if this keeps going the way it's going

[beastieangel01]

it's going to suck. hard. And I hate to be one to add to the love life threads but too bad.

I think my heart is about to get stomped on. :(

and I'm tired of people taking me for granted only to become desperate, "so sorry," and trying to make up for it later. How about someone that actually appreciates me while I'm actually around instead eh? :mad:

alright. my PMS moment is over. Thanks.

[Rock]

did you tell him you want to like...boyfriend girlfriend yet?

keep your head up.

if worse comes to worse you can move here and we will keep you chained up in our basement and burn you with a hot crack pipe in memory of rick james. in other words....things can be worse.

but seriously...think about it my offer.....

[beastieangel01]

haha Rock.

And no, the moment was almost right (went with the unplanned thing) and things on his end got kind of bad and hectic. So I understand why he might be distant a lot more than before but it sucks since I was feeling comfortable enough to tell him at the same point. I have good timing, ya see.

It worries me though because he's either really down or decided to back off with me. If it ends up being the latter, heart stomped on.

And this happens to come up when I find out that men from my past say that messing things up with me was one of the stupidest things they've ever done and they are trying to make it up to me or get me back or things like that. This includes the latest ex, and the ex before that. Hence the "why not appreciate me when I'm around, bitches!" comment.

This whole being vulnerable thing, even in the slightest, is enough to turn you in to a crazy person :mad:

[marsdaddy]

Strange how the job is too good to be true, but the relationship isn't. Life lessons?

[beastieangel01]

story of everyones life?

[little j]

i dont remember....how long have you been "together"?

[beastieangel01]

we've been talking since summer but nothing really happened on a more, intimate level, until September. So it hasn't been that incredibly long but I like him a lot.

:mad: :(

[little j]

trust me girl... i know.

i was sure about seth like 4 months into it... only he wasn't sure about me until like 2 years into it.

give him trust and space and hold on to most of your heart if you can...

you're an awsome lady.

[SobaViolence]

wow, these guys all you ladies talk about are fucking stupid.

life isn't a sprint, pace yourself.

it's a long haul...

[jabumbo]

this is almost the same situation i am in...

started talking in summer, once school started we started to get closer and such



i should do something about it, huh?

[Otis Driftwood]

wow, these guys all you ladies talk about are fucking stupid.

They wouldn't be if they were BBMBers, don't y'all think? :cool:

[Loppfessor]

trust me girl... i know.

i was sure about seth like 4 months into it... only he wasn't sure about me until like 2 years into it.




That's kind of crappy advice...my ex was sure about us after like month 1 Almost 3 years later I thought I was sure but it was too late or something. Long story short we both wasted 3 years of our lives...

[Junker]

They wouldn't be if they were BBMBers, don't y'all think? :cool:

Gotta agree with that cause I'm Super Cool :cool: :cool:

[beastieangel01]

trust me girl... i know.

i was sure about seth like 4 months into it... only he wasn't sure about me until like 2 years into it.

give him trust and space and hold on to most of your heart if you can...

you're an awsome lady.

thank you miss.

one of my closest friends said to just give him some space since he's stressed (not that I've been over doing it either, just was kind of weirded out by the sudden distance) and that he'll come around. My friend also added that he's lucky, and if he doesn't come around, he's a big idiot that deserves a boot up his ass.

I love my friends.

jabumbo, yes. go for it. for you and me just do it ;/

[ToucanSpam]

God, it sucks reading this because you're a pretty nice person...I guess sometimes people don't know what they have until they lose it. The only thing you can do is keep your chin up and continue on. That's what I do in these situations. Just keep hoping that at some point things will work out for the best; they eventually do, and they make all the shitty things that have happened seem so minor.

[beastiegirrl101]

is this the boy that lives 4 hours away? Long distance never works unless someone moves...BELIEVE ME.

[Freebasser]

wow, these guys all you ladies talk about are fucking stupid.

life isn't a sprint, pace yourself.

it's a long haul...

Unless you get hit by a bus tomorrow. Imagine the funeral:

PRIEST/RABBI/WITCH DOCTOR: "She only ever did it with really ugly guys, but never with the really hot guy who loved Star Wars"

RELATIVES: "Oh, the shame"

[skra75]

yeah sorry to hear that miss. thought: how much of this is just PMS induced paranoia?

*backs away slowly and cautiously*

[beastieangel01]

like I said "PMS moment"

I'm somewhat confident (I say somewhat because I'm not an incredibly confident person) that he's really stressed out right now. But if he doesn't come around again soon-ish then blah.

And he does live around an hour and a half (two or so with traffic) away from me. That was a potential problem but I think he's worth it to at least try IF something serious were to come of this.

[Loppfessor]

is this the boy that lives 4 hours away? Long distance never works unless someone moves...BELIEVE ME.

I hear that, but as this thread proves people usually only listen to the "advice" that is what they wanna hear. Either way good luck BA01

[beastiegirrl101]

I hear that, but as this thread proves people usually only listen to the "advice" that is what they wanna hear. Either way good luck BA01

agreed. and if you dont give it a shot, you'll never know.

