How young will you go in a relationship?

[camo]

So I met this girl a few months back, I immediately thought that she was the hottest thing I'd seen in a while so I made a bee line for her and began my plan of attack. We've met a few times and never gone past a kiss or two.

I took her out again the other day. We chatted for a while and I took her for some coffee, things were going great and we were getting on really well. So far so good.

So there I was confidence brimming sat there with this hot girl and things seemed to going well. Infact in the back of my head I cound'nt help but think maybe a little too well. Then she hit me with the headshot. She told me she was seventeen. WTF WTF WTF!?!?

See, I'm 25 and earlier this year I was in a full blown adult realtionship with a 29 year old. A gap of 4 years never brought up any problems with us but I cannot get my head around this.

I really like her and she really likes me but I can't help but think that I am doing the wrong thing by letting this carry on. I'd chat to my mates but i'm not exactly sure about what they'll say.

Please guys, can I have you're opinions? :confused: (!)

[Junker]

I dont see a problem here. I'd bang her as well.

[Lex Diamonds]

No younger than 8 years old for me please.

[Lex Diamonds]

Are you English camo? Just wanna point out to everyone that girls are legal over here from 16. (y)

[camo]

I dont see a problem here. I'd bang her as well.

But shes a girl junker

You didn't suspect she might be 17 when she asked to pick her up in front of the high school?

Ha de haaa. Seriously she looks older than me!

Are you English camo? Just wanna point out to everyone that girls are legal over here from 16. (y)

Yeah bro i'm English.

[Loppfessor]

What the crap could you two possibly have in common? I couldn't go lower than say 22 at this point and that would be pushing it....for dating of course. I'd still hit it a few times if I were you

[Planetary]

if shes hot and its legal then go for it. i had a 17 year olf girlfriend. i was 18 but you know, she was still 17...

[trailerprincess]

I had a similiar conversation with someone from here about this and they informed of the 'half your age + 7' rule as outlined here

half +7 (http://lura.net/03/romance/)

[camo]

What the crap could you two possibly have in common? I couldn't go lower than say 22 at this point and that would be pushing it....for dating of course. I'd still hit it a few times if I were you

we actually have quite a lot in common!


I had a similiar conversation with someone from here about this and they informed of the 'half your age + 7' rule as outlined here

half +7 (http://lura.net/03/romance/)

ha ha thanks, I read that bit at the bottom saying a parent would'nt want a 17 dating a 25 year old!

[QueenAdrock]

When you were her age, she was playing with dolls in elementary school.

I personally wouldn't do it.

[skra75]

*does some quick math*:o

[Lex Diamonds]

My parents were 15 years apart. My father taught my mother at college when she was 16.

[Loppfessor]

we actually have quite a lot in common!



Well you are pretty immature...so I guess I could see that

[Junker]

But shes a girl junker



_|_ :D

[camo]

My parents were 15 years apart. My father taught my mother at college when she was 16.

What age did they hook up?


Then you shouldn't date her for that reason. I mean, how is she going to look when she is 30?

Like a milf?

Well you are pretty immature...so I guess I could see that

cheers bro

[Kid Presentable]

So I met this girl a few months back, I immediately thought that she was the hottest thing I'd seen in a while so I made a bee line for her and began my plan of attack. We've met a few times and never gone past a kiss or two.

I took her out again the other day. We chatted for a while and I took her for some coffee, things were going great and we were getting on really well. So far so good.

So there I was confidence brimming sat there with this hot girl and things seemed to going well. Infact in the back of my head I cound'nt help but think maybe a little too well. Then she hit me with the headshot. She told me she was seventeen. WTF WTF WTF!?!?

See, I'm 25 and earlier this year I was in a full blown adult realtionship with a 29 year old. A gap of 4 years never brought up any problems with us but I cannot get my head around this.

I really like her and she really likes me but I can't help but think that I am doing the wrong thing by letting this carry on. I'd chat to my mates but i'm not exactly sure about what they'll say.

Please guys, can I have you're opinions? :confused: (!)

Goforitgoforitgoforit. Just fucking go for it.

[venusvenus123]

it's not so much the number of years between you, but the fact that you are an adult, while she's still a child. age of consent may be 16, but you're still a child at that age, legally and mentally.

i think it's a bit weird.

i remember a guy chasing me when i was 17. we went out for a drink and found out each others' actual ages--he had thought i was about 23 and i had thought he was about 21. he turned out to be 27. we didn't pursue it any further.

