I get called a bitch a lot

[beastieangel01]

when I decide to leave my messengers on public. People end up messaging me and within the first message, talk about calling me or wanting to meet in person. I of course, say no and get called a selfish bitch. Or, even better, they forget how they found my screen name and want to see my myspace or picture and I always say "what's it matter for good conversation, especially since you JUST messaged me, not sure I'm comfortable with that" then they call me an ugly bitch and how I'll be sorry because they are a great guy and/or have a huge penis.

Sometimes it's entertaining. But I have to be in the mood for it.

[Axl Z]

Bitch! :rolleyes:

[Qdrop]

when I decide to leave my messengers on public. People end up messaging me and within the first message, talk about calling me or wanting to meet in person. I of course, say no and get called a selfish bitch. Or, even better, they forget how they found my screen name and want to see my myspace or picture and I always say "what's it matter for good conversation, especially since you JUST messaged me, not sure I'm comfortable with that" then they call me an ugly bitch and how I'll be sorry because they are a great guy and/or have a huge penis.

Sometimes it's entertaining. But I have to be in the mood for it.

ahhhahhha

"you'll be sorry..because i have a huge penis..."

hahhah....man that's a great comeback.


you should date him.

[g-mile7]

LMAO'

[Echewta]

I think i'm correct in thinking that I'm the first one to have done that to you? Right? Years ago?

[beastieangel01]

^pretty much.

ahhhahhha

"you'll be sorry..because i have a huge penis..."

hahhah....man that's a great comeback.


you should date him.

exactly. man after my own heart.

[Bob]

i bet these guys get laid more than me

[Nuzzolese]

Does this happen to a lot of women? This has never happened to me. Why would you leave your messengers on public? Do you leave a picture up or something? Is it a ...suggestive picture?

[ms.peachy]

Sometimes I am just so damn glad to be old and married.

[beastieangel01]

no picture. Most of them have no idea what I look like nor that I'm even female.

[SobaViolence]

haha
i never understood the internet prowl

[g-mile7]

well it could be worst (off another board I frequent)





at first the flattery was nice, but sometimes guys just went a bit overboard which was a little disturbing but i got used to ignoring it. when i had my msn details up someone sent me an email with a picture of their dick asking me if i wanted some of it! the person was from ths board but wouldn't tell me who they were so i blocked and deleted him. i had my pictures taken down and got rid of my msn addy from my profile and it's now basically stopped

[beastieangel01]

damn, yeah.

I just find it hilarious, and yet, disturbing/sad all at once. It'd be one thing if they are joking but I get the feeling that isn't the case 100% of the time.

oh, internets.

[beastiegirrl101]

I get called a bitch a lot but it's the bitch meaning....not a doormat.

[drizl]

freaks and weirdos

[beastieangel01]

that too (!)

I forgot, last night, I was leaving the gym some guy working at a booth tried to hit on me (gym is located in a mall). I was polite and said thanks to the compliments, but kept walking. He actually got OUT of his booth to stop me by grabbing my arm. I looked at him said "I have a boyfriend" in a really annoyed manner. He then let go and called me a bitch.

Good times!

[skra75]

that too (!)

I forgot, last night, I was leaving the gym some guy working at a booth tried to hit on me (gym is located in a mall). I was polite and said thanks to the compliments, but kept walking. He actually got OUT of his booth to stop me by grabbing my arm. I looked at him said "I have a boyfriend" in a really annoyed manner. He then let go and called me a bitch.

Good times!

that's great, when the pick up line doesn't work, physically grabbing the girl always works. what a concept.

I hope you carry either a knife or mace.

[g-mile7]

once again: people are either getting more brave or stupid as time goes on.


And the fact you said thanks and didnt give him a complete cold shoulder doesnt warrent him calling you a bitch or rude.

[beastieangel01]

I'll start carrying one of these (http://www.lucidnotion.com/photos/andrea/machete.jpg) and look just as happy as her when I chop chop.

[Echewta]

He worked there and called you a bitch? I would have called the company he worked for.

[cosmo105]

seriously man. call the gym. tell them what happened. he shouldn't even be hitting on you, much less touching you and calling you a bitch.

[beastieangel01]

nah, he worked at a booth within the same mall that the gym is located in.

