I've just been dumped [Archive] - Beastie Boys Message Board

Dorothy Wood

04-29-2007, 06:48 PM

I think I'm a little in shock. especially since he called me and/or texted me and invited me places almost every day last week.

he says we're friends and we shouldn't be doing this. he's said he's not in a position to be a relationship right now.

I think he's still in love with his ex.

ha, just when I was starting to feel comfortable and secure and happy. SLAM.

wow. shit. I need a fucking drink.

paul jones

04-29-2007, 06:51 PM

awww that's awful.:(

Bob

04-29-2007, 07:19 PM

ha, just when I was starting to feel comfortable and secure and happy. SLAM.

you've learned a valuable lesson; never be secure

works for me

Dorothy Wood

04-29-2007, 08:32 PM

yeah. I should have known better. there's a reason I don't trust people, I must have just forgotten this time. I'm probably just meant to be alone. natural selection and all.

man, I feel really stupid. really fucking stupid. and kind of like someone just punched me in the gut.

yup. I'll just put another rock in my baggage now. :rolleyes:

well, I'm gonna go to a gay bar and sing karaoke with my coworkers now. maybe I'll sing "love stinks" or something. FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCKFUCKFUFUCJSDJK;AS;JKLASDF;

Dorothy Wood

04-29-2007, 09:00 PM

fuck, that stupid he-man card he gave me is sitting right in front of my stupid fucking face. I'm gonna burn it. I'm gonna find that stupid glowing eyeball the last asshole gave me that I threw across my room in a rage too and I'm gonna burn that. AND THEN I'M GONNA BURN DOWN THIS WHOLE FUCKING TOWN!!!

:mad:

seriously though, I'm pretty mad. and it's not like I can even say anything to him about it. I just have to cry to my girlfriends about it. we're friends! good friends! if I act all psycho about this, everyone will think I'm lame. this sucks! I should've just stuck to fucking my friends. stupid tenderness. fuck tenderness. I am no longer tender.

mikizee

04-29-2007, 09:13 PM

that sucks.

love most certainly does stink. thats why ive become a man-whore.

b i o n i c

04-29-2007, 09:17 PM

its funny how we can be infatuated with someone like theyre the best thing since diced lead until they dont like us anymore. in that case, they should burn.

-T-

04-29-2007, 09:32 PM

you think I'd crumble
you think I'd lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
as long as i know how to love
I know I will stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
and I'll survive
I will survive

yeah I do not know what to say besides you will survive.;) I can send him some anthrax if you please...

04-30-2007, 12:10 AM

Whoa whoa, he might just be going through some shit at the moment? As in "not in a position to be a relationship right now". :confused:

It sounds like he didn't let you down very easily though. Therefore he is an anus. He-Man cards are cool though. you can't just go and burn He-Man.

Dorothy Wood

04-30-2007, 01:35 AM

all the lesbians made me forget for awhile, but then my bosses gave me and cort a ride home and we went to the bar across the street and I accidentally got sad again.

I think I should write an email. I am feeling really upset. I mean, I shouldn't write it now, obviously.

bah, at least my coworkers hugged me and said they loved me.

I sang Ugly Kid Joe. AND I, HATE EVERYTHING ABOUT, I, I HATE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU! HATE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU!

oooooooooooooooooh, I'm upset. I'm fuckin drunk and high and fuckin like upset man. dude. dude. dude. dude. dude.

internet, absorb my woeesssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!

SB00774

04-30-2007, 01:40 AM

:( absorbing as we speak

Bob

04-30-2007, 01:41 AM

i'm a little woe sponge

internet

04-30-2007, 01:47 AM

*absorbs*

hitmonlee

04-30-2007, 01:48 AM

that sucks, getting dumped fucking sucks. people shouldn't lead people to believe there's a future if they are unsure.

g-mile7

04-30-2007, 02:02 AM

C'est la vie....just be strong and chill

na§tee

04-30-2007, 03:31 AM

He-Man cards are cool though. you can't just go and burn He-Man.
listen to this man. a mantra for life if ever i've heard one.

hugs, sarks. don't worry. perhaps when he has gone through his wee drama he'll come back.

