Sex Etiquette???

[Loppfessor]

Ladies (and fellas) please help me settle a debate here. If a female lets a guy go in her raw dog isn’t there like an unspoken agreement that she is in fact on birth control? I know it’s not the most responsible thing but I’ve always just assumed that. Okay scenario two if said female lets the guy not use a condom does she then have the right to get mad if he cums inside her because he assumed she was on birth control otherwise why the hell would she let him not wear a condom?

[Drederick Tatum]

I think what the young lady is expecting, nay...wanting, is a face full of sperm.

[Lex Diamonds]

I'd never assume so when I'm riding bareback I try not to drop it off in the box.

[Knuckles]

If the communication between the two people is so poor that the man doesn't know if she is on birth control I'd say that HIV is something to worry about.

[Nivvie]

At any given moment in time there are millions of women out there plotting to get knocked up.
They may not say it to you, but will dish the details of your entrapment to their friends at a later date.

Guard your sperm.

[Lex Diamonds]

At any given moment in time there are millions of women out there plotting to get knocked up.
They may not say it to you, but will dish the details of your entrapment to their friends at a later date.

Guard your sperm.
Aww they say uhh..
.. a black man is a pimp
Well let me tell you the biggest pimp
on planet motherfuckin Earth, is her momma
It's her MOMMA that told her,
"Get a man that got a good job gurl!
Make sure he got a good car gurl!
Make sure he can take you out and buy you somethin gurl!"
What happened to just fallin in love with a nigga with a bus pass --
-- just cause you love the nigga?
But +I'm+ the pimp motherfucker!
I gotta be the player!
Biggest hoes, on planet Earth..
.. are walkin through the motherfuckin neighborhood
You KNEW when you got with the nigga he already had a woman
You knew he already had a family
but you fucked him anyway!!!
And then when you thought you gon' lose the nigga
you went and got pregant - didn't you bitch, DIDN'T YOU!!
THE OL' KEEP A NIGGA BABY
And then when the nigga ain't around, what do you tell the child?
"Aww that nigga ain't shit, that's why yo' daddy ain't here;
cause that nigga ain't shit."
How bout bein a woman, and tellin the kid the truth
that yo' momma, you was a hoe!
TELL THE KID!
Momma was a hoe, I was weekend pussy
I had you to keep the nigga, it didn't work out
that's why he ain't here - but he a good nigga
cause he take care of his REAL family
I was just a dumb bitch, tryin to keep, a nigga that I wanted

[Tone Capone]

At any given moment in time there are millions of women out there plotting to get knocked up.
They may not say it to you, but will dish the details of your entrapment to their friends at a later date.

Guard your sperm.

You embalm people?!?!?!?:eek:

[enree erzweglle]

To get to sex, I have to know a person well enough to have talked about those things with him or to have had those things come up in conversation ahead of time. And I also have to know him well enough to gauge how much of a chance I'd be taking if I was to consider having unprotected sex with him because of the HIV/STD angles.

If you don't know a person well enough to know the answers to base questions like that, I wouldn't make any assumptions about anything and I'd take responsibility for myself and use BC.

I have known women who wanted to get pregnant and so they didn't tell their mates and they didn't use BC and their partners assumed that they were on the pill and voila, pregnancy. And I have known women who assume or have been told that that they can't get pregnant because they menstruate irregularly--bad assumption--so they don't use birth control at all and that often results in surprise pregnancies.

I would say that unless she wants to get pregnant, every sexually active woman should use reliable birth control unless she's gone through full-on menopause, has had a hysterectomy, or has been sterilized. And if you're a guy and you don't know much about your mate in this regard, do what you can to protect yourself.

[Nivvie]

You embalm people?!?!?!?:eek:


Yup.
It's not that weird. Well, not really.
Not really a big leap from nursing, it's all bodies and stuff.

[Tone Capone]

Yup.
It's not that weird. Well, not really.
Not really a big leap from nursing, it's all bodies and stuff.

HOW the "H" did you get involved in that? Or what made you decide to pursue that?

[Nivvie]

When nursing, I always liked laying people out, making them look nice for their final goodbyes. It's just an extention of that. To learn it you have to go to mortuary college. Many emblamers were previously medical.