Although, I should probably let the verizon people know that they hired a jerk of a salesman. I'm sure hitting on women and calling them a bitch if they don't respond the way you want them to is in the handbook somewhere, though. (!)

[Waus]

"Can you hear me now....bitch?"

[Dorothy Wood]

I've taken to just yelling, "NO!" when people say inappropriate things to me. they usually back off. maybe they're reminded of their mothers.

or I just shake my head without saying anything and avoid eye contact. well, sometimes I say "no thanks" if they seem scary and likely to take offense to the no talking..."why you ignoring me bitch?!"

I blame rap music and those Die Hard movies!

[cosmo105]

the trick is to just not respond at all. i remember years ago some van full of guys pulled up next to me as i was walking, and shouted and hollered and whistled. and one of them asked how much, baby? and, disgusted, i flipped him off. without skipping a beat, he said, "just one dollar?" and laughed at his own joke and they drove off. it sort of surprised me that he had been flipped off enough times to have that response so quick at hand. but only sort of.

oh, and sometime last year when some guys working on a roof across from my store whistled and clicked as i got out of my car (wearing my full uniform, which isnt' very flattering), and i rolled my eyes and walked inside. what really got me was when i told the 80-something owner about it, she said, "oh my, you should be flattered!" what?!

[g-mile7]

I've taken to just yelling, "NO!" when people say inappropriate things to me. they usually back off. maybe they're reminded of their mothers.

or I just shake my head without saying anything and avoid eye contact. well, sometimes I say "no thanks" if they seem scary and likely to take offense to the no talking..."why you ignoring me bitch?!"

I blame rap music and those Die Hard movies!


And they blame you for lookin so damn fine;) :D

[beastieangel01]

the trick is to just not respond at all.

I thought about that but he was literally 3 feet away from me in the booth, I figured I should at least say thanks as I continued to walk to the car. Most of the time I pretend not to hear/see/notice people if they are far enough away.

And usually I am stuck or daydreaming in my own little world that I never notice anyway.

[Echewta]

Seems like a lot of guys get away by talking like that to girls. I should give it a shot. Whats going to happen?

[g-mile7]

Seems like a lot of guys get away by talking like that to girls. I should give it a shot. Whats going to happen?



Nothing or Something.....sadly girls are becoming conditoned to do latter(as in dating them or letting them get away with this). Jerks are making it hard for the legit ones.

[Echewta]

Probably nothing.

[g-mile7]

Probably nothing.


Don't be so sure, maybe its who you are aiming it towards ( I say try the older college sect 21-25)(y) ....I'm teasing ya man.

[Echewta]

Im going to do an experiment and yell crap at girls. I know a lot who say they don't do anything when they could. Even when a guy is slobbering on them.

Can't wait!

[g-mile7]

Im going to do an experiment and yell crap at girls. I know a lot who say they don't do anything when they could. Even when a guy is slobbering on them.

Can't wait!


Please record this on video (given that I also had an idea to such a thing for either a future psych/soc. class).

[beastieangel01]

man this isn't even that bad either. A few weeks ago my girlfriends and I went out. A guy that seemed very nice talked to a friend of mine so she was polite and explained she'd only like to dance. The night was over and we were headed home, and when she had to explain to him again that it was only dancing and she was going home now he got really upset. To the point that it escalated to him YELLING in her face, calling her an ugly lesbian bitch. She got angry and shoved him out of her face, and he came back in her face saying that he'd rip her head off.

Then my best friend (her sister) gave him a good knee to the balls and kicked dirt in his face.

Good times.

That is a good example of why sometimes I'm scared to say anything at all (just trying to get away). Some of them get ANGRY and threaten. It's fucked up.

[burbboi]

Cosmo's recommendation is simple and sound advice...just don't reply to them. All it does is encourage them to keep plugging away.

I set up Skype on my ex-girlfriends' PC back when she was in school so that we could keep in touch without being charged long-distance. It worked great for awhile...

...until a few sketchy europeans starting 'chatting her up'. Meaning 'you-sound-cute-send-me-pictures-of-your-boobs' chatting her up. I eventually saw this for myself when I visited her on campus a few weeks later. Creepy, creepy shit.