Dorothy Wood

04-30-2007, 08:58 AM

that sucks, getting dumped fucking sucks. people shouldn't lead people to believe there's a future if they are unsure.

exactly.

jesus, I'm taking this a lot harder than I ever thought I would. I woke up at 8 a.m. without an alarm and instantly started crying because I started waking up so early because that's when he usually had to get up for work.

normally I'm still fucking sleeping right now. that fucker fucked my sleep pattern. I have a headache. and I can't stop crying.

I'm trying not to think about whether or not he'll come back. right now perhaps more than anything, I'm mourning the loss of a good friend. why couldn't he had just left it at a one time hook up? or a several time spaced out, aloof fling? like the others! I'm still friends with the others! I can't believe I let myself believe this was going to work out.

make it go away. please.

I'm sorry, thank you everyone. I don't know if this is helping or making things worse. it's not quite 9 a.m., but I think I'm gonna go get stoned right now....because I have a headache. right, that's it.

camo

04-30-2007, 08:59 AM

I'll go out with you

Dorothy Wood

04-30-2007, 09:50 AM

alright. meet me at the movie theater tonight at 7. YOU BUY THE TICKETS, I'LL BUY THE POPCORNS!

bah, who am I kidding. I'm better off just dating this message board. the actual board. I'm licking the screen right now. it is very sexy.

Emperor Ming

04-30-2007, 09:55 AM

Ah young camo sees himself as a bit of a sort.

Your earthly pulling powers are nothing compared a citizen of mongo.

Bow down son.

camo

04-30-2007, 09:57 AM

Dorothy Wood

04-30-2007, 11:14 AM

well, I just sent him a very good calm honest and sensible letter, pre-approved by my secretary. I feel pretty good about it. there are some childish insults in there, but only for comedic effect. man, I'm the best.

Yeti

04-30-2007, 11:34 AM

QueenAdrock

04-30-2007, 11:45 AM

^ I loved that one. Especially when she was in the cab afterwards. "Excuse me, ma'am? Can you scoot down a little? I can't see out the back window. ...Little more. ...little more. ....liiiiittttle more....thank you."

But anyways Sarky, good on you for writing a (for the most part) mature letter to him. I don't even remember what I did during my breakup, it just involved a lot of desperation and trying to not come off that way...which I probably ended up doing anyways.

Yeti

04-30-2007, 12:01 PM

.........and the bird flew right into her monsterous head like he could not avoid it.

Dorothy Wood

04-30-2007, 12:17 PM

You are nicer than me....I once told a girl that her voice was annoying when I broke it off.
Remember the nasty break-up guy on Seinfeld that told Elaine she had a big head?
I was not that bad but sometimes I contracted foot and mouth disease.

I sometimes wonder if seinfeld ruined dating for my generation. I mean, everyone I know grew up watching that in their formative years. I bet some of it rubbed off.

yeah, dianar, it's pretty hard to not become desperate. I think waiting until this morning to write it helped. If I would've written it last night, it'd have said "hi, I kinda wanna stab you in the face. k thnkx, die. WHY DID YOU DO THIS? WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? WHAT DID I DO?"

ha ha :(

skra75

04-30-2007, 12:20 PM

*absorbs*

Suddenly a huge fan of our newest member

Dorothy Wood

04-30-2007, 12:25 PM

ha! I totally missed that. nice.

beastieangel01

04-30-2007, 12:35 PM

fuck, that stupid he-man card he gave me is sitting right in front of my stupid fucking face. I'm gonna burn it. I'm gonna find that stupid glowing eyeball the last asshole gave me that I threw across my room in a rage too and I'm gonna burn that. AND THEN I'M GONNA BURN DOWN THIS WHOLE FUCKING TOWN!!!

the other night I was drunk and took the roses my ex gave me and picked them apart and threw them in the trash. Then I took the exes toothbrush, rubbed it against my bum, scrubbed it against the dirty kitchen floor, spit on it, let it sit in a full trash can for a while, and threw it around the room a couple of times.