[Kid Presentable]

it's not so much the number of years between you, but the fact that you are an adult, while she's still a child. age of consent may be 16, but you're still a child at that age, legally and mentally.

i think it's a bit weird.

i remember a guy chasing me when i was 17. we went out for a drink and found out each others' actual ages--he had thought i was about 23 and i had thought he was about 21. he turned out to be 27. we didn't pursue it any further.
You live and learn, though. He should go for it just to find out.

[camo]

wow, this is harder to polarise than I thought. It's funny how this divides opinions. In my head i'm 50/50 but when I'm with her I totally forget about the age gap.

My head is literally spinning

[abcdefz]

I'll throw this in the mix:

If she's legal and you ARE going to keep going, I'd meet the parent(s) and get permission first.

If you guys really are getting along and think you might have found a soul mate and neither of you is uncomfrtable with the numbers AND she's legal, I wouldn't hasten to drop it. But I'd make sure everything was aboveboard.

[Kid Presentable]

If she's legal and you ARE going to keep going, I'd meet the parent(s) and get permission first.

Evening! Thought I'd fuck your daugher! What's for dinner, then?

[abcdefz]

Evening! Thought I'd fuck your daugher! What's for dinner, then?


I think you could ask more informally than that.

[Loppfessor]

I think you could ask more informally than that.
Evening, I'd like to have intercourse with your daughter....

[camo]

I'll throw this in the mix:

If she's legal and you ARE going to keep going, I'd meet the parent(s) and get permission first.

If you guys really are getting along and think you might have found a soul mate and neither of you is uncomfrtable with the numbers AND she's legal, I wouldn't hasten to drop it. But I'd make sure everything was aboveboard.

Cheers. I've already told her that if this carries on I'd like to meet her Dad and assure him. Her Mum is totally fine with it though. She thinks i'm a nice guy.

It's a tough one. I'm so close to just walking away but I don't want to hurt her.

[Mr Films]

this happened to me when I was 19 and the girl ended up being 16. Sure, three years isn't a big deal but it depends on which 3 years we're talking about here. I ended it. And I'd end it if I were you.

If it progresses, there is literally no way her parents will like you. No way.

but that's just me.

[TAL]

And just when I thought
She was coming to my door
She whispered sweet
And brought me to the floor
She said

I'm only seventeen (seventeen)
I'll show you love like you've never seen
She's only seventeen (seventeen)
Daddy says she's too young
But she's old enough for me

[abcdefz]

It's a tough one. I'm so close to just walking away but I don't want to hurt her.


If you don't feel some real connection other than "she's hot she's hot she's hot vaginavaginavagina" I'd definitely leave her alone.

[na§tee]

lolz, a-z speaks the truth.

sometimes, when i'm just about to lose faith in the whole opposite sex, i come on here and sit back in the satisfied glow of the amount of "yeah but I'D STILL TAP THAT ASS YO LOL" and "dang my girl gots the best titties.. especially when i'm COMING ALL OVER THEM!" that exists on the board.

:rolleyes:

[Kid Presentable]

I cook.

[hitmonlee]

alternatively to the "bang her" opinion, do you like her and want to continue seeing her, for possibly a long time?

because she'll end up pissing you off.

the relationship mistakes you've already made and learnt from, the way you've probably learnt to control any jealousy, and weird feelings that come up when you are with someone... she hasn't done that yet, you'll be there for all her mistakes, for the first time she accidentally kisses another guy when she's drunk (too young to know how to control her drinking), being needy, being neglectful, whatever all those kinds of things.

the experiences you've had, she hasn't. let her have them with someone else discovering them for the first time....

[Genocide Tulips]

So I met this girl a few months back, I immediately thought that she was the hottest thing I'd seen in a while so I made a bee line for her and began my plan of attack. We've met a few times and never gone past a kiss or two.

I took her out again the other day. We chatted for a while and I took her for some coffee, things were going great and we were getting on really well. So far so good.

So there I was confidence brimming sat there with this hot girl and things seemed to going well. Infact in the back of my head I cound'nt help but think maybe a little too well. Then she hit me with the headshot. She told me she was seventeen. WTF WTF WTF!?!?

See, I'm 25 and earlier this year I was in a full blown adult realtionship with a 29 year old. A gap of 4 years never brought up any problems with us but I cannot get my head around this.

I really like her and she really likes me but I can't help but think that I am doing the wrong thing by letting this carry on. I'd chat to my mates but i'm not exactly sure about what they'll say.

