workplace bullying lol

[zorra_chiflada]

i work at two different locations - the same business (a franchise type thing)
the girl in charge of one of them has been a nasty piece of shit to me since day one. i never did a thing to her. at all. turns out she's been making shit up about me and talking to the general manager, trying to get me fired. well, i suppose it worked, because i don't work at that venue anymore. i'm just so upset and angry at the same time, that she just chose to pick on me and make up some lame excuse to get me into trouble. they have a new girl in there, who has been there for 2 days and they were all buddy buddy, while she barked orders at me to stay in the back room and mop the floor
i had told the manager previously about how i was having a hard time there because of how she treated me, and she just said "well i can't do anything about it, i can't force people to like each other." but it's not about that, it's about acting in a professional manner and not trying to get people fired and giving them the shittest jobs just because you don't like the look of them.
i guess there must be something wrong with me that makes people instantly hate me before i even open my mouth.

i think i'm gonna quit altogether.

anyway, share your stories of workplace bullying so i don't feel so bad.

[TurdBerglar]

lock her in a kennel and douse her with flea dip

[zorra_chiflada]

lock her in a kennel and douse her with flea dip

yeah!

you're a workplace bully! tell everyone about how you got a guy fired just by asking the manager to fire him.

[TurdBerglar]

that doesn't make me a bully.

throwing a bucket over jeremy's head and then shoving him into a stack of about thirty milk crates then getting everyone to pummel him with cardboard tubes used to hold up signs for the coke dispays as he makes his way out from the pile of crates makes me a bully.

[zorra_chiflada]

christ. what is wrong with you people?

[TurdBerglar]

is it considered bullying when we're all having fun?

[zorra_chiflada]

is it considered bullying when we're all having fun?

even the person being bullied?

[TurdBerglar]

he threw a wad of raw pilsburry biscuit doe at my cock! it hit me so hard i almost puked! it made that same sound when you cup your hands and clap. that real loud WHOMPAA!

[zorra_chiflada]

ok, that's funny.

[drizl]

i use to work at a jimmy johns, as a bike deliver on my old campus- i use to love that job, just flew around campus on my bike, delivering sandwiches and doing kegstands and bongrips while getting pretty good tips. anywho...
i began to get flack from this frat boy bonehead who was dating the manager of the store. he was always talking shit, always trying to be the illest mofo on the planet, talking about how cool his new air pump (penis pump) for his bike was. anywho....
i would get hungry and hated the sandwiches there. so id go get thai food and bring it in and take a break. one day, this bastard was giving me lip telling me i couldnt take my lunch break yet. i hadnt eaten all day and had no energy to ride, so i had to.
so i took it anyways, it was slow, no deliveries, so i had nothing to do anyway. when i came back, he grabbed my food (delicious fried rice doused in sriracha) and took it to the back. i sat there and laughed and told him to fuck off in front of a few customers who were eating (they were college kids).
he flew out from the back of the store and told me to start cleaning the bathroom. i laughed again and said thats not my job, im a deliverer. he got super red in the face and told me to step outside....i thought he wanted to fight me!

so i went outside with this sonofabitch and he started yelling at me. i remained calm- not hard to do when you have a big ogre totally overreacting on your ass. that just made him more pissed, then i started laughing again, and he stormed inside and called his girlfriend, the boss. what a pathetic pussy.

she came into the store, as i continued to refuse to clean the bathroom. jeremy, yes, that is his real name, continued to try and tell me what to do, trying to be the boss in front of his girlfriend (who was cool), and she looked at me and told me to go home for the day. i said sure.

so i came back to work the following day. it was a friday night and they were slammed with deliveries. i went to go get food without asking, brought it back and ate. asshead got all pissed, hadnt said a word to me all night, and then started shouting at me to get out of here. i yelled back, in front of a store full of kids, FUCK YOU IM OUT! I QUIT! and then pulled down my pants and mooned him in front of everyone. i then took my drink and threw it over the sandwich making area and it splashed all over the wall. then i road off and got hammered.

i later found out that in addition to not having a bike deliverer, which severely put a hault on deliveries around campus (bike deliverers are ten times faster than cars on campus) which gave the manager very little in commission, i come to find that someone shit on the floor in the girls bathroom and no one would clean it up, so he had to, and then someone tore the sink basin out of the wall in the mens bathroom and left it cracked on the floor. someone also ripped some signs off the wall, which was standard weekend bullshit.

i must say, i felt so happy to hear this douchebags weekend was hell. i tried to get rehired a year later, but manager wouldnt let me. i was told i wasnt allowed in the store anymore. i think they thought i shit on the floor.

[JobDDT]

ok, that's funny.

If you were a dude, you wouldn't find that funny.

(n)

[zorra_chiflada]

if you knew turd, you would know that he deserves it

[TOY]

I love my job, then I hate, then I go back to loving it, and at this very moment I hate it again. No turning back, now. I fucking HATE it. Not the work, but the people.

I wouldn't exactly call it "bullying lol", but close enough...

I work with the most shallow, vain TWAT you could only imagine. And yes, I would normally become overly jealous of a girl making it to the top because of her looks, but.. She's.. Trailer park pretty. Not even blonde, mallrat pretty. No. Trailer park. And she enters 'local' (ooh, ahh - holy FUCK that's big) modeling competitions, LIES and says she's posing for Maxim next month (yeah, okay dumb bitch). We HATE each other, because one I day I went on this long rant on how runway models have to meet certain, uh, criteria and in a nutshell, told this girl she's not runway material. That's her DREEEAM! To be a RUNWAY MODEL while she strolls along down with her bastard child in hand.

Anyway, I strongly dislike her because of the fact she puts out 'the goods', and one of my team leads enjoys this because he isn't getting any from his fat girlfriend at home, whom, he fights with constantly over the phone when I stay late. SO TODAY, he had MISS AMERICA/MAXIM MODEL assign me HER work, and then, purposefully, says to her while looking at ME "I assigned you this because unlike SOME people, you don't have a low quality score."

Fuck YOU, you stupid fat fuck. ARGH! It makes me so angry. He's so rude to me all of the time, and I haven't done a damn thing. If I have a low quality score, fucking ADDRESS it with me rather than acting like a conniving prick because you wouldn't mind a high dose of HPV. Cunt.

[JobDDT]

Low score at what? Donkey Kong?

[ET]

Why do you want to work with these people? Anyway, you're going to have to fight back. You don't have to do it physically, a verbal spar is more than enough sometimes. Just don't curse and always state your case clearly. That way they don't have a reason to fire you. Like swearing in front of clients or threatening physical violence, for example. And don't do the shitty work unless you have to. If it's policy to have another staff member/co-worker rotate on, let's say cleaning up shit or something, then make your case and refuse to do it.

Maybe you really enjoy your job but this sounds like you might want to look elsewhere until there's new management. I guess because I'm male and I can be an ass the above has worked for me numerous times.

[TOY]

Low score at what? Donkey Kong?

Little douchey, be quiet.

*kiss*

[JobDDT]

I'm for real. What did you score low at?

[cosmo105]

i get along with everyone at my workplace except for one woman. i'll be blunt - she's a bitch to me. she seems to get off on it. i'm really nice to pretty much everyone there because i genuinely like them all. it's a great environment. but she's on this seniority power trip...and since the first day i met her, when i made a mistake (not a huge one, but apparently a customer yelled at her about it), before even introducing herself to me she screamed at me about it. and then as i was walking back into the room in which I work, i hear her in there talking to someone else about how i screwed up. and as i walk up and give my best shit-eating smile, she hushes up reaaaal quick. it's been like that since then.
ugh, last week i did this big organizing project to make a quicker, more organized system that apparently she is resistant to (keep in mind she's not my superior or anything), and when i was telling her about it and how it would change things, ohh she let me know she did not like it. and i quote: (with an exaggerated shrug and very sarcastic tone) whatever you say jessica, after all, you're the boss.
she's always sitting in my room talking on her cell, or standing right outside talking on it when i'm in there and she's about to clock in or something. (the time clock's right outside it). she just seems to like to dig her heels into people.
i honestly don't know what her deal is. i sort of think that she resents that i get along with some people (the guys especially) better than she does, or that she's on a power trip and likes to feel big (the most likely sitch). but i refuse to play into that crap. i just act extra polite and smiley to her and don't joke around with her at all the way i do with everyone else. next week is review time, and i'm bringing it up. so ridiculous, and such a waste of my time and energy.

[zorra_chiflada]

most of the other people at the workplaces were pretty cold at first, but most of them became ok. as far as i know, none of them have been making up shit about me and telling on the manager in an effort to get me fired. this bitch is a real piece of bogan trash too. i'm surprised she even has a job.

[cosmo105]

no one deserves to be treated like that, and if you bring it up to your superiors and they don't address the problem, find another job. easier said than done, i know, but it's true.

[zorra_chiflada]

no one deserves to be treated like that, and if you bring it up to your superiors and they don't address the problem, find another job. easier said than done, i know, but it's true.

yeah, i am furious with how the manager dealt with the problem, acting like we just don't like each other. i really like the job too, that's the thing.
fuck.
it's just making me so upset that she would make up lies about me. why the fuck would someone do that?

[TurdBerglar]

maybe she needs her dingleberries clipped

[Otis Driftwood]

i later found out that in addition to not having a bike deliverer, which severely put a hault on deliveries around campus (bike deliverers are ten times faster than cars on campus) which gave the manager very little in commission, i come to find that someone shit on the floor in the girls bathroom and no one would clean it up, so he had to, and then someone tore the sink basin out of the wall in the mens bathroom and left it cracked on the floor. someone also ripped some signs off the wall, which was standard weekend bullshit.
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Some girl and someone? :p Sure, pal, someone! :cool:

[Audio.]

i think i'm gonna quit altogether.

anyway, share your stories of workplace bullying so i don't feel so bad.

sorry to hear that. hope I don't get someone like that when I get a job.

well, I had family that come home bitching about some asshole at work before. I can tell you that. My dad always brings chicken for lunch. One day my father was at work on his lunch break...he accidently eaten somebody's chicken and shared it with the rest of his compadres. Well later that guy came by pushing my dad while my dad was confused about him. the dude was all flipping, acting crazy, and pushing about his lunch and then my dad realized what he had done and tried to pay him back the money but the guy was all stubborn so the both of them had to do a written report for causing a scene and breaking some violations. haha

My dad also got in fight once with a lesbian security guard. oh and me mom's ex-boss gambled his company and lost. which caused my mom to lose her job. but she working at real estastes now so its all good. haha my dad can be sometimes a retard.

[Audio.]

most of the other people at the workplaces were pretty cold at first, but most of them became ok. as far as i know, none of them have been making up shit about me and telling on the manager in an effort to get me fired. this bitch is a real piece of bogan trash too. i'm surprised she even has a job.
I also read that women are very hard on each other for some reasons...it just fucking stupid how she acted all bitchy

[Junker]

I never had problems with bullying. Sorry :o

[kll]

You may want to re-evaluate how you are upon first impression. If people dislike you immediately and it's a common problem and not just with these idiots at your current workplace, maybe you come off as standoffish or cold. You are young and probably haven't had to think about this much, but if you are aware of how you present yourself that first meeting, it may improve your future work environments.

[QueenAdrock]

My coworker now used to be a real dick to me, because I asked a LOT of questions when I first was hired. It's how I am, I want to do a good job so I ask a lot, and sometimes will ask a second time to make sure I've got the right answer. She lost her patience with me a lot and made it a terrible place to work.

