I have a problem..

[Justin]

I instantly judge people the first time i have a conversation with them.

I'll talk to someone for a minute or so and decide to not talk to them anymore and separate myself from him/her and their group of friends talking.
for instance...

Theres a workout area here at my apartment complex. Two chicks were in there today along with this one guy and for some reason I instantly HATED THEM.The two chicks were talking about their tans and this one girl is like "im not even that tan i wanna be more tan"....and right now she looks like a freakin Mexican (thats not an insult to any mexicans). These are not young college chicks, these are young professionals. I think i expected better of them. FUCK OFF FAKE WOMEN!

Why is tanning so important anyways. If your hot when your white then your still gonna be hot when your tan, but if your ugly when your white, being tan isnt gonna make you hot. Why do women think this important!! grr!


Then again theres other people I talk to all the time while im in there. I'm not sure if its the vibe i get from them or why I feel comfortable around some and not others.

Therefore half of the people here probably think im a stuck up bastard, while the other half think I'm really nice and like talking to me.

Maybe i should be on medication or something i dunnooo..

anyone else have this problem?

[GetYourWarOn]

will you hate me if i say something stupid in your thread

[QueenAdrock]

I oftentimes hate people based on first looks. I saw this fake-blonde girl with Dior sunglasses walking with her little chihuahua shoved half-assed into her Louis Vuitton bag, and the first thing I thought was "Wow, I sure hope that pooch shits all over your Gucci wallet daddy bought you."

That's also because she was walking to class. With her fucking dog.

And then sometimes after, I'll actually talk to people I previously hated and find out that they're different than what I expected. That's always a nice surprise. But I'd say that's only 20% of them. The other 80% are just as how I'd predict.

[GetYourWarOn]

i dont mind women with nice tans.

[GetYourWarOn]

That's also because she was walking to class. With her fucking dog.




she should be arrested, or fined, or something.

i'm not kidding.

[Sarky Devotchka]

I pretty much hate everyone right off the bat.

[jlees_mcsd]

We live in a society that stresses beauty. It is everywhere you look from milk ads to furniture polish ads, I have acually thought about talking to a plastic surgeon about some things I would change. We are taught from a very young age that blondes have more fun and big tits are the shit, but finding a person who loves you for all the things you aren't is when you relize how much you are really worth.

[Justin]

i dont mind women with nice tans.

But wouldnt you think that same girl is just as hot if she was not tan?

[GetYourWarOn]

But wouldnt you think that same girl is just as hot if she was not tan?
i dont know. it depends i guess.

[zorra_chiflada]

i do this too. majorly. no biggie.

[CrankItUp!]

but chicks with tan lines are totally HOT!...literally. :D

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-8531524161360280589

[Kid Presentable]

Strangers are just enemies you haven't learned to hate.

FYS

[Otis Driftwood]

There are certain non-prejudiced instant unlikable factors such as
- talking only about yourself
- talking about your work all the time
- politics
- I also don't like people who complain about the staff in a bar or restaurant, expecting to be treated like royalty for their money.
Once you fucked up here, no gaining favor with me.
Oftentimes I reserve my judgement for some time...

[cookiepuss]

And then sometimes after, I'll actually talk to people I previously hated and find out that they're different than what I expected. That's always a nice surprise. But I'd say that's only 20% of them. The other 80% are just as how I'd predict.


there was a girl in one of my classes and at first glance and a few out of context overheard comments I thought she was the biggest ding a ling ever. she annoyed the crap out of me. and then she was at this party of some close friends of mine and I actually gave her a chance and got to know her. she's one of my best friends now.

I guess it natural to make off the cuff assumptions about people. and I guess there's not much wrong with it as long as you are willing to let go of your assumptions occasionally and find out if the people really are as you perceive.

[g-mile7]

hate to sound cliche but least you know this.....now you can take steps to fix it.

[enree erzweglle]

I don't think I judge people right off the bat unless they do or say something they shouldn't directly to me or I see them actively mistreating someone.

That being said, I am very cautious because people are so judgmental and skeevy and ignorant on the whole. I always like to say that you don't really know anyone...you just know that side that they choose to show you.I find it challenging not to shut people down when they're being cruel or mean. Like if someone's making fun of someone else--especially if they do that behind that person's back--I find it very difficult to [want to] befriend that person.

Same with someone who has an anger problem or who has a superiority complex. Sometimes, I'm absolutely in the mood to befriend someone like that and it's actually fun and humbling to get to know a person who thinks he's God. But other times, I write people like that off right away. Not that I think I'm better than they are, but I think that I don't want to afford the time to do all of that right then/there, and sometimes, I know that no one can befriend a person like that with any long-term success.

[fucktopgirl]

He, it is kind of normal to have an opinion/vibe about somebody the first few minutes , even seconds, that you met them. I think it is how it work, you know right there if you like them or not. The first impression is often the true one!