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miranda15
12-03-2006, 09:02 PM
Im 15 and I have been liking this dude and he's 13....(yeah i know two years younger) But he's like the only boy I want and I wish he would understand...he's just so young...lol and pretty arrogant and I wish he knew how I really felt about him..I'm just so confused. I need help like really BAD!!!!!!!

Caribou
12-03-2006, 09:05 PM
Hmm.
Seeing that even legally adult guys can behave like little children most of the time, 'dating' a 13 year old one that already seems pretty arrogant doesn't sound like a very good idea to me.

Have you talked to this guy? If not, you should and find out what he's really like. Just see if you can hang around with this guy. If he then continues to be an arrogant prat and you can't really have a normal conversation with him, my advice is to forget about him, as he will only make you feel bad.

QueenAdrock
12-03-2006, 09:13 PM
An arrogant 13 year old? Nah, man. Don't do it. Arrogance in men is just such a turn-off.

I remember when I was 15 and 13 was waaaay too young. If you were 20 and he was 18, it wouldn't be as bad. I mean, I was 13 in middle school. You're probably in high school. Give it time.

HEIRESS
12-03-2006, 09:20 PM
those damn younger boys :mad:

little j
12-03-2006, 10:48 PM
im thinking you're 15 and too young to date... but my sister's 15 and i know how she is... so you'll probably tell him how you feel and since he probably hasn't hit the formal operational stage yet AND is therefore most likely functioning on a different congnitive level than you, he wont be able to care about your feelings, but he'll tell you he does, because although his brain is still developing his genitals are ready and rarin' to go.

save your heart and have safe fun.

luv
j

TurdBerglar
12-03-2006, 10:51 PM
give him something to brag about. man, the thriteen year old that scored a fifteen year old. he'd go down in history!

kaiser soze
12-03-2006, 11:16 PM
he has cooties, stay away

vickista
12-04-2006, 04:46 AM
haha, u sound like me.

if he's 13 dont bother- they are all idiots at that age especailly- and if he's already cocky then he isnt worth ur time, coz all he'll do is brag to his mates & not take it as seriously as u obviously want him to.

go for some one ur age, thats seriously the best age. at 15 they aren't too immature and they aren't too totally obsessed with sex, so its the best age for dating in the teenage years, in ur situation.

Kid Presentable
12-04-2006, 04:48 AM
at 15 they aren't too immature and they aren't too totally obsessed with sex
Quoted for lunacy.

vickista
12-04-2006, 04:51 AM
Quoted for lunacy.


i know they're both but under 15 they're WAY too immature and 16 17 & 18 they just wanna get drunk & get laid.

at 15 there is a small year long gap were they're a little of both, but not too much.

that didn't make sense did it?:confused: ahh well:cool:

Kid Presentable
12-04-2006, 05:23 AM
i know they're both but under 15 they're WAY too immature and 16 17 & 18 they just wanna get drunk & get laid.

at 15 there is a small year long gap were they're a little of both, but not too much.

that didn't make sense did it?:confused: ahh well:cool:
Are you an alias?

vickista
12-04-2006, 05:36 AM
Are you an alias?
pfft..no

who's alias do u think i am?:confused:

vickista
12-04-2006, 06:04 AM
who am i sposed 2 be?

Planetary
12-04-2006, 06:11 AM
is there such a thing as super paedophillia? there is now!

Loppfessor
12-04-2006, 08:52 AM
im thinking you're 15 and too young to date...


I agree just stick to giving hand jobs in your parents basement and you'll be A-Ok!

Otis Driftwood
12-04-2006, 08:55 AM
pfft..no

who's alias do u think i am?:confused:
I think you're vickista's 13 yr old brother n you gotz the hotz fer her. :cool:

Junker
12-04-2006, 09:45 AM
This 13 little boy is the man. Scoring girls 2 years older than him already. (y)

Loppfessor
12-04-2006, 09:58 AM
So is this what the "15" in your screenname stands for?

Note to self, stop chatting with Dave12, he just might really be a twelve year old boy.

Dude that kid's been askin for it for a long time...if you wind up having to go to court I got your back.

monkey
12-04-2006, 10:43 AM
i dont wanna be mean and condescending, but... STAY AWAY. look for semi interesting boys your own age. especially in HS, these things end up bothering you more than they should.

miranda15
12-04-2006, 05:24 PM
Hmm.
Seeing that even legally adult guys can behave like little children most of the time, 'dating' a 13 year old one that already seems pretty arrogant doesn't sound like a very good idea to me.

