so another person in the group just had a baby...

[hpdrifter]

...and I wish I was on that path.

I wouldn't want their situation (they aren't married and have a fucked up relationship, she's super controlling), but I want a baby. I want to be married and have it be planned and happy and all that.

I never thought I'd be one of those girls.

Yesterday I got all down thinking it isn't going to happen for me and I envisioned myself as this business woman in a power suit working 70 hours a week and drinking scotch on the rocks out of a highball glass.

</crazy post>

[Monsieur Decuts]

I felt the exact same way for the last 6 months of 2005. I think once my babymaking, family starting pheremones got out in the public it attracted the scent of many females in the same situation.

Find the nice guy and date him..that's the first step! worked for me!

[monkey]

sometimes, i feel like i want a baby. then i realize how selfish and fucked up i am , and i realize i never want to put a kid through having such a crazy mother. that, and i dont have the financial security i wish to have when i pop out children.

[beastiegirrl101]

DONT BE THAT GIRL!

why the hell is everyone in a rush to get married and have babies??? This is not an attack on you HPdrifter ...but ya know why cant we just focus on right now and have fun damnit! When it happens it happens, dont force it.

[yeahwho]

Enjoy today.

the nursing, diapers, lack of sleep, babytalk, pre-school, worry, detention centers, healthcare costs free halcyon days of 2006. (y)

Your day will come soon enough.

[Helvete]

why the hell is everyone in a rush to get married and have babies???
She's 29, hardly rushing it. In fact, she better hurry up!

[Drederick Tatum]

unlike kittens or puppies, you shouldn't drown children when they cease to be cute. not saying that you can't, just that it's frowned upon in most societies.

[Freebasser]

Jimmy the Scumbag told me he does it for ten bucks.

[beastiegirrl101]

She's 29, hardly rushing it. In fact, she better hurry up!

excuse me but I'm 26 and I have no desire to birth babies any time soon. My mother had me when she was 33...when she was good and ready. I have no plans to have any children before 30.

[Helvete]

excuse me but I'm 26 and I have no desire to birth babies any time soon. My mother had me when she was 33...when she was good and ready. I have no plans to have any children before 30.
WTF you didn't make this thread. You were like 'don't rush', and I'm like she's 29.

[venusvenus123]

what group?

[hpdrifter]

My group of friends.

Well either way, I have to get married and stuff first and have a few years of marital bliss before babies. So even thinking about it now I might be 33 or something before I get there.

Oh well, its not that I feel that I am ready to throw away all have fun and stuff, I enjoy my life, its just I'm ready to take the next step.

[Lyman Zerga]

i want a baby NOW

30 or 40 is too fucking old

i want to be a young mother

just like lorelaid gilmore, being best friends with your daughter, holding hands, sharing the same guys..you know stuff like that



ok never can stay the fuck serious
i honestly want a baby as soon as possible

[jabumbo]

excuse me but I'm 26 and I have no desire to birth babies any time soon. My mother had me when she was 33...when she was good and ready. I have no plans to have any children before 30.


your therapist told me otherwise :mad:

[befsquire]

i don't see how deciding you'd like to get married and have a baby makes you one of those girls. why is it a bad thing to know what you want and to feel like you're ready to settle down?

[QueenAdrock]

It's kinda hard because I just feel like I don't have enough time. I want to be married for 5 years before I have kids, want to have kids by the time I'm 28, yet also don't want to be married until I'm at least 25. So that timeline is all sorts of fucked up, seeing as how I'm 23....well, I will be next week.

I think I have some revising to do. I'm just sort of scared of having to deal with teenagers when I'm older and tired and worn out. I know how much of a pain in the ass I was to my mom, so I won't want to be 50ish when THAT happens.

I plan way too far in advance. (n)

[tracky]

I think when I'm about 32-35 I'll be ready. It just depends, if the right girl came along and said she wanted a kid sooner I'd do it, but most girls seem to want to have a bit of a life first these days anyway, which is all good

[kate]

30 seems so old to me. i guess because my parents had me when they were in their 30s, and they were fat old foagies so like when i was 10 and they were 40 and i wanted to go play baseball, they wanted to lay down and rest their feet. i wanna be able to play with my kid all they want, and i guess i could just stay in shape till i'm old, but it just seems easier to have kids while i'm still young. i guess. i probably wont have one till im 30 either. but i cant fucking wait till it happens!

[hpdrifter]

i don't see how deciding you'd like to get married and have a baby makes you one of those girls. why is it a bad thing to know what you want and to feel like you're ready to settle down?


Its not, but I feel like I think about it too much and that makes me one of those girls, ya know.

My boyfriend has a baby (about 15 months) and sometimes it bothers me more than others. I think that's why its always on my mind, because we hang with the baby at least once a week.

[QueenAdrock]

Sometimes my ovaries scream at me for childrens, so I just stab them with a fork. :(

[mickill]

Making babies is serious business. Who you choose to have them with is of equal importance as to when. Probably more so.

[hpdrifter]

See that's what I mean. Its not like I'm gonna go out and get pregnant by just whoever. There's a whole process that has to happen before then. That's why I trip every so often.

[kate]

whenver i talk to a woman who has already had a baby about how much i want to have babies and cant wait to do so, she always ruins it with "OH MY GOD IT WAS THE WORST PAIN OF MY LIFE MY VAGINA RIPPED CLEAR DOWN TO MY BUTTHOLE AND I CRAPPED IN FRONT OF 10 STRANGERS ON CAMERA AND THE STITCHES WERE EVEN WORSE AND I WAS AFRAID TO POOP FOR DAYS AFTERWARDS!" and then she says "but you forget about it all when you hold that little baby in your arms!"
yeah i bet.

[wanton wench]

marital bliss
hahahahahahahahaha
thats a good one (y)

[befsquire]

whenver i talk to a woman who has already had a baby about how much i want to have babies and cant wait to do so, she always ruins it with "OH MY GOD IT WAS THE WORST PAIN OF MY LIFE MY VAGINA RIPPED CLEAR DOWN TO MY BUTTHOLE AND I CRAPPED IN FRONT OF 10 STRANGERS ON CAMERA AND THE STITCHES WERE EVEN WORSE AND I WAS AFRAID TO POOP FOR DAYS AFTERWARDS!" and then she says "but you forget about it all when you hold that little baby in your arms!"
yeah i bet.
see, that kinda thing only happened to that bitch because she's always trying to ruin good shit for others.

i had one with drugs, and one without.

take the drugs.

[zippo]

i want a baby NOW

30 or 40 is too fucking old

i want to be a young mother

just like lorelaid gilmore, being best friends with your daughter, holding hands, sharing the same guys..you know stuff like that



ok never can stay the fuck serious
i honestly want a baby as soon as possible

then focus on getting out there

[Lyman Zerga]

funny

[zippo]

funny

dammit randee, im serious, think youll get there

[Lyman Zerga]

dammit randee, im serious, think youll get there


but it's not im going out and im healed

it's not that easy, i wish it was but it's not

it's a serious illness

[zippo]

but it's not im going out and im healed

it's not that easy, i wish it was but it's not

it's a serious illness

i know, i just like to give you tiny shots of generic hope...also cuz i think you probably have it in you as well