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Dammit! I think I fancy a really shy girl from work.
I've always maintained that I would never date girls from work but she is kinda cute and really mysterious.
We've been e-flirting for about a week now, but everytime we pass by in the studio she just says 'hi', grins and then looks away quickly. It's really cute but shy people make me nervous. I feel compelled to spout utter nonsence around shy people.
Why are some people so painfully shy?
mikizee
04-25-2007, 10:32 AM
they have to make up for their extremely high sexual appetite.
guaranteed shes an animal in bed. i know a chick exactly like that. shy as, very quiet. then turn the lights off, and its like the LA 94 earthquake all over again.
they have to make up for their extremely high sexual appetite.
guaranteed shes an animal in bed. i know a chick exactly like that. shy as, very quiet. then turn the lights off, and its like the LA 94 earthquake all over again.
right, thats the weekend sorted out then (y)
Otis Driftwood
04-25-2007, 10:43 AM
I feel compelled to spout utter nonsence around shy people.
Lol, yeah I know that. Try acting all sensitive and emo around her to make her feel uncomfortable as well! ;)
HOTWIFE
04-25-2007, 10:45 AM
shy people make me nervous too. it's like the uncomfortable-ness radiates from them and takes over you too
Lol, yeah I know that. Try acting all sensitive and emo around her to make her feel uncomfortable as well! ;)
I have been doing that unintentionally. It's the most uncomfortable feeling. The silences feel like hours.
shy people make me nervous too. it's like the uncomfortable-ness radiates from them and takes over you too
bang on.
We called her smirky, because she walks around the studio with this half smile type thing permanantly spread across her face.
She makes everybody else nervously smile back too.
I think she has some love beads on the go.
HOTWIFE
04-25-2007, 10:50 AM
bang on.
We called her smirky, because she walks around the studio with this half smile type thing permanantly spread across her face.
She makes everybody else nervously smile back too.
I think she has some love beads on the go.
what is she saying to you in these emails? she sounds like a closet freak to me...which...would be good for you
mikizee
04-25-2007, 10:53 AM
ask her out. youll make her day.
what is she saying to you in these emails? she sounds like a closet freak to me...which...would be good for you
well she lives not far from me so we spoke about that at first, other than that it has just been banter about 'the breakfast club' some randomness about music and her leaky roof.
Which can be seen as not being flirty but these emails have had a lot of innuendo implemented and a shed load of x's from her.
ask her out. youll make her day.
yes
ask her out. youll make her day.
I am going to do next friday.
This weekend I'm being introduced to my mates 'hot cousin'. So first things first I suppose.
trailerprincess
04-25-2007, 10:57 AM
*is heartbroken*
:p
mikizee
04-25-2007, 10:58 AM
*is heartbroken*
:p
*slides into camo's place*
..........hey there. ;)
trailerprincess
04-25-2007, 11:01 AM
*slides into camo's place*
..........hey there. ;)
Camo who?
Hi, I am on the rebound and vulnerable. Let's drink!
mikizee
04-25-2007, 11:01 AM
Camo who?
Hi, I am on the rebound and vulnerable. Let's drink!
that makes 2 of us!!!!
trailerprincess
04-25-2007, 11:09 AM
that makes 2 of us!!!!
Perfect. I'll order more booze in.
HOTWIFE
04-25-2007, 11:14 AM
well she lives not far from me so we spoke about that at first, other than that it has just been banter about 'the breakfast club' some randomness about music and her leaky roof.
Which can be seen as not being flirty but these emails have had a lot of innuendo implemented and a shed load of x's from her.
next email from you should say "wanna fuck?"
Yorkshire~Rose
04-25-2007, 01:00 PM
Go for it Camo. At least there is one confident person in this equation. Years ago i really fancied this guy who, like your girl, flirted with me but was also painfully shy. I was too shy to do anything about it and that was that. Always regretted not saying something...anything!
He was my 'the one that got away'
skra75
04-25-2007, 01:39 PM
they have to make up for their extremely high sexual appetite.
never thought I'd quote mikizee but he's right
but I've met shy girls that are boring in bed too so, hmm.
and I've met outgoing girls that are good in bed too.
I'm not even sure where I'm going with this.
TurdBerglar
04-25-2007, 01:41 PM
shy people creep me the fuck out
HOTWIFE
04-25-2007, 01:48 PM
shy people creep me the fuck out
typical 'closet shy-guy' post.
