should know you by now? I don't know you at all. And I'm not saying you should attack her. I'm saying a line from a movie so you don't give up, so keep fighting FOR her. I'm not saying fight her. (rolly eyes smilie) Well you said you cared for girls before so, you know. And are you really letting her do what she NEEDS to do, or enabling her self abuse? Remember that commercial for the anti-drug cause, that showed one girl drowning while her friend watched her from the dock?
Well I don't know you either now do I(I tried to back in the day but was meant with psssh)? But given my time on here and post I am sure you have made some sort of conclusion on me as an individual as I with you, faire or not, thats how humans act(untill proven otherwise). That coupled with video/audio footage of me in the real could have added to this. I was being 100% serious when I said "you should know me by now", that was a line.
And I know you are not advocating me fighting her, I was playing to your lines as well. But what the ad fails to capture is someone throwing a line to that friend drowning, unless that friend wants to be saved their nothing you can do....even if you jump in and save that friend, unless that friend wants to be saved then there is nothing you can do. The friend in that commerical was asking for help, my girl isn't and unless she saids it verbally then there is nothing I can do. I can't just drive to her house and be like whats the deal, nowadays you can get put in jail or worst killed for doing shit like that, I'm a romantic but I also have to be a realist.
I felt something close to love for her, but you can't make someone love you which I never did. all you can do is show them the how things are with you compared to the opposite (much like the pills in the Matrix).
adam_f
06-20-2006, 12:57 PM
Originally posted by Nuzzolese
Remember that commercial for the anti-drug cause, that showed one girl drowning while her friend watched her from the dock?
Remember that one with those guys in the drive thru who ran over the girl on the bike. Good Lord, I laughed until my kidneys hurt.
g-mile7
06-20-2006, 12:58 PM
Remember that one with those guys in the drive thru who ran over the girl on the bike. Good Lord, I laughed until my kidneys hurt.
The Dave Chapelle skit on that was even better(y)
adam_f
06-20-2006, 01:00 PM
haha! I forgot about that (y)
And that one where the kid is running from the rabid dog in the junkyard? Priceless.
Nuzzolese
06-20-2006, 01:05 PM
I have never watched any of your videos or audio clips, okay? Would you lay off with that? If you're saying she's not worth it, then she's not worth it and you've made up your mind. I'm saying if she's worth it then it's not over. And there are ways to help people besides the obvious in the face stuff. If he's abusive to her and she doesn't listen to you, maybe you can talk to someone she will listen to. Because it's not just about her being your girlfriend, it's about her safety and happiness.
g-mile7
06-20-2006, 01:19 PM
I have never watched any of your videos or audio clips, okay? Would you lay off with that? If you're saying she's not worth it, then she's not worth it and you've made up your mind. I'm saying if she's worth it then it's not over. And there are ways to help people besides the obvious in the face stuff. If he's abusive to her and she doesn't listen to you, maybe you can talk to someone she will listen to. Because it's not just about her being your girlfriend, it's about her safety and happiness.
Attitude shit. Thanks for your advice; however, I'm sure she has people telling her the same and if she is in "us against the world" mode can't do shit to stop that.....it's not that simple.
g-mile7
06-20-2006, 01:19 PM
haha! I forgot about that (y)
And that one where the kid is running from the rabid dog in the junkyard? Priceless.
:) people like you man let me know I'm doing right. For every 1 crazy person that tries to bring me down 3 cool ones are found.
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