But now I am stuck in the Highlands, and unless I get all Damien Hurst and start embalming cows, it's a part time thing.

[synch]

Yeah, I always thought there was a distinct lack of dead people in the highlands.


what the fuck?

[Tone Capone]

When nursing, I always liked laying people out, making them look nice for their final goodbyes. It's just an extention of that. To learn it you have to go to mortuary college. Many emblamers were previously medical.

But now I am stuck in the Highlands, and unless I get all Damien Hurst and start embalming cows, it's a part time thing.

Hey do people really make noises when they are being embalmed?

[Nivvie]

Hey do people really make noises when they are being embalmed?

Movement of a body forces air over the voicebox, but it's not as pronounced as people would like to believe, just a gentle groan, and once the air's out, it's out.

[Tone Capone]

Movement of a body forces air over the voicebox, but it's not as pronounced as people would like to believe, just a gentle groan, and once the air's out, it's out.

whoa...

does anything about embalming ever freak you out?

[ginatay2003]

Ladies (and fellas) please help me settle a debate here. If a female lets a guy go in her raw dog isn’t there like an unspoken agreement that she is in fact on birth control? I know it’s not the most responsible thing but I’ve always just assumed that. Okay scenario two if said female lets the guy not use a condom does she then have the right to get mad if he cums inside her because he assumed she was on birth control otherwise why the hell would she let him not wear a condom?

Perhaps there should be an "unspoken agreement" but chicks get caught up in the moment just like dudes do. I would always ask the lady.

For scenario dos, I don't think she should get mad if he cums inside her because that happens and sometimes cannot be avoided. Maybe she let him not wear a condom because he didn't want to or she was afraid he wouldn't want to.

[na§tee]

nivvie, you're from the highlands? WHERE WHERE WHERE OOH OOOH!

er, yeah. cum is such a fucking bad word, like. i don't know why any self-respecting individual would use the word 'cum' to describe sexual encounters.

[Nivvie]

whoa...

does anything about embalming ever freak you out?

Yes, plenty. I've never been sick, but I've sworn a lot and had some pretty monster nightmares, corpses knocking on my door, making demands, etc.



nivvie, you're from the highlands? WHERE WHERE WHERE OOH OOOH!


The low part, Grampian region, not too far from Inverness, or unfortunately, Aberdeen.

*breaks into Flower of Scotland for na§tee*

Sing with me woman!

[abcdefz]

Never assume anything for the sake of physical, mental, and financial health.

Also: if it's a one-nighter or something, just wear a condom anyway. Because, really, you never know.

[Loppfessor]

Well my friend has been seeing this girl for like 3 weeks now but they finally did the deed recently. Anyway they used the rubber the first time but wound up taking it off. So then after that he figured it was all good. Hard to say but I don't know a whole lot of 26 year old single women who aren't on birth control. When he asked her about it (after cumming inside her) she was like "I don't need to be because I don't do this all the time".....that's just crazy in my opinion. I told him to just blow his load on her next time....women LOVE that shit

[abcdefz]

When he asked her about it (after cumming inside her)



Nice timing. :confused:

[na§tee]

The low part, Grampian region, not too far from Inverness, or unfortunately, Aberdeen.

*breaks into Flower of Scotland for na§tee*

Sing with me woman!
awesome.
my boyfriend lives on the black isle, near culbokie, and works for ross county football club. most of my friends are from dingwall.. they all went to dingwall academy.
i, myself, originally hail from the isle of lewis. suit you!
inverness, the metropolis of the highlands! haha!

[Loppfessor]

Nice timing. :confused:


Well that's cus after he did she got a little upset and that's what started the whole conversation....that's what we've been debating I guess; Does letting a guy not use a condom automatically give him permission to cum inside the girl

[abcdefz]

Well that's cus after he did she got a little upset and that's what started the whole conversation....that's what we've been debating I guess; Does letting a guy not use a condom automatically give him permission to cum inside the girl



The problem with that sort of thinking is that, then, everyone assumes everyone else knows the unwritten rules, and there really aren't any that we've all agreed on. Hell, for that woman, it could've well been the "unwritten rule" that, "since we're having sex, OF COURSE you want to marry me..."