Please guys, can I have you're opinions? :confused: (!)

Are you my roommate!?

[Kid Presentable]

alternatively to the "bang her" opinion, do you like her and want to continue seeing her, for possibly a long time?

because she'll end up pissing you off.

the relationship mistakes you've already made and learnt from, the way you've probably learnt to control any jealousy, and weird feelings that come up when you are with someone... she hasn't done that yet, you'll be there for all her mistakes, for the first time she accidentally kisses another guy when she's drunk (too young to know how to control her drinking), being needy, being neglectful, whatever all those kinds of things.

the experiences you've had, she hasn't. let her have them with someone else discovering them for the first time....
Good call. Buy her ciggies, though.

[Loppfessor]

Good call. Buy her ciggies, though.

Cus if she smokes she pokes...

[Kid Presentable]

Cus if she smokes she pokes...
No, it's just nice to be buy cigarrettes for kids.

[Loppfessor]

No, it's just nice to be buy cigarrettes for kids.

Especially during the holiday season...

[beastieangel01]

I'm with a-z on this one.

though relationships with people that much younger than you is never good. Sure the actual different in years wouldn't be a big deal if both of you were much older but right now she is in a WAY different place in her life. At least, I'm assuming so considering the gap. She still has a lot of growing up to do.

[Genocide Tulips]

I'm with a-z on this one.

though relationships with people that much younger than you is never good. Sure the actual different in years wouldn't be a big deal if both of you were much older but right now she is in a WAY different place in her life. At least, I'm assuming so considering the gap. She still has a lot of growing up to do.

Yeah, never, ever date a teenager if your are not a teenager. So, 18 and 19 are out.

Excuse me, I've had a bit too much vodka.

[abcdefz]

Geez -- I haven't dated a teenager since I was, I think, 15. They're just too young.

Older women = (y)

[Genocide Tulips]

Men between 25-28=yum.

[cosmo105]

ugh. i was 17 when i met my ex. he was 22, turned 23 a month after we got together. as mature as i thought i was, and as well as we seemed to get along, i was WAY too young to handle something like that and i'm so disgusted by him now just thinking about the age gap. i'm 22 now and i can't even imagine dating someone under 20. he should have never even talked to me - he has a lot of psychological problems, and is an alcoholic, but that's no excuse.

it really took years off my life trying to act like i was in a grown-up relationship with someone that was in a very different place than me - i missed my high school prom to go to his college graduation. it was wrong, and probably the only regret i have of my teenage years because it screwed up so many things for me. it took me so long to get the confidence to break it off with him, and blah blah it's a learning experience and i wouldn't be where i am today without it but DAMN i wish someone had stepped in and said no.

[Genocide Tulips]

ugh. i was 17 when i met my ex. he was 22, turned 23 a month after we got together. as mature as i thought i was, and as well as we seemed to get along, i was WAY too young to handle something like that and i'm so disgusted by him now just thinking about the age gap. i'm 22 now and i can't even imagine dating someone under 20. he should have never even talked to me - he has a lot of psychological problems, and is an alcoholic, but that's no excuse.

it really took years off my life trying to act like i was in a grown-up relationship with someone that was in a very different place than me - i missed my high school prom to go to his college graduation. it was wrong, and probably the only regret i have of my teenage years because it screwed up so many things for me. it took me so long to get the confidence to break it off with him, and blah blah it's a learning experience and i wouldn't be where i am today without it but DAMN i wish someone had stepped in and said no.

:(

That is so awful to hear, but as a teenage girl (especially after 16) you think you know everything.

I wish I was there for you to tell you no because I certainly would have.

My roommate is 24 and is somewhat seeing a 17-year old and I really don't like it.

[cosmo105]

i was in a rough spot, still dealing with some issues that left me very vulnerable. and he came along at the worst possible time. i thought it was meant to be, and when you're that age you think that everything is destined and no one understands and you're special.

camo, i'm not saying you're a creep like my ex was. but for both of your sakes, don't pursue it further. she is not ready for something with you, no matter how amazingly you seem to get on at the moment. trust me.

[Freebasser]

Is 12 too young? :confused:

[zorra_chiflada]

i kinda dated a 29 year old when i was 17. he was probably a paedo or something. i just thought i was really cool to have an older guy pay attention to me.

[Kerrbear]

I draw the line with boys I need to sneak into r-rated movies.

[Bob]

Is 12 too young? :confused:

have you met miranda15? you two would get along well i think

[camo]

Well guys, I went home last night and sat down with my thinking cap on and thought long and hard about this one.

