View Full Version : I think my new part-time gf actually likes me likes me
skra75
11-20-2006, 07:56 AM
:confused:
yeah she's hot and Dominican but she doesn't have all that great of taste in music and we don't have that much in common cept, well you know.
I think she is really into me though, I don't want to be a douchebag and string her along. She is hot though and is a good kisser. I'm overthinking this aren't I? I'll just stop being such a fag.
venusvenus123
11-20-2006, 08:04 AM
well i hope that she "acts" white! :rolleyes:
well i hope that she "acts" white! :rolleyes:
why did you say this
what in his post made you say that
Tone Capone
11-20-2006, 08:26 AM
:confused:
yeah she's hot and Dominican but she doesn't have all that great of taste in music and we don't have that much in common cept, well you know.
I think she is really into me though, I don't want to be a douchebag and string her along. She is hot though and is a good kisser. I'm overthinking this aren't I? I'll just stop being such a fag.
You should talk to her then and
A. Re-establish the terms of your arrangement (if you haven't in the first place).
B. Start a relationship that's more than what it is now.
C. Stop the current arrangement.
Otis Driftwood
11-20-2006, 08:36 AM
... or stop asking random people on the internet what you should do. :cool:
Between us, enjoy it as long as possible, the "well you know" is well worth it! :rolleyes:
venusvenus123
11-20-2006, 09:11 AM
why did you say this
what in his post made you say that
haha, it's a reference to the "black" thread. keep up bob!
Freebasser
11-20-2006, 09:24 AM
Hotness doesn't last forever; personality does.
Unless the person in question gets alzheimer's. Oh shits!
skra75
11-20-2006, 09:34 AM
I'm not really looking for advice per say. I'm just in confusion and barfing it up on the board a bit. Mostly, I feel I'm in a pinch bc I do enjoy the idea of having a gf, but I'm a picky asshole and I want it/her to be perfect. I wish she liked spicy food, listened to Steely Dan and/or Aphyx Twin, or even knew how to "do the baseball" dance move. I'm a picky sonavabitch.
Good advice though Tone. On point.
skra75
11-20-2006, 09:37 AM
yeah, but, whatevers. I posted twice for some reason had to edit this one blah blah blah.
Planetary
11-20-2006, 09:58 AM
yeah, but, whatevers. I posted twice for some reason had to edit this one blah blah blah.
likely story
monkey
11-20-2006, 10:03 AM
tell her "you've been hurt" and you "need to move slowly" and that "you're emotionally stunted at the moment"
great lines. im sorta using them myself.
HEIRESS
11-20-2006, 10:46 AM
tell her that your seed has already been spread to perfection and if she's gonna open her lame mouth around you it better be to S the D
HEY SKRA DATE ECHEWTA HES GOT HELLA STEELY ALL UP IN HIS SEDAN!
beastieangel01
11-20-2006, 11:08 AM
Tone is on point with this one, definitely.
b i o n i c
11-20-2006, 11:28 AM
You should talk to her then and:
A. Re-establish the terms of your arrangement (if you haven't in the first place).
B. Start a relationship that's more than what it is now.
C. Stop the current arrangement.
A - Letter A
and this...
tell her "you've been hurt" and you "need to move slowly" and that "you're emotionally stunted at the moment"
great lines. im sorta using them myself.
Otis Driftwood
11-20-2006, 11:42 AM
Hey, I want your old part-time gf!
Junker
11-20-2006, 01:39 PM
I think you should keep her as a part-time gf. This way you can get 2 part-time gf instead of 1 full-time gf. :cool:
skra75
11-20-2006, 03:45 PM
fine idea to me. I'm in no rush to re-enter something long-term. I'd like to enjoy as many nekkid girls as possible.
HEIRESS
11-20-2006, 03:51 PM
YEAHHHHHHHH NAKED TIME
anyone heard that dana carvy standup bit? yeah? no? ok cool then
cosmo105
11-20-2006, 04:45 PM
i have! shit we have that whole special recorded. FUCKIN' 49ERS FUCKIN' 49ERS (you can only hear that part on the uncensored hbo version, not on comedy central obviously. would ya mind saluting it?)
anyway. yeah echewta has steely dan in his sedan, but he complains when you make him play it. so don't date him. he sucks.
Echewta
11-20-2006, 05:06 PM
Hey. I merely mentioned that I thought it was bizzare to have a group of young kids in my car driving with grandpa and of all the CD's they pick, they want to listen to Aja. I mean right? Nerd herd of Beastie Boys fans in the Honda and they want Deacon Blue? WTF?
You're just figuring this shit out now? Dude, you had to have went into this kinda thinking that the hot Dominican chick might not have an affinity for Steely Dan.
skra75
11-20-2006, 05:18 PM
my point exactly. I knew what I was getting myself into, I'm just not looking for someone to shack up with now. not yet at least. still, it feels good to not have to sleep by myself but it would feel better if that person was equally as nerdy and wonderful as me. jesus, what has become of this thread? I feel like Dorothy Wood. :(
Echewta
11-20-2006, 05:22 PM
Want to go out?
skra75
11-20-2006, 05:26 PM
AMG YES :eek: :eek: :eek:
I feel like Dorothy Wood. :(
For that to take place, you're gonna have to make a thread in two days about how you dumped the Dominican chick and now want to fuck a hot bartender.
skra75
11-20-2006, 05:27 PM
teeeehehheheheheehhh :o
Bitchamachacha
11-20-2006, 06:28 PM
Dearest Skra,
For the love of everything that smells like fish and is coated in whipped cream--- DON'T SETTLE!
Or you'll end up in a crappy long-term relationship and waste eleven months of your life.
There are other hot women out there who can wax your candle and have more to offer.
HEIRESS
11-20-2006, 06:32 PM
HEY MAN! I was in a strange land in a strange car with a strange man who looked like alex baldwin and was rubbing thighs extensively with cosmo in the backseat which was unearthing these new and strange feelings Id never experienced before which made me doubt my sexuality choices in life thus far
I needed to listen to something that comforted me so I chose the steely!
jennyb
11-21-2006, 12:25 AM
Dearest Skra,
For the love of everything that smells like fish and is coated in whipped cream--- DON'T SETTLE!
Or you'll end up in a crappy long-term relationship....
Jeez, some of the wisest words EVER! Think I'll write this on a bunch of post-it notes and plaster them all over the house... hmmm, and the office, just so I don't forget.
Splooge in her mouth then tell her "this isn't going to work" the next day.
Do you have to have so much in common to get along well?
HEIRESS
11-21-2006, 02:58 AM
i have! shit we have that whole special recorded. FUCKIN' 49ERS FUCKIN' 49ERS (you can only hear that part on the uncensored hbo version, not on comedy central obviously. would ya mind saluting it?)
anyway. yeah echewta has steely dan in his sedan, but he complains when you make him play it. so don't date him. he sucks.
btw
<3
skra75
11-21-2006, 07:06 AM
Splooge in her mouth then tell her "this isn't going to work" the next day.
wow, good advice ET! :)
skra75
11-21-2006, 07:14 AM
For real though, this is getting very intimate very fast for my likings. Given, she's a great cook and does modelling on the side (yes, just found this out last night, and I was like omg wtf awkward)...still something just does feel right about it. She invited me down to NY to go dancing and to the parade, my folks are in town so I said no. Deep down I was like fuck what the hell am I doing...
We still haven't actually knocked the boots yet and I'm wondering if now is a good time to bail. :confused: :confused: :confused: I know should not be this confused.
Thank you Internet Message Board Forum!
venusvenus123
11-21-2006, 09:03 AM
yeah i think you should let her know how you're feeling.
haha, knocked the boots -- a new one on me. :p
b i o n i c
11-21-2006, 09:08 AM
run! she's pulling you in! classic black widowery
Echewta
11-21-2006, 11:54 AM
Model, great cook, doesn't like the same music you do. I can see why this is such a tough issue.
Its not a bad thing to get into a relationship right after a divorce you know.
beastieangel01
11-21-2006, 11:57 AM
it's not necessary to have everything in common, you know. Some differences are good. I am guessing she has something that she talks to you about that you share with her right? or no? Basically put, it sounds like a good deal to me, especially if something about it feels right. Might as well enjoy it and/or go with the flow.
No pun intended.
Lex Diamonds
11-21-2006, 12:07 PM
Ask if she'll let you do her in the ass and if she says no then you've got a real excuse to break up with her. If she says yes then, great! It's a win-win situation.
My plans are always the best.
DipDipDive
11-21-2006, 12:24 PM
I used to want someone who had the exact same taste in music and movies that I do.
Then I grew up and realized that shit is superficial and doesn't really amount to anything in a relationship.
Echewta
11-21-2006, 12:29 PM
Well, I cant make love
To the girls in this city
cause the girls
Say I abuse them
And I wont go out
With girls because
Girls will fall in love with you
Everybodys lonely, thats true
Maybe its psychology
I dont know, I gotta move someplace
I cant make love
To the girls in this city
cause the girls
Say I abuse them
And I wont go out
With girls because
Girls will fall in love with you
Everybodys lonely, thats true
Maybe its psychology
I dont know, I gotta move someplace
Where the girls are easy
And it makes me miss my lonely city
And the girls are so easy
And it makes me miss my lonely city
And it seems so easy
But I cant say the words that are on my mind
Chorus:
"im a nice guy but I dont love youcc
I just wanna sleep with you."
"im a nice guy but I dont love youcc
I just wanna sleep with you"
Well, I cant make love
To the boys in this city
cause the boys
Say I abuse them
And I wont go out
With boys because
Boys will fall in love with you
Everybodys lonely, thats true
Maybe its psychology
I dont know, I gotta move someplace
Where the boys are easy
And it makes me miss my lonely city
And the girls are so easy
And it makes me miss my lonely city
And everybodys so easy
But I cant say the words that are on my mind
Junker
11-21-2006, 01:31 PM
One thing is right. You'll never find a girl with the same tastes than you.
I got a relationship for 2 years and a half and she didnt have anything in common with me. Music, films, foods, books, places. It's just an example that you can have a good relationship even you two being so different.
But I still think you should keep her as part-time gf. :D
skra75
11-21-2006, 01:54 PM
speaking with honesty, this has become one of the most helpful threads I think may have ever posted on here. I speak negatively of her, but you know she really is sweet. You guys are a great bunch.
I guess it's tough because I'm realizing that it's hard for me to separate love and sex. I understand I'm chucking my baller-ass playboy ego out the window with that statement, but eh. A part of me worries because I don't want to hurt her, or myself.
Unfortunately the other part of me just wants to get laid.
Somebody give me a little flowerly hat because this is the gayest little post I've ever made.
LOL that rhymed I'm a rapper.
skra75
11-21-2006, 02:06 PM
I am guessing she has something that she talks to you about that you share with her right? or no? Basically put, it sounds like a good deal to me, especially if something about it feels right. Might as well enjoy it and/or go with the flow.
Good advice here. No, we don't have all that much in common. She comes from a large hispanic family in the Bronx, I come from a lily white tourist town in the midwest. But, we both like to go dancing, we both work in the same place. I get by with my assholish wit and generally good listening skillzz.
You're right though, I think I'm just gonna enjoy it while it lasts.
I used to want someone who had the exact same taste in music and movies that I do.
Then I grew up and realized that shit is superficial and doesn't really amount to anything in a relationship.
I used to think that, then I married the guy who had different music taste and movie taste and then got divorced... now with the guy who likes the same music and movies and I'm content again...
I used to want someone who had the exact same taste in music and movies that I do.
Then I grew up and realized that shit is superficial and doesn't really amount to anything in a relationship.
"Whatever you into, your woman gotta be into, too, and vice versa...or the shit ain't gonna work. lt ain't gonna work.
That's right. lf you born-again, your woman gotta be born-again, too.
lf you a crackhead, your woman gotta be a crackhead, too...or the shit won't work.
You can't be like, ''l'm going to church, where you going?''
''Hit the pipe!''
That relationship ain't going nowhere.
Two crackheads can stay together forever.
That's right, what's gonna happen? They're gonna stop fucking, that's right. They'll stop talking, stop fucking."
I don't think everything has to be of the same interest...but there has to be some sort of common ground between the two or else they will do their own thing and eventually get bored of each other.
HEIRESS
11-21-2006, 02:54 PM
wow, this thread makes me want to be single for evarrrrrrrrrr
Echewta
11-21-2006, 03:09 PM
Don't you know that it's different for girls?
wow, good advice ET! :)
YES! Completely disregard the other statement I made! And don't give her a shot or tell her what you really feel! Honesty gets you nowhere.
DipDipDive
11-21-2006, 03:46 PM
I don't think everything has to be of the same interest...but there has to be some sort of common ground between the two or else they will do their own thing and eventually get bored of each other.
Of course there has to be common ground. But having identical common interests would get boring even quicker. There's not a whole lot to be gained from someone who has the exact same tastes and seeks entertainment in the exact same shit that you do. What would you learn from them?
To me, moral and ethical common ground is what matters. Similar sense of humor is what matters. Having the same taste in music is great, but building a relationship based on that kind of thing alone is setting yourself up for failure.
venusvenus123
11-21-2006, 05:08 PM
To me, moral and ethical common ground is what matters. Similar sense of humor is what matters. Having the same taste in music is great, but building a relationship based on that kind of thing alone is setting yourself up for failure.
that's what my mum always says, having the same values. if you don't have that you're gonna have problems.
besides, it's interesting to introduce one another to new music, films and books. (y)
skra75
11-21-2006, 09:14 PM
This is true, she's introducing me to old tango and meringue music and stuff. but holy ouch I'm in fucking physical pain right now can't type ouch. :( (n)
Randetica
11-21-2006, 09:24 PM
you will dump her sooner or later cause i say so!
but she is still very lucky! she was allowed to kiss those lips!
you have like the sexiest guy lips ive ever seen
pure sex i tell ya!
yea i know you can see the world all clearly now after my wise words (lb) (lb) (lb)
*huggie hugs*
adam_f
11-21-2006, 09:27 PM
Originally posted by skra75
She is hot though and is a good kisser.
...and her moustache tickles my lip which I kinda wish she would groom because I think I felt a Frito in there one time. One of the twisty ones. Bar-B-Q? Maybe.
skra75
11-22-2006, 08:43 AM
last night I folded like a crackhead and went back to her apartment again. fuck. I can't help it I hate sleeping by myself. I caught her whispering 'i love you' a few times last night. awkward. she's going to manhattan and the bronx this weekend though to visit her family, so I have some time to sort shit out whilst eating mass amounts of Turkey and Cranberry yummy-ymm.
(lb) (lb)
THE DRAMA CONTINUES
skra75
11-22-2006, 08:55 AM
Then I grew up and realized that shit is superficial and doesn't really amount to anything in a relationship.
your a smartass. but! you're right actually, my concern aboot music and shit is just a superficial way of saying we kinda come from different places socially. for one, she's kind of traditional, and actually goes to church every Sunday. :confused: And she hates cats. :confused: And I have 4 cats. :( Yeah all this little shit adds up. We are on the same page relationship wise and all of that, she's no cheater and has only been with 4 other guys and I respect that. And the chemistry in the sack is pretty much on-point. I know that will only last so long and eventually the fire will burn out and leave me with my cheese in the wind.
DipDipDive
11-22-2006, 10:44 PM
your a smartass. but! you're right actually, my concern aboot music and shit is just a superficial way of saying we kinda come from different places socially. for one, she's kind of traditional, and actually goes to church every Sunday. :confused: And she hates cats. :confused: And I have 4 cats. :( Yeah all this little shit adds up. We are on the same page relationship wise and all of that, she's no cheater and has only been with 4 other guys and I respect that. And the chemistry in the sack is pretty much on-point. I know that will only last so long and eventually the fire will burn out and leave me with my cheese in the wind.
Hates cats?? :(
Not liking Steely Dan is one thing, but hating cats just ain't fucking right.
jennyb
11-22-2006, 10:46 PM
Doesn't like cats nor has an appreciation or should I say "passion" for similar music?...... her ass should be out on the street faster than you can say "dump her skra"
adam_f
11-22-2006, 10:48 PM
Her ass should sit right down on my lap.
I caught her whispering 'i love you' a few times last night. awkward.
Holy shit... that's adorable and freaky at the same time. The tables have turned!
Lyman Zerga
11-23-2006, 01:38 AM
Hates cats?? :(
Not liking Steely Dan is one thing, but hating cats just ain't fucking right.
dont forget the worst part! she goes to church! to a cats are satan church!
Junker
11-23-2006, 05:30 AM
I hate cats too. Fucking lazy animals :mad:
skra75
11-26-2006, 12:11 AM
NEW REVELATION I now realize that my ex had terrible taste in music as well as movies. Pressure to conform is off!
Part time GF is now in Bronx and I am missing her, why? Is it because I actually miss her or is it because I enjoy her physical company and hot ass. Hard to say!
befsquire
11-26-2006, 12:12 AM
i'd say the answer is the latter.
Junker
11-27-2006, 06:07 AM
I know why. Its because you really miss her (hot ass)
skra75
11-28-2006, 11:36 AM
ONGOING SAGA OMG
I think I may be getting feelings for this girl. I find myself thinking about her eyes all the time and feel wierd now that I'm apart from her. It feels gross and I want it to stop. And I kinda like someone else too which makes this even wierder and I feel like a slut. I need to have a stiff jack and water and a trip to the tittie bar to freshen me up. :confused: :confused:
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