[g-mile7]

man this isn't even that bad either. A few weeks ago my girlfriends and I went out. A guy that seemed very nice talked to a friend of mine so she was polite and explained she'd only like to dance. The night was over and we were headed home, and when she had to explain to him again that it was only dancing and she was going home now he got really upset. To the point that it escalated to him YELLING in her face, calling her an ugly lesbian bitch. She got angry and shoved him out of her face, and he came back in her face saying that he'd rip her head off.

Then my best friend (her sister) gave him a good knee to the balls and kicked dirt in his face.

Good times.

That is a good example of why sometimes I'm scared to say anything at all (just trying to get away). Some of them get ANGRY and threaten. It's fucked up.

He got what he deserved. Maybe even got off easy.

[Randetica]

guys only ever talk to my two attention whores
even the e-guys do that i bet!

[skra75]

That is a good example of why sometimes I'm scared to say anything at all (just trying to get away). Some of them get ANGRY and threaten. It's fucked up.

See, if you and your girls were with me, those guys would say "damn! dah guys ahms ah friggin euge!" and they would stay away, totally afraid.

[g-mile7]

See, if you and your girls were with me, those guys would say "damn! dah guys ahms ah friggin euge!" and they would stay away, totally afraid.


You know I have to give you props for saying that in this semi-serious thread *gives props* for I would have said something that goofy if the tone was for it.

[beastieangel01]

See, if you and your girls were with me, those guys would say "damn! dah guys ahms ah friggin euge!" and they would stay away, totally afraid.

hahaha.

I actually have gotten physical. Liquid strength, ahem. But the guys deserved it. It makes me mad when guys are mean to my friends and/or don't get the hint or don't realize what no means. I've pushed men with all my strength and they fell on their asses in the middle of a dance floor. There's always a security guard around though so the guys never bother trying to get me back. Thank goodness.

[Nuzzolese]

I'm not saying guys are justified in doing things like that, or that any girl deserves it, but some girls have it coming because they're too naive or wimpy.

holla holla, holla holla hollahollaholla

I think this is guys version of taking back the night.

Okay so, an innocent girl gets all dolled up looking like a cutie pie and goes to the clubs and politely explains that she only wants to dance with the nice young gentleman? What the hell world is this? This doesn't happen. Don't go to clubs in glitter haltertops if you don't want rocawear calhoun sweating on you, and if you do want Cologne Mcgee to look at you ass, deal with the consequences.

I'm just ranting, maybe this has nothing to do with you, Beastieangel. I know you're into gaming and cartoons so you're not like that.

[beastieangel01]

It's all good I understand what you are saying. Especially at bars if you dress a certain way, it's how it is. I hate hearing girls whining about guys being on her when she's wearing a 2 inch skirt and a bikini top at a bar.

It's odd though because it's when we are dressed down, no or very little make up and just trying to relax that these things happen :confused: And fuck with the gym, I was at the gym. I was nasty afterward. But that didn't matter.

[g-mile7]

I'm not saying guys are justified in doing things like that, or that any girl deserves it, but some girls have it coming because they're too naive or wimpy.

holla holla, holla holla hollahollaholla

I think this is guys version of taking back the night.

Okay so, an innocent girl gets all dolled up looking like a cutie pie and goes to the clubs and politely explains that she only wants to dance with the nice young gentleman? What the hell world is this? This doesn't happen. Don't go to clubs in glitter haltertops if you don't want rocawear calhoun sweating on you, and if you do want Cologne Mcgee to look at you ass, deal with the consequences.
I'm just ranting, maybe this has nothing to do with you, Beastieangel. I know you're into gaming and cartoons so you're not like that.


I agree with you on this point, but this still doesn't mean that a guy has a right to do this. It's more the guys fault then the girl in this case. If you step to a girl you should come with the proper. Come with some etiquette. And we should all know by now that just because someone is dress a certain way doesnt mean that they are that. As such with you "rocawear calhoun" statement.

[Randetica]

I'm not saying guys are justified in doing things like that, or that any girl deserves it, but some girls have it coming because they're too naive or wimpy.

holla holla, holla holla hollahollaholla

I think this is guys version of taking back the night.

Okay so, an innocent girl gets all dolled up looking like a cutie pie and goes to the clubs and politely explains that she only wants to dance with the nice young gentleman? What the hell world is this? This doesn't happen. Don't go to clubs in glitter haltertops if you don't want rocawear calhoun sweating on you, and if you do want Cologne Mcgee to look at you ass, deal with the consequences.