[zorra_chiflada]

embalming, man, that's pretty cool (y)

[Nivvie]

awesome.
my boyfriend lives on the black isle,

Oooh, I love The Black Isle. I used to live near Findhorn and you can see it from there.
I stated out lower though, glorious W. Dunbartonshire, and have been scarred by too many years in England. Where are you now?

[na§tee]

GLASGOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
(y)

yeah, i'm excited. there's only a couple of scottish people on here.

[Nivvie]

Wooo indeed!
It's quality not quanity.:D

[icy manipulator]

or you could just carry a condom around everywhere... so simple

[Nuzzolese]

I've got one. How about, if a guy goes ahead and does you raw dog (classy term) without offering to put on a condom, then it's understood that he will withdraw, and that he has no communicable diseases. I'm sure you can trust him. Anyone who is willing to trust you with his body, is obviously worthy himself of being trusted.

[faz]

I'll also boycott this thread and say that I live in Moray (y)

Scotland ftw

[Nivvie]

Men are not to be trusted AT ALL whilst under the possesive spell of erection.
I doubt if they even trust themselves.

I'll also boycott this thread and say that I live in Moray (y)

Scotland ftw

Have a lollipop. And a free condom.
Please don't discard it on the pavement.
Keep Moray tidy!

[na§tee]

Have a lollipop. And a free condom.
Please don't discard it on the pavement.
Keep Moray tidy!
you forgot to mention the machetes (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/glasgow_and_west/4798377.stm). free machetes; we hand them out to every second ned singing rangers songs.

[Nivvie]

you forgot to mention the machetes (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/glasgow_and_west/4798377.stm). free machetes; we hand them out to every second ned singing rangers songs.

Ohh! Ohh! I had a job in Fraserburgh the other day, and I saw the white tent in the road (and so stopped, of course) and it appeared a local smack head had got his hands on a machete. He was probably just off to sell it but got confused when a loon full of Buckfast got in his way.

[Tone Capone]

Well that's cus after he did she got a little upset and that's what started the whole conversation....that's what we've been debating I guess; Does letting a guy not use a condom automatically give him permission to cum inside the girl

In my (not-so-humble) opinion, if two people decide to go at it raw, they both have to be prepared for whatever whether there is some kinda unspoken thing or not. They both need to be ready for pregnancy, stds or (hopefully) just a great time. Where the "seed" lands whether inside, outside or (hopefully) on her face (j/k...kinda ) is also something that is a risk. That's what condoms or for, for taggin someone when you are just not sure you want to deal with pregnancy, std or mopping up "seed".

[na§tee]

haha! omg. we are totally not selling scotland here.
my ned neighbours (understand i live in the west end so by default i should share the tenement with thoroughly middle class people, but we are totally on the border of maryhill and they dripped through!) not only sing rangers sons and (probably) own samurai swords and machetes, they have a three legged dog! called "LAYDEH!"

[Nuzzolese]

I miss Scotland. I want to go back. I went just once to visit and I miss it at times. Just the highlands though, not so much Glasgow or Edinburgh which I always heinously mispronounced. I miss the cows.

[na§tee]

you've been to scotland, nuzz? fantastic! when, where, why? ooh!
i would have totally shown you the sites and got you drunk and made you eat chips and cheese. just like any self-respecting host!

[Nivvie]

haha! omg. we are totally not selling scotland here.
my ned neighbours (understand i live in the west end so by default i should share the tenement with thoroughly middle class people, but we are totally on the border of maryhill and they dripped through!) not only sing rangers sons and (probably) own samurai swords and machetes, they have a three legged dog! called "LAYDEH!"

Yay! Glasgow bockers!

I wouldn't worry about selling Scotland, it has to be the only place where you could share a tenement with middle class folk.

If I had to write a tourist slogan it would be-
'Scotland, where even the chavs play golf.'

[Nivvie]

and made you eat chips and cheese. just like any self-respecting host!

And deep fried pizza followed by deep fried Mars Bar! Don't forget the classics!