I'll keep it short. I told her that I think we shouldn't see one another etc etc etc. She got a bit upset, but I kindly reminded here that she originally told me she was 21 (I think I forgot to mention that before). I feel a bit guilty but I'm sure she's got millions of other guys lined up.

Anyhows. The end

[Lex Diamonds]

What age did they hook up?
My sister was born when they were 23/38, then they married to make it honest.

[Freebasser]

have you met miranda15? you two would get along well i think

Meh. She sounds too old for me.

[Pres Zount]

Is 12 too young? :confused:
no, of course not. hush now. ;)

[Loppfessor]

Well guys, I went home last night and sat down with my thinking cap on and thought long and hard about this one.

I'll keep it short. I told her that I think we shouldn't see one another etc etc etc. She got a bit upset, but I kindly reminded here that she originally told me she was 21 (I think I forgot to mention that before). I feel a bit guilty but I'm sure she's got millions of other guys lined up.

Anyhows. The end

Fine, I'll be the asshole that says what a lot of you are thinking....Dude you shoulda at least fucked her a few times first!!!!

[Planetary]

Like a gilf.
cilf

[abcdefz]

Fine, I'll be the asshole that says what a lot of you are thinking....Dude you shoulda at least fucked her a few times first!!!!


^
not a slave to the hippocratic oath

[camo]

Fine, I'll be the asshole that says what a lot of you are thinking....Dude you shoulda at least fucked her a few times first!!!!

(n)Lopp(n)

[Kerrbear]

(n)Lopp(n)

Yeah, that's surprising. He's usually so sensitive, and so wholesome.

[camo]

Yeah, that's surprising. He's usually so sensitive, and so wholesome.

not really, he's funny but not in this thread. Lopp has lost points

[Kid Presentable]

Lopp is back. (y)

[camo]

Lopp is back. (y)

back again

[Kid Presentable]

No, I mean the real Lopp. Not the one who cracks jokes. The one who offends all and sundry. Keep it up.(y)

[camo]

No, I mean the real Lopp. Not the one who cracks jokes. The one who offends all and sundry. Keep it up.(y)

Noooooooooooooo!

[Loppfessor]

not really, he's funny but not in this thread. Lopp has lost points

what the crap dude, don't try and act so high and mighty....are you trying to convince me that the thought of violently penetrating her various orifices never crossed your mind???!! Let's be real here she was a young hot piece of boo-tay that you probably would never have a real "relationship" with but sure would've enjoyed violating. So alls I'm sayin is that you should've at least closed the deal.

[Kid Presentable]

You guys were killing him.

[Kid Presentable]

what the crap dude, don't try and act so high and mighty....are you trying to convince me that the thought of violently penetrating her various orifices never crossed your mind???!! Let's be real here she was a young hot piece of boo-tay that you probably would never have a real "relationship" with but sure would've enjoyed violating. So alls I'm sayin is that you should've at least closed the deal.
Ha! And now he'll never know. Although she's going to chase him, now.

[Loppfessor]

Ha! And now he'll never know. Although she's going to chase him, now.

Doubtful....there's probably a line of dudes just waiting for their chance to exploit her.

[Kid Presentable]

Doubtful....there's probably a line of dudes just waiting for their chance to exploit her.
Hahaha. What would you have done, Lopp?

[Loppfessor]

Hahaha. What would you have done, Lopp?

In my current situation I'm semi-attached so I probably wouldn't hit it but if I were single yeah I'd spend at least the next 2 or 3 weeks teaching her all sorts of stuff.

[camo]

I'm not being high and mighty! Chill.

[Kid Presentable]

In my current situation I'm semi-attached so I probably wouldn't hit it but if I were single yeah I'd spend at least the next 2 or 3 weeks teaching her all sorts of stuff.
Like how to calculate a hypotenuse? I'm confused, and generally unsure of what you mean.

[camo]

Doubtful....there's probably a line of dudes just waiting for their chance to exploit her.

Yep there is. If you saw her you would understand that too.

[Kid Presentable]

Yep there is. If you saw her you would understand that too.
Unless they were lined up for the Wii.

[camo]

Unless they were lined up for the Wii.

Dammit I didn't know about that. Is she a distributor of them?

[Loppfessor]

Yep there is. If you saw her you would understand that too.


Umm that doesn't help your case any mister...if she's as fine as you're making her out to be then I'm even more disappointed you didn't get your freak on