However, I have since moved desks and am right next to her as opposed to across from the room so she's actually gotten to know me and now we're actually pretty good friends. I went to her place for Thanksgiving this year.

Some people just take some work. Others are just dicks. Sounds like your person was a dick and a half, fuck her.

[beastieangel01]

the first place I worked at when I moved to DC was pretty cool. I got along instantly with everyone except one girl, even though I'd be friendly with her, would give me the cold shoulder all the time. She was always very rude to me. Especially when I'd be hanging out with a particular group of co-workers; the boys. We'd be hanging out playing some video game or whatever and she'd come up and be as bitchy to me as possible.

Anyway, one day I broke my hand and I kept coming in to work super early and staying late (talking 16 hour days here). I am upset because I had no insurance and I was doing data entry so my right hand being in a cast was a bit frustrating. We were on a deadline that week, but then my Mom happened to call and it was in regards to insurance so I took it. I was already staying 16 hours a day anyway so I didn't think it'd be a big deal to be on the phone for a little bit discussing what to do in regards to my situation.

I guess she came up to ask me a question and when she saw that I was on the phone she went straight to our supervisor and complained as much as possible that "Crystal is on the phone just chit chatting while here I am working hard trying to meet this deadline" (um, she'd leave everyday 10 minutes before she was supposed to meanwhile hi I'm doing 16 hour days to make up for the slow typing AND THEN SOME).

So the boss pulled me in to his office and said there is a complaint that I'm on the phone all the time, this and that. I used that phone RARELY and that was the FIRST time I had even a slight conversation on it.

Stupid bitch got me in trouble and that just escalated further and it was I either quit or I get canned so I quit.

Fucking whore.

sorry, still bitter. :o

[QueenAdrock]

Jealous bitches need to step off mang.

[beastieangel01]

I'm sayin.

She was always invited to hang out too. And argh I can't believe how mean to me she was I never did anything to her I was ALWAYS nice and I remember once, when I first started, she needed help with something in her personal life and I knew what to do so I told her and she had this look of shock on her face, as if she didn't think I of all people would bother helping her.

Stupid bitch.

wee, sorry, that phrase keeps coming out in regards to her :D

[Junker]

Women are mean.

[zorra_chiflada]

I'm sayin.

She was always invited to hang out too. And argh I can't believe how mean to me she was I never did anything to her I was ALWAYS nice and I remember once, when I first started, she needed help with something in her personal life and I knew what to do so I told her and she had this look of shock on her face, as if she didn't think I of all people would bother helping her.

Stupid bitch.

wee, sorry, that phrase keeps coming out in regards to her :D


she sounds a lot like the bitch i've had to deal with. well, at least i don't have to work there anymore. i'm gonna talk to the woman in charge at this venue and see what she has to say about things.

[ggirlballa]

just remember about "Karma" she'll probally end up having some terrible & ironic shit happened to her for the things she did to you.

[ggirlballa]

yeah, a few years back, I was surprised that alot of people (not in the workplace, but just in general) were under the impression that I was an ice queen, a real snob.
I'm actually a really friendly person...so hearing that made me think a bit. I realised i'd been making a little scowl-y face, without meaning to, when I met new people. I just made a more concious effort to smile more and now it's kinda involuntary.
People now comment on how happy I seem :) and I generally enjoy better relationships now, cause they get off on the right foot.

But she sounds like a right bitch anyhow.

same thing here i remember asking my friend her first impression of me & she said i looked like a really bitchy person cuz i never would smile & now i look like a cheerful person cuz all i do is smile & she would go "what the hell are u so damn happy about?":)

[Kid Presentable]

Hey zorra, paff her out on Gears.

[DipDipDive]

I don't fit in really well with the hens at my new job. They're by no means bullies, I just don't really click with them. Being comfortable in my work environment and getting along well with my coworkers is important to me, especially considering the fact that I spend a substantial portion of my time with them. I'm trying really hard not to care, but it's hard.