I'm just ranting, maybe this has nothing to do with you, Beastieangel. I know you're into gaming and cartoons so you're not like that.



thats almost too true (y)

[Nuzzolese]

And like cosmo said she was in her unflattering uniform. I've had plenty of friends recieve catcalls when they're looking lke the opposite of attention getting. I never get yelled at though. Never. What the hell?!

[Nuzzolese]

I agree with you on this point, but this still doesn't mean that a guy has a right to do this. It's more the guys fault then the girl in this case. If you step to a girl you should come with the proper. Come with some etiquette. And we should all know by now that just because someone is dress a certain way doesnt mean that they are that. As such with you "rocawear calhoun" statement.

We'll call her Sequintits Murphy and make a musical about them

[g-mile7]

We'll call her Sequintits Murphy and make a musical about them



Cool then thanks. Just, you know, the whole fact that I am wearing Rocawear Jeans at this moment.....:(

[beastieangel01]

And like cosmo said she was in her unflattering uniform. I've had plenty of friends recieve catcalls when they're looking lke the opposite of attention getting. I never get yelled at though. Never. What the hell?!

you either don't notice or you are attractive to the point that it's intimidating.

seriously.

[The Notorious LOL]

Im legally changing my name to Rocawear Calhoun.

[g-mile7]

you either don't notice or you are attractive to the point that it's intimidating.

seriously.



It's all about etiquette, and the guys that seem to be around where you are don't have any. And the fact is the people they surrond themselves (family, friends etc.) more then likely allow this.


But I do agree that if your going dress a certain way you should expect to get yelled at a certain way. It's how it is, all you can do is just continue to fight the system

[kll]

Isn't there a pickup line that goes something like, "Do you wanna dance?" and if she says NO, you say, "I said you look fat in those pants."

[Nuzzolese]

Guys don't ask girls to dance. Girls don't even wait, they just go out onto the floor and start dancing together and then a guy comes up behind her and Bumps into her with his crotch. And she doesn't really turn around she just backs up and looks to her friends' facial expressions for confirmation of his hotness. Isn't this how it works? I mean it's been a long time since those 6th grade dances but this is how I remember it.

[Nuzzolese]

you either don't notice or you are attractive to the point that it's intimidating.

seriously.

Actually, I'm translucent. You can only see me if I'm backlit.

[kll]

Guys don't ask girls to dance. Girls don't even wait, they just go out onto the floor and start dancing together and then a guy comes up behind her and Bumps into her with his crotch. And she doesn't really turn around she just backs up and looks to her friends' facial expressions for confirmation of his hotness. Isn't this how it works? I mean it's been a long time since those 6th grade dances but this is how I remember it.

I don't know. I stand in corners.

[g-mile7]

Guys don't ask girls to dance. Girls don't even wait, they just go out onto the floor and start dancing together and then a guy comes up behind her and Bumps into her with his crotch. And she doesn't really turn around she just backs up and looks to her friends' facial expressions for confirmation of his hotness. Isn't this how it works? I mean it's been a long time since those 6th grade dances but this is how I remember it.


Not all the time...but what you said does happen alot in Southren Clubs (least the ones I have been to). Sometimes the girls are at a table and you say "you want to dance".....

[Randetica]

i would not even visit such a slut parade

[The Notorious LOL]

smfh@men who dance.

[g-mile7]

i would not even visit such a slut parade


Better then visting a Strip Club I would say however.....

[Nuzzolese]

i would not even visit such a slut parade

Not too long ago I naively got swept up in the enthusiasm of girls going out on girls night out "drink! do hair! wear it with jeans!" and it was horrible.

I love getting dressed up, I love music and dancing. But that's it. What happened was we all got dressed up to go to a bar and I remember standing there with my drink with all these dudes' eyes on me and my friend...me wondering what the hell I was doing there. I was obviously there broadcasting that I wanted attention. But I was thinking "I don't want their attention, I don't want to dance with any of them. Why am I here?"
It was a bunch of girls with boyfriends or semi-boyfriends, wanting to feel single again for a night. So I guess I would have been a bitch to any of them if I'd stayed long enough.

[g-mile7]

I love dancing as well ( and pretty good at it) but people dont go to clubs to dance, thats not dancing what they are doing.

