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HotAndWet
03-13-2007, 09:43 PM
How often do you comment on the opposite sex to your partner? You know as if to say, "he/she is hot", etc.

QueenAdrock
03-13-2007, 09:49 PM
Enough to keep him on his toes. ;)

Actually, I say it about someone I see in passing very, very rarely. I'll say it about actors or whoever's on TV occasionally. Unless we're watching Indiana Jones, then I just short out the remote with my drool and I think he gets the jist.

cosmo105
03-13-2007, 09:50 PM
i'm allowed to jokingly say things about jake gyllenhaal and ewan mcgregor and ted leo but i would never say something like that about someone i actually know or something. every relationship's different, and some people don't mind that. but it would make me very uncomfortable if he said something along those lines, and i wouldn't feel right doing it to him either.

QueenAdrock
03-13-2007, 09:53 PM
^I didn't count friends. We talk about who's hot and who's not in our group of friends, but that's because we both know nothing will ever come of it. We got lots of trust, so if I say "Laura's hot, dude," and he agrees, I'm not gonna get jealous.

Drederick Tatum
03-13-2007, 09:55 PM
all the time. probably too much. but when it comes down to it, I'm only giving back massages to one girl.

Knuckles
03-13-2007, 11:26 PM
I'm too old and busy to notice good looking ladies. :(


















Actually I don't care. My wife is bee-ooo-tee-full with a nice little baby belly. :o

Dorothy Wood
03-13-2007, 11:29 PM
I've never really done that. I think it's rude. I don't do it around my guy friends either because they'll just make fun of me or try to talk to the guy and embarrass me.

drooling over celebrities is another thing though, that's just silly fun stuff.

na§tee
03-14-2007, 04:07 AM
i have a top 10 of celebrities-i'm-allowed-to-shag-should-we-ever-meet-in-real-life. i need to update it though.

funnily enough, i asked him who he has celebrity crushes on this weekend since he hasn't mentioned anyone apart from jet from gladiators since we met :rolleyes:

his list includes:
rachel weisz
eva mendez
salma hayek
rosario dawson
rachel fucking bilson

humm. i said "i see a curvy brunette girl thing (bar rachel) going on there" he said "you betcher, lady!" /grabs arse.

salma isn't answering my calls to get him off my hands. pft!

TOY
03-14-2007, 04:12 AM
Sometimes I'd rather he look in front of me, because then it wouldn't be such a secret.

Deep_Sea_Rain
03-14-2007, 04:18 AM
We're each very secure about this sort of thing....we regularly tell each other when we think another person is attractive. It's not a big deal really if your at a good place in your relationship...

With that being said, I've been known to make a comment or two just to get a reaction....which is usually a punch in the arm :)

DustSucker
03-14-2007, 06:44 AM
My girlfriend is always like "that guy's cute" and stuff when we're watching a movie together. When I say something like that she tries to hit me in the balls and get's all mad. After that she gets a little sad and realises she does the same thing, and then it's time for make up sex (y)

Otis Driftwood
03-14-2007, 07:13 AM
No, not jealous. She's just not hot. I give credit where credit is due.
If your bf is like most men, he'll not like what you like. But the pantsometer never lies. Sorry, your wrong. Unless you're a lesbian, 'cause then you got your own pantsometer.

monkey
03-14-2007, 10:36 AM
this is so embarrassing, but with every boyfriend, ive requested a free pass if any beastie boy came calling :o

cause they call oh so often :rolleyes:

abcdefz
03-14-2007, 10:45 AM
Unless we're watching Indiana Jones, then I just short out the remote with my drool and I think he gets the jist.




You've got this thing for Short Round that is just a mystery to me.

QueenAdrock
03-14-2007, 10:50 AM
He finally found time for love.

Echewta
03-14-2007, 11:10 AM
I've seen Jake here at work. He wasn't wearing a cowboy hat.

beastieangel01
03-14-2007, 11:10 AM
my boyfriend hasn't really said anything about other women.

I haven't really said anything about other men. Except, after seeing 300 I rented Phantom of the Opera. He asked me "what made you want to rent this?" and I said casually without thought "oh it's the same lead actor as in 300 playing the phantom."

"So THAT'S why you want to see it, uh huh" (not actually mad, just poking fun at me)

oops.:o

abcdefz
03-14-2007, 11:13 AM
"Tonight! we sing wobbly arias in hell!!!"

cookiepuss
03-14-2007, 11:24 AM
when we go out to dinner we usually talk about whether or not the waitresses are hot. Most of the time we have the same taste in womens.

I usually don't comment on guys in front of my guy. ( but then again I'm really not tointerested in other men cause I'm happy with the one I got) I'll only talk with him about women i think are hot.

beastieangel01
03-14-2007, 11:26 AM
"Tonight! we sing wobbly arias in hell!!!"

ahahaha

oh yeah I think we have something pretty much assumed between us. actors/actresses are pretty safe to talk about but people we are friends with/know/etc um, no. shh.

Lex Diamonds
03-14-2007, 12:26 PM
Relationships are bottomless pits filled with emotional danger and misplaced commitment. You're better off steering clear of them altogether.

HotAndWet
03-14-2007, 02:53 PM
I agree with all of you, I think talking about actors/actresses and such is normal, but it just sort of bugs me if my guy says it about someone we know, so then I just say something about his hot roommate etc.

ms.peachy
03-14-2007, 02:58 PM
Assuming we're talking about real-life people (as in, not celeb-types) that we might see out and about, I don't think either of us generally says anything. But, I might catch him, shall we say, regarding another female with interest. Not ogling or anything, he's not that type of guy; just sort of looking in a lingering way. At which point I will lean over and say something like "You know, she's probably a terrible cook" and we'll both have a bit of a laugh. We're married, but we're not blind, you know?

mp-seventythree
03-14-2007, 03:16 PM
Ms Peachy, that's pretty much exactly what we do too. Although Jenn has an interesting habit of noticing attractive women before me, then pointing them out and asking my opinion. Did I ever mention how perfect my girlfriend is?:)

jennyb
03-14-2007, 03:19 PM
derrrr, nevermind

paulb
03-14-2007, 03:22 PM
uh, my woman is the only hot one around.

beastiegirrl101
03-14-2007, 03:23 PM
u dont talk about other peeps with me, and you better not....


whoa nelly.

paulb
03-14-2007, 03:24 PM
whoa nelly.


thats right, i said it and wrote somethin else instead which is more true.

jennyb
03-14-2007, 03:26 PM
pfffhahahaha, oh god I'm trying to post all guerrilla like at the office, that'll learn me to not read something thoroughly... yes I don't want to get my beating, I'd never do that. Hehehehe, oh except for Nick. Ok, I'm outta here. *slaps forehead*

beastiegirrl101
03-14-2007, 03:36 PM
thats right, i said it and wrote somethin else instead which is more true.

um, what?

don't be a creep, let the girl do whatever the hell she wants to.

Rock
03-14-2007, 03:41 PM
I do it all the time. So does she. I don't care...she can look and comment all she wants.

I know I'm the only one throwing her the d, so it works out.