[SobaViolence]

no need to settle on just one person...

unless, of course, you are gonna marry him


relax, there's lots of people out there

[Loppfessor]

agreed. and if you dont give it a shot, you'll never know.

That's not a bad outlook...I'm pretty much the same way. I don't mind getting my heart stomped if there is at least a chance that I won't

[ET]

I prefer dealing with my own problems on my own so maybe he's that kind of bitch too. So if he's anything like me he's a decent person until he gets really stressed out.

If he does it more often though, dump him.

[HEIRESS]

I HATE JEW BOYS WHO ARE ALL "heeeeeeeey cycling season is over and remember how when it started in may I totallyyyyyyyyyyyy stopped talking to you and forgot that I even had a long distance relationship with you but now its december so Im all hi hey how are you thismydickthismydick unf unf unf unf unffff"

and

I HATE ITALIANS WHO ARE ALL "are you still gonne come over to my parents on xmas eve because they love you even though I told you specifically that im coming home for the holidays to bang this other chick that lives in our hometown"

and

I HATE STUPID DUMB BLONDE BOYS WHO ARE ALL "omg I still love you and i bought you a creepily intimate xmas present which i gave to you in front of 4 of our friends at dinner the other night making it extremely awkward for all parties involved and hey buddy maybe THIS is reason #247928347983287943 I dont ever fucking call you to hang out anymore"


I dont need anymore blasts from the past this Decemeber

[Bob]

I HATE JEWS and ITALIANS


HEIRESS!:eek:

[Junker]

I HATE JEW BOYS WHO ARE ALL "heeeeeeeey cycling season is over and remember how when it started in may I totallyyyyyyyyyyyy stopped talking to you and forgot that I even had a long distance relationship with you but now its december so Im all hi hey how are you thismydickthismydick unf unf unf unf unffff"

and

I HATE ITALIANS WHO ARE ALL "are you still gonne come over to my parents on xmas eve because they love you even though I told you specifically that im coming home for the holidays to bang this other chick that lives in our hometown"

and

I HATE STUPID DUMB BLONDE BOYS WHO ARE ALL "omg I still love you and i bought you a creepily intimate xmas present which i gave to you in front of 4 of our friends at dinner the other night making it extremely awkward for all parties involved and hey buddy maybe THIS is reason #247928347983287943 I dont ever fucking call you to hang out anymore"


I dont need anymore blasts from the past this Decemeber

:eek:

[HEIRESS]

I hate blondes more than the jews and italians because they atleast have big dicks to make up for any lack of intellect

RAAAAAAAAAA

[Junker]

I'm not blonde ;)

[HEIRESS]

its a damn good start

[skra75]

I'm part Jewish ;)

[Bob]

i'm a racist ;)

[beastieangel01]

no need to settle on just one person...

unless, of course, you are gonna marry him


relax, there's lots of people out there


oh I know this. Believe me. It just happens to be who I like right now and it'd be nice for something to come of it is all. I was just spewing a little frustration out on the little interweb.

ET, yeah I think he might be that kind of guy.

anyway, in regards to the advice thing lopp, I wasn't even really looking for advice. Again, just venting out that thoughts in my head.

heiress posts the best resposnes ever :D except the fact that the boys are being so crappy to her and all. I say she and I go get drunk and wreak havoc.

[Loppfessor]

no need to settle on just one person...

unless, of course, it's Lopp

if not relax, there's lots of people out there almost as cool as him

Actually that's prettty sound advice....

[The Notorious LOL]

its cool I hate jews and italians too.

[beastieangel01]

^ahaha

oh and to keep my "love life" thread in one: I'm at the stage now where I'd really appreciate a formal date, damn it. I've gotten the "hey let's go somewhere to eat" and he made sure he paid for it (wouldn't let me pitch in) and all that. But I'm talking someone officially asking me " can I take you out for dinner" or something like that, dressing up a little, etc. Nothing fancy with the food though, I don't like fancy places. But yeah!

I've only been on one real date before :/

[ToucanSpam]

I think I hate Italians more than Jews....wait I think I might know an Italian who is a Jew too...bastard.

[SobaViolence]

shalom!

[Junker]

I'm a blonde, Italian Jew, and you guys are hurting my feelings.

Fuck you then you damn carcamano!!

[SobaViolence]

mozoltof, comrade.

[kll]

^ahaha

oh and to keep my "love life" thread in one: I'm at the stage now where I'd really appreciate a formal date, damn it. I've gotten the "hey let's go somewhere to eat" and he made sure he paid for it (wouldn't let me pitch in) and all that. But I'm talking someone officially asking me " can I take you out for dinner" or something like that, dressing up a little, etc. Nothing fancy with the food though, I don't like fancy places. But yeah!

I've only been on one real date before :/


you're gonna have to date 40+ year olds then... they don't make em like they used to...

[beastieangel01]

so it's not just that I'm weird, good to know. I wish guys my age up to that age were more in to taking a girl on a date though. It would be nice. So, single 40 years olds, where you at?

