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na§tee
12-20-2006, 06:21 AM
ooohhh, when you were young! life was so simple. when you were sick you got covered in vick's vaporub and stayed off school. you watched teenage mutant hero turtles all day and it was acceptable to go into crying fits of rage and wack your brother round the head with a spade (sort of).

flying was a breeze! i mean, what's not to love? massive speeds down runways, that "ooooh!" feeling in your tummy when it takes off, awesome colouring books from the stewardesses and yummy airline food. (actually, i suffered from extremely severe earpain during descent because it takes much longer and spent most of these journeys crying and crying and crying in pain but still). children are FEARLESS.

but maaaan, now? now i am scared as hell of flying. not so much that i would never considering going on a plane, but enough to make me massively uncomfortable and full of fear that IF THIS PLANE GETS IN TROUBLE, I AM DYING FO SHO YO!

i think it may stem from my flatmate's addiction to air crash investigation (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Air_Crash_Investigation) (mayday in canada). i've seriously seen every single episode. like someone who is scared of sharks and spiders i am fascinated by watching programmes where your fears are MANIFEST and things go horribly, horribly wrong.

also, i live just a few miles from where this man (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abdelbaset_ali_Mohmed_al-Megrahi) is serving a life sentence for the lockerbie disaster. go team!

when we went to paris i had two pints of cider at 6am before i got on the plane. airport alcohol FTW! ranald is admittedly equally as scared as i am but when the plane is taking off i normally just press the magazine into my face and repeat something along the lines of "OMGOMGOMGOMGOMG" manically into the fold.

when we're cruising, it's fine. it's taking off that is the bad part. according to my research, 80% of plane crashes occur shortly before, after or during takeoff or landing. it's not that i think the pilots aren't skilled people or the people who check-the-runway-for-teeny-pieces-of-debris-that-might-hinder-the-plane aren't doing their jobs properly, it's those little things we can't predict like weather or, uh, other things. other planes, too. have you seen all the planes queuing up to land when they're in the sky? crazy, man, crazy. also, i seen that aircrash investigation of the Überlingen (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bashkirian_Airlines_Flight_2937) mid-air collision and all the cherub-cheeked russian schoolchildren! seriously, what are the chances?! the amount of fucking sky ABOVE, BELOW, LEFT and RIGHT and you find another plane? jesus h christ.

if i can choose the seat to sit in i will always pick one which is at the intersection of the wings because i believe that is the strongest area and most people have a record of living if they are positioned thus.

if this fails, i choose to sit as close to a child as possible. fo' realz. because, like we were when we were younger, they are so chilled and relaxed and giggly (or crying if they're babies). also, i think god would never be so cruel to kill an innocent child so, hell, i'm saved! (of course, we all know god has killed numerous innocent babies and more russian schoolchildren but i'm not countin'..)

i don't like people who don't listen to the stewardesses during their safety demonstrations. i've heard it 100 times but i'm seriously like the geek student in class just nodding encouragement and counting the number of rows to the nearest emergency exit.

i totally LOL at the "landing on water" thing though. haha! landing on water! i don't know if that has ever in the history of aviation succeeded. according to my research, this is true! (i have a lot of spare time at work today, kids) in the economist they say that "in the history of aviation the number of wide-bodied aircraft that have made successful landings on water is zero" and "so the life jackets.. have little purpose other than to make passengers feel better". also, i have seen the images of ethiopian airlines flight 961 (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ethiopian_Airlines_Flight_961) crashing into the water many, many times. i few survived there, though, because it was a narrow-bodied jet. but many inflated their life vests before exiting and drowned. god. how shitty is that? shitty.

yes, we are a household of voyeurs. we're sick. SICK.

anyway, i made this thread because i had some time to kill and i am flying to bristol to see my mommy tomorrow. i was just wondering if i'm alone here.

does anyone else have any flying fear? do you, too, cling to the integrity of innocent children? tell me. share. bobby, tell me everything will be alright. i am unaware of exactly what you do at the airport but i'm sure you know your stuff. i know it sounds silly but i'm in a metal can thousands of feet above the ground. it goes against all natural laws! ARGGHHH!

trailerprincess
12-20-2006, 06:35 AM
I love flying and find it one of the most pleasurable things in the world.

Though I too am bewildered by the amount of detail they go into when describing the safety procedures for landing on water, there really is no point.

Pres Zount
12-20-2006, 06:35 AM
Thanks for all the handy links, nastee, made me feel much better!

Susan loves all those airline disaster shows, and she too is scared of flying. When we went to see the beastie boys in melbourne and sydney that one time, we had been steadily cruising throught the air for AGES and my mind started to wander about how planes crash and all those things. So I tell Susan what I'm thinking and this freaks her out even more. "JOE, SHUT UP! Jesus."

