Living a 'Boomin Granny' situation

[Junker]

Well, I just made this poll because depending on the responses I'll take my decision.

The thing is I was going out with this older 'girl' (actually I dont know her age cause she didnt tell me yet but i suspect she's around 35-38 and has a 14 years old daughter). Well, the sex is amazing and in the beginning I was very animated with her. But now I dont wanna see her anymore. Last friday I got out and met her (damn!!!) and we spent some time together again.

Now I wanna know what's your opinion about this situation.

PS1: She's a hot mama!!!!

EDIT: PS2: I'm 22 =)

[Lex Diamonds]

Boomin' fanny?

[Dorothy Wood]

I thought this was gonna be about how you met your girlfriend on the messageboard and now you live together in an apartment.


p.s. POST NUDEZ.

[TimDoolan]

What exactly is the problem? Is she too old for you or are you just freaked out she has a daughter?

"I saw you at the checkout line...you dropped your coupons, and you was lookin' fine....";)

[kate]

just be like "hey i dont feel like bein a daddy, but we can still bang it out whenever you want!"

middle aged women like that right? bangin it out with younger men?

[kate]

ooo, and then in like 4 years, you can move on to her daughter!

[Junker]

I thought this was gonna be about how you met your girlfriend on the messageboard and now you live together in an apartment.


p.s. POST NUDEZ.

hahaha...her name's Dorothy too!!!! :p

[Junker]

What exactly is the problem? Is she too old for you or are you just freaked out she has a daughter?

"I saw you at the checkout line...you dropped your coupons, and you was lookin' fine....";)

The problem is the sex is amazing but I dont want to spend time with her like going out or talking anymore.

[Junker]

ooo, and then in like 4 years, you can move on to her daughter!

Hmmm........good point! :cool:

[Junker]

But there's other things going on. She keep saying 'you're amazing.....I miss you......let's meet today.......you're special...........you make me feel good.....etc, etc'.

She doesnt want just sex. Sometimes it seems she wants something serious and this is something she wont have from me. Thats why the reason of my doubts. Should I keep feeding feelings she wont have back from me or should I stop seeing her? Or should I make myself really clear like "I just want sex with you, nothing more. Is that ok?"

[cosmo105]

make yourself clear, but not so much in those words. tell her that you've done some serious thinking about where the relationship can go, and that you just can't see yourself with her in the long term because of your different life stages. turn that cougar loose.

[bigblu89]

I thought he was going to post about how he met a girl online that's a Mexican Vegitarian.

[HEIRESS]

The sign said "NO PETTING THE COUGARS"

[cosmo105]

I thought he was going to post about how he met a girl online that's a Mexican Vegetarian.
to be honest i kind of did too at first :o

[Rock]

Speaking of vegetarians...i just found out that Guiness isn't vegan friendly.

All you can do is tell her that you just like the sexing. She will be like "oh, ok, thats fine" and then let you bang her silly...but she will try and try to dig those claws into you and make you her boyfriend. Rarely have I met a girl that was just down for boning unless you were already friends from before.

I say get the fuck out of dodge. But give her the ole inny outty one more time. and push it to the limit. I'm talking shocker...roman helmet...giving her an "oops"...all that. But in a totally respectful way of course.

[cosmo105]

roman helmet? do i want to know?

most beer and wine isn't vegan. it's either filtered through egg products or isinglass (from fish). it's so hard to avoid. there are a few brands of vegan wine (and beer too, probably - i don't know about most hard liquor but i'm guessing it's the same) out there. it's really impossible to be completely vegan in our society. even tap water is sometimes filtered through animal products. *shrug* i ain't that anal about it.

but speaking of anal...seriously...roman helmet?

[ET]

For the love of all that is David Hasselhoff get out of that situation while you can. Don't be blunt with the "I jus wanted sex0rs" stuff though. I think you at least liked her company enough not to go out like an asshole. Single momz got it rough! She really needs to be looking toward someone a liiiiiiiittle closer to her age, nahmean?

Totally go for one more "OOPS POW SURPRISE!"

[Rock]

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=roman+helmet

[Loppfessor]

The problem is the sex is amazing but I dont want to spend time with her like going out or talking anymore.


She should be okay with that. I mean she's not stupid. For her it's probably mostly about sex too so keep hittin it till you get bored then move on

[Junker]

Speaking of vegetarians...i just found out that Guiness isn't vegan friendly.