TurdBerglar
04-25-2007, 01:50 PM
oh i am shy. but i mean people shy to the point where they can't look you in the eye or make coversation. people that look at their feet when they try to talk to you. that makes me feel really uncomfortable
HOTWIFE
04-25-2007, 01:53 PM
oh i am shy. but i mean people shy to the point where they can't look you in the eye or make coversation. people that look at their feet when they try to talk to you. that makes me feel really uncomfortable
yes. weirdos!
TurdBerglar
04-25-2007, 01:56 PM
i end up trying to avoid people like that. im not ever sure what it is. it's like i can't trust them. like they're trying to hide some shit from me.
Yorkshire~Rose
04-25-2007, 01:56 PM
oh i am shy. but i mean people shy to the point where they can't look you in the eye or make coversation. people that look at their feet when they try to talk to you. that makes me feel really uncomfortable
Agreed. I find it hard to talk to people who can't make eye contact. Although the flip side of that is also annoying - my boss stares at you when she is talking to you. You can feel her unblinking eyes boring into your soul.
Sounds like Camo's girl is more coy than shy.
HOTWIFE
04-25-2007, 02:00 PM
i end up trying to avoid people like that. im not ever sure what it is. it's like i can't trust them. like they're trying to hide some shit from me.
and what about those people that claim they can't look into people's eyes because they feel like they're looking through them! or can 'see' what they're thinking. gosh
TurdBerglar
04-25-2007, 02:02 PM
you're suppose to make eye contact to see what their thinking! a lot of information gets transfered that way!
TurdBerglar
04-25-2007, 02:03 PM
shy people make me look at me feet and stammer :mad:
HOTWIFE
04-25-2007, 02:06 PM
shy people make me look at me feet and stammer :mad:
it's catchy i tell ya
on the flip side, it just occured to me that i find people who seem relaxed in any situation very attractive. shy people take note.
ericlee
04-25-2007, 02:06 PM
she's probably into s&m and all that kinky stuff.
I have a feeling that if you were to go to her place it would play out like in the movies where she shyly walks you in, closes the door and then takes off her clothes to reveal a leather suit. She then flicks a switch and a bed with chains falls down.
Big Gus
04-25-2007, 02:10 PM
"You're my wife now Dave!"
Jitters
04-25-2007, 03:18 PM
I know a girl who's really shy but she's only like that around me for some reason :confused:
She puts her face in her hands a lot likes she's trying to hide and usually blushes when I try to talk to her.
It's cute because she's so nice but annoying at the same time because I can never have a conversation with her.
kleptomaniac
04-25-2007, 03:20 PM
i'm very shy :o
Jitters
04-25-2007, 03:42 PM
i'm very shy :o
Stop being shy.... :mad:
kleptomaniac
04-25-2007, 05:35 PM
*hides in corner* :(
Agreed. I find it hard to talk to people who can't make eye contact. Although the flip side of that is also annoying - my boss stares at you when she is talking to you. You can feel her unblinking eyes boring into your soul.
Sounds like Camo's girl is more coy than shy.
see, this is annoying, i don't know what i'm meant to do. you're supposed to make eye contact, but you're not supposed to stare them down. so what do you do, you're supposed to look away now and then? but if you're constantly darting your eyes around, surely that's bad form too. so there's a balance between them, and i don't know where it is, it doesn't come naturally.
am i supposed to bring a book to read during conversations, so i have something to look at now and then? they don't teach you these things, and if you never figure them out on your own in time, you're stuck
kleptomaniac
04-25-2007, 05:50 PM
just try to avoid looking like a creepy psycho-killer.
ggirlballa
04-25-2007, 05:51 PM
i'm horrible with eye contact only with some freinds i can just talk to them face to face without the akward eye thing
if i look away too much the person will be all "whats up with her looking away is she uncomfortable?" if i keep staring then i'll probally make them uncomfortable and see what color eyeliner they're wearing
the most akward eye contact session was with mike d at one of their concerts, i was close to the stage, i noticed him looking at me & as soon as i looked at him he quickly looks down..i was laughing so hard inside(y)
funk63
04-25-2007, 05:53 PM
was he like checking u out?
ggirlballa
04-25-2007, 05:54 PM
was he like checking u out?
i hope not cuz that would be pedo creepy
also he didn't do it just once, it was a couple times during the concert
next email from you should say "wanna fuck?"
You are awesome.
