insecurity/anxiety

[hpdrifter]

I don't know what's wrong with me today. I feel so horrible. Scared, lonely, insecure. I feel like everyone in my life could just drop me and never talk to me again and not care. I don't know what to do, I am scared of all of my friends, I don't want to reach out to anyone because I am afraid of them leaving me. I am scared of my family, my boyfriend, everyone. I feel unsatisfied with everything and nothing I can think of makes me happy. What is happening to me? I don't know what to do, I'm shaking.

[abcdefz]

Best thing you could do is connect with somebody and just chill. Maybe you could find someone who wants to go out for coffee or take a walk or something.

[Tompz]

sounds pretty bad

often get this feeling?

[abcdefz]

People might advise you to talk this out with some friend or something, but I'd say don't, because it will keep you focused on yourself. You probably need to get out of your head. Maybe you could go to a church or a library or soup kitchen or whatever and ask for some volunteer work. Helping others not only helps others, but it often gives us perspective.

[cookiepuss]

I won't ever stop talking to you lady.;)

you should email me...like today, we'll chat.

[Johnny Railroad]

Vielleicht arbeitet dein Unbewußtes an einem Konflikt den du so offensichtlich nicht wahrnimmst und fühlst dich deswegen komisch ? geht mir manchmal so ..

Du solltest mit deinen Freunden darüber reden und nicht in nem Forum ?

[cookiepuss]

Does perhaps your unconscious not work so obviously perceive that at a conflict you and feel you therefore strangely? goes me sometimes so..

Should you speak with your friends about that and not in nem forum?


should you say this in english, not german, perhaps?:confused:

[MC Moot]

Hold tight friend,always darkest before the dawn,whatever gets you through the night and all that….abcdef made some really good suggestions…take comfort in the fact that what you’re experiencing is common to so many people……deep breathe,pray,stretch yourself out,have a good cry...if this thing persists maybe consult your physician...…..I sincerely wish you well....:)

[abcdefz]

should you say this in english, not german, perhaps?:confused:


I got:

Maybe your unconscious does not work on a conflict you so obviously perceives and does feel, so, funny? sometimes goes for me in such a way.

You should talk with your friends about it and not in nem forum

[cookiepuss]

I got:

Maybe your unconscious does not work on a conflict you so obviously perceives and does feel, so, funny? sometimes goes for me in such a way.

You should talk with your friends about it and not in nem forum


i used freetranslation.com. they aren't the best cause the free part is auto translated. but at least we get the jist (gist?) of it.

[abcdefz]

i used freetranslation.com. they aren't the best cause the free part is auto translated. but at least we get the jist (gist?) of it.


Mine was http://translation2.paralink.com/. Yeah -- "gist."

[Johnny Railroad]

I got:

Maybe your unconscious does not work on a conflict you so obviously perceives and does feel, so, funny? sometimes goes for me in such a way.

You should talk with your friends about it and not in nem forum

wow ... i thougt u will write just ...." weird foreigner "

so in this case i make a call, to a friend and give u the right translation

[abcdefz]

wow ... i thougt u will write just ...." weird foreigner "





:confused:

I'm not really like that. Maybe if I were joking in some context, like "Crazy Finn! LOL"

But... no.

[Johnny Railroad]

yes i didn`t mean you special , your cool ! (y)

[abcdefz]

Ah -- very good.

You may continue posting here, then. :D

[Johnny Railroad]

Thanks for this honour!

[cookiepuss]

yes i didn`t mean you special , your cool ! (y)

what I'm not cool?:mad: well actually im not.

no I'm just confused cause I usually see you respond in english and I know hpdrifter and she never mentioned being able to read other languages so I'm just ah...wondering what's up see.

[Johnny Railroad]

your cool too ! (y) :D

its not important which languange i use , u must read between the lines !

[hpdrifter]

I don't know what will help. Maybe nothing. Maybe I just need some sleep, I can't sleep and my stomach hurts and I have no appetite. I wish I could just hop a plane to Vegas or something. I think I get what Britney is going through.

[hpdrifter]

I could see getting a tattoo, though. I feel like I need to do something crazy (I would never shave my head). Something crazy enough to alter the course of my life or take me in a different direction since I don't seem to know how to get there on my own.

[Johnny Railroad]

hmm change the Job ? or shave your head ? oh thats a nischt nischt - I do it some times when something happens in my life or not happend ... smoke some Saint-John's-wort so u will calm down ..... so I had birthday this month and now I´m feeling so old and no perspective for a interesting carrer or something like that .... I sleep much and I feel always tired and smoke a lot and eat less than normal and have a bad stomache ..... i swear it is a little bit like u describe ur feeling .. but I have no resolution this

[cookiepuss]

if you feel the need to do something crazy then do it. but what is getting a tattoo going to solve?



it doesn't solve anything. that's not really the point. the point is more of picking something that symbolizes something to you and the pain of getting that mark. sometimes when you've lost your center and you're feeling numb the physical pain can help bring you back. it reminds you that you are alive and that you can endure pain and sometimes pain is better than feeling nothing. it has worked this way for me and for many other people I know who get tattooed. all my tattoos represent a certain period in my life and I like that. but if you're someone who has never wanted a tat and you go get one just because you wanna do something crazy then it's not a good idea to do it. but if you have always wanted one, then in times like this it can be theraputic.

[hpdrifter]

I already have several so getting a tattoo for me isn't a life altering thing. I have an outline that I may get colored in. Its something new I can enjoy about my body, taking care of it as it heals and watching it turn vivid is actually pretty therapeutic. It sort of reminds you how cool your own self is.

[cookiepuss]

Tattoo your anus.

yeah I'm sure she'll get "Gday Joel!" inked right on her butt button for there buddy.;)

[Otis Driftwood]

If I was you I'd be drunk already. Actually I am. Schnaps is good for getting rid of stomach pain.

[hardnox71]

I feel unsatisfied with everything and nothing I can think of makes me happy.
You sure this isn't depression? Have you been to see anyone about this?

Get it checked out, hp. It can't hurt.

[Lex Diamonds]

I get those feelings all the time, you just need to drink loads and take lots of drugs. (y)