Apparently I'm ego-centric, lazy, frivolous, ungrateful and self-centered

[Waus]

Big fight with my roommie tonight. He doesn't agree with my sleep schedule, the way I use my time, the way I prioritize. My parents are paying for college while I work with youth ministry and this guy pays his own way by dividing up his time with different jobs. I'm 'immature' and I live in my own little world and don't carry my weight as a team leader.

So I guess that's me.

[Randetica]

well good to know you some better now (y)

[Tzar]

I'm 'immature' and I live in my own little world and don't carry my weight as a team leader.

So I guess that's me.
did he say this? if so, so what? i, personally, don't live life to carry other people around or to show them how stuff gets done. i like my own little world as well.

[Waus]

if so, so what? i, personally, don't live life to carry other people around or to show them how stuff gets done. i like my own little world as well.

Basically he's saying that despite leading a bible study, planning the weekly events and spending time with the kids I know I somehow fail the team by not sending out e-mail reminders for everything and not visiting the highschool every opportunity I get.

[Deep_Sea_Rain]

Sounds like he's telling you what to do, and how to live. That's not a roommate's place.....not even close. He's a douche, mang.

[Otis Driftwood]

Never compromise, not even in the face of Armageddon! (y)

[mikizee]

He's probably right.

[tracky]

He's probably right.

I kid you not, I wrote exactly the same response.

Sometimes I just don't post these things because I can't be bothered & it's not worth the arguments why I think that etc.

[mikizee]

I kid you not, I wrote exactly the same response.

Sometimes I just don't post these things because I can't be bothered & it's not worth the arguments why I think that etc.

must be an adelaide thing.

[Otis Driftwood]

Or gay!

[Bob]

how dare you have free time

the nerve

[ms.peachy]

Well you know, only you can decide if there is any merit to what he has said. I would be willing to bet that he is neither 100% right nor 100% wrong. Maybe he's only 10% right, and so you shouldn't be terribly concerned. But maybe he's more like 80% right, and there are perhaps some aspects of how you are living your life that warrant further sefl-examination. He's holding up the mirror; it's up to you to decide how you feel about the reflection.

[ET]

You could either listen to Ms. Peachy's wise and worthwhile advice or do like I would do and put pee pee in his shampoopoo. (y)

[The Notorious LOL]

haha bible study

[monkey]

i am all those things as well. they're sources of pride for me though. :cool: