I'm going to stop having principles...

[Caribou]

Soooo, yesterday I was at this party and the DJ was fucking awesome (same guy that shared the vodka with me last week) so I was dancing my ass off all night. As it was happy bouncy music and not sexy assrub music I just danced with everyone who looked happy enough and put their pints in the air and waved it like they just din't care.
But there was 1 guy there who was actually pretty cute and he had been looking at me and dancing near me all night. And at one point he gets pretty close. I just thought it was a bit of fun and danced on. But then this guy is getting like, REALLY close, like putting his face on me and trying to kiss me close. First I turned my head away a couple of times but when he fully went at me I just had to tell him no. I've never seen anyone look so disappointed.

Anyway, the whole point is, this guy was incredibly cute, actually the cutest guy there, but for some reason I am not able to stick my tongue down someone I don't know. While my male friends did hook up with some girls there.
I think I'm doomed to be alone forever, just because I can't be slutty. Damnit.

[kaiser soze]

hmmm

sucks to be you!

[Dorothy Wood]

kissing someone on the dance floor can be kind of gross. I wouldn't worry about it. you should've done it though, for fun. next time.

[Caribou]

Well, that's the biggest part of the stupidity, I don't get a lot of 'chances' like this. When I do, they're ugly drunks and now, for the first time in my life it's a cute guy and I turn him down.
I just wonder how some girls can do this. You know, just kissing a guy without having even properly talked to him.
Are these girls overly promiscuous, or am I just a big prude?
meh.

[Dorothy Wood]

one time my roommate cordo kissed this tall dude with long hair and a leather jacket at a party. I was shocked. he gave her his card. I called her a slut afterwards, and sometimes I like to bring it up to embarass her. it's all in good fun though. I think you just have to be drunk enough.

[Caribou]

Yeah, I thought it might have to do with my alcohol levels being too low.
I wanted to get really really drunk, but I was mixing all kinds of drinks and I puked and felt sick afterwards, so I stuck to non-alcoholic bevvies after that.
I just need more practice. I'm still a bit of a b00zen00b.

[befsquire]

i never thought there was a problem kissing a super cute dude, but then i realized when i counted the number of dudes i've made out with that there may really be a problem and i just don't recognize it. dunno. i think i made out with like 45 to 47 dudes in my life. keep in mind i was with my ex for 15 years, and before i met bobby, there were only 2 dudes after my ex.

so yeah, it's probably best to have principles.

but if you see the dude again, it's almost like you know him. right?

[QueenAdrock]

I've had lots of chances to make out with guys, but I've actually made out with only 5 (not including spin the bottle shit). And one of those guys I didn't know that well so I felt very weird about it after.

I think it's because you can get STD's from just making out and STD's scare the living shit out of me. I mean, one dude I knew had warts in the back of his throat. HIS THROAT! Imagine putting your tongue only inches away from that! GAAAHH!

</debby downer>

[monkey]

for the most part, i will only kiss someone when im drunk if i know them and kinda like them sober. i think ive only kissed less than a handful of strangers.

[befsquire]

not that i can defend my kissing whorish ways, but all but 4 were prior to 1989. we didn't know much about stds back then.