OKAY, wtf's my problem with "men"?

[B4BY 4NN]

Granted, I should lower my standards considering I'm not exactly a fine "catch", but seriously... C'mon!


There's this guy who works at the local gas station where I buy my cigarettes, vitamin water, whatever.. He wears one of those shiny, pimp-looking dragon shirts -- EVERYDAY! He has massive body odor, and is also obese. So what? The guy may have zero to no sense of style (let alone hygiene) and looks like Grimace. But there's always that factor he's very nice, off of drugs and fun, right?

WRONG! :mad:

I'll give him ONE occasion where he's been kind, but that's all. I figure it's like pre-school; boy likes girl, boy hits girl with a baseball bat. It never fails that EVERY TIME I walk into that store, he insults me.

"Your hair's a mess."

"Did you just wake up? Looks like someone had a rough night."

Oh, and the best yet...

"Are you by chance NOT wearing a bra?"

It's to the point I won't go there anymore in fear of his slander. But my sister does. He won't bother her. And speaking of which, she shares with me tonight "I think that guy who works at the gas station has a crush on you or something. He always asks about you."

Apparently, I was invited to go to Dorney Park with he and his "posse" tomorrow. She declined the invite on my behalf (thank GOD). That's when he responded with "I'll be thinking of her with me when I'm splashing around in the water park..." :confused: Okay, my sister's not one to lie. Fuckin' creepy.


So, what's my problem? Am I truly that hideous and inept? Do I have a big sign written on my forehead that reads "ANIME 'TARD" -or- "ASK ME ON A DATE BECAUSE MY EX IS IN JAIL AND A DRUG ADDICT, AND I'M EXTREMELY FRAGILE/EXTREMELY DESPERATE RIGHT NOW"?

Jesus.

[TurdBerglar]

"ASK ME ON A DATE BECAUSE MY EX IS IN JAIL AND A DRUG ADDICT, AND I'M EXTREMELY FRAGILE/EXTREMELY DESPERATE RIGHT NOW"?




not trying to be a dick or anything but yeah you can tell. and creepo guys pick up on this and take advantage of it.

[zorra_chiflada]

i think you're a catch. you should date turd.
no wait, you can do better.

[B4BY 4NN]

not trying to be a dick or anything but yeah you can tell. and creepo guys pick up on this and take advantage of it.

From a message board?

I'm not exactly going out and about in public talking about him... I don't even leave the house now that I am unemployed.

[HEIRESS]

I just wanna go make-up shopping with while not touching your vagina, is that good enough?

[B4BY 4NN]

I just wanna go make-up shopping with while not touching your vagina, is that good enough?

Yeah, because you're actually ATTRACTIVE.

I'd go anyday.

[TurdBerglar]

From a message board?

I'm not exactly going out and about in public talking about him... I don't even leave the house now that I am unemployed.


well i mean if you truly feel that way about yourself it's projected and people can pick up on it.

[Miho Mingu]

Tell the jerk off next time. I get annoyed by people like that in general. They don't know how to turn off their sarcasm meter, or just rude behavior. I don't think it's you, but the nature of these people are everywhere.

[QueenAdrock]

Guys who aggressively go after girls they know nothing about other than what they look like and buy seem to be just a bunch of horny bastards. It happens, sometimes.

And yeah, guys can sense vulnerability.

[zorra_chiflada]

you totally ignored my diss in your face.

[The Notorious LOL]

it has nothing to do with appearance and everything to do with how you carry yourself. People can smell a low self-image.


your style is actually pretty cool, so dont beat yourself up over that.

[Dorothy Wood]

hey, have you been listening to crispin glover's album or something?

if you have, then you are super cool and I think maybe you just need to get out of your town.

[B4BY 4NN]

you totally ignored my diss in your face.

I have been for the past couple of posts.

[B4BY 4NN]

hey, have you been listening to crispin glover's album or something?

if you have, then you are super cool and I think maybe you just need to get out of your town.

YES (!), and without realizing the whole Joker-thing.

I can't tell if Glover's serious in his way of... Art fag-ism. If not, GENIUS either way.

[Waus]

I dunno, I always like the pictures you post.

Maybe try slinging something back at the guy? You know...

"your hair's a mess"
"yeah? You smell like a grizzly bear's colon."

