oh damn it.

[beastieangel01]

so I went over to my friends house, friend/boss, we'll call him James. It was a surprise celebration about his engagement to his woman which was very nice. We also played Wii (my first time) and it was SO FUN I was DYING of laughter when I tried to do the practice dodging for boxing! I was laughing so hard I was crying and couldn't stand, I curled in to a ball on the floor because I couldn't stop cracking up. And it seems that I am a pro-golfer too.

anyway, sorry I got distracted by Wii. My point is, James, had his friends over including his best friend, we'll call him Clyde (haha) who I've hung out around once before at a party a few weeks ago. He hit on me then though I ignored his advances. Clyde hit on me again last night and I allowed it. I don't know. I think I was just kind of lonely and he was nice enough so I was a flirt and yeah whatever we were together all night.

But really, I didn't think about possible consequences. Like, say, the fact that he's BEST FRIENDS with my boss James.

This has potential to be bad doesn't it? That and I'm almost positive my co-worker, we'll call him Clint, likes me. He's always very outgoing, loud, and then jokes with me constantly but last night he was dead silent when Clyde showed up and was chatting me up. Clint and James are also very close friends too.

I feel like sarky right now talking about the menz.

THESE ARE THE DAYS OF OUR LIVES.

[Helvete]

Yeah.

[DandyFop]

I...feel....bad...for you? :confused:

[The Notorious LOL]

I thought you worked with fags?

[icy manipulator]

this thread sounds like it was started by a 16 year old

[ericlee]

this thread sounds like it was started by a 16 year old

nah, if that was the case it would be spelled the way I spell it. Oh dammit.

[beastieangel01]

this thread sounds like it was started by a 16 year old

believe me. I know.

[monkey]

so little crystal, so many men. hehehehhee. ummm... date them all discreetly, let them down gently as you discover who sucks the most.

[beastieangel01]

ahaha @ who sucks the most.

Yeah I don't know. It's weird having this happen especially after uh, well lots of stuff. I just felt silly about talking to the best friend of my boss. Wasn't using my best judgment there.

[SobaViolence]

ladies be pimps too.

play on, playa.

[beastieangel01]

how has this become my life.

probably because I never got to/wasn't allowed live out my life like a 17 year old until now.

like most things, this shall pass.

[HEIRESS]

both of my coworker makeout partners car-pooled down to the coast together to visit their families on remote coastal islands this holiday week

Im not scared that either would confess to the other about their conquests because I definately threatened to rip their balls of if either even alluded to another living soul about any tryst with me

and both have drunk dialed me this evening already

YUSSSSSSSSSSSSS

it will all dismantle infront of my eyes sometime in the new year, but for now its good enough

[The Notorious LOL]

both of my coworker makeout partners car-pooled down to the coast together to visit their families on remote coastal islands this holiday week

Im not scared that either would confess to the other about their conquests because I definately threatened to rip their balls of if either even alluded to another living soul about any tryst with me

and both have drunk dialed me this evening already

YUSSSSSSSSSSSSS

it will all dismantle infront of my eyes sometime in the new year, but for now its good enough



assuming they are friends, they'll talk. Sorry.

[befsquire]

crystal, it sounds like you were doing charity work. see if your boss gives a bonus for pro bono type stuff, and then submit your time with clyde.

[steve-onpoint]

THESE ARE THE DAYS OF OUR LIVES.

B-b-bone, B-b-bone, B-b-bone, B-b-bone, B-b-bone.
Bone, bone. Bone, bone. Bone, bone.

Now come into my world. And you can see that we are more than thugs. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=okUN3sv8KCQ)

Oh yeah. And good luck, C. :o

[Dorothy Wood]

my ex was telling me to come out tonight so I could make out with the ex-drummer of the ex-band we used to be in two years ago that broke up after we broke up and the drummer moved to colorado. apparently he's had a 3 year long crush on me, but the ex called dibs.

something creepy about your ex trying to fix you up.

I'm laying low for awhile with men. I really freaked myself after sleeping with two of my friends within a week's time. I was like, "fuck, I'd have to go on Maury with this shit if I got pregnant." how fucking gross is that? I mean, like, "uhh, hey, I'm pregnant, but I got no idea who the father is!" :( (btw, we were safe, I just get paranoid).

so, yeah, uhh, I forgot my point. ha ha. you should do what pauli say.

[beastieangel01]

heiress,
what NLOL said is true. Dangerous ground you are treading on. Even if you aren't officially with either of them, it never ends good. People get their feelings hurt, and get pissed, and well. Yeah. Be careful ok? Seriously.

mrs sarky,
yeah I've been there once. And those were my exact thoughts as well.

I wanted to add too: that man I said I really liked, I still have been unable to talk to him about things due to many various circumstances. Hence other things are kind of happening I suppose. I don't know. Even though he is busy and all that I haven't really heard from him in a week and I called in between that time and even called again to say Merry Christmas. Haven't heard a peep.

I think I'm going to be really bummed out if I don't even get as little as a text back or email with a few words in it today.

[HEIRESS]

remind me to not invite my ex boyfriend over for a snowy winter afternoon sweatpants/movies/scrabble party ever again because one thing always leads to another

why do I torture myself :(

[Helvete]

why do I torture myself :(
This must be a rhetorical question because I'm very sure you really don't need us to answer this.

[kll]

how has this become my life.

probably because I never got to/wasn't allowed live out my life like a 17 year old until now.

like most things, this shall pass.

if you are prone to this type of drama, it will take you through life from high school to the old folks home...

[beastieangel01]

if you are prone to this type of drama, it will take you through life from high school to the old folks home...

not really prone. Just haven't been single more than a month since, age 15? I believe it was.

This is new for me. Fortunately, no drama started, the potential was there. Peope are behaving like adults though about it so it works out.

[HEIRESS]

I have received far too many drunken excessively emotional texts in the past few days

far, far too many

bahhhh

[monkey]

im gonna send you a drunken text message one of these days. and the emotion it will conjure up will be happiness. i promise.

[HEIRESS]

your xmas eve one did the trick, lemme tell yah!

[cookiepuss]

Sometimes you womens age 22-27 make me feel like an old whore. I read your "days of our lives stories" and I've generally got a story or two of my own that is fairly similar. I think that pretty much most of the "love/relationship" nutzyness you are expereinceing now is pretty normal for your age group. you get invoved with people you shouldn't, or you get involved with too many people, whatever. it happens. this is how you learn about your relationship style, what you need what you don't need, etc. just make sure you're having fun (safe fun) while doing it. If you're not having fun then you really are wasting your time.