Have you talked to this guy? If not, you should and find out what he's really like. Just see if you can hang around with this guy. If he then continues to be an arrogant prat and you can't really have a normal conversation with him, my advice is to forget about him, as he will only make you feel bad.
I have liked him ever since last year of December and I have hung out with him we use to play video games together and talk. I love talking to him it's the best time I have. Saturday night I got offline messages from him from that morning and they said hey itz me plz talk im fixing to get off then he said fine then dont talk im gettin off (im sure he was being sarcastic) I messaged him back and told him i wasnt up...lol..i so "wuv" him!!!!

cookiepuss
12-04-2006, 05:31 PM
oh man, you have plenty of time for boyz laterz. relationships are hardz....they'll just break your heart, so don't rush.

ggirlballa
12-04-2006, 07:18 PM
idk sounds too weird, he sounds too young, you pedophile!

nah but really, is he in 8th or 7th grade? that makes a slightly bigger difference..kinda

Chicka B
12-04-2006, 07:56 PM
Ahhh that's like me wantin a 14 year old...*shudders*

miranda15
12-04-2006, 09:06 PM
idk sounds too weird, he sounds too young, you pedophile!

nah but really, is he in 8th or 7th grade? that makes a slightly bigger difference..kinda
He's in 8th grade. I'm in 10th yeah i know it sounds weird but i just cant help it...i think he just likes to mess with me..and he dont know how he breaks my heart but i dont know i even think itz weird i like him....sumtimez i say to myself "Miranda snap out of it he is 13 too young to understand how u really feel" His mom knows I like him....she just told me to give him time...i guess this is gonna be a long long time....he says he likes me but maybe he's just saying that so I wont feel bad......

vickista
12-04-2006, 10:27 PM
I think you're vickista's 13 yr old brother n you gotz the hotz fer her. :cool:

lol:Dgood one Otis(y)

Lex Diamonds
12-05-2006, 04:00 AM
is there such a thing as super paedophillia? there is now!
LOL

Junker
12-05-2006, 05:45 AM
He's in 8th grade. I'm in 10th yeah i know it sounds weird but i just cant help it...i think he just likes to mess with me..and he dont know how he breaks my heart but i dont know i even think itz weird i like him....sumtimez i say to myself "Miranda snap out of it he is 13 too young to understand how u really feel" His mom knows I like him....she just told me to give him time...i guess this is gonna be a long long time....he says he likes me but maybe he's just saying that so I wont feel bad......

Miranda, he's 13. Maybe he prefers videogames and cartoons yet.
Dont expect a mature attitude from him.
He's what we call 'porra loca'. I dont have a translation for this but thats what he still is.
So, give him some time like his mom told you (maybe 5-6 years :D )

venusvenus123
12-05-2006, 06:20 AM
stay away from him! if it was my son, i wouldn't want a 15 year old girl corrupting him. :(

zorra_chiflada
12-05-2006, 08:38 AM
13 year old boys are still, like little children! they're nothing resembling guys, or even adolescents. they're still children!

hitmonlee
12-05-2006, 09:25 AM
i remember being 15 and having a crush on a 13 year old lol
he was dating a girl in my year by the time he was 14

Pres Zount
12-05-2006, 09:35 AM
When I was 15/16 I was more interested with playing with my friends than with girls (eewww).

Am I right guys?

Junker
12-05-2006, 09:46 AM
Not entirely Pres. It was nice to hang out with my mates when I was younger. But I was and still am most interested in girls ;)

Pres Zount
12-05-2006, 09:50 AM
but you could play chasings. :<

Junker
12-05-2006, 10:02 AM
lol :D

miranda15
12-05-2006, 04:03 PM
All I know is that it didn't work out for me. When I was a freshman(14) a senior(18) asked me to Homecoming. She wanted to talk about the R rated movies she has seen, and I wanted to talk about Dungeons and Dragons.
he aint like that he got caught 4 watching them x rated films....and thats a bad thing...that wasnt too long ago acutally. his mom & me talk...but he's just acting so strange lately...not being himself...she even said that. she was suppose to talk to him & find out wat wuz going on... but i aint got a clue!!!:(

Dorothy Wood
12-05-2006, 04:30 PM
wait, how is it that you're friends with his mom?