[hardnox71]

i bet these guys get laid more than me
For some Godforsaken reason, they do. I don't know why buy women seem to flock to degenerate assholes like that. I used to be a bouncer and I've worked in alot of clubs and bars. Man, I've seen it time and time again and everytime I see it, it completely mystifies me. :confused:

[g-mile7]

For some Godforsaken reason, they do. I don't know why buy women seem to flock to degenerate assholes like that. I used to be a bouncer and I've worked in alot of clubs and bars. Man, I've seen it time and time again and everytime I see it, it completely mystifies me. :confused:


Cause they retarded and their trick ass friends push them on to those types. Or, they will use the fact that "he didnt act like that before"

May I direct you to my post in this thread (no need for me to beat the dead horse):

http://beastieboys.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=69039&page=2

[Nuzzolese]

For some Godforsaken reason, they do. I don't know why buy women seem to flock to degenerate assholes like that. I used to be a bouncer and I've worked in alot of clubs and bars. Man, I've seen it time and time again and everytime I see it, it completely mystifies me. :confused:

Maybe they think the assholes will protect them. She has no confidence and he has enough for two people so it's like math?

[Bob]

Maybe they think the assholes will protect them. She has no confidence and he has enough for two people so it's like math?

protect them from what? the assholes?

[beastieangel01]

I love dancing as well ( and pretty good at it) but people dont go to clubs to dance, thats not dancing what they are doing.

depends on the club you go to. You have to search for the good ones.

And yeah nuzz, I love getting dressed up, I love music and dancing as well. Again, you gotta find the good places. I haven't gone to any of these places (where incidents occured) and never go back.

Whistle Stop in south park, I love thee. Not that Whistle Stop means anything to anyone here but me but hey!

[Nuzzolese]

protect them from what? the assholes?

Yes. If you snag the biggest asshole then no one can bother you. Except on girls night out when you pretend you're single again.

[g-mile7]

depends on the club you go to. You have to search for the good ones.

And yeah nuzz, I love getting dressed up, I love music and dancing as well. Again, you gotta find the good places. I haven't gone to any of these places (where incidents occured) and never go back.

Whistle Stop in south park, I love thee. Not that Whistle Stop means anything to anyone here but me but hey!


That is true too. But the club she talking about....shoot

[Nuzzolese]

You can't go to clubs to meet nice men. You have to go to nice quiet places like libraries, there's good men there, churches, black awareness rallies...

[Bob]

Yes. If you snag the biggest asshole then no one can bother you. Except on girls night out when you pretend you're single again.

is that like when you're in prison, and you have to become someone's bitch for protection or something?

[g-mile7]

You can't go to clubs to meet nice men. You have to go to nice quiet places like libraries, there's good men there, churches, black awareness rallies...


There one in my room going on right now...

[hardnox71]

You can't go to clubs to meet nice men. You have to go to nice quiet places like libraries, there's good men there, churches, black awareness rallies...
What kind of crack is that?

[Nuzzolese]

is that like when you're in prison, and you have to become someone's bitch for protection or something?

I never thought about it like that but that's exactly it.

[skra75]

You can't go to clubs to meet nice men. You have to go to nice quiet places like libraries, there's good men there, churches, black awareness rallies...

But I met my wife in a club so...


oh wait...damn.

[Bob]

You can't go to clubs to meet nice men. You have to go to nice quiet places like libraries, there's good men there, churches, black awareness rallies...

i think i'm gonna start going to libraries to pick up chicks, and do the asshole shouting thing. only it's a library, so i'd have to whisper.

hey baby baby, my penis is huge, you wanna go see?

[g-mile7]

What kind of crack is that?


She just trying to be cute with me...I find it intresting...

[Nuzzolese]

What kind of crack is that?

I just believe the children are our future, and I love Jackson Height's own Randy Watson.

[Nuzzolese]

i think i'm gonna start going to libraries to pick up chicks, and do the asshole shouting thing. only it's a library, so i'd have to whisper.

hey baby baby, my penis is huge, you wanna go see?

Oh my god that's hot. It's not at all creepy.

[adam_f]

Clubs don't play enough Kenny Loggins for my liking.

[g-mile7]

i think i'm gonna start going to libraries to pick up chicks, and do the asshole shouting thing. only it's a library, so i'd have to whisper.

hey baby baby, my penis is huge, you wanna go see?


that made me laugh(y)

[beastieangel01]

Clubs don't play enough Kenny Loggins for my liking.

let's start our own club and play some Kenny and Hall & Oates and all will be well with the world.