That might actually make him like you more though...

[Dorothy Wood]

oh, he's serious! he's an odd man. I used to want to marry him, but I'm kind of scared of him after seeing some clips of his movie What Is It? but I still want to see the whole movie. also I read that he dates a lot of porn stars. gross.

he's still hot though.

[ericlee]

since he's making false accusations about you, you should retaliate with real accusations about him.

Such as, "you been fucking goats in the heat or something? It sure smells like it"

Or give him a nickname such as Gweedo Grimace since he wears gweedo esque shirts.

Seriously, a guy with these kind of flaws is most likely to have a low self esteem and you can break him easily.

[Waus]

...Genesis P-Orridge talks about te murder...

That guy is f'ing weird. No joke.

[B4BY 4NN]

oh, he's serious! he's an odd man. I used to want to marry him, but I'm kind of scared of him after seeing some clips of his movie What Is It? but I still want to see the whole movie. also I read that he dates a lot of porn stars. gross.

he's still hot though.

I had a crush on him when I was little, I remember. From Back to the Future. And he's got 3 movies, I think... What is It?, It is Fine. Everything is Fine! and It is Mine.

[jabumbo]

he is the one working in a gas station...



i mean, not working at all is better than working in a gas station

[Dorothy Wood]

yeah, when I was a kid I had a crush on him moreso than michael j. fox. but I kept it a secret. shhhh.

[Waus]

he is the one working in a gas station...



i mean, not working at all is better than working in a gas station

Hah...yeah. A friend of mine works the night shift at a station back home. It actually wasn't a terrible job because he'd sit outside and smoke and talk with you at all hours of the night. That station was pretty much where everyone went once all the parties had died down.

[skra75]

There's this guy who works at the local gas station where I buy my cigarettes, vitamin water,

you're the one buying vitamin water, come on now...

[B4BY 4NN]

yeah, when I was a kid I had a crush on him moreso than michael j. fox. but I kept it a secret. shhhh.

I love Michael J. Fox, especially in Life With Mikey.

Fuck, I'd watch that over-and-over and wish he'd be my grade school boyfriend.

[B4BY 4NN]

you're the one buying vitamin water, come on now...

It's GOOD! Formula 50, nyucka!

[B4BY 4NN]

since he's making false accusations about you, you should retaliate with real accusations about him.

Such as, "you been fucking goats in the heat or something? It sure smells like it"

Or give him a nickname such as Gweedo Grimace since he wears gweedo esque shirts.

Seriously, a guy with these kind of flaws is most likely to have a low self esteem and you can break him easily.

HAHA! Guido. True, true.

[skra75]

triple post post post

[B4BY 4NN]

triple post post post

My nerves are shot. Fuck you.

[hitmonlee]

a new drama every day hey

this one seems like a small problem
ignore him, don't shop there, make your sister buy your stuff, whatever

[skra75]

YOB (y)

[zorra_chiflada]

I have been for the past couple of posts.
not you

[like2_drink]

first things first

don't smoke
I buy my cigarettes, .

you'd be a great catch
Granted, I should lower my standards considering I'm not exactly a fine "catch"

dude is a pig, gotta get over that

don't knock your style or anime because a filthbag has a thing for you(y)

[marsdaddy]

don't smokeFunny that like2_drink gave you this sound advice. I agree.

I also think you haven't really found a man, yet, but are being messed with by boys or damaged people. I'm sure you can find a community where you live where like minded people hang out.

[hitmonlee]

yeah i forgot that's what i was going to say...
where do you live? cos wherever it is it sounds like shit
move somewhere with better people and you won't meet so many losers or be dragged down by them

[B4BY 4NN]

where do you live? cos wherever it is it sounds like shit

Pennsylvania

Scranton, to be exact.

[Loppfessor]

Dude this one is sooo easy, it sounds like you could pick this guy apart in like 2 seconds. Get confident stupid! You don't need to take lip from some fat, smelly, minimum wage, register jockey.

[enree erzweglle]

There's no general problem with men.

If you're asking for advice--which I don't really think you are but I'll bite--I'd avoid that particular guy. I'd avoid guys like him. And I'd maybe concentrate on developing a healthy sense of self and on finding forward-thinking friends, doing things that'll further myself.

