Caribou
09-22-2006, 05:25 PM
... and by bitch I mean 'manfolk'.
They'd never really been a problem before but now in a very short period of time there have been 3 problem cases:
1) There was this guy that used to work in the recordstore near where I work. As I came into his shop quite a lot (being a record nerd and all that) we started talking and it was always relaxed and fun. We giggled, we talked bullshit, we complimented eachother, we bashed emo's, that kind of stuff.
I started to like him more and more and then one day, I came into the shop and he was gone. My silly coworkers had noticed my gigglyness about this guy, kept asking me about him, and when they heard he hadn't been around for a while they sort of sneaked to his coworker/bestfriend, asked the guy to come along, he explained what happened (they fired him!) and he gave them his phonenumber and adress.
Now, that's been a month since i got the note, but I still haven't mailed or phoned him. I'm too scared. See, he's one of these guys that's very sweet and helpful to everyone, so I'm not at all sure about what he really thought about me. What if he thinks I'm mingin' and just talked to be nice? Why would he like me if there's all these other far cuter girls?
Now my coworkers say that if he didn't like me he wouldn't have given his number in the first place, but I'm still not too sure. Damn my insecurity. :(
2) There's a guy I worked with once, and he's nice but completely gay. It's just in every way he acts, but he says he's not. Ok. So I went out partying with this guy once, quite far away so we had to stay somewhere overnight. We went out to dinner too, but he got all weird. Getting far too close to me all the time, while I clearly let him know I'd like to have some space. He was also writing a txt to his mate saying he was in a very romantic place. Ewww.
I don't fancy this bloke one tiny bit and find him rather annoying and overly camp.
So anyway, like 2 days after this trip he mails me why I hadn't been on MSN, cause I said I was on all the time. Then some days later he phones me, asking where I am, because I wasnt home and not able to be online. The week after that I worked fulltime, I was exhausted, so also no internets. He got rather pissed off at this point. So more messages, asking me whats wrong and all that. He even came to my work just to ignore me. :confused:
Then some days after that he sends me an email 'Busy with work? Bullshit! What the fuck is wrong with you? You're just leading me on!' etc.
What thee fuck? Leading him on? I went partying with him once and was looking at other blokes all night and made bitch comments at him, how can he think that we had something going there? Really, I'm a bit creeped out by him now. The worst thing is that he's friends with some people I work with so he visits some times and there's no way to get rid of him!
3) I fancy a bloke I work with and he's cute and has the same stupid humour as me but he has a girlfriend, goddamnit.
So agony Aunts, gimme some advice!
They'd never really been a problem before but now in a very short period of time there have been 3 problem cases:
1) There was this guy that used to work in the recordstore near where I work. As I came into his shop quite a lot (being a record nerd and all that) we started talking and it was always relaxed and fun. We giggled, we talked bullshit, we complimented eachother, we bashed emo's, that kind of stuff.
I started to like him more and more and then one day, I came into the shop and he was gone. My silly coworkers had noticed my gigglyness about this guy, kept asking me about him, and when they heard he hadn't been around for a while they sort of sneaked to his coworker/bestfriend, asked the guy to come along, he explained what happened (they fired him!) and he gave them his phonenumber and adress.
Now, that's been a month since i got the note, but I still haven't mailed or phoned him. I'm too scared. See, he's one of these guys that's very sweet and helpful to everyone, so I'm not at all sure about what he really thought about me. What if he thinks I'm mingin' and just talked to be nice? Why would he like me if there's all these other far cuter girls?
Now my coworkers say that if he didn't like me he wouldn't have given his number in the first place, but I'm still not too sure. Damn my insecurity. :(
2) There's a guy I worked with once, and he's nice but completely gay. It's just in every way he acts, but he says he's not. Ok. So I went out partying with this guy once, quite far away so we had to stay somewhere overnight. We went out to dinner too, but he got all weird. Getting far too close to me all the time, while I clearly let him know I'd like to have some space. He was also writing a txt to his mate saying he was in a very romantic place. Ewww.
I don't fancy this bloke one tiny bit and find him rather annoying and overly camp.
So anyway, like 2 days after this trip he mails me why I hadn't been on MSN, cause I said I was on all the time. Then some days later he phones me, asking where I am, because I wasnt home and not able to be online. The week after that I worked fulltime, I was exhausted, so also no internets. He got rather pissed off at this point. So more messages, asking me whats wrong and all that. He even came to my work just to ignore me. :confused:
Then some days after that he sends me an email 'Busy with work? Bullshit! What the fuck is wrong with you? You're just leading me on!' etc.
What thee fuck? Leading him on? I went partying with him once and was looking at other blokes all night and made bitch comments at him, how can he think that we had something going there? Really, I'm a bit creeped out by him now. The worst thing is that he's friends with some people I work with so he visits some times and there's no way to get rid of him!
3) I fancy a bloke I work with and he's cute and has the same stupid humour as me but he has a girlfriend, goddamnit.
So agony Aunts, gimme some advice!