If you are in a relationship right now,

[kll]

what is the biggest obstacle that your relationship faces and/or what is the most prevalent issue you fight about?

[na§tee]

sometimes my biggest obstacle is boredom.

[Big Gus]

Yeah just the "taking each other for granted" thing that happens after youve been together for a while. I suppose how long depends on your boredome threshold.

[b i o n i c]

i thought you'd answer chest pooping

[Big Gus]

Ahah no. Ive been with my current girlfriend (she's toilet trained) for about a year and a half now.

Things are still good.

[Echewta]

Putting the milk away.

[cosmo105]

the biggest obstacle we're facing? Crohn's.

we fight about little things here and there when one of us is butthurt about something. but i don't think we've ever had a really big fight about anything.

[beastiegirrl101]

the biggest obstacle would be the 700 miles between us, which we are working on. But as you know kll...distance sucks.


we really don't fight about anything.

[Bob]

when one of us is butthurt about something

i really want to make a crohn's joke here but i dunno if that's appropriate

[Drederick Tatum]

my penis is too big for her.

[alruggs]

4 kids and a heinous ex-wife

[befsquire]

i'm more awesome than him.

[fucktopgirl]

I am no more in a relationship but when i was the huge obstacle always had been the "routine" , That what killed us at one point, to be too much in this comfort zone and taking the other one for granted. THat was my main insatisfaction, to be too much secur and nothing exciting was happening . I did love him but i was getting mad because of the context of our relation nothing fresh/new is a killer ya know. You constantly need movement otherwise it become stagnant.

I did take some action because my vitality was getting really low , my dreams were all dissapearing , we were figthing a lot at the end. IT was a "cul de sac".


So , i decided to leave for quebec, to make each other breathed and to see If we really missed each other . I could'nt have stay there to work things out, we really needed the space betweeen us (7 years together) . NOw we are in a standby position.....

but i recommand to whoever is in a similar situation, to go travel or do something exciting together before it is too late.

anyway..

[paulb]

distance.

[QueenAdrock]

Biggest obstacle is 2,000 goddamn miles. Fuck you, Canada.

But we'll be taking care of that in a few months anyways. :o

[QueenAdrock]

the biggest obstacle would be the 700 miles between us, which we are working on. But as you know kll...distance sucks.


we really don't fight about anything.

Hey, who are you dating and where?

[Otis Driftwood]

200 km distance, often divergent lifestyles...

[venusvenus123]

like i'd talk about my relationship on here.

[Mr Films]

last relationship I was in, the most fought over issue and ultimate killer of the whole thing was a difference in religion and choice of careers.

[ericlee]

We've really got not obstacles, just "cute" petty arguments sometimes.

Almost everytime we go out, my wife will have some clothes and she'd ask me which one looks good and everytime I tell her what I like, she tells me, "but I like this one" referring to the one that I didn't pick. I just ask her why does she ask for my opinion when she never goes with it.

Another thing, she was an english teacher in China. Now that she's here in the states and needs to make a phone call or place an order at a restaraunt or something, she asks me to do it because she's afraid that her english isn't good enough and they'll make fun of her. I tell her that it's ok and in big cities people are used to it and they'll be patient with her. Also she wants to improve her english and the best way to do it is by inter personal communication.

[bigblu89]

I don't do enough.

Of anything, apparently.

[kll]

I don't do enough.

Of anything, apparently.


haha. sorry, this made me laugh. :(

[QueenAdrock]

Almost everytime we go out, my wife will have some clothes and she'd ask me which one looks good and everytime I tell her what I like, she tells me, "but I like this one" referring to the one that I didn't pick. I just ask her why does she ask for my opinion when she never goes with it.

HA! A week or two ago, my boss came up to me and told me his wife does the exact same thing and asked, from a girl's perspective, what the hell he's supposed to say. I told him that say "Hmm, I like this one," and if she says she doesn't want that one, say "You know, on second thought, you're right. That one does look better." It shuts them up pretty fast.

[HEIRESS]

Im always prepared and open for one but its hard to settle for anything less than an equal though :(

[The Notorious LOL]

muffins

[HEIRESS]

your lady sends some sexy texts NLOL, best keep an eye on her

[The Notorious LOL]

o rly?

[HEIRESS]

Bill O'rly even!

[beastiegirrl101]

Hey, who are you dating and where?

oh this pain in my ass from the lovely state of New Jersey.

[QueenAdrock]

A Jersey boy? Hee hee hee.

Good luck Ms. Nata! (y)

[Lex Diamonds]

About a year ago she professed her feelings for me and I rejected her on the grounds that I wasn't ready for a relationship (cuz I wanted to carry on being a player). I then went on to fuck a few of her best friends, before realising that meaningless sex is over-rated and falling in love with her (when she was then in a relationship with a friend of mine). Now we're together and very happy but whenever she brings that shit up it gets pretty uncomfortable. She's all like "why didn't you want me then? what's changed?" and I'm all "shut up bitch!" and dick-slap her.

Other than that we never argue/have uncomfortable conversations about anything.