Also, any benefits you might be getting from your vitamin water are probably negated by the smoking that you're doing. :)

[Lex Diamonds]

Ignore all the morons who said "don't smoke". Smoking is almost the sexiest thing a girl can do, next to blowjobs.

[monkey]

ok, i think you're gorgeous and it's really sad you dont realize it. you have an incredibly beautiful unique look, and im sure a lot of so-called-normal guys are intimidated by you because you seem so free and different. the problem with that is that you get the creepy guys talking you up because they learned long ago that they have nothing to lose. especially if they find girls that, like you, think they're less than completely attractive.
NEVER EVER lower or change your expectations. you most probably deserve every bit of that man of your dreams. and you are, most definately, the girl of someone's dreams. but youre not gonna find that guy and he's not gonna find you if you're home all day or only venturing to talk to the local dork that treats you crappy because thats how he thinks you like to be treated.

and you're gorgeous. i just have to say that again.

[enree erzweglle]

Sometimes people know it but don't believe it or they haven't brought that concept home to themselves ...and they need to hear it from other people. Over and over.

Some of the most beautiful people are often some of the most insecure and needy people as well.

[Funkyfreshgrape]

sexism

[Loppfessor]

How come everyone always knows what people look like except me!!!???

[jackrock]

Don't worry Lopp, you're one sexy mofo, too.

[Loppfessor]

^Why thank you very much, I mean I try to take care of myself ya know work out and eat right...:o

But seriously I don't know what like 99% of this board looks like in real life :(

[jackrock]

I guess this (http://www.doingsomething.com/sureshots) might help

[Loppfessor]

Yeah I've seen that....I need to get a different picture of me on there though that one is old and doesn't really look like me

[enree erzweglle]

How come everyone always knows what people look like except me!!!???I only know what a few people look like. I sometimes go into one of the Sure Shots threads and I chance across seeing a photo of someone that I'd never seen before and I'm usually surprised because I envisioned them completely differently.

Usually what you find in those threads are lots and lots and lots of photos of the same few women and then some photos of a guy or two.

[Funkyfreshgrape]

I guess this (http://www.doingsomething.com/sureshots) might help
i don't see a picture of me!:mad:

[Loppfessor]

I only know what a few people look like. I sometimes go into one of the Sure Shots threads and I chance across seeing a photo of someone that I'd never seen before and I'm usually surprised because I envisioned them completely differently.

Usually what you find in those threads are lots and lots and lots of photos of the same few women and then some photos of a guy or two.


Yeah weren't you all mysterious about what you looked like way back in the day? Like you posted only pictures of your legs or something...am I way off here?

[Randetica]

i don't see a picture of me!:mad:


i not being mean, but this i couldn't care about this at all...

[enree erzweglle]

Yeah weren't you all mysterious about what you looked like way back in the day? Like you posted only pictures of your legs or something...am I way off here?I posted a headless shot of me in a funny pose and I did that not so much to maintain mystery but more for privacy. But we don't need to resurrect that discussion about privacy and photos and the internet again, huh? :)

[beastieangel01]

ok, i think you're gorgeous and it's really sad you dont realize it. you have an incredibly beautiful unique look, and im sure a lot of so-called-normal guys are intimidated by you because you seem so free and different. the problem with that is that you get the creepy guys talking you up because they learned long ago that they have nothing to lose. especially if they find girls that, like you, think they're less than completely attractive.
NEVER EVER lower or change your expectations. you most probably deserve every bit of that man of your dreams. and you are, most definately, the girl of someone's dreams. but youre not gonna find that guy and he's not gonna find you if you're home all day or only venturing to talk to the local dork that treats you crappy because thats how he thinks you like to be treated.

and you're gorgeous. i just have to say that again.

knowwhatimsayin

yeah I second this.

[abcdefz]

Granted, I should lower my standards considering I'm not exactly a fine "catch", but seriously... C'mon!


There's this guy who works at the local gas station where I buy my cigarettes, vitamin water, whatever.. He wears one of those shiny, pimp-looking dragon shirts -- EVERYDAY! He has massive body odor, and is also obese. So what? The guy may have zero to no sense of style (let alone hygiene) and looks like Grimace. But there's always that factor he's very nice, off of drugs and fun, right?