When the plane begins it's descent, I casually look out the window and say "ooh, look; the plane is going down." Susan thinks that the plane is actually going down as in crashing. Hilarity ensues! AHAHA!

na§tee
12-20-2006, 06:42 AM
you know, i'm here to entertain and inform! the linkage is my way of giving back for all that have supported me over the years.

another thing which scares me is just the total normality of flying nowadays. it's nothing special. it's almost like getting a taxi. and the frequency of planes is just incredible! it's just.. uh.. i don't know.

because you heart the links, one of my favourite air crash investigations was the aeroflot flight 593 (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aeroflot_Flight_593) one with the CHILD who took the controls! the computer simulation of the downfall of this flight was fucking crazy - dipping and diving and doing hula hoops and agh, crazy.

Pres Zount
12-20-2006, 06:56 AM
Anything called aeroflot is bound to crash sooner or later. Children fly them all the time.

Aeroflot has a nice logo. I would have made the word "logo" into a link, but I don't know how. So here is a not so handy link http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/39156000/jpg/_39156607_aerologo203.jpg :<

jackrock
12-20-2006, 07:07 AM
My mom just became a flight attendant a week ago, I like reading her manual and books.

If you two watch those airplane disaster shows so much, do you know about the one where the pilot got sucked out of the cockpit and was hanging half in the plane, half out? If not, sorry to put that image in your head.

Whats up with the "teenage mutant hero turtles"?!!

Freebasser
12-20-2006, 07:09 AM
I've heard of that one. He survived but was stuck halfway through the window at like 10,000 feet :( :( :( :/


Whats up with the "teenage mutant hero turtles"?!!

People thought kids in the UK would try to pull off crazy ninja shit on each other and possibly kill each other, so they changed 'ninja' to 'hero' and redid the song. LOLZ!

Pres Zount
12-20-2006, 07:13 AM
Crazy hero shit is not nearly as bad. Well done UK.

na§tee
12-20-2006, 09:36 AM
yeah, ninja was too ghetto for the british audiences so we're all heroes roooond here.

and yes, i've seen that air crash investigation with the pilot hanging out of the window! (i wasn't lying when i said i saw them all!) crazy! it must of been sooooo so cold. good job for that guy hanging on to him, though. what a, er.. hero!

TAL
12-20-2006, 10:27 AM
I have the book (http://www.amazon.com/Fear-Flying-Erica-Jong/dp/0451209435/sr=1-4/qid=1166629118/ref=sr_1_4/105-3935053-6038051?ie=UTF8&s=books), and I also enjoy flying.

Dr Deaf
12-20-2006, 10:27 AM
na§tee, you make for good internets.


here in the good ol' us of a i think the programme is called "seconds from disaster." i've watched a lot of them. my favorite (is that morbid, to have a favourite airline disaster?) would have to be the air aloha flt 243 (http://www.aloha.net/~icarus/) boeing 737 with the roof peeled back due to extreme fuselage fatigue.

only one fatality, a flight attendant that got sucked out. the crew landed the airplane safely and the all remaining souls on board survived.

personally, i'm not afraid of flying at all. i figure if its my time to go, so be it. like you, i also choose a seat over the wings and preferably at an exit row. exit rows have more leg room and more importantly in the unlikely event of an emergency i know i'd be able to perform the duties required of me in a calm professional manner.

i also listen attentively during the safety demonstration because its the polite thing to do. i usually travel non-rev, so i also x-cross my seat belts and make sure any debris is removed from the seat back pockets prior to disembarking.

i love everything about the flying experience. even all the BS at TSA lines and / or customs. i don't take it personal if i get SSSS'd and have to go to a secondary inspection station. i know i'm 2 legit 2 quit and i'll soon be on my way.

of the 20+ flights i've taken, 19 of them have been by myself.

:cool:

Lex Diamonds
12-20-2006, 10:29 AM
according to my research, 80% of plane crashes occur before, after or during takeoff or landing.
HOLY SHIT NO WAY! GIVE THIS WOMAN A NOBEL PRIZE! [/insensitive sarcasm]

monkey
12-20-2006, 10:39 AM
i love flying. i wanna be a pilot (i think i cant though. someone told me my eyesight thing was an issue.*cry*). whenever im in a plane, i like to look out the window and watch all the tiny things and then i start on that whole "we're just atoms, stuck together in the form of objects..." then i listen to some music and enjoy my flight. :)

na§tee
12-20-2006, 10:44 AM
padster, fuck you.

bobby, thanks so much! make for good internets, haha. w3rd. :cool:

oh yah, that aloha flight was pretty ker-azy. that musta took some skill. and the people on land did a great job at helping them, too. nuff respect. wear your seatbelt, kids.

when we were flying to paris we had to stop in birmingham for refuelling etc but got back on the same plane, and this old lady in front of us was moaning like a motherfucker about having to go through security again - "how RIDICULOUS! we're going on the same plane and i have to take my shoes off AGAIN and get my bag scanned again! what do you people need?! i think it's.." and the security guy was just like "i don't care for your opinions, maam. give me your shoes". when i stepped up i was just like "OMG i don't care if you have to make me do this ten times, as long as i'm safe.." and he was very happy he was appreciated.

yeah. respect to the stewardesses and security staff and what not (y)

edit: pauli, you dork! :cool:

fucktopgirl
12-20-2006, 11:48 AM
I have no fear of flying, i quite enjoy it! And if while flying , shit hit the fan and we are going down. Oh well.....