8th grade kids are rotten.

my first college roommate was dating a 16 year old when she was 20. it was kind of weird. he was a pretty mature kid though. they started dating when he was 14 and she was 18. it lasted 3 years I think. it was totally lame when he and his friends came to our apartment for parties though. I also went to a couple high school parties in rural indiana. pretty hot times. NOT


blah, I don't know, I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 19 anyway.

miranda15
12-05-2006, 04:38 PM
wait, how is it that you're friends with his mom?

8th grade kids are rotten.

my first college roommate was dating a 16 year old when she was 20. it was kind of weird. he was a pretty mature kid though. they started dating when he was 14 and she was 18. it lasted 3 years I think. it was totally lame when he and his friends came to our apartment for parties though. I also went to a couple high school parties in rural indiana. pretty hot times. NOT


blah, I don't know, I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 19 anyway.
yeah his mom use to go with my uncle...i think in september i told him i gotta cell & he's like kewl now u can call me & he gave my his # I called him a few times but i havent in like 3 or weeks now.

miranda15
12-06-2006, 08:26 PM
so im kinda feelin' better. His mom told me that he tried to talk to me yesterday but i wasnt online. Maybe I will see him this weekend cuz my bro is suppose to go to this park & he may be there....but i dunno if im goin or not.

Kid Presentable
12-06-2006, 08:50 PM
When I was 15/16 I was more interested with playing with my friends than with girls (eewww).

Am I right guys?
You're right, but I had fuck all say in my situation.

Caribou
12-06-2006, 09:42 PM
he aint like that he got caught 4 watching them x rated films....and thats a bad thing...

No, that's not a bad thing. Boys just watch porn. It's normal, not bad.
And he's 13. 13 means puberty, Puberty means hormones, Hormones mean Dirtyness.

vickista
12-07-2006, 12:13 AM
so im kinda feelin' better. His mom told me that he tried to talk to me yesterday but i wasnt online. Maybe I will see him this weekend cuz my bro is suppose to go to this park & he may be there....but i dunno if im goin or not.


umm not to be rude or anything, but whenever u say u tlked to him or wateva its over the net, u tlk in person right? because i mean, yeah.

ggirlballa
12-07-2006, 12:38 AM
also it sounds like his moms forcing him to talk to ya, or it sounds like you've been talking with his mom more than actually talking to him (imo)


the mom is waaay too involved in this

vickista
12-07-2006, 12:53 AM
also it sounds like his moms forcing him to talk to ya, or it sounds like you've been talking with his mom more than actually talking to him (imo)


the mom is waaay too involved in this


yeah u need to spend more time mingling/flirting & what not instead of talking to his mum.

and also if he knows u like him he might be a bit "whoa, step back.shes way older then me." and then his mums like forcing it & trust me you don't want that.

and also lets say for arguments sake that you 2 started dating, what happens when there is kissing & making out etc. u DEFINATLEY dont want her involved in that shit.

so yeah mum isn't a good idea, find a different adult to talk to about that stuff.

miranda15
12-07-2006, 07:58 PM
umm not to be rude or anything, but whenever u say u tlked to him or wateva its over the net, u tlk in person right? because i mean, yeah.
yeah i wouldnt go 4 that online dating shit that shit is stupid & retarded!!!

zorra_chiflada
12-07-2006, 08:02 PM
oh snap

miranda15
12-07-2006, 08:02 PM
also it sounds like his moms forcing him to talk to ya, or it sounds like you've been talking with his mom more than actually talking to him (imo)


the mom is waaay too involved in this

yeah i thought about that...but one time when i thought we were supposedly going together im like what r we & he's like just friends nothing but friends 4 now...omg he pissed me off...he always said he liked older gurls when he was 12 which was like in january he said he went out with a 16 yr old when i told him i didnt like him becuz he was like 2 years younger then me im just like ok...im just gonna wait on him...if that makes any sense...cuz i dont need to be "chasing" after him...hez just a horny lil boy...not round me tho...just with the x rated movies....i dont no why i like him so much...

befsquire
12-07-2006, 09:47 PM
jezuz christ. y cant th3r3 b an 8ge l1m1t 4 registr4shun here?

jackrock
12-08-2006, 12:17 AM
Mi I'z r blooding :(

vickista
12-08-2006, 01:05 AM
...im just gonna wait on him......

why wait for the "little boy" who likes to watch porn, why not flirt with the "little man" in ur gym class?


it sounds like u could do alot better that this kid, so why waste ur time?
even if u do wait on him, if he ends up liking someone else, it will have all been a big waste of time, so yeah get out there and find someone your own age.