All you can do is tell her that you just like the sexing. She will be like "oh, ok, thats fine" and then let you bang her silly...but she will try and try to dig those claws into you and make you her boyfriend. Rarely have I met a girl that was just down for boning unless you were already friends from before.

I say get the fuck out of dodge. But give her the ole inny outty one more time. and push it to the limit. I'm talking shocker...roman helmet...giving her an "oops"...all that. But in a totally respectful way of course.

Thats a really good tip. Maybe I'll do this. (In a totally respectful way of course)

[Junker]

5 - Yes
3 - No

I still need a bigger difference to decide what to do.

[pip07]

3-way

[Bob]

hahaha...her name's Dorothy too!!!! :p

her names dorothy? she's gotta be at least 50

[Echewta]

haha, roman helmet.

[TimDoolan]

The problem is the sex is amazing but I dont want to spend time with her like going out or talking anymore.

Why buy the cow, when you can get the sex for free?

[hitmonlee]

dude stop seeing her, even if you say "its casual" she'll be hoping for more. if you respect her at all, stop seeing her before you crush her heart!

[fucktopgirl]

why the fuck you do a survey, are you a moron?


Like you just dont see her no more, that is quite simple.

Respect and honnesty, simples values that even a retard would understand!

[icy manipulator]

whoa, wait. dont you already have a gf man? or is that over?

anyway if not then go for it. one of my mates had a fling with a 46 year old and he swears it's the best sex he's had in his life. If she's 16 years older than you she must be able to realise that it's just gonna be a casual thing and she cant expect something serious to come out of it. just tell her something subtle along the lines that it cant become too serious because of how young you are and what not. Dont say i just want you for sex! i'm sure even in brazil she wont be taking any of that talk :p

[tracky]

i've been there, take it from me, while you're having sex with her you won't be looking for someone your own age, so I say end it.

[befsquire]

The problem is the sex is amazing but I dont want to spend time with her like going out or talking anymore.
sounds like you're ready for marriage

[QueenAdrock]

The problem is the sex is amazing but I dont want to spend time with her like going out or talking anymore.

hahahaha i love that

new sig, thaaanks (y)

[hitmonlee]

whoa, wait. dont you already have a gf man? or is that over?

anyway if not then go for it. one of my mates had a fling with a 46 year old and he swears it's the best sex he's had in his life. If she's 16 years older than you she must be able to realise that it's just gonna be a casual thing and she cant expect something serious to come out of it. just tell her something subtle along the lines that it cant become too serious because of how young you are and what not. Dont say i just want you for sex! i'm sure even in brazil she wont be taking any of that talk :p

just because she should realise it isn't going to be serious, doesn't mean that she won't let herself fall for him.

its inhumane. trust me. i just got out of 10 months of that shit. i am a broken little piece of nothing.

[marsdaddy]

sounds like you're ready for marriageMy thoughts, too. Tell her that you're ready to settle down and have a kid.

[Mr. Boomin'Granny]

I'd say wait a couple years then find a girl living in the opposite side of the country, work for scientologists for a year and then work for a major movie studio. It'll work itself out eventually.

[Junker]

hahahaha i love that

new sig, thaaanks (y)

hahaha (y) :) ;)

[Junker]

Damn! 'No' just turn the score.

[Junker]

why the fuck you do a survey, are you a moron?


Like you just dont see her no more, that is quite simple.

Respect and honnesty, simples values that even a retard would understand!

Chill baby!!!!

[Junker]

sounds like you're ready for marriage

hahahaha.....One of the best answers untill now.

[Junker]

whoa, wait. dont you already have a gf man? or is that over?


It's over mate!!! :(

[fucktopgirl]

Chill baby!!!!

Oh i am chill, i just think that your question is stupid. YOU wanna fuck a girl but dont want to talk to her or hang out with here....like obviously you just dont give a shit about her so therefore you should just leave her alone.

You dont use people for selfish reason IE your pathetic dick!


hummk?

[Otis Driftwood]

Well, you could wait for 3 or 4 years, then double-whammy them! :D

[venusvenus123]

Well, I just made this poll because depending on the responses I'll take my decision.


you're using a public poll voted on by people you don't know to help you make a relationship decision? that's class. do her a favour and break up with her. i'm sure she could do way better than you.

[venusvenus123]

i've been there, take it from me, while you're having sex with her you won't be looking for someone your own age, so I say end it.
this is brilliant btw. :cool:

[Junker]

you're using a public poll voted on by people you don't know to help you make a relationship decision?

(y)