Drederick Tatum
12-20-2006, 02:28 PM
anyone who enjoys flying has probably been in a plane twice in their entire life. flying is possibly the most boring thing in the world and I for one can't wait for teleportation. my friends at the university of cool stuff tell me that isn't going to happen very soon, so I have to stick with hitting the diazepam. in conclusion, flying sucks.

QueenAdrock
12-20-2006, 02:44 PM
Well when you think of it, statistically there are more deaths from car crashes than flying. But most people aren't afraid to go out in their car, though some jerkass may come flyin' outta nowhere and slam into the driver's side door. I think it's the fact that it's out of your hands/control that it's more scary. But statistically, it should be LESS scary.

fucktopgirl
12-20-2006, 03:04 PM
anyone who enjoys flying has probably been in a plane twice in their entire life. flying is possibly the most boring thing in the world and I for one can't wait for teleportation.

I fly more then twice and i always like it, the view you can have above the clouds is priceless!!

But i would choose teletransportation anytime, I'v been waiting for age to the teletransporter ! It would be a fucking blessing from the god! But really , will we ever witness it ? I think we will see chicken with theeth before!



my friends at the university of cool stuf tell me that isn't going to happen very soon, so I have to stick with hitting the diazepam. in conclusion, flying sucks.

What is this university of "cool stuff"?

monkey
12-20-2006, 03:22 PM
edit: pauli, you dork! :cool:


i love that you edited to say that. hehehehehe. :p (i like seeing the atoms. it's very special to me.)

Drederick Tatum
12-20-2006, 03:25 PM
the university of cool stuff is where people go to learn about things like, T Rexs, penis in vagina, hoverboards, lasers and teleportation.

Lex Diamonds
12-21-2006, 05:19 AM
I fly more then twice and i always like it, the view you can have above the clouds is priceless!!

But i would choose teletransportation anytime, I'v been waiting for age to the teletransporter ! It would be a fucking blessing from the god! But really , will we ever witness it ? I think we will see chicken with theeth before!





What is this university of "cool stuff"?
For some reason I didn't look at the avatar properly and thought this was a post by Drederick. I was about to commend him on his hilarious impression of a foreigner. :D(y)

ms.peachy
12-22-2006, 04:17 PM
Having just gotten in this morning after an 8 hour flight from Orlando, I can safely say, I hate flying. But I do it all the time, because it the only way to get places, I want to get places. But I do spend pretty much every minute in the air wondering if I am about to plunge to a fiery painful death the very next moment. It's one of my least favourite things about myself actually, this flying anxiety. But the alternative is to not go anywhere, and that's just not acceptable.

marsdaddy
12-22-2006, 04:41 PM
After almost dying from a clot in my liver, I realize there are many things over which we have no control, that might kill us. On the one hand you have the QAR response about more likely getting into a car accident -- although most people survive car crashes. If the plane goes down, chances are you're done for. On the other hand, is getting around the world in a day verses taking a slow boat to China, or the UK, or Orlando (!) worth the remote chance you might die?

Besides traveling for my job the past 15 years, I also live in Earthquake country. I decided long ago that if it's my time to go, I'll enjoy that last ride.

ggirlballa
12-22-2006, 05:00 PM
am i the only one who actually likes it when turbulance starts? last time i was in a plane it was a flight to mexico city & when the we started experiencing turbulance my mom started praying & getting scared & me & my brother were all "weee! this is fun!"

TAL
12-22-2006, 06:58 PM
Having just gotten in this morning after an 8 hour flight from Orlando, I can safely say, I hate flying. But I do it all the time, because it the only way to get places, I want to get places. But I do spend pretty much every minute in the air wondering if I am about to plunge to a fiery painful death the very next moment. It's one of my least favourite things about myself actually, this flying anxiety. But the alternative is to not go anywhere, and that's just not acceptable.
Yay, you made it. I was wondering about the fog.

ms.peachy
12-23-2006, 04:26 AM
I flew into Gatwick, which hasn't been so badly affected. Thankfully.

Big Gus
12-23-2006, 04:32 AM
I fly at least 2-3 times a year and always enjoy it. I dont do long haul flights though usually just an hour or so to Europe.

Flying rocks. I love the "taxi-ing/take off" part.