Men who treat you bad

[miss soul fire]

I only get those.:(

Why is he with me if I'm the worst girl in the world?

Dumb;
Weird;
With a thousand physical flaws;
He keeps talking about hot and smart girls and this and that.

I never argue with him. Athough I tell him the way I feel.

Apparently, sometimes I'm nice.

The worst thing is that I like him.
Sometimes he says I don't like him.
There are many other things.
I don't know what to do.

[ggirlballa]

wut sucks is i like a guy who is an asshole to me too, yet he likes me back but still talks shit about me.....wtf?

[miss soul fire]

We're nice girls to put up with guys like that, I'll tell ya.

[yooooo]

LEFT UPPERCUT, RIGHT UPPERCUT AND ONE IN THE BALLS.

do you like him? or do you love him... for me, thats a huge difference, and if he is such an asshole...

LEFT UPPERCUT,RIGHT UPPERCUT AND ONE IN THE BALLS.

[na§tee]

oh msf! :( you don't deserve this.
although you may think you he has things which can redeem him later, it's not worth it. people who say these things to someone - someone they are meant to actively like/love - are assholes.
you, and every other woman, deserve nothing less than being totally adored.

[Helvete]

Girls who stay with these guys, deserve these guys.

YEAH, YOU HEARD! SORT IT OUT OR FUCKING PUT UP WITH IT!

[miss soul fire]

Thanks, Nastee.:o
He says he's joking, but every joke has its truth, ya know.
I know he's sincere, but I think somethings he should keep just to himself. He told me he can only be himself and that's the way he is. He talks everything that comes up to his mind.

[miss soul fire]

Girls who stay with these guys, deserve these guys.

YEAH, YOU HEARD! SORT IT OUT OR FUCKING PUT UP WITH IT!
That's right.

[miss soul fire]

Last night he told me "when you get pregnant, you look like you are gonna get really fat".

The truth hurts.:(

[Helvete]

Last night he told me "when you get pregnant, you look like you are gonna get really fat".

The truth hurts.:(
For the goodness of yourself, don't put up with this. He enjoys making you feel bad and like you are worth nothing. This is not true and you deserve someone who makes you feel good every day.

I can't understand a girl who would stand for this, so maybe you can help me out. But if this is his way, then I don't think he is going to change.

[Nivvie]

Ditto na§tee.

Flowers and stuff don't matter, I prefer the kind of romance that entails patience with my interests, and that saves me from undertaking tasks I'd rather avoid.

If he doesn't make you feel like a goddess, he is not the one for you, and not meant to be.

[abcdefz]

I know everyone has flaws, and sometimes you have to ride a storm out, but if a person can really be characterized as "mean to you," then you should save yourself the drama and get out.

You're not "being kind" to put up with that stuff; you're enabling emotional retadation in the other person and reinforcing whatever feelings of unworthiness you might feel you actually own.

Bad scene. Anything abusive is bad.

[miss soul fire]

Not to mention I gotta do his homework...

Thanks guys, I shouldn't put up with this.

[ggirlballa]

MSF i hope u really take this advice & not just hear the advice & say ok yea i'm gonna leave him but then you never do & still put up with this stuff...

u deserve better

[faz]

Why is he with me if I'm the worst girl in the world?


Why are you with him if he calls you the worst girl in the world?

[miss soul fire]

Why are you with him if he calls you the worst girl in the world?
Maybe I AM the worst girl in the world.(n)

[miss soul fire]

It was a terrible idea to start this thread.

Conclusion of all of this: I'm just as bad as him.

Whatever.

[b i o n i c]

why do you like him?

[Whatitis]

Why are you with him if he calls you the worst girl in the world?


Exactly. Why do women put up with that shit? I've seen men take shit from women too. To me, if I was talked to like that I would fuck off so quickly. It's not worth it to be talked down to by the person that you are supposed to be in love with. If a person does that shit early in a relationship, what do you think they will be like in 20 years? Not worth it!

[b i o n i c]

is he very handsome?

well off compared to other dudes around you?

respected by people around you?

some sort of artist?

i dunno...


why would you say that about yourself? what makes him such a catch?

[Freebasser]

We're nice girls to put up with guys like that, I'll tell ya.

No, you're stupid girls to put up with guys like that.

hihihi :(

[Caribou]

freebie is right. Also the only reason wankers like this guy continue their behaviour is because they know there will be some insecure girl who will put up with that shit. Roby, you're beautiful, smart and one hell of a cool chick, don't let this twat let you think any other way about yourself.
He doesn't deserve you luv. He deserves some cheap whore who will cheat on him and makes him feel bad.

[miss soul fire]

Thanks for the nice words, guys. I don't know if my self-esteem makes me feel bad with any comment any person make. He says he's joking. He doesn't know how to joke. I told him that some things that he tells me make me feel bad, but I don't know. Maybe I'm overreacting. He didn't call me dumb, but the jokes he makes about me not knowing something I supposed to know, especially about college...ahhhhh....forget it. Thanks anyway!

[miss soul fire]

He's cute. I don't care much about looks. He's got good things about him. I just don't know how to act with someone who is THAT sincere about anything. Some of my friends would think he's rude.

[monkey]

roby, you know i <3 you, and as someone who thinks the world of you, i need you to know that someone who doesnt treat you the way you deserve and in a way that makes you feel less than amazing ISNT worth your time. no matter what, realize that you are one of a kind. you are so gorgeous and smart and funny! there's a million people on this thing who agree with me. so, dump that zero and get with a hero. :cool: or just dont accept less than what you really want and really deserve. a million hugs.

[RaZoRbLaDe KiSs]

In the words of a mad, black woman.. "I'd rather be happy sitting in a corner with no one besides myself, and a golfish, then sitting in a nice house with someone next to me, and im wondering what the hell they're doing there."

[Bourgie]

I only get those.:(

Why is he with me if I'm the worst girl in the world?

Dumb;
Weird;
With a thousand physical flaws;
He keeps talking about hot and smart girls and this and that.

I never argue with him. Athough I tell him the way I feel.

Apparently, sometimes I'm nice.

The worst thing is that I like him.
Sometimes he says I don't like him.
There are many other things.
I don't know what to do.

^ I was with someone exactly like this. Guy was freaking pshyco though. He seriously had personal issues he had to deal with. Maybe he was bringing me down to bring himself up. Maybe that's what's happening in your situation.