Dorothy Wood
04-25-2007, 09:29 PM
see, this is annoying, i don't know what i'm meant to do. you're supposed to make eye contact, but you're not supposed to stare them down. so what do you do, you're supposed to look away now and then? but if you're constantly darting your eyes around, surely that's bad form too. so there's a balance between them, and i don't know where it is, it doesn't come naturally.
am i supposed to bring a book to read during conversations, so i have something to look at now and then? they don't teach you these things, and if you never figure them out on your own in time, you're stuck
*squeezes bob's hand*
hotwife, when someone's really shy, they think they're being constantly judged. the fact that you're actually thinking "god, shy people are so weird, I hate them!" just proved that "outgoing" people really are judging. and that is sad and scary for shy people like myself and perhaps bob (I don't mean to presume to speak on his behalf). it's like saying, "uh, whenever I'm around people with big ears, I feel like my ears are bigger!"
I didn't choose to be shy and it's pretty terrible and has made for many miserable years in my short life. so, you hush! you too other people jerks!
but, you know, I'm super baked right now, and I could go on, but I don't think it's a good idea because I'll think about it too hard.
TurdBerglar
04-25-2007, 10:09 PM
it's extremely hard to believe that you of all people is shy
zorra_chiflada
04-25-2007, 10:13 PM
i do lack confidence in social situations and i'm really self-conscious, but i'm not remotely shy. i don't know how it ended up like that. i'm always the loud talkative one. i just can't be quiet i suppose.
mikizee
04-25-2007, 10:17 PM
i do lack confidence in social situations and i'm really self-conscious, but i'm not remotely shy. i don't know how it ended up like that. i'm always the loud talkative one. i just can't be quiet i suppose.
I'm pretty much exactly the same. confidence? WTF is that???
zorra_chiflada
04-25-2007, 10:19 PM
i think i hide it really well with sarcasm and fake self-assured-ness
mikizee
04-25-2007, 10:25 PM
yeah that seems to work well for me too. i just hide mine with alcohol. lots of it.
zorra_chiflada
04-25-2007, 10:30 PM
i have lots of hair. lots and lots. it can cover up my whole face and torso if i so desire. that helps as well.
*is heartbroken*:p
over a dirt bag like me? Awww shucks
Camo who?
Hi, I am on the rebound and vulnerable. Let's drink!
Get bent then! :p
Watch out for her pink bathroom mikizee!
next email from you should say "wanna fuck?"
Will do, but if I end up in prison you're coughing up bail. Im going to have to right fukk or something stupid like that or it won't send.
Go for it Camo. At least there is one confident person in this equation. Years ago i really fancied this guy who, like your girl, flirted with me but was also painfully shy. I was too shy to do anything about it and that was that. Always regretted not saying something...anything!
He was my 'the one that got away'
Aww how sweet are you!?!
I've got one of those stories too. :(
Lyman Zerga
04-26-2007, 06:49 AM
low self esteem
bob knows
im like the shyest person ive ever met
therapy needing shy
Lyman Zerga
04-26-2007, 06:50 AM
which probably means you need a therapy after i crawl out of your bed
Yorkshire~Rose
04-26-2007, 02:00 PM
Aww how sweet are you!?!
Oh you have no idea. :p
see, this is annoying, i don't know what i'm meant to do. you're supposed to make eye contact, but you're not supposed to stare them down. so what do you do, you're supposed to look away now and then? but if you're constantly darting your eyes around, surely that's bad form too. so there's a balance between them, and i don't know where it is, it doesn't come naturally.
am i supposed to bring a book to read during conversations, so i have something to look at now and then? they don't teach you these things, and if you never figure them out on your own in time, you're stuck
Aww bless your cotton socks! All i meant was that my boss-lady literally just stares. I don't think i have ever seen her blink. Her eyeballs must be like the sahara.
Dorothy Wood
04-27-2007, 12:48 AM
it's extremely hard to believe that you of all people is shy
ya well, I am. I'm very socially awkward and anxiety-ridden. People commonly think I'm a huge bitch or boring or weird. Unless they meet me when I'm in a comfortable environment or drunk. then I'm usually out-going and engaging. it's taken a lot of practice though.