[Nuzzolese]

Ages ago! Back when I smoked. I was all over the highlands, saw a ton of lochs and castles. It was in the summer and I had a really bad haircut and dye job at the time. Not that any of that matters, I suppose. I remember Sterling, cows, fish and chips, lots of small motorcycle gangs, and making fun of the british royal family which our host told us not to do because the queen mum is to be taken very seriously but, anyway. CIDER! Love it. If you drink cider here you're a moron. But there, there cider was respected.

[beastieangel01]

unspoken agreement

that's the problem, right there. Nothing should go unspoken when it comes to sex. And if it is unspoken, it's your own damned fault if someone gets pregnant or some herpes, yo.

[faz]

Seems like the best place to do this. Na§tee, (Clair, isn't it?), I'm going to Glasgow at the end of November to see DJ Shadow. Recommend any hip hop clubs I should go to afterwards? I'm seeing him at the Carling academy which is, apparently, a refurbished bingo hall (y)

[na§tee]

Ages ago! Back when I smoked. I was all over the highlands, saw a ton of lochs and castles. It was in the summer and I had a really bad haircut and dye job at the time. Not that any of that matters, I suppose. I remember Sterling, cows, fish and chips, lots of small motorcycle gangs, and making fun of the british royal family which our host told us not to do because the queen mum is to be taken very seriously but, anyway. CIDER! Love it. If you drink cider here you're a moron. But there, there cider was respected.
haha. this is hilarious! cider! i trust you know how much i straigh up adore cider; magners, not strongbow. it's the summer drink of choice. (and, well, basically all year round for me)
sterling is only about 40 minutes from here. i don't like it that much. it's a glorified town. nice castle, though. you can really imagine everyone living there.. and stuff.
fish and chips. aaahh. all the foreign people i know don't like it for some strange reason. me; you cannae beat it. except with, as nivvie suggests, a deep fried mars bar! mmmmm scottish cuisine! heart disease capital of europe! (y)

[na§tee]

Seems like the best place to do this. Na§tee, (Clair, isn't it?), I'm going to Glasgow at the end of November to see DJ Shadow. Recommend any hip hop clubs I should go to afterwards? I'm seeing him at the Carling academy which is, apparently, a refurbished bingo hall (y)
claire. i like to fit in as many vowels as humanely possible.
um. hiphop. i just wrote to tone as he was asking about clubs t'other day and i totally can't remember. it depends what day you're going down. the best place to go to, bar none, is the art school's hip hop night on a thursday. it's great.

the other places i mentioned to tone were more.. alternative places. electro, soul, northern soul (we have the best nothern soul-typa-music-playing-shiznit place in this city), etc. we don't really have dedicated hip hop clubs.

but if you tell me what night you're coming and what musique you're interested in i'm sure i can point you in the right direction.

btw, i was sure the carling academy was a cinema of some sort. it's in a quite cool art deco building but it's in a crap location - on the south side. yak! i once nearly got kidnapped there, on that road, i swear!

[faz]

btw, i was sure the carling academy was a cinema of some sort. it's in a quite cool art deco building but it's in a crap location - on the south side. yak! i once nearly got kidnapped there, on that road, i swear!

You're correct. I just checked the site. I swear I remember reading it was a bingo hall.

*googles 'Carling academy glasgow bingo'*

The Bedford Picture House closed on 8th July 1983 and became one of the city's busiest bingo clubs until it closed in 1993 and the building was boarded up and left empty.

Apparently it was both.

Anyway, I'm seeing Shadow 29th, which is a Wedensday. We may also be staying the Thursday. Not too sure yet. Its really just hip hop I'm into. Very rarely "commercial" stuff. Shadow (obviosuly), DJ Yoda (whoom I'm seeing the week after in Kef in Aberdeen) DJ Format, Pete Rock, MF Doom etc. Generally laid back stuff.

I'm not really that botherd as the bars here all play pop/dance music so its not like I cant go somewhere that wont play hip hop. I just figured since Glasgows nice and big it would be more diverse and I could get drunk to music I like.