[Bob]

hey baby girl whatchu readin? you don't need no microfiche to see what i'm packin' baby. hey baby why don't you come back to my place sos i can laminate your face?

[Nuzzolese]

She just trying to be cute with me...I find it intresting...

It was not intended to have anything to do with you, just a movie quote related to going to clubs and meeting women. I just changed it to men.

[beastieangel01]

hey baby girl whatchu readin? you don't need no microfiche to see what i'm packin' baby. hey baby why don't you come back to my place sos i can laminate your face?

I love you.

[adam_f]

Originally posted by beastieangel01
let's start our own club and play some Kenny and Hall & Oates and all will be well with the world.

That's probably the greatest idea ever. Aside from penis enlargers.

[beastieangel01]

That's probably the greatest idea ever. Aside from penis enlargers.

yeah someone beat us to that anyway. Might as well do what we can to improve the world together.

[g-mile7]

It was not intended to have anything to do with you, just a movie quote related to going to clubs and meeting women. I just changed it to men.



;)

[skra75]

let's start our own club and play some Kenny and Hall & Oates and all will be well with the world.

this would be a club you'd have to carry my busted ass out of, pennyless and smuttered, with "balls" written on my forehead in sharpie marker.

[Nuzzolese]

I'm just here to dance.

[beastieangel01]

at night I lock the doors where no one else can see (!)

[g-mile7]

If I was to use some the lines that I have read in this thread....shoot:)

[beastieangel01]

I'm tired of dancing here all by myself.
Tonight I'm gonna dance with someone else!

:eek:

:o

I don't think I've ever been more embarassed for you.

:p

[Bob]

I love you.

aw girl, you studyin for something? oh no, did you make a mistake? aw let me get my white-out for you girl, come on pretty pretty

alright i'm creeping myself out now, and besides i'm out of library-related sexual innuendos (there weren't many)

edit: ooh wait, i just thought of one

you wanna go fuck in the stacks?

there we go, that's all of them

[The Notorious LOL]

you didnt even drop a Dewey Decimal reference!

[beastieangel01]

good point. I retract my love :mad:

[Bob]

wait...wait i've got one

...dewey.....dewey....dewey wanna get...funky....decimal

i'm not very sexy

[DroppinScience]

Aw man, I love these library-related pick-up lines! :D

And when you're at the library and you're wearin' those sexy librarian eyeglasses and such, don't be so shocked to see Bookworm McKeats hollerin' atcha from the Philosophy aisle as he catches yo fineself peepin' the microfilm.

Don't say I didn't warn ya.

Okay, that's enough. :o

[marsdaddy]

At least you get called.

[Ace42X]

Firstly, I agree with Nuzz, secondly I direct you all to this thread:
http://www.beastieboys.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=67386

If you want to know why on earth guys would behave in such a way, why not ask the women who need to be approached like that in order for the guys to get a response. It is silly to assume guys are behaving in such a manner for no reason.

So yes, I do think it is guys "taking back the night" in a way (as I kinda explained in the above thread). And I think it is also because it is cocky loud-mouthed pricks trying it on with every single chick in a nightclub who get action. As Nuzz points out (and hopefully was being serious) - there are plenty of nice guys all over the place, but they will not be showcased to their best in a dimly-lit booze-fuelled meat market, filled with simianesque chest-thumpers getting all the attention.

As for extending this to an Internet paradigm, I think the same is probably true. If you have your contact details posted in angsty loser-holes, you're going to get sleazes messaging you. It's not brain surgery. You'd not go into a biker-bar and then complain that you aren't being treated as an intellectual.

If you don't want to be treated as a solely sexual entity solely existing for various net-people's sexual gratification, then *don't present yourself as an attention-whore cock-slut*. If you want to talk to interesting people and make new friends with sensible people - why not try messaging new people, instead of waiting for drunken testosterone laden guys to message you, when all they probably know about you is that you are a girly-girl that they'd prolly like to tap?

Again, Nuzz is right, it is naive to expect anything else, given the circumstances. And I seriously doubt that you'd be on-the-ball enough to capitalise and respond well to someone who didn't fit into this stereotype anyway, so that probably colours your expectations too.