WRONG! :mad:

I'll give him ONE occasion where he's been kind, but that's all. I figure it's like pre-school; boy likes girl, boy hits girl with a baseball bat. It never fails that EVERY TIME I walk into that store, he insults me.

"Your hair's a mess."

"Did you just wake up? Looks like someone had a rough night."

Oh, and the best yet...

"Are you by chance NOT wearing a bra?"

It's to the point I won't go there anymore in fear of his slander. But my sister does. He won't bother her. And speaking of which, she shares with me tonight "I think that guy who works at the gas station has a crush on you or something. He always asks about you."

Apparently, I was invited to go to Dorney Park with he and his "posse" tomorrow. She declined the invite on my behalf (thank GOD). That's when he responded with "I'll be thinking of her with me when I'm splashing around in the water park..." :confused: Okay, my sister's not one to lie. Fuckin' creepy.


So, what's my problem? Am I truly that hideous and inept? Do I have a big sign written on my forehead that reads "ANIME 'TARD" -or- "ASK ME ON A DATE BECAUSE MY EX IS IN JAIL AND A DRUG ADDICT, AND I'M EXTREMELY FRAGILE/EXTREMELY DESPERATE RIGHT NOW"?

Jesus.



Wow. If this is the specimen you want to use to generalize about the whole male species, you really need to get out more.

[hpdrifter]

Granted, I should lower my standards considering I'm not exactly a fine "catch", but seriously... C'mon!


I think its safe to say this is your problem. Loser guys will sense that you don't think you can do better than them.

[abcdefz]

Turd will start hitting on you any second now.

[g-mile7]

Turd will start hitting on you any second now.


Check her PM's......




And Sak your a lovely girl, you just have to have patience, the game is a tough one. There is an old saying in basketball which I think applies here:

"Don't chase the game, let the game come to you"

The more you pursure the more you will seem like your willing to settle for less (which shouldn't). If you settle for less you will feel unfufiled and even worst then you are right now. Just keep on doing you and keep your mind open for you never know. The one you seek might just be in your circle of friends, co-worker (or former) or whatever. Just be willing to give those that you normally wouldn't give (since you might see them as just a friend) a chance. You got the style and looks just use them to the best of your ablities.

[beastiegirrl101]

It never fails that EVERY TIME I walk into that store, he insults me.

"Your hair's a mess."

"Did you just wake up? Looks like someone had a rough night."

Oh, and the best yet...

"Are you by chance NOT wearing a bra?"

My neighbor is exactly like this! I live in a complex where we all share the yard so we frequently run into eachother. Him and his girl are the punky, tattoo'd EVERYWHERE type ...like she has sleves too. They both are bartenders so they have off hours...they go to bed at 5am, when I am getting up. Not that all of that matters just trying to paint a picture of thier lifestyle because it's so different from mine. It never fails every time I am on my way out he makes a remark about what I am wearing, my clothes, shoes, what bar I am going to...one time I was coming in the gang way from work and he called me into the house because he said he had to show me something...turns out he has all his tattoo buddies in there and he wanted to show them how "ugly" my shoes were...I was like, you asshole. He is a major dork, and it's like he has something to prove.

[like2_drink]

Ignore all the morons who said "don't smoke". Smoking is almost the sexiest thing a girl can do, next to blowjobs.

head beats killing yourself anyday.

if you need another excessory to look sexy - wear glasses, to the ladies of course

[beastiegirrl101]

Go to WaWa to get your smokes from now on. I highly recomend their Coffee, Lemonade Ice-T, or Smoothies, all moderately priced I might add.

I know they have WaWa in Scranton, right? They're on every other block in Philly.

Their staff usually meets or exceeds "Human" standards.


I LOVE LOVE LOVE WAWA's! They have the best sammaches. Sheets aren't so bad either!

[skra75]

Ignore all the morons who said "don't smoke". Smoking is almost the sexiest thing a girl can do, next to blowjobs.

(lb) (y)

[wrongwayandugg]

Granted, I should lower my standards considering I'm not exactly a fine "catch", but seriously... C'mon!