[little j]

Ladies (and fellas) please help me settle a debate here. If a female lets a guy go in her raw dog isn’t there like an unspoken agreement that she is in fact on birth control? I know it’s not the most responsible thing but I’ve always just assumed that. Okay scenario two if said female lets the guy not use a condom does she then have the right to get mad if he cums inside her because he assumed she was on birth control otherwise why the hell would she let him not wear a condom?
NEVER ASSUME SOMEONE IS ON BIRTHCONTROL.
that is super irresponsible.

p.s. i think most girls prefer without the rubber glove, but please please for the love of god and all humanity SAFETY FIRST

p.p.s. there are some crazy girls out there that actually want to get pregnant. and or want to spread their crazy disease.

[Echewta]

This thread is confussing. I guess I've realized I want to have sex with a girl that I don't talk to in Scotland and give her a half and half.

[Bob]

This thread is confussing. I guess I've realized I want to have sex with a girl that I don't talk to in Scotland and give her a half and half.

and then enbalm her

[Echewta]

Oh yea!:confused:

[QueenAdrock]

Well that's cus after he did she got a little upset

Well, she's not too bright if she just got upset after he came inside of her. Hello, precum? One drop of precum has a million little spermies in it - more enough to get you pregnant. So even if he pulled out, she could have EASILY gotten pregnant.

While there should have been more communication between the two, the girl should have said "Don't cum inside" - it takes less than two seconds to say, and guys will oblige. I don't get why she wouldn't at LEAST say that.

[Justin]

If a woman doesnt want to get pregnant she should be on birth control!

Condoms arent always 100% protective.

[QueenAdrock]

Well neither is birth control. If a woman REALLY didn't want to get pregnant, she just wouldn't do it because that's the only 100% sure way not to get bebbies.

But still, taking initiative and at least using condoms is a good start. Birth control AND condoms are the best combo.

[yeahwho]

I go out of my way to try and not fart and cum at the same time.

But hey, that's just me.

[Justin]

I go out of my way to try and not fart and cum at the same time.

But hey, that's just me.

Farting sometimes is much more satisfying.

[Echewta]

Well you are certainly not doing something right if thats the case.

[skra75]

If a woman doesnt want to get pregnant she should be on birth control!

Condoms arent always 100% protective.

(y)

[Dr Deaf]

...bust a nut, get up and put on my white ewings.


:cool:

[beastieangel01]

I advocate birth control, but there are some women that cannot be on birth control for various reasons.

Just FYI'in.

[Freebasser]

I'm on the pill.

[beastieangel01]

no wonder your boobs have gotten so big, freebie.

[Freebasser]

I guess it's less freebiejeebies and more hugieboobies now, huh? :(

[cookiepuss]

NEVER ASSUME SOMEONE IS ON BIRTHCONTROL.
that is super irresponsible.

p.s. i think most girls prefer without the rubber glove, but please please for the love of god and all humanity SAFETY FIRST

p.p.s. there are some crazy girls out there that actually want to get pregnant. and or want to spread their crazy disease.

may I also add that there are a good majority of women who don't even KNOW they are carying a disease. HPV often shows no physical symptoms and yet it can be passed on to a partner. there are quite a few sexually transmitted infections that show very little symptoms but are contageous.

secondly, there are many reasons why a woman or man might not even tell you thye carry a disease. for example herpes. if the person is not having an outbreak at the time of intercourse and/or is on suppression treatment the risk of them passing it on still exhists but is considered to be much lower. People don't want to be rejected and made to feel dirty, so if they can get away with not telling you they will. I have a girlfriend who contracted it from her boyfriend of 3 years....turns out the dick was cheating on her the whole time with various women and the asshole let my friend think SHE had given him herpes from oral sex because she was prone to cold sores. she talked to his exgilrfriend who he has a child with and found out that he'd had herpes when he was with her and there was no way my friend gave it to him.

so listen, no one should assume anything just because they get the go ahead to have unprotected sex.

I'm sorry but I think it just plain stupid to have unprotected sex with anyone who you have not had a long term, open and honest relationship with and with whom you wouldn't mind having a baby with. period. end of story.

[Echewta]

Yea, i never really understood casual sex in this day and age. And when i mean casual, i don't mean like both people laying down position because they are lazy.