[Nuzzolese]

That's interesting, Ace. It makes me wonder, though, what you expect from this place.

[Qdrop]

That's interesting, Ace. It makes me wonder, though, what you expect from this place.

http://www.beastieboys.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=69191

[Bitchamachacha]

when I decide to leave my messengers on public. People end up messaging me and within the first message, talk about calling me or wanting to meet in person. I of course, say no and get called a selfish bitch. Or, even better, they forget how they found my screen name and want to see my myspace or picture and I always say "what's it matter for good conversation, especially since you JUST messaged me, not sure I'm comfortable with that" then they call me an ugly bitch and how I'll be sorry because they are a great guy and/or have a huge penis.

Sometimes it's entertaining. But I have to be in the mood for it.

This is pretty much why I stopped chatting, or stay hidden on the rare occasions I do chat.

You should post their screen names in your blog, perhaps write up an 'e-creeps of the week ' report to warn all the fair maidens in cyberspace about the sharks. Or post your conversations on line. That would be entertaining to you readers and give those assholes a slap on the dick. ;)

[beastieangel01]

Wow Ace. You just took that to a whole new level. If you read anything else you would know that I didn't post my name in sleazy places, nor did they even know what I looked like or that I was female.

I was just sharing how amusing it can be if you're in the mood to fuck with the idiots. And we ended up talking about other things, sure.

But alrighty.

[skra75]

*don't present yourself as an attention-whore cock-slut*

cock-slut LMMFAO:D

[befsquire]

that one's good, but my nickname cock starved fuck slut is way better, i think. of course, mine is said with love. :)


we were out last night and a weird thing happened to us. it was like a drunk girl was pimping me out to my own husband. we were sitting outside of the bar at a table and this drunk foursome are walking by, and this chubby girl looks at bobby and says "she's hot, you should like her." bobby said "i can go one better. i married her." they kept walking, and i don't know what her boyfriend said to her but she was all "what? she's hot." it was just odd.

[Ace42X]

That's interesting, Ace. It makes me wonder, though, what you expect from this place.

Howso? I'm a guy, we don't get hit on by e-perverts so much. Well, I have, but everyone on the board knows I'm a guy, so wouldn't make that mistake.

If you read anything else you would know that I didn't post my name in sleazy places, nor did they even know what I looked like or that I was female.

Firstly, they have to get your username from somewhere, and judging by your post, I am thinking they weren't getting it from a messageboard dedicated to the discussion of Petrach. I am not saying you are loafing around irc.sexnet.org, nor was I attempting to imply that. What I *was* suggesting is that if you hang around "social" boards, rather than boards with a particular topic, purpose and direction, you are obviously going to have attention from people who want to "socialise" (The main method of male-female socialisation being the fucky, RE: Ladder Theory).

IE: You hang around on the AOL chatrooms, you expect to get ASLd by horny 14 year olds wanting to cyber.

Secondly, you may not be aware of this, but you come across (at least here) as being a bit of an attention whore. I didn't know anything about you until someone brought you up in an attention whoring topic, and pointed to the dozens of pictures you have published on sure-shots, as well as one photo in specific that you apparently didn't.

Which leads to thirdly: It sounds like, presumably from the above, they deduced you were female, possibly from your username, or possibly you gave away more on wherever you published your username than you'd like to think. Whether in some MSN profile you forgot about, or some forum you forgot you were subscribed to, I dunno. If not, you were hanging around a place where such behaviour is common, which is not unlikely, as birds of a feather flock together, it is not a coincidence that AOL chatrooms are full of idiotic ASLers.

Ok?

[beastieangel01]

okie dokie.

[Nuzzolese]

Howso? I'm a guy, we don't get hit on by e-perverts so much. Well, I have, but everyone on the board knows I'm a guy, so wouldn't make that mistake.


I'm not talking about perverts. I'm talking about what you can expect from certain places, and about the naivetee (sp?) of being shocked to receive a sting when you play with bee hives. With this place, it's not perverts, it's something else. And don't you (and I) get upset when we don't get what we want from this place, and instead get something else? Isn't it just as (what's a word that would mean not being worthy of sympathy?) to get upset about perverts when you put yourself out there, as it would be to get upset about not getting the discussions you want when you put yourself into a giggle circle?