There's this guy who works at the local gas station where I buy my cigarettes, vitamin water, whatever.. He wears one of those shiny, pimp-looking dragon shirts -- EVERYDAY! He has massive body odor, and is also obese. So what? The guy may have zero to no sense of style (let alone hygiene) and looks like Grimace. But there's always that factor he's very nice, off of drugs and fun, right?

WRONG! :mad:

I'll give him ONE occasion where he's been kind, but that's all. I figure it's like pre-school; boy likes girl, boy hits girl with a baseball bat. It never fails that EVERY TIME I walk into that store, he insults me.

"Your hair's a mess."

"Did you just wake up? Looks like someone had a rough night."

Oh, and the best yet...

"Are you by chance NOT wearing a bra?"

It's to the point I won't go there anymore in fear of his slander. But my sister does. He won't bother her. And speaking of which, she shares with me tonight "I think that guy who works at the gas station has a crush on you or something. He always asks about you."

Apparently, I was invited to go to Dorney Park with he and his "posse" tomorrow. She declined the invite on my behalf (thank GOD). That's when he responded with "I'll be thinking of her with me when I'm splashing around in the water park..." :confused: Okay, my sister's not one to lie. Fuckin' creepy.


So, what's my problem? Am I truly that hideous and inept? Do I have a big sign written on my forehead that reads "ANIME 'TARD" -or- "ASK ME ON A DATE BECAUSE MY EX IS IN JAIL AND A DRUG ADDICT, AND I'M EXTREMELY FRAGILE/EXTREMELY DESPERATE RIGHT NOW"?

Jesus.

hey, hey. he might be really picky too. he sounds like a catch? (n)

[g-mile7]

Ignore all the morons who said "don't smoke". Smoking is almost the sexiest thing a girl can do, next to blowjobs.


Depends, some can and some can't pull it off man. I think the sexist thing s a girl can do is the way she speaks...and the way she eats (food not being perverted).

[wrongwayandugg]

Depends, some can and some can't pull it off man. I think the sexist thing s a girl can do is the way she speaks...and the way she eats (food not being perverted).

food can never be perverted. you are forgiven. sex and pizza.

[g-mile7]

food can never be perverted. you are forgiven. sex and pizza.


Thank You. I mean, at least to me, that can be a big turn on the way she eats. I love a girl who can enjoy her food.

[B4BY 4NN]

If this is the specimen you want to use to generalize about the whole male species, you really need to get out more.

I'm not generalizing, I'm not stereotyping ALL men as scum. It's what I know. Scum ex-boyfriend, scum friend, scum Grimace...

I realize I should get out more -- be like every other 19 year old girl and drinkdrinkdrink until I'm the human kegger VOMITING all over someone's shit-hole apartment, smoke pot, drink some more, coast right along through college because mums'n dads are paying for it, drink, coast, smoke, drink drink.. That's a life. A real one. I'll meet less scumbags doing the above, right?

Honestly, I'm not desperate for a guy. I don't want a boyfriend/relationship right now. It would just be really nice, for once, to have an ATTRACTIVE male (one who isn't a drug addict, a pedophile, a semi-pedophile, or a big ball of stinking ass) to say/ask "You're pretty, you're interesting, let's meet for coffee, let's talk on the phone, let's be FRIENDS". I'm like any girl/woman.. I LIKE attention from the opposite sex. It's the unwanted, asshole attention I dislike which is what I receive most of the time whether-or-not I'm OUT or at home watching an America's Next Top Model marathon.

It's redundant, and I'm tired of the shit-treatment. I HAVE enough confidence in saying I deserve better.

[abcdefz]

I think the best advice I've ever heard is just be true to yourself and do the things you want to do; then you wind up in more situations with like-minded people, and you're meeting the batch you should meet.

[g-mile7]

I'm not generalizing, I'm not stereotyping ALL men as scum. It's what I know. Scum ex-boyfriend, scum friend, scum Grimace...

I realize I should get out more -- be like every other 19 year old girl and drinkdrinkdrink until I'm the human kegger VOMITING all over someone's shit-hole apartment, smoke pot, drink some more, coast right along through college because mums'n dads are paying for it, drink, coast, smoke, drink drink.. That's a life. A real one. I'll meet less scumbags doing the above, right?

