Not good news

[ms.peachy]

Hi all.

I know I just posted a couple weeks ago about how I wouldn't really be around as I was going to the US to help out my mom while she has her chemo and to sort out other issues with my family. Well, things here got pretty bad pretty quickly and I am sad to say, my mom passed away this morning.

Not sure why I am telling you lot anyway but at the moment I literally have nothing to do whilst I wait for some phone calls and such so I guess I'm just killing time and sharing a bit.

Do me a favour everybody and if you are able to, call your mothers before you go to bed tonight and tell them you love them. Even if they be some kinda crazy bitch that drives you out of your everlovin' mind.

[Rock]

(n) :(

At least you got to see her....and I imagine you brought the little one too so she got to see her as well.

I'm sorry.

[beastiegirrl101]

I am so sorry to hear that Mrs.Peachy. Thank god you were there with her.

Calling my mom now.

[Dr Deaf]

she'll live forever in your heart, keep your head up.

fug. i'm terrible at this. sorry. :(

[Echewta]

Sorry Peachy.

[QueenAdrock]

I'm so sorry, Ms. Peachy. She knew how much you loved her. Keep your head up.

[na§tee]

:(

any words i can dribble out are going to totally unhelpful; i have no idea what you are going through.

thinking of you, p, and hoping you have the support, love and tenacity from your family to see this through.

you can do it.

[abcdefz]

I was she was kept comfortable. Did she have good hospice?

I'm sorry for your family's loss.

[miss soul fire]

I'm sorry about your mom, Ms. Peachy.:(
I hope she's in a good place now.

[yooooo]

i know how bad you feel...
sorry

live goes on..

[HEIRESS]

:(

be strong!

[cosmo105]

i'm so sorry. best wishes to you and your family.

[Nuzzolese]

I'm really sorry to hear that.

[beastieangel01]

I'm so sorry. :(

[ms.peachy]

Thaks all. It was really very sudden - she was really mostly fine (as you can be on chemo), feeling fairly strong, still working 3 days a week and all, and then she just suddenly got very ill very quickly. Essentially, she got septicaemia - her immune system was suppressed by the chemo, so when she got an infection, she couldn't fight it off and it got into her blood and although it probably was happening slowly for the past month, she just suddenly plummeted as it took its toll. So it's come as a bit of a surprise, that she would go so quickly.

I feel a bit badly saying all of this when I know zorra's mom has just started chemo as I don't want to freak her out. But my mom's situation is different and not typical, so please zorra don't think that this is going to happen to your mom too.

[TAL]

Not fun news.

*hugs*

[DIGI]

So sorry. I've lost family members to cancer as well and i know the toll it takes on the entire family. It must be especially hard being that it was your mother. Stay positive and you'll pull through.

[Yorkshire~Rose]

I'm so sorry :( You and your family are in my thoughts.

[Bob]

So sorry. I've lost family members to cancer as well and i know the toll it takes on the entire family. It must be especially hard being that it was your mother. Stay positive and you'll pull through.

yep, me too. my grandmother died, it was a weird time for the whole family.

hang in there, baby (http://www.imageicu.com/mySpace/images/Hang-in-there,-Baby-Stacks.jpg)

[venusvenus123]

sorry peachy :(

[g-mile7]

You'll see her again....even if it's in your own eye's when you look into the mirror

Much love and be strong.

[Planetary]

sorry to hear. be strong :)

[GetYourWarOn]

i'm sorry

[ericlee]

The mother is God in a child's eyes and for some they can't change that figure to anything lower as they grow older.

It's terrible to hear about this Peachy and hopefully time will mend this for you promptly.

[BGirl]

I'm so sorry to hear. My thoughts are with you and your family.

[Lyman Zerga]

sorry :(

[zorra_chiflada]

i'm very sorry to hear that :(
my thoughts are with you

[ampm]

Sorry for your loss.

[kaiser soze]

I'm very sorry to hear about your mom's passing

{{hugs}}

[Kid Presentable]

My condolences, ms. peachy.

[The Notorious LOL]

cancer sucks to put it bluntly.


sorry about your mother. (n)

[tracky]

:( *hugs*

[mikizee]

i am very sorry to hear about your mother. just know that even tho this is just a little internet message board there are lots and lots of people here that have you and your family in their thoughts, and we are all sending you thousands of hugs!!!!

please take care.

[befsquire]

i can't even explain the devastation i felt when i lost my mother. my whole world crumbled and it was really hard to pick up the pieces and move on. i'm not trying to say my situation was the same or that i know where you're coming from, because i don't. i'm just trying to say that i know what it feels like to lose a mother, and i am so very sorry for you and baby peachy, mr.peachy and the whole peachy family.

[Bitchamachacha]

:(

Damn.


I'm sorry, Peachy.

[yeahwho]

This is sad news I'm so sorry to hear about, I'm not sure what to say to give you any strength but in this case I believe your entitled to any feelings that come your way. God Bless.

I'm calling my Mom tonight, I promise.

[Documad]

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine the burden you feel right now. I know that you will work your way through it.

It's such good advice to try and tell the people in your life what they mean to you on a regular basis. Every conversation could be your last. I didn't get to see my dad before his last surgery but I am sure he knew what he meant to me.

[ET]

I guess there could have been worse circumstances. But it must be hard. Sorry about your loss.

[monkey]

i am so sorry about your mom passing away, ms peachy. My deepest condolences. I hope you and your family are doing ok at this time. <3

[ms.peachy]

Thanks again everybody. It's still sinking in and I'm sure there will be good moments and bad moments and some really shitty moments over the next several days, but I'll weather it. I'm a 'do-er' and there is certainly plenty for me to do here still: my sister's situation still needs sorting out, my nephew needs taking care of and my mom's husband is a lovely man but he is not a 'good coper' in bad situations so he will need a lot of support. So, there's still lots to keep me occupied. Oh and of course, there's the whole having a three-and-a-half month old, too. So I'll work through it all; it's what I do.

I am very glad I got here in time to spend some time with her - even though some of it was a bit fractious - and I'm relieved she got to meet her granddaughter before she died, at the very least.

[QueenAdrock]

I am very glad I got here in time to spend some time with her - even though some of it was a bit fractious - and I'm relieved she got to meet her granddaughter before she died, at the very least.

That's really great. I'm sure your daughter will appreciate having met her, even for a little bit. My grandma died when I was about 1ish or 2, but I still treasure our pictures together and the fact that I actually did meet her. (y)