And now it's sitting back in the holder in my room, all ready for him when he has a moment to pick up his stuff.

It really did make me feel better.

Dorothy Wood

04-30-2007, 12:45 PM

the other night I was drunk and took the roses my ex gave me and picked them apart and threw them in the trash. Then I took the exes toothbrush, rubbed it against my bum, scrubbed it against the dirty kitchen floor, spit on it, let it sit in a full trash can for a while, and threw it around the room a couple of times.

And now it's sitting back in the holder in my room, all ready for him when he has a moment to pick up his stuff.

It really did make me feel better.

rubbed it against your bum! ah ha hahha. priceless.

I have a feeling dude is avoiding the internet. the message is sent but not read! normally he's on stink myspace all day long. COWARD!

skra75

04-30-2007, 12:46 PM

...Then I took the exes toothbrush, rubbed it against my bum,

There are Hong Kong Internet Sites that would pay top dollar for that toothbrush now haha

Genocide Tulips

04-30-2007, 12:48 PM

How long were you together again...?

Dorothy Wood

04-30-2007, 12:49 PM

4 days :(

beastieangel01

04-30-2007, 12:49 PM

yeah, I was just sharing since sometimes doing that kind of thing really does help. Except He-Man is cool so I don't know.

I hate the anticipation of a response. I actually feel the need to write an email to the ex as well, mainly because he has listening problems and he has a "I'm always right" attitude so he cuts me off or just brushes what I say aside.

Hope he realizes he was a cunt, D.

And I never knew there was such a demand for butt-rubbed toothbrushes.

skra75

04-30-2007, 12:55 PM

And I never knew there was such a demand for butt-rubbed toothbrushes.

It's true, just ask ET

DandyFop

04-30-2007, 12:58 PM

Last time this kind of thing happened to me, the weird short lived awesomeness followed by unexpected break-up, we waited a week to see each other, then we did and he was like "yeah let's just stay friends". I said "okay". Then it was like, well we're already hanging out, let's watch a movie. I didn't touch him the entire time. Finally he kissed me, we banged, and then we were together for 7 more months.

Maybe he's freaked out about liking you. You never know. I don't know what your letter said but if I were you I would avoid him for a few days to clear your head. That's the best advice I've found in these situations - I was tempted to send a giant letter to Ben a few times and I avoided it and I was really happy I did because even though I hate games, putting my heart on my sleeve has screwed me over many times.

This board is all full of the heartbreak as of late, eh?

Dorothy Wood

04-30-2007, 01:10 PM

stupid heartbreaks! ah, but such is life I suppose.

I definitely think he's freaked out. I don't think it's anything that I really did or said or whatever. I'm just like pissed that this sort of thing happened to me again. I was going to say "this always happens to me" in the letter, but that's dumb, that's like woe is me and that's what you guys are for! ha.

I just told him that I thought it was going well, we were having fun and I'm surprised and saddened by his actions. very civil like.

welp, back to the drawing board.

skra75

04-30-2007, 01:13 PM

start batting for the other team lol

Schmeltz

04-30-2007, 01:14 PM

This board is all full of the heartbreak as of late, eh?

Yeah, completely out of the ordinary.

Dorothy Wood

04-30-2007, 01:38 PM

start batting for the other team lol

ha! no way! lesbians are worse! I even witnessed it last night. karaoke bar full of them. one girl threw her hat to the crowd and my coworker caught it. after that there was major flirtation and even a boob flash. but then the hat girl went over to another girl and draped herself over her and acted like they were together. it was a confusing whirlwind of estrogen.

no thanks. I'll watch though ;)

abcdefz

04-30-2007, 02:20 PM