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Paul Kemp
01-26-2007, 11:17 PM
Why does the girl I love have to live on the other damn side of the planet right now? It's been 2 months and 3 weeks since I've last held her and it will be another 4 months before I see her again. And the 13 hour time difference is pissing me off because when I finish work she's starting, and vice versa so it's connecting on the phone or msn for any significant amount of time is near impossible. I was going to spend 3 months with her this summer but now because I'm being promoted at work I'm only allowed at the most 2 weeks off :( God dammit I miss sex!

Randetica
01-26-2007, 11:44 PM
know what you mean

long distance relationships are my death

theres atleast one guy who lives in america who i would marry without thinking about it for a second if there wasnt that huge distance

while english guys (who live way closer to me) are just a second choice lol

generalize much?

but for that it would be more realistic that things with them would work out
while americans are more my thing but i wouldnt want to move that far from my family

i want a bf more than anything else even when it's just an e-bf at first but im also scared to fall in love cause i always had to worry that he finds a "real" girl sooner or later

and it feels nice dreaming about the things we could do together but "waking up" and realizing that you would probably never meet each other hurts worse than a bad shit.. way worse

i wouldnt be up for that shit if i had no phobia cause it's a fucking torture

distance is my biggest enemy

oh internet i so fucking hate/love you

Pres Zount
01-27-2007, 12:01 AM
Just dump her.

Dorothy Wood
01-27-2007, 12:04 AM
move to where she is! it will be so romantic! do it!

hitmonlee
01-27-2007, 12:59 AM
i couldn't do it, unless i was engaged i guess. good luck to those who do, i respect you for being stronger people than i am. if i'm with someone, i can't spend time away from them...

Randetica
01-27-2007, 01:02 AM
move to where she is! it will be so romantic! do it!

dont think he could leave his shitty city

QueenAdrock
01-27-2007, 01:04 AM
Just know it won't be long distance forever. Look forward to the goal of moving to her/her moving to you.

I'm 2,000 miles from mine and it sucks, but I see him in 3 weeks...and then not again for another 3 months. But then I'm gonna move to Canadia to be near him, IF I get into the grad school there. It sucks, but it's worth it.

DandyFop
01-27-2007, 03:47 AM
Yeah I gave up on them after being in...well a few, in a row. The problem I realized is that all the communication/time is spent talking - there's none of that just sitting, or a long hug, or anything that doesn't involve speaking. So so much of the intimacy that doesn't necessarily involve the physical part, is absent. It's very hard to keep up, but kudos to those who can...

icy manipulator
01-27-2007, 06:52 AM
i couldn't do it, unless i was engaged i guess. good luck to those who do, i respect you for being stronger people than i am. if i'm with someone, i can't spend time away from them...
well in that case will you marry me? :p ;) it's only 5000k's!

Otis Driftwood
01-27-2007, 10:18 AM
Just dump her.
...after banging her best friend! :cool:

TAL
01-27-2007, 10:24 AM
How can it be more than a 12 hour time difference?

tracky
01-27-2007, 11:16 AM
0.......12.........24/0.........12..........24/0

............^13

TAL
01-27-2007, 11:31 AM
Isn't 13 hours just an 11 hour difference but the other way around the world?

tracky
01-27-2007, 11:36 AM
it can be i guess, just depends on how you want to look at it

semantics

Paul Kemp
01-27-2007, 09:04 PM
Isn't 13 hours just an 11 hour difference but the other way around the world?
not quite. Right now it's 10pm on Jan 27th. Where she is it's 11am on the 28th. If the earth suddenly started rotating in the opposite direction then it would only be an 11 hour difference.

-T-
01-27-2007, 09:20 PM
not quite. Right now it's 10pm on Jan 27th. Where she is it's 11am on the 28th. If the earth suddenly started rotating in the opposite direction then it would only be an 11 hour difference.

And we would all die.

Paul Kemp
01-27-2007, 11:14 PM
would we die or would time just go in reverse so we'd progressively get younger until we become unborn?

Randetica
01-27-2007, 11:43 PM
DIE!

befsquire
01-28-2007, 02:08 AM
oh, they suck. but they also make you appreciate your time together in a way that others will never experience. then again, too much time apart tends to make both people go crazy.

i only had to do it for a year, and that was the most torture i've ever had to endure, and we didn't have to spend as long apart are you're facing. move to where she is, or have her move to where you are. you can always find another job --can you find another true love?

cosmo105
01-28-2007, 02:09 AM
webcam!

befsquire
01-28-2007, 02:11 AM
phone cards!

Randetica
01-28-2007, 02:22 AM
i dont think that they are guys who would care enough to visit me while my dad is almost annoyed that guys come from all over the world just to visit him

but IT'S OK, im over the fact that my dad gets more cock than me..(less wouldnt be possible)