;/

[kll]

so it's not just that I'm weird, good to know. I wish guys my age up to that age were more in to taking a girl on a date though. It would be nice. So, single 40 years olds, where you at?

;/


in my 30-ish years, i have been asked out formally one time... and that was after hooking up with him on a drunken night, sending him a thank-you note the following week to thank him for driving me to my car in the morning and providing my phone#... he called and asked for a REAL date in the proper way... i later married him.

all others have been like, let's hang out, let's grab something to eat, etc.

[beastieangel01]

that is so lame.

Then again a man recently pointed out that some girls don't even like a door held open for them.

I'm not the kind to demand or even want something like that 100% of the time but, especially in the beginning, SOME effort would be nice.

That's crazy. What the hell :mad:

[HEIRESS]

I just want to find someone I can handle talking to for more than 10 minute without wanting to stab myself in the face

someone I can handle talking to for 4+ hours at a time is even better

and god jesus help me it just so happens the one person I found lately is only 20, not even 20 1/2

so yeah, what im trying to say is, age means nothing

[kll]

I just want to find someone I can handle talking to for more than 10 minute without wanting to stab myself in the face

someone I can handle talking to for 4+ hours at a time is even better

and god jesus help me it just so happens the one person I found lately is only 20, not even 20 1/2

so yeah, what im trying to say is, age means nothing

age means everything though when it comes to what is considered "traditional" date manners... i truly don't think that people under the age of 40 date in the way ba01 wishes they would...

[HEIRESS]

OH I was just focusing on the age thing not the dating style of given age groups, I could give to shits if someone takes me out for a fancy dinner

Ive also never been bought jewelery in my life because Im pretty sure my exes all knew that if such a thing occurred Id probably have barfed on the spot

[monkey]

oh heiress, age means nothing until youve been together one year, youve fallen head over heels in love, and then... you realize you wanna do 24 year old things and he wants to do 20 year old things. which dont seem that different sometimes, but they are. :(

[beastieangel01]

the dates I want, don't even have to be a fancy dinner. I can get dressed up and go to white castle for all I care. It'd just be nice to be asked ya know?

And I despise getting jewellery. Anyone who has had interest on me should know better that I think it's a waste of money, and should be spent on a new video game or awesome movie something.

My point is focusing more on the sentiment of being asked out on a real date.

[Loppfessor]

My point is focusing more on the sentiment of being asked out on a real date.

Patience my pet...Loppie is on the way soon enough

[ET]

It's gentlemanly to open doors for women and your reward for being such a great guy is getting to see their rotund behind wave as you do it. I thought that was common knowledge? Jews and Italians are too busy trying to figure out, mentally, what Armani Exchange outfit they will be purchasing later that week to do such things.

[HEIRESS]

why do they all have to be so goddamn good looking though!

[The Notorious LOL]

you realize you wanna do 24 year old things and he wants to do 20 year old things. which dont seem that different sometimes, but they are. :(


explain plz

[Planetary]

alright. my PMS moment is over. Thanks.
lol you pissed yourself

[monkey]

explain plz

if only i could :(

[HEIRESS]

I drink just as much as any 20 year old male PFFFFFFFFFFFFFFT

[skra75]

oh and to keep my "love life" thread in one: I'm at the stage now where I'd really appreciate a formal date, damn it. I've gotten the "hey let's go somewhere to eat" and he made sure he paid for it (wouldn't let me pitch in) and all that. But I'm talking someone officially asking me " can I take you out for dinner" or something like that, dressing up a little, etc. Nothing fancy with the food though, I don't like fancy places. But yeah!


I'm taking Simone/Sloane GF on a surprise date this Friday. I'm gonna call her and say "yeah, put something nice but casual on and I'll pick you up at 6:00". I'm gonna show up with flowers (she likes that and so do I we're gay) and take her to this pretty nice place in town that serves good steaks and has decent sushi too. We'll have some pomegranate martinis. I might take her dancing afterwards. Even though I'm poor as a fucking shoeshine boy I'm gonna try to scrape together some bones to show her a good time. She deserves a good date.

So do you Crystal, it's a shame hon. I'm sorry that your boyfriend sucks. :(

[beastieangel01]

he's not my boyfriend :mad: just a boy that's a friend that I like.

;/ I did talk to him while trying to help out with his website/reel stuff. He's trying to get everything working and it's frustrating for him and I keep busy enough to the point that I can't look in to it as much as I could in order to help out.

Sooo I'm pretty sure he's wrapped up in that right now. It's okay though. I'll go on a nice date one day I'm sure.

[Loppfessor]

This thread is starting to make me sad...yeah I joke and stuff and probably come off as an asshole most of the time but BA01 seems like a very cool lady and really should be going out on some fun, exciting, dates. Just keep your options open I guess there's plenty of fishies in the sea...

[SobaViolence]

laguna beach is how i see the majority of 20 yr olds now...

people are stupid.

[beastieangel01]

my options are being left open. I'm not saving myself for him or anything.

I'm such a sucker though I got him two awesome shirts and drew him for his christmas gift :mad: but I was happy to do it. And I give him massages all the time, because I feel like it.

spoiled brat.