Honestly, I'm not desperate for a guy. I don't want a boyfriend/relationship right now. It would just be really nice, for once, to have an ATTRACTIVE male (one who isn't a drug addict, a pedophile, a semi-pedophile, or a big ball of stinking ass) to say/ask "You're pretty, you're interesting, let's meet for coffee, let's talk on the phone, let's be FRIENDS". I'm like any girl/woman.. I LIKE attention from the opposite sex. It's the unwanted, asshole attention I dislike which is what I receive most of the time whether-or-not I'm OUT or at home watching an America's Next Top Model marathon.

It's redundant, and I'm tired of the shit-treatment. I HAVE enough confidence in saying I deserve better.


I'd take you out for coffee:) (y) ...hope that least made you giggle!

[hpdrifter]

Yeah, unwanted attention from losers in public is a drag. Apartment complex managers, creepy neighbors (that guy in your bldg is an ass, Nata), people who work in places you frequent.

Have you thought about reporting homedude to his manager?

[g-mile7]

Yeah, unwanted attention from losers in public is a drag. Apartment complex managers, creepy neighbors (that guy in your bldg is an ass, Nata), people who work in places you frequent.

Have you thought about reporting homedude to his manager?


That's a punk ass sucka if I have ever heard of one....you sure he's not gay? Gay men usually are the main ones who pull that type of deal with females.

[SobaViolence]

Sometimes people know it but don't believe it or they haven't brought that concept home to themselves ...and they need to hear it from other people. Over and over.

Some of the most beautiful people are often some of the most insecure and needy people as well.

(lb)

[beastiegirrl101]

That's a punk ass sucka if I have ever heard of one....you sure he's not gay? Gay men usually are the main ones who pull that type of deal with females.

I'm pretty sure he's not gay, him and his girlie just got engaged but ya never know these days.

They both give me a lot of shit because I am different from them. They say they hate my "type" of crowd but they think I'm cool. How lame is that? Just because I'm not a scenester like them. The female says she doesnt respect pretty boys at all. When I asked her why...she of course didn't have an answer. They are so jaded it makes me sick.

PLUS they have two really really fat dogs that they never walk and it makes me upset to see them so unhealthy. :( and...they shit in my garden.

[g-mile7]

I'm pretty sure he's not gay, him and his girlie just got engaged but ya never know these days.

They both give me a lot of shit because I am different from them. They say they hate my "type" of crowd but they think I'm cool. How lame is that? Just because I'm not a scenester like them. The female says she doesnt respect pretty boys at all. When I asked her why...she of course didn't have an answer. They are so jaded it makes me sick.

PLUS they have two really really fat dogs that they never walk and it makes me upset to see them so unhealthy. :( and...they shit in my garden.



People think they are soooo deep nowadays.....

[Loppfessor]

I posted a headless shot of me in a funny pose and I did that not so much to maintain mystery but more for privacy. But we don't need to resurrect that discussion about privacy and photos and the internet again, huh? :)


Sorry my memory is sketchy at best sometimes....damn troubled youth

[yeah_whatever]

man i don't know what's wrong with men in general. lately i've seriously been considering becoming a lesbian.

you think i'm kidding? no, i'm not.

[enree erzweglle]

(lb)
(lb)

:)

By the way, I just got your avatar. I used to think it was someone doing shadowy bunny ears :o but it's a peace sign. It's so nice.

[hpdrifter]

I'm pretty sure he's not gay, him and his girlie just got engaged but ya never know these days.

They both give me a lot of shit because I am different from them. They say they hate my "type" of crowd but they think I'm cool. How lame is that? Just because I'm not a scenester like them. The female says she doesnt respect pretty boys at all. When I asked her why...she of course didn't have an answer. They are so jaded it makes me sick.

PLUS they have two really really fat dogs that they never walk and it makes me upset to see them so unhealthy. :( and...they shit in my garden.

That's funny how you refer to her as "the female". I feel like I'm watching the Discovery Channel.

"The hipsters in their natural habitat. Note how the female's plumes set her apart from others of her species. She wishes to attract a certain kind of male...."

[Lex Diamonds]

Depends, some can and some can't pull it off man. I think the sexist thing s a girl can do is the way she speaks...and the way she eats (food not being perverted).
Yeah but smokers' voices are the sexiest. You can't beat a good husky slut voice. (y)