I was just talking to my friend on the phone and he was like, "you're weird on the phone" and I was like, "I know, I hate talking on phones". because I'm all awkward and dumb and say stupid shit that pops into my head that is usually unfunny. also, the connection was bad, so I ended up shouting "I said put some ecstacy in your butt!" really loudly when he didn't catch that I said it...which was unnecessary and only mildly funny.
meh.
g-mile7
04-27-2007, 12:57 AM
People who say they are shy sounds like an oxymoron to me. She's introverted, could be genetic or how she was raised. Just talk to her, dont change how you'd normally talk.
Lyman Zerga
04-27-2007, 02:47 AM
not everyone is a crazy freak
UPDATE.
she's shy but she has really great taste in films.
Junker
04-27-2007, 06:21 AM
You doing all wrong mate. Next time send her an email like this:
"You look like you'd put out, we should chill" :D
You doing all wrong mate. Next time send her an email like this:
"You look like you'd put out, we should chill" :D
where have you been Dr. Smooth?
Junker
04-27-2007, 08:29 AM
where have you been Dr. Smooth?
Around solving some things. But now I'm back. I guess :)
Junker
04-27-2007, 08:34 AM
You know what, the more I think about that line, the more I think it will work. Good job Joel.(y)
You didn't try it yet c?? Works everytime.
miss soul fire
04-27-2007, 08:40 AM
Why are some people so painfully shy?
Because they are not wearing any underwear.:( .
Junker
04-27-2007, 08:43 AM
Roby, now cmute will picture you in his awaken dreams.
miss soul fire
04-27-2007, 08:45 AM
:eek: Now that's crazy!
I'm shy, but not THAT shy. I mean not to THAT point. I know THAT for sure.
:p
Loppfessor
04-27-2007, 08:49 AM
The title of this thread shounds like the name of a boyband song....in any event good like tappin that ass dude
Because they are not wearing any underwear.:( .
what roby?!?!?
miss soul fire
04-27-2007, 08:59 AM
what roby?!?!?
Roby is a gay guy with 3 balls.:/
Roby is a gay guy with 3 balls.:/
I didn't know you had three nuts!
Loppfessor
04-27-2007, 09:03 AM
The title of this thread shounds like the name of a boyband song....in any event good like tappin that ass dude
I even got part of the hook...
Cus you're a shy girl....so tell me why girl.....
every time we meet you smile and pass me by girl....
Hey!!! I'm a gay guy with three nuts.:(
damn I forgot about that. Could have slipped something in about that :D
Junker
04-27-2007, 09:05 AM
I even got part of the hook...
Cus you're a shy girl....so tell me why girl.....
every time we meet you smile and pass me by girl....
lol...The title could also be an emo song dont you think?
I even got part of the hook...
Cus you're a shy girl....so tell me why girl.....
every time we meet you smile and pass me by girl....
guaranteed top five hit there mate (y)
Cus you're a shy girl....so tell me why girl.....
every time we meet you smile and pass me by girl....
it has a terrible rap bit in it too (by a white guy with dreds no less):
speaking to you is such a test,
I'm trying to make eye contact,
but I can't take my eyes off yo' breasts,
I watch you as you buy coffee from the vendor,
huh, you don't take sugar, but splendor...
and so on
Loppfessor
04-27-2007, 09:23 AM
Gentlemen....I smell a gold record!!
Gentlemen....I smell a gold record!!
wow we can be a proper song writing/production unit. This time next year lopp we will be loaded.
Loppfessor
04-27-2007, 09:29 AM
wow we can be a proper song writing/production unit. This time next year lopp we will be loaded.
We can be back stage at the grammys talking about all the new material we're working on and how we can't wait to get back into the studio....only to fade off into pop obscurity....and then given a reality show on VH1
We can be back stage at the grammys talking about all the new material we're working on and how we can't wait to get back into the studio....only to fade off into pop obscurity....and then given a reality show on VH1
I can't wait to produce J.T's new shit.
Maybe we could spread some K-FED love to?
I honestly singing this song in my head right now.
I can't determine if that is really awesome, or really gay.
'gawsome'
I imagine it set to a beat like llcoolj's girls
Loppfessor
04-27-2007, 10:02 AM
I honestly singing this song in my head right now.
I can't determine if that is really awesome, or really gay.
Totally gay...but that's what the kids are into these days
Or "I Need Love"
yeah thats better. Maybe that was the one I was thinking about.
All the guys in the video are dressed in white apart from the rapper who has a black bandana around his wrist and one in his dreds. He has a nose ring too and grimaces a lot because he is 'alternative'.
